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Should I keep in contact with my ex or not?

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Question - (16 December 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 December 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *very writes:

me and my boyfriend had dated for almost a year and just brock up last month. well we seem to keep going back to each kissing and even having sex. and i just started liking this guy and not sure what to do. my ex is still talking to me everyday and stuff should i stop talking to my ex

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2009):

Why would you continue kissing and having sex with your EX! Why are you letting him use you that way? Get away from him and see what happens with this other guy that you HAVEN'T broken up with!!!

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A male reader, Garm United States +, writes (17 December 2009):

Frankly, both of your guys are fools for putting up with an indecisive woman. There's no loyalty to either, so how could there ever be trust?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2009):

If you continue to talk to your ex, there is a good chance you will not be able to move on because you will subconsciously compare the guy to your ex. If the guy has better qualities according to you then no problem but once you find a flaw even the tiniest little thing that annoys you, you'll end up thinking about how your ex would never do or say such and such and eventually that will impact your relationship with the guy. My ex stuck around for almost 10+ years and now he might be one of the reasons why I might break up with my almost 7 year relationship. So the "ex-effect" would be an issue if you're trying to move on.

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