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writes:I couldn't have ever imagined even in the wildest dream of mine about such an end to my blind faith in her.It was a relationship where though we didn't exchanged words but the hearts knew it all.To be very fair,I absolutely have no idea when it all started.The only thing that i know was the feeling that I'd never experienced before.It was all changed,all new. Her advent as if was preplanned to change the way my life was going.I couldn't realize how quickly things started changing.I'd become more responsible and more serious about my career.She definitely was one reason why I'd changed so astronomically.After all,I wanted to give her everything she deserved. Today,though she's not in my life,still whenever I look into the past mirror,I never forget to thank her for what I'm today.Undoubtedly, my perspective to love ,now has changed.But the positive attitude that I've developed towards my life will never change.I'm a college topper and I can see myself succeeding in my aim, but I failed in love.It was she because of whom I started developing gaps with my mother,who I used to share every details of my life with.This is something I can never forgive her for.For she took all my attention towards herself.I don't know whether or not I'll get so close to my family again.But now when she's also left me, I'm feeling too alone. This is something I don't think I'll be able to share with anyone.Her words that she looked me only as a friend were most shocking.Doesn't matter,there can't be anything precious to gift to your friend than the change she gifted me.I'll always be grateful to her for this,So what I didn't get her? She was like a nymph who left after changing me to the hilt.But she never realized who the change was for.Dear readers, can you please suggest me the way I can get out of this despair through? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (9 December 2009):
Well first off you have to decide you WANT to move on.
At the moment you are still calling her a nymph as though she was a magical life changing experience.
She was a girl, you were a boy. She rejected you.
That's it.
When you decide that you want to move on then start going out, spending time with friends and don't let yourself think about her.
Good Luck!! xx
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