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If we're friends why does he call/text every day?

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Question - (17 January 2009) 15 Answers - (Newest, 8 February 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *nn84 writes:

hi i have problem with someone.I am a girl and i have met with someone who is working in the same place with me and he wanted my cell and after that we started to talk almost everyday and everyday we text it happens for 3 weeks.he always says me u make me cherfull and he said me that he liked talking with me.but he also said me prety words and he said me u are my friend.i dont understand if i am his friend why does he call me everyday and text me?

after 3 weeks he stopped calling me and of course i didnt call him cause i have a lot of pride than love.I dont understand why he is acting like that to the before....

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A female reader, ann84 United States +, writes (8 February 2009):

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hey Dusty Dave,

Did U read my message?

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A female reader, ann84 United States +, writes (3 February 2009):

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Hey dusty Dave

whats up? i really appreciate ur advice for me

guess what?

3days ago 2guy from my work wanted to hang out with me but i said them that i am not available and after that i went next to my guy and told them that 2 guy wanted to hang out with me.and he asked me the name seriously i was just smiled.and 3days ago at work i didint care him.also when i get off the work, i usually say him bye.but this time i get off the work without bye.and he text me that u didint even say me bye and i see that u didint love me no more.and u are bothered to be with me.i said him no ofcourse not.and he didint text me after that.3 days passed, he didint text me again i text him

I dont understand if he cared me,and if he said me u dont love me, why wouldnt he text me no more?

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A female reader, ann84 United States +, writes (30 January 2009):

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hey Dipi42

I think u were right cause now it happened the same situation as u

Till he recovered i texted him everyday after after he felt better he didint text me anymore

And Dusty Dave

From this time I'll never text him anymore even if he texts me

But I belive that he's gonna text me one day:))

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A female reader, ann84 United States +, writes (27 January 2009):

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thnx for ur advice guys

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A male reader, Dusty Dave United Kingdom +, writes (21 January 2009):

Right,i have dished out good advice on here, you need to change the game, he needs to see you in a different light, do your hair, slap the make up on look sexy, believe me im a man, and that gets my pulse racing, you need to get the target to look at you in a different light, but when he comes after you, you must resist him, tell him there are other guys waiting in the background, get a bit of jelousy going, if he texts, don't answer, leave him keep working to get you, that way the game will be run by you not him, don't compliment him, in fact you need to lower him down a peg or two, pick on something its called negging, it devalues him and rises you up, belive me i am in the middle of a game, i have been placed in the friend zone by this woman, she does not see me in a lovers role, but i have had to do every trick in the book and its starting to work, she is starting to flirt with me now, so there has been change, you have to work on them, its tough, but it all depends how much you love them.

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A female reader, dipi42 United States +, writes (21 January 2009):

Well I am in kind of the same boat. I know what I need to do but easier said then done isn't it? The guy I was getting to know would call or I'd call him and everything was fine then the talking stopped and it became texting only, now after months he says let's just be friends for awhile. He will only answer his phone or return my texts if HE is in the mood. Well I say let it go, never make someone your priority who only make you their option!

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A female reader, ann84 United States +, writes (20 January 2009):

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hey dusty dave

guess what,

he text me and said that he was in hospital he was sick and he fainted and he said me u are mad at me and inncocent my life i cant change u and thnx for good luck.

i feel regret but on the other hand i dont belive him..

i dont know what i am gonna do..

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A female reader, ann84 United States +, writes (20 January 2009):

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Dusty Dave, wow u are wonderful person thnx helping me.ur advice gets me comfortable.actually i only see him in a place which i work in.next saturday we're gonna work the same day thats all.and i have never seen him except that place..But i am happy now..and also he is black and i am white:) if smt happens, i'll let u know

Take care Dusty Dave:))

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A male reader, Dusty Dave United Kingdom +, writes (19 January 2009):

Stop texting him now, no more texts, it makes you look desparate, do you know where he hangs out, doll yourself up and go there, don't look at him, make him come to you, wear something that makes you stand out from the others, if he comes on to you, be polite and say i have my eye on another guy and he is hot, build this false guy up to be great, then say i have to go, and leave, if you like this guy it could be worth the game, never show you like him, never compliment him, the game is to get control, at the moment he thinks you are chasing him, so its time reverse the situation with a bit of simple psycology, if he mentions another girl to you, dont get jelous, tell him you wish him and her all the best, and walk away, people always want what they can't get and that will be you.

keep me posted.

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A female reader, ann84 United States +, writes (19 January 2009):

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Hey Dusty Dave,

2 days ago i waited him to call but he didint call so i text him whats wrong with u?he didint reply me after i waited 5 hours i text again that i thought we had a good relationship but i see that its over for u i cant say anything about it i can only say hoy u let me down and good luck in ur life but he ddint text me......

i dont know why he is behaving like that.Doesnt he still interested me anymore and i didint understand cause these things happened suddenly...

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A female reader, ann84 United States +, writes (18 January 2009):

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thnks for giving advice bu yesterday i waited him to call but he didint call so i text him whats wrong with u?he didint reply me after i waited 5 hours i text again that i thought we had a good relationship but i see that its over for u i cant say anything about it i can only say hoy u let me down and good luck in ur life but he ddint text me......

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2009):

Hello. You're welcome. I am always trying to help people and help them see how to view things in a different light. Even though sometimes, my answers can be brutally honest, most of the time, it's for the best. glad I was able to help!

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A male reader, Dusty Dave United Kingdom +, writes (17 January 2009):

Listen to what i say, if you want this boy you will have to do something to catch his eye, can you dress in a stunning way to knock him off his feet, if he approaches you, tell him you are not interested anymore, you have your sights set on someone else, this will be a game of psycology, he will automatically go into competition mode to get you, if he texts you don't respond, if he texts you again, still don't respond, he will be like a moth to a flame, you will be in control, if it does not work,you will probably pick someone better up, try it

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A female reader, ann84 United States +, writes (17 January 2009):

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thnx for helping.he asked me if i had a boyfriend and i also asked him the same question and he doesnt have girlfriend.actually i am shy person i cant show my feelings.he always calling me and everyday text me and said that i miss u.but from 4 days nothing happened he text me again but not too much and he just asks me how i am.he doesnt say pretty words.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2009):

hi i understand exactly what you are talking about but the thing is you need to think is that do you know if he has any other female attention such as yourself because you could just be there for entertainment and for someone to talk to maybe he enjoys giving you mixed feelings try to boost up your relationship some how i am not quite sure how but try to talk to him about it

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