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How can I save my friends and keep these boys away from them?

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Question - (29 December 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 December 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, *ily13524 writes:

hello i have a problem well i have two best friends and they are also best friends too!!! But recently some boys are coming between their friendship,the two boys are using one of my friends,to get to her virginity and i found out and i told her that,i also gave her a long lecture,cause i am a young 14 year old girl and my friends are too,and i don`t want to see them make stupid mistakes that will affect their life.

One of them also told me that the same boys are saying bad things about her best friend which who is also my bff!I just really hate being caught in the middle now.Cause either of them would`nt just listen and understand these guys ain`t good,and if they don`t watch their backs they will become pregnant,i am seeing its so nice going to school and getting high marks like i do than to be like my friends trying to fight each other down and keeping secrets away from each other.

One of them even go as far as dating one of the boys,[the same girl they wanna use for her virginity]and i am seeing this is not true.My bf is also friends with the boys but he don`t act like them,do you think their is a possiblity that he might using me for that too cause recently on the phone he got me really horny and can you`ll help me on how can i save my two friends and keep these boys away from them for good? thanks in advance

~~Lilykitkat~~

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A female reader, lily13524 United States +, writes (30 December 2009):

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lily13524 agony auntThank you guys very much,it maybe one of the hardness things i might to but ill try to stay out and let them make their own choice

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009):

I agree. I know it's hard, but I don't think there is anything you can do. They are going to do what they want regardless of what you say. I'm sorry.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2009):

Excuse me if I sound harsh but that's not your problem. It's your friends' parents' responsibility to lecture them and exhort them to maintain their virgnity. At the end of the day your friends will make their own choices because they are not retarded and they know what they want. Your friends are not there for you to "save". If they get pregnant or get an STD it's a price they'll have to pay for their stubborness.

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