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writes:I just got my first blow job today, and for some reason when she went to do it i just couldn't feel it. it just felt like i was moving my wet hand on it. she wasn't sucking and she didn't want me to look the first time... could something be wrong with my penis?
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (23 December 2009):
 The art of fellatio (sucking dick), both giving and receiving, is not something that either partner excels at right away. As some others advise, it takes practice. She was probably a lot more nervous about it than you, and you are inexperienced. Do not offer a video or any other kind of instruction at this point - rather enjoy letting her learn at her own pace, although you might emphasize that the general idea is to "suck." And I agree that you should consider easing up on masturbation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2009): I disagree w/ Rainorfire... do NOT go get a video and hand it to a woman who was willing to try sucking your dick. How insulting... part of the FUN of new sex is teaching and learning. Tell her what feels good, show her how you jack off. She needs to learn to replicate that feeling with her mouth. One big problem that girls have is that they think alot of movement = pleasure. Or, they thick sucking = pleasure. One of the bedst techniques is for them to use a hand as an extension of their mouth, and take your dick in as deep as they can, but let the hand creat the sensation that you're 3" deeper than you are. Done right it feels like a deep throat.
Don't worry about not feeling anything- it happens for a NUMBER of reasons- sometimes you just need to be able to relax, other times the woman may not be all that good... but they need to learn.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (23 December 2009):
 you managed to get your penis in a girls mouth yet you have to ask this question where are the girls like that in my woods, any way the answer is probabably no dont freak out. if it was your first time it was hopefully her frst time, she needs practice go online and get her a good video tell her to practice with a bannana or ice pop, she could practice on you too try using some of that chocolate syrup stuff to give her tongue more incentive be creative practice makes perfect rite
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