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I think two staff members at my school are having an affair

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Question - (13 December 2009) 8 Answers - (Newest, 14 December 2009)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I think that 2 people at my high school are having an affair. The thing is, their not students. I think he knows I know as well. Lets call my principal 'Street' and my vice principal 'Watson'. Street is the macho principal. Watson, is the woman who wears low cut shirts and dress pants that are both fitted to show her curves,innapropriately.

I started to think about it when I saw them 'talking' in the office during class as I walked to the washroom.. There they were, between the secretaries desk and the photocopier. Now, there is a good 4 feet inbetween. But, they are standing talking to the secretary, Street behind Watson, pressed up against each other. At this moment, I almost throw up.

Last monday, they are standing against the main staircase talking to each other, when he leans in and whispers something in her ear. Now, before this happened, I told my friends what had happened inside the office. So, we start screaming and laughing extremely loud (no big deal when its afterschool and there is at least a hundred other kids in the foyer).

Now its wednesday, and its the school dance. I'm dancing and laughing and having a good time, when I spot them in the doorway of our gym, standing close together. Then she grabs his tie and most likely compliments it. They always walk together in the hall, and its like their a couple, though I havent seen anything innapropriate (yet). He is married and has children, but she is just a single woman who is obviously looking for someone. I don't know what to do, I am obviously not confronting them, but if I catch them in the act, what am I going to do? My friends say they think their having an affair too, and I am worried about what his wife would think. Help?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009):

Female poster "WTF..."

Oh, I wasn't merely "blowing off steam" as you put it. No. Just pointing out the shape of things to come for this nosy little beast.

You see, I know her kind.

I know how things end up for girls like her who have nothing better to do than to go poking their sanctimonious, ignorant little noses where they don't belong. I'm afraid it's just par for the course for her whole useless technology-debilitated, parent-less generation. Congratulations baby boomer mothers and fathers! You have much for which to be proud.

Laugh away, my dears. You will soon be in the same boat. Mark my words.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009):

WTF- "A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): SO WHAT? - you little busybody....."

OP do not take offence to this. our other Anon female is just blowing off steam. hit a nerve, did she??????

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009):

SO WHAT? - you little busybody. Some day not to far off you too will be exchanging stupidities with someone at work somewhere while others giggle, looking for love in all the wrong places as only a nosy little twit like yourself will have as recourse to finding love in the twilight of your wasted youth after all decent possibilities have passed you rapidly by - gone to girls with proper sense and maturity.

Stop laughing and say hello to your future, my dear.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009):

perhaps the aunts need to get off their high horse???? whether it is none of your business or not, is it improper to conduct affairs/have liasons in school? if yes, then just report them. have you heard of the concept "whistle blowing" - it is when you annonymously tip off someone on an apparent wrongdoing. you do not have to have concrete facts, it does not have to be 100% factual. it means that you have some evidence of an apparent contravention, and you blow the whistle on the perpetrators, the onus is then on the authorities to investigate the "complaint".

if you feel strongly about an inappropriate conduct bet these 2 then just blow the whistle on them. you need to be anon or else it may just blow up in your face. so please be warned.

i totally agree with " A male reader, soon567 +, writes (13 December 2009): She looking at moral part of this crap to be displaying in front of young kids. No wonder relationship go straiht to hell. These individuals need to be dimiss for croupting the minds of kids............" so Perhaps us aunts should get off our high horse and see this as a mere concerned person wanting to uphold the high morals/ dignity/ integrity of an institution. if these two are at it, they should take it to a cheap hotel and not in the school where taxpayers and parents foot the bill. i must say they would be saving lots of money by indulging on school property since it is a financial nightmare in the real world.

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A female reader, Aunty BimBim Australia +, writes (13 December 2009):

Aunty BimBim agony auntThe writer of this question states she hasnt seen anything inappropriate, all she has seen are two adults talking to each other, what have they done to be reported to their superintendent?

The whole this is a story built on innuendo and supposition, and is precisely how rumours start and reputations and careers are ruined. I think the original poster needs to think very carefully about what damage can be done if she continues to spread her story without something more than some sillys, hole in a corner, schoolgirls fairy tales.

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A female reader, Angzw Zimbabwe +, writes (13 December 2009):

I think you and your friends should stay out of it. These are adults who know what they are doing and its totally their business. Ofcourse at your age its fun to gossip about it and stuff, but what would not be funny would be if you tried to intervene or get involved in ANY way. Our advice is: DO NOTHING

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A male reader, baddogbj China +, writes (13 December 2009):

baddogbj agony auntAnd, this would be your business to "do" anything about because .....?

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A female reader, Aunty BimBim Australia +, writes (13 December 2009):

Aunty BimBim agony aunt Don't you think at your age this is really juvenille on your part? If there is something going on, and I doubt there is much more than you having an over active imagination, it's none of your business.

And your question reads as if a pair of giggling 13 year olds wrote it.

Grow up a little.

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