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writes:I am so confused and don't know what to do. I feel so distant from my husband. He does not seem to realize it but I feel like he is pushing me away. For the past three to four months he has been slowly doing this and it has been getting worse. He is more wrapped up in work, spending time with his family (who he says he can't stand), and bringing friends over all the time to spend the night. I can't even tell you the last time we had a night a lone together. I have tried confronting him about it but he tells me he is doing no such thing. I try to have sex with him and that is as far as it gets he just pushes me away it hurts a lot. I have even bought sexy lingerie like he likes and nothing. I love him dearly we have one daughter and have another baby on the way. Everything is going exactly as we planned when we got married. I just do not understand. Any suggestions would be helpful. Thank You. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe is a wonderful father I could not ask him to be a better dad. He loves to play with her and what not and he wanted to start trying to have another baby.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (13 December 2009):
Maybe parenting is getting to him a bit. Perhaps he wasn't as ready as he pretended to be when he talked about marriage and kids. But this needs to be resolved, and I think you need to tell him he is neglecting you and you would like to sort it out, or he is just going to drive you apart. Be truthful and blunt about it, no matter what he says. If that fails, tell him you want counselling to find out what is happening. And if that fails, you need to think about what you want from your life and whether you want to be in an unhappy marriage. But before all that, sit him down and say he is hurting you, and he needs to stop and talk now, before it's too late.
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