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writes:I am 16 years old .. still a virgin I want to break my hymen before i have sex .. should I do it and if so how would I go about this ??? Thank you :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2009): Breaking a hymen is something you can only do once (not including fake surgeries,etc), It is something physical but also emotional. To that one lucky person who is getting the chance to do it- that is the greatest gift ever, why would you just waste it like nothing is beyond me and makes no sense to me
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reader, doctorlove  +, writes (11 December 2009):
so what if your friends aren't virgins?! don't scar yourself like that. please!!! I can't stress enough to wait until you are married. But it's your life do whatever.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionnope i tink my mam tinks i already lost it :/
well most of my friends arent virgins and the ones that are have givin themselves a date to hav it gone by ... soo why not
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reader, doctorlove +, writes (10 December 2009):
Your 16 why even have the sex?? Do you really want to lose your innosence and hurt your parents if they find out??
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionye well i new that ... i was kind of looking for ehm comments to do with experience and that jus that im really nervous but i no that i will be more nervous if i left it up to somebody else to do it for me :/
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI dont know why i would just seem to rather do it by myself ... strange i know but at least id have control over the pain ... if there is any... thank you for the answers they have all contributed to my decision if have any more please let me know :)
Thank You
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reader, daletom +, writes (9 December 2009):
Breaking your hymen may not prevent pain during your first intercourse. Many now believe the discomfort of the first insertion comes from having the vaginal muscles stretched open to receive your partner's penis. Of course, many women experience no pain at all the first time they have sex.
A considerate partner, who knows the situation, truly cares for you, and can bring you to climax before attempting penetration is probably the best way to break your hymen. To minimize your discomfort, you can get on top of him and guide his erection into you. There is no way he can feel what you're feeling, and only you can tell when he is in exactly the right place, best angle, etc.
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reader, Katiekins86  +, writes (9 December 2009):
 horse riding or gymnastics. Doesn't always work though. Alternatively find a nice young man who loves you who won't be put off that it's still in place and will make you feel loved and attractive. You are 16, it's nothing to be ashamed about just a normal process.
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reader, pancakes rule +, writes (9 December 2009):
 You can't be sure that your hymen is broken without seeing a doctor, for all you know, you've already broken it by exercising or using a tampon.
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