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writes:My ex and I broke up about 3 months ago. After a year and a half together. He said he couldn't deal with the relationship anymore. But we still talk and try to rebuild our friendship to get back into a relationship. I feel like I have no control in this relationship! He has all the control. he left me and he so far has been the one to choose if we get back together or not. So today, just a few minutes ago he was talking about how he has a split personality jokingly and sayin that his split personality is the one that does all the things I don't approve off. Talking to other girls etc. So I told him that he has until the end of the month to make up his mind or else I doubt that I will continue to speak you and he said "why don't you start now" and hung up his phone. I tried calling and he don't pick up. What do I do? Knowing him he probably won't ever speak to me again but I love him and I want him
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (9 December 2009):
I'm with Emilyanswers. I would get rid of him. Look at his behaviour without emotion for a moment. He was a bit controlling, so you took control and he ran a mile. So he will now be sat at home just waiting for you to call so he can give you a load of abuse and take control again. My advice is to move on. You want a man in your life, not a little pathetic boy who can't handle relationships and runs off when confronted. Get a man.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (9 December 2009):
You say you have no control, but you just took control. You told him to grow up and he ran off like the little boy he is.
This is a good thing.
To be honest, if he's going to act like a toddler and throw tantrums and joke about how he treated you so badly then you are far far far better off with out him.
He'll sit and wait for you to beg for forgiveness because I bet that's what you've always done after every argument. When you move on with your life and cut contact he may just come crawling back. But my advice is to work hard on getting over him.
Why do you think that this treatment is all you deserve? Find a decent man who respects you and when this one comes slithering out from under his rock, tell him to bugger off.
Good Luck!! xx
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