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*isyoyo
writes:I dated a man for about 6 months. We had incredible chemistry and a ton of fun in and out of bed. One day a very small misunderstanding occured and he chose to end the relationship. This was 5 months ago. Since then, we have remained in contact about once a month. He calls periodically when his currant relationship is having "hiccups". I have been understanding of his relationship, I have not put pressure on him to see me. I was in his town on business last month. I emailed to suggest lunch. At first he declined due to her, I politely said I understand and enjoyed my trip anyway. The day before I left, he called and said he had thought about it and wanted to see me. We met for lunch only. He called me twice after that lunch date and suggested getting together again when are in each others towns for business. Yesterday I got an email that said "I am currently back into a relationship with the same women. I want to respect her and be faithful to her as I was to you. I enjoy your company so much and hope to see you again someday to talk and maybe more. Who knows what tomorrow may bring. " My question is this/ How should I reply to that email? Or should I just leave it alone and not reply or call?
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reader, hisyoyo +, writes (9 December 2009):
hisyoyo is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone! Each of you replied with answers that deep down i already knew but needed confirmed. Our lunch date and any phone conversations we always laugh hysterically and truly had a fun drama free relationship. Sometimes tough to want something you can't have yet enjoyed so much. But guess what? You are ALL correct. I am moving on! His loss!!
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reader, doctorlove +, writes (9 December 2009):
I absolutly agree with ask oldersister once you let him off the hook you are free to do whatever you want with your love life.
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reader, L*  +, writes (9 December 2009):
If you want to stay in contact with him you could email him back something like 'Ok hope all goes well for you'. but if you want to cut contact, just ignore the email.
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (9 December 2009):
you are not to be subject to his whims! You are not his reserve, waiting in the wings as a spare for him incase his current thing doesnt work out! Just ignore it and forget him. Put up a dating profile on millionaire dating and enjoy your life..!
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