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Could I be pregnant? We had sex but no intercourse

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Question - (23 December 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 24 December 2009)
A female Germany age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Could I be pregnant?

We had sex, but no intercourse. We both had our underpants, but hes penis was right in front of my vagina, when he orgasmed and everything was very wet... I'm right in the middle of my cyclus, so if we had intercourse, the posibility to be pregnant would be great.

I just ask, because it wouldn't be the right time for a baby because of our work situation, so I'm worriing.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2009):

Thanks for your answers! Hope I won't be pregnant!

Sorry for not using the right words. I also don't use the word "sex" for this in German, but I couldn't find the slang word in the dictionary.

About condoms: it would have been the right thing, but we didn't, because it wasn't planed to go that far... I'm not worried about aids, because we both know for sure, we are not infected.

As for the morning after pill: we decided not to take it because of the health problem that will result from it, wo if I'm pregnant, we will look after our child. So I won't drink alcohol at new years eve, but still hope I will get my period after new year.

Thanks at everyone

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A male reader, Honest Answer United States +, writes (23 December 2009):

Honest Answer agony auntI hate to be the devils advocate, but it is possible. If you were in your panties and him in underwear and he ejaculated, it is possible for the sperm to swim. The reason they make condoms out of latex is that it will not allow the sperm to pass. If everyones theory is correct, they could make a cotton condom. I am not trying to scare you, but your exact words were " hes penis was right in front of my vagina, when he orgasmed and everything was very wet." That wet stuff was sperm.

It is probable that you are not pregnant, but it is possible. Only a pregnancy test or time will provide the answer you are looking for.

Jeff

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2009):

It's very unlikely as the other aunts state, but there is a chance depending on what happened after he came.

As suggested by others, make sure by getting the morning after pill, that you don't become pregnant, because it has happened before to other women. I have a friend that became pregnant and they used a condom that didn't break.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (23 December 2009):

Go and get the morning after pill. You can take it up to 72 hours after sex.

Your chances are low but it's better safe than sorry.

Also, you should think about going on the pill / coil / etc if you have a boyfriend.

Good Luck!! xx

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