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anonymous
writes:Me and my fience really want to start a family..we have been together for 4 years but are only in our 20's,were planing to move in together in the new year.when we have sex we normally use without a condom then put one on at the end of sex just in case...soo if it happens it happens,but each month they are no signs..i think maybe we should wait untill we move in,and then try instead of testing fate?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2009): I agree with the rest here.
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reader, celtic_tiger +, writes (2 December 2009):
 I think you should not consider a family until you have lived together for at least 6 months.
Living together is a completely different ball game, to just dating, and you may not actually like him as much as you think you do. Living together brings out all the bad traits of the other person. You get to see them at their worst, and being with each other 24/7 can really make or break a relationship.
Before you have kids with this man, make sure that you actually do want to be with him, and marry him, because after 6 months of living together, you may have changed your mind.
Just be careful.
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reader, KANDIWRPR  +, writes (2 December 2009):
 before haaving a baby
move in with each other first
because when you live with that person day to day
its going to be really different
just wait and see if he's really the one
you want to have a baby with
after moving in together
for a couple of months
if you guys still want to have a baby
and know that you are able to support the baby
go for it
just make sure to live together for a couple of months
bcause its really different
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2009): I would wait until I was married, but that's just me.
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