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*edazzled86
writes:Me and my ex were together for three years not all of the time was the relationship good, his mother didn't like me for some reason and when I was pregnant with my son who's now two she did everything she could to cause problems she told him the baby couldn't be his and that if I didn't have a termination she wanted a DNA test, when my son was born she changed but everytime we would go up her house I wasn't made welcome and this caused arguments. Last year I suffered a misacarrishe and we were both devastated, we moved house for a fresh start but then my ex started ti go out all the time and we would argue, then at five months pregnant we had an argument and he went up his parents, I thought wed get navk tugether, he's been really spiteful one minute and nice the next we were still sleeping together but I stopped that, now I'm expecting a baby any day and he really wants to be there for the birth but I don't know about after, I gave him a choice that he could sort things out once IV had the baby but he hasn't said anything so far he will text and ring all the time but when I see him its like we don't know what to talk about I just feel like running away with the kids or worse still doing something ti myself I just can't cope with all of this and he seems oblivious
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (9 December 2009):
You mention self harm so you need help.
Go to the doctors or call your family for some support.
You shouldn't be alone at the moment so get someone around you.
It's your choice whether having him at the birth will cause you more stress or not. So tell him to get stuffed if you feel you don't want this whole thing hanging over you.
Good Luck!! xx
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