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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I got involved with a much older man. It began asu almost a fling. I had only had two boyfriends in my life and when a smart handsome older man showed me attention I thought I needed to live a little. We got together for a week and I had the best experience of my life. For once I wasn't worried about how the Guy felt I enjoyed myself. I wasn't self conscience with him. I felt beautiful. Soon against my perfect plan he talked me into dated and within week scared out of my mind we moved in together. Soon he was talking about getting cars together and buying houses so it made me dream about our life together. Two weeks ago after acting sulky for a month I finally asked him what is wrong. He went on to tell me an ex emailed him and told him how horrible a person he was and how she is going to counseling because of her. He told me it was eventually gonna turn bad so we might as well break up. The next few weeks he decided we shouldn't do anything crazy and maybe a trial separation was in order. We have been living together for 2 years happily we rarely even fight. What is going on with him and what do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2009): Hi. Your partners behaviour sounds very odd. It seems strange that one email from a disgruntled ex partner could affect him so badly that he sulks with you for a month, then asks for a break up! Are you sure his contact with an ex is true? How did you meet him? Was it online dating? If so, is he still using sites? No one but him can tell you whats going on, so you must ask him!It does sound as if hes giving you the brush off for reasons others than an ex`s need for counselling tho. He seemed to move very fast with you, im wondering if he has another woman in sight....or the ex wants him back.You mentioned buying cars together and houses. If you did enter into any financial agreements with him regarding property or cars, i would get those sorted out immediately!
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (9 December 2009):
 nahhh, he is just stringing you this line so that he appears to be a decent caring guy, when if fact what he doing is dumping you after you have lived with him happily for two years.
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