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writes:Hi everyone. I was just wondering if it's okay to cheat if you're about to break up. I have a gf and i'm not really happy with things so i'm going to break up with her when I see her next. I was wondering if it's okay if I make out with someone else. I'm sure it's not alright but I just wanted to get more opinions. thanks everyone. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all.
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reader, bitch +, writes (2 December 2009):
No. You haven't broken up with her yet. So you are still together in her mind. And you should feel guilty. That is why you are posting this question, because of the guilt you feel. You were hoping somebody would tell you it is ok so you could tell yourself this is an ok thing to do. But it is not ok.
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reader, KANDIWRPR +, writes (2 December 2009):
 no it is not you shouldnt do anythinguntil you finalize the break up
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reader, lovesagiftkeepitsafe  +, writes (1 December 2009):
 no way is it alright to cheat even if your about to break up. break up with her before you go off wiht some other girl one its not fair on your girl friend and its also not fair for the girl your making out with break up first is always better plus you wont get a bad reputation if you dont cheet, the sayins is, once a cheat, always a cheat
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reader, blueyedgirl +, writes (1 December 2009):
 No, like SatinDesire said, it is still cheating. You need to break up with your gf first. If it is going to be a while before you see your her then you could do it over the phone. It is rather rude, and she will probably be upset but if it was me... I would rather a guy break up over the phone than to cheat on me!
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reader, Blod +, writes (1 December 2009):
 No it isn't. Even if you're about to break up with someone, until then you're in a relationship and should respect that person. It'd be hard enough for the other person even after you've finished. So wait until it's officially over.
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