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anonymous
writes:Hi ,Please tell me what to do, i went to visit my relatives in a another country met a nice man we just clicked and started dating and we even talked about marriage, everything was good and he promised to come to visit me in my country so i left. He used to contact me about the procedures of visiting my country.soon decided to stop contacting me he would not give a reason but he said better you forget me. So i found out that the reason was money he did not have enough money to come to visit me but his pride prevents him from saying that to me. Even when i call he tells me dont use your money, I told him that if he cant come i will go to him he did not answer.Please tell me what to do!
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reader, Niavax  +, writes (5 December 2009):
its more than just money. After the money aspect it will be something else. Do not allow that man to be a money pit.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2009): I agree, i think there is another girl. long distance relationship never work
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reader, brovers +, writes (5 December 2009):
 i feel that he may be embarresed about money ,but what troubles me is that he will not answer your questions, he also seems to be hiding something from you as he is distant from talking and answering your questions, i think my best advice to you is to call him one more time and tell him about how you feel, if he still is distant its best to leave him to it before you get hurt
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (5 December 2009):
There is more to this than money. I just don't think he's that into you. He may not accept your money, but he would certainly work flat out to visit you if he loved you that much. My advice is to follow his advice. Let him go. You'll find someone else who will love you.
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