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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I met this boy over the summer. all along he was giving me these little hints that he liked me but didn't wanna see obvious...but EVERYONE told me that he REALLY liked me and that he was VERY shy...anyway, We knew eachother for 5 months and we were GOOD FRIENDS and then FINALLY he admitted to liking me a lot. He told me that he was scared to tell me all along and that he wish he had told me A LOT sooner. I go to school 3 hrs away from him but he came to visit my COLLEGE to tell me this!! I admitted my feelings too so we kissed and cuddled. The next week, he invites me to this music festival and he introduces me to his best friends but then we both hang out alone and everything is great--he kisses me.... The week after we plan to have dinner but he get’s really sick so we don’t go…but I manage to see him at work and we chill after work. The weekand after I don’t see him but I call AND text him telling him I’ll be home so that we can chill. He ignores me all week but when I see him at work on the weekand he tells me that he relapsed on SPEED (I knew he did all kinds of drugs all along). He looked like a complete mess..like he was in some kind of pain and he said that he was really sorry so he gave me this long hug. co-workers also asked him if we were dating and he told them: maybeeee…anyway, throughout the week I text him and msg him and he replies. I don’t see him for 2 weeks but after I msg him to hangout and he says he has tentative plans but will call. He calls and tells me “hey look I know we had this little thing going on a couple of weeks ago but I don’t think we should continue to see eachother anymore.” I suggest being friends. at first he hesitates and stutters and then he agrees and says: it would suck to lose a good friend. We talk on the phone for 1hr and he says that his life is currently a mess/many things going on/many reasons and that drugs are ONE of the MAIN reasons why it won’t work…(he has completly abstained from drugs so far) what happened here? did he suddenly loose interest in me? or did he lose feelings for me? do you guys think he meant it when he agreed to being friends?
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reader, KANDIWRPR  +, writes (1 December 2009):
 if he is a good person and you know for a fact then maybe he just doesnt want to drag you into his "drug" problems
but if he is one of those person who acts like he is only interested in you but really has many others
then i suggest just stay friends with him
and dont add more of your feelings for him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2009): that ment that he does like you but mabee he has to much going on with the drugs and all so ya that mite be y???????? well good luck and i hope you 2 are still good friends
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