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Had dry sex and worried a lot.

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Question - (16 December 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 21 December 2009)
A male India age 36-40, *EMPFORD writes:

Doctors or any experienced persons please help.

I have never ever touched a girl before in my life, i am 22 now and i was about to join my company within few months. I have a GF, i met her just before 8 months.

now i am worried a lot, because 2 times we had dry sex.

I was wearing my underwear and she in her pajama and underwear. when i got ejaculated i moved myself away from her. but later after 20 to 25 mins i was on her again, in that time my underwear is wet, i was feeling cold in my underwear(so sperms are dead?). As i was on her is there any possibility that sperms can enter her? I asked my GF, when we are rubbing, she was wet but that moisture had not even reached her outside of underwear.

One more thing, my GF had not have her periods from 2 months. So can she be pregnant?

We both r from very strict family, if something goes wrong we cant take it. Please someone answer to my question ASAP, its matter of my life.

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A male reader, TEMPFORD India +, writes (21 December 2009):

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Hi every one, now my GF got her periods and it is normal. So now we are safe right?

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A male reader, TEMPFORD India +, writes (16 December 2009):

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Thank you all for your answer, i was so worried , even i had not slept from a week, i lost my concentration , even once tot 2 die. If everything goes well as you people said i will be grateful to you all throughout my life.

And no, not even a single time i had penetrated her, we both r virgins.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2009):

If she is pregnant it isn't yours, I can tell you that. Sperm doesnt swim through layers of clothing. Sperm doesn't even live long enough to do that. So unless you rubbed yoru hand it in and pushed it into her immedeately after coming, I don't see there is any chance she could be pregnant with YOUR child.

Really, just ask a doctor. Ignore people who say there is a chance, because unless sperm is in the vagina there is no chance of pregnancy. You were both clothed. Minutes had passed by. The sperm was dead and besides: it doesn't swim through layers of fabric.

However, using a sock as a condom isnt reccomended for a number of reasons.

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A female reader, puds123 Ireland +, writes (16 December 2009):

There is a possibility but there alway is with sex!!! Its very very very unlikely that she is if you were both wearing underware and she had pj's on. The reason she isnt getting her period is probably because shes so worried and stress that she is pregnant its affecting her period and trust me that can happen alot!

If ur really worried ask her to take a test so u will have a final and definate answer but i really doubt she is pregant!!!

best wishes

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2009):

I think the chance of preganancy is very very very small - and women's periods sometimes go when the woman is stressed. I once didn't have a period for 4 months once and i was a virgin, never even been near a guy. So try not to worry but if in doubt - get a pregenancy test.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2009):

relax man there is absolutely no possibility of her getting pregnant from the incident you described but why hasn't she got her period for 2 months. have you done anything more than what you say? i.e penetrated her even for a short time?

because if you have then she could very well be pregnant.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2009):

You are probably safe; sperm cannot normally penetrate underwear and that time out in the air will certainly have killed them.

The only worrying part is the time without her period.

She needs to do a pregnancy test as soon as possible to put your mind at rest - or frighten you to death!

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