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writes:My boyfriend said he loves me but doesnt act like he loves me! he wont hold my hand when his friends are around but he held his ex-girlfriends hand all the time! should i tell him how i feel or just leave him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): He's a young teen- he doesn't even understand love... he sounds as if he's telling you want you want to hear and then not following up on it as he doesn't have the feelings.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2009): Well.... put it this way, if he can hold hands with his ex-girlfriend why can't he hold hands with you? Tell him how you feel, and the see how it goes, but what you really need to do is when your with him and his friends try to hold hands with him. You can take charge, and don't be afraid. Obviously you know how you feel and he doesn't so if needed don't hang out with him for a while like if your together and hi friends come over tell him you need to go somewhere and maybe he will see he needs you there and might come find you ask youw hats wrong and thats a good time to talk to him..... well i hope i might of helped.
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reader, Anonny  +, writes (13 December 2009):
I have the same problem with my guy. I never saw him with his ex - but he too rarely shows his emotions or holds hands!
Could it be shyness? - Or maybe it is just his personality! - Some people aren't good at showing their emotions!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (13 December 2009):
Try telling him how you feel first. Sometimes men need a wake up call to get them moving again. But also remember that a man can be measure by his actions, so if he doesn't start to show you affection, he probably isn't the guy for you. But try telling him first, he might listen.
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