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writes:I have been having a ton of sex dreams where I cheat on my boyfriend, with boys I used to think were hot. I am still totally devoted to him and would never, ever cheat on him, because that's just not the kind of person I am. I still love him and nothing has really changed, what's going on here? I felt guilty and told him about one and he got upset for obvious reasons. I also find myself constantly wanting to masturbate even when he's willing to have sex and please me, and I even occasionally do it and lie about it. I'm feeling like a totally horrible girlfriend. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell part of the problem is, the sex dreams often involve this one man I have been lusting after for a year now, and he's come back into my life. I also fantasize about being with him on a regular basis and he's totally available and into me. It's really tempting to end things with my current boyfriend to go after this guy. I won't, but it's making me feel bored with my current boyfriend even though we were doing perfectly before this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2009): Your dreams are the true poets, they bring together ideas, feelings and desires and such and mash them up into situations that attempt to solve the problems that encompass your waking mind everyday. Don't take your dreams literally but look at them as representing issues that you are dealing with and their representation as possible solutions to them.
Your comment about wanting to masturbate indicates that your sex dreams are most likely your body creating sexy scenarios that will stimulate you sexually.
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