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writes:It's not that long, so help me out a little, please? :)Okay, so we went out for about 7 months and we were both each others very first love. Now he has a new girlfriend for about a month now, and I'm just single and having fun. (But I still like him). The problem here is that he is a very committed person and would never flirt with any other girl while in a relationship, but lately that's all he has been doing, flirting with me.He considers typing/sending smiley faces, flicking, touching, taking pictures and texting with other girls/guys is flirting. But all of those that I mentioned, he's being doing that to me every single day.. and I have no clue what this means! Does he like me again? Is he scared that I'm moving on?-playfully hits and touches me in class-Me: "I know you want to touch me and all, but all you gotta do is just ask!"Him: *laughs(All he does is laugh. He doesn't even deny it, so that left me kind of confused.)Am I looking into this too much? Or is there actually hope for me?and please don't just say "Get over it!" or "Move on!"OH, and he's the type of guy that wouldn't try to get into a girl's pants. We have been through a lot, and I know him quite well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2009): He's just stringing you along, and no, there is probably no hope of getting back together. He is with someone else now, and you need to respect that and stay away from him, even if he doesn't. Keep being single and having fun until someone else comes along. Don't waste time on this guy when an even better one might be sitting right next to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2009): sorry hun, but you need to think how you would feel if you were still with him and he was teasing another girl. and also , it isnt fair to you either that he is with her and messing you around.if he really wanted to be with you, he wouldn't be withh is girlfriend, he would be with you. be strong and tell him that he has to make a choice between you and his girlfriend.if he chooses her, tell him you aren't going to let him fool around with you. if he says anything like " i don't know what i want ", or " i need time to think things through ", or something similar to that, then forget him completely.i know it's easier said than done but if he says that he will only keep leading you on and life is too short to waste spending time waiting around for someone.enjoy being single or try dating other people.make sure you have a busy life doing things that make you happy.i wish you luck with whatever happens.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (5 December 2009):
He wouldn't try to get into a girl's pants, yet here he is with another girlfriend and he's touching you and teasing you. That's a bad sign, and proves that maybe he's not all as great as he seems. Being a male, I can tell you that any man can lie, and any man can cheat (we don't all choose to though). It takes a strong willed man to really commit, and when a good man does commit, he doesn't do what your ex is doing. You're a young, smart lady, and don't make the mistake so many women make and fall at the last hurdle with men. He's your ex, he has a girlfriend, and that's it. If he loved you, he'd be with you, no questions asked. That sounds harsh, but don't allow yourself to be the play thing of a guy who can't commit and can't make his mind up. You'll be the one in tears when it all goes wrong. Time to be brave and stop him fooling around with you.
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reader, pshyeahright  +, writes (5 December 2009):
He has a girlfriend...How would you like to be in her possition..?
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reader, Stranger. +, writes (5 December 2009):
 hm.
and from what you do say then maybe he does like you a bit.
he probably is starting to realize that he misses you.
either that or he's scared to move on.
you need to think was the reason you guys broke up a reason for both of you never to get back together?
or was it one dumb argument that got out of hand.
how did your relationship end? good? bad?
you should ask yourself all of this before thinking anything else.
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