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writes:My girlfriend and I have been together since around the end of September. It was a short relationship but we became very close very quickly and I fell head over heels in love with her, more so than any of my recent exes, with whom things just fizzled out after a while. A few weeks ago, she met and got to know this other guy, who she became great friends with. Last week she told me that she wants to break up and today I find out she's seeing this new guy. I love this girl so much it's killing me. The jealousy is all-comsuing. I can't STAND the thought of them spending time together, cuddling, making out. She's staying at his place over the weekend and it just drives me wild to know this. We're still friends and I've concealed how much it hurts but the pain really is unbearable. How do I get her back or get over these feelings.
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reader, acey lacey  +, writes (10 December 2009):
 agreed. it doesnt seem like you two were meant to be.. i mean your situation sucks, and im sorry... but it'd be an even worse sitation if u stayed this way, all jealous and bottled up.. get out there and meet new girls! have fun with you guy friends just go out... or focus on school for a while, whatever helps... usually its hooking up with a new girl that will helps the most and if ur ex finds out ur with someone new too, her life will be a little less exciting knowing shes not hurting you anymore
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (9 December 2009):
Don't get her back, you won't. You need to cut contact with her. Although this may sound harsh, she has shown herself as someone who can't really commit and perhaps you are better off without her. It would have been worse if she'd done this further along. You need to cut contact, and focus on your own life now. Go out with friends, fill your life with hobbies and work and you'll start to forget her. It won't be easy, and it will take time. But if she went out with you, the met someone else so quickly, then it wasn't meant to be.
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