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Is the age gap too much here?

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Question - (1 December 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 December 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *ce225 writes:

When we first started dating we were in love and wanted to do everything together, we both were virgins and we had our first time with each other together, after that i wanted sex all the time and she was giving it to me on a regular basis then i messed up a couple times, did things that made her very jealous, she then became controlling, a crazy side came out of her.

She started using me for my money i guess taking her to the movies, taking her out to eat and stuff then i asked her was she using me she denied it and said i was with you before you had money but i always had money. We've been together for two years on and off. for almost the last 9 months but for the last three months i gave her my all, i did all types of things for her, bought her candy and flowers took her to movies almost every weekend, treated her like a queen but she did nothing of the sort in return. she was out with her cuzins all the time partying, getting tattos and pierced her belly button and just hung out with me when i told her i would take her out.

She hasn't had sex with me in almost 3 months and that was the last straw for me, i felt the relationship became unbalanced between us, then one day i said i dont want to be together any more lets just break up for good this time. im unhappy and you are happy with them more than you are with me. Two days went by she called me crying and begging me to get back together so i took the bait and we got back together, i really didn't want us to be together at all.

Then my best friend, she's 24 and very attractive tells me she had a crush on me since i turned 18 and she is fine and thick in all the right places, i dont know what happened in my mind but i wanted to pursue it but i could'nt cause i love my girlfriend so much, we've been together for two years i loved her since day one of our relationship but then one day after i took her to go see that new moon movie she wanted to go to penn station and then stop at mcdonalds to get a drink for both of us. we both work at the same mcdonalds, a girl wanted to pour my drink out jokingly then she started to cause a scene so then she wont drop it, we pull up to a red light and she starts slapping me a like four times, im super close to breaking her jaw but i didnt, i do 85 all the way to her house and i tell her to get out, shes about to but she trys to take my laptop i tell her to put it down, she doesn't. the next thing i grab her hair she puts it down, grabs my food, i pull off before i beat her ass.

We had a fall out, i didn't call or anything. then my best friend asks me to come over to her house, i do, we in the bed and we are both half naked. we had sex 3 times and it was the best ever. about a day later after we started dating my ex tries to get me back but i dont wanna do it this time. my best friend says lets just stay bf because she doesn't wanna get hurt but whenever we together we dont fight or anything. the only thing that's the problem is she 24 im 19 so tell me what should i do?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2009):

Your ex treats you like crap, and your hot best friend liked you since you were 18.

'Hot girl who likes me, here I come!' lol

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