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writes:Okay. So there is this amazingly beautiful man at my school. He is a techie, he fixes the computers around our school and stuff. And ya, you've guessed it.. I like him. Probley way too much. But its freaky. I've NEVER felt anything like it in my whole entire life, and i cant describe it, not even with actions. His in his 20's though, and i think he's married.. :\ Whenever its time to go home, during the weekend, or even as soon as he steps out of school at lunch to go home. Im always upset. And its the christmas holiday in two days time, i dont know how i can manage it..He always smiles at me though, and i do the same back. And he stares deeply into my eyes for a few seconds, then looks away as if his shy. I also gave him a christmas card yesterday, it was seriously the best day of my life __ He walked out of his office, and i stepped forward and said "Excuse me.." He smiled to himself and turned round, just a few feet from me and stared me straight in the eyes, still smiling. I was supposed to say Happy Christmas, but his smile was just so heartbreaking and he's too beautiful i just became speechless and sorta stutterd "H-H-H-H-" really quietly. He grinned and took the card from me and said "Thank you very much." Stared at me for a few seconds, still grinning, then turned and walked off. I have dreams about him, every night, and i can NEVER get him off my mind. His the only reason i love school now. Could you help me? Do you think he likes me too? And how do you think i could get him too like me more? E.T.C 3
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (16 December 2009):
 I don't think he likes you, as you said it's a crush and as a teenage girl you will have plenty more crushes.
Please don't follow your feelings on this as adults who work with children have to go through such tough security checks now, that if it is suspected that anything inappropriate ever happens he would loose his job and never be able to work with kids or vulnerable adults again.
I don't think you would want a guy you care about loosing his livelyhood because you had a crush on him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2009): I think that this guy, let's call him Matt , doesn't fancy you and it's all in your imagination, you'll live x
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (16 December 2009):
 Just where do you think this could possibly go? You're just a kid, he's an adult. You're just a kid and he's a MARRIED adult. You're just a kid and he's EMPLOYED by your school. Enjoy your crush but don't try to make this anything more than it is.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 December 2009):
Sorry young lady, it can't be. He's married, he works at a school and you're not 16, so it just can't happen. It's perfectly natural to have a crush on someone. But that is all it is. Enjoy your crush, make sure you're mixing with friends and having fun, and focus on your work. You will find Mr Right. But it isn't this technical guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2009): This is bad, having a crush on a teacher/ technician...it could get both of you into trouble if something happened. It sounds like a young school girl crush, don't worry you'll get over him.
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