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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I love my boyfriend and think he's just absolutely perfect for me. One thing that causes some major hangups, though, is that I don't always feel some crazy spark when we're kissing. I love being close to him and we get each other on so many levels, and kissing sometimes IS really electric, I feel stuff "down there" and I feel good with him... and then sometimes kissing is just kissing and I don't feel an insane amount of anything except comfort. He's my first kiss and we've been together for five months, so I don't have a lot of experience to know what I'm supposed to be feeling.(Don't know if this matters or not, but we only really very rarely do tongue kissing because neither of us know exactly how that works.)Thanks!
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reader, Pip24d  +, writes (30 December 2009):
The spark that you are talking about is not always needed, people believe it is but it isn't, that spark is what happens in the beginning of a relationship and it slowly fades. This is not a bad thing, the spark turns into love making it unneeded and only sometimes appearing. If u really love someone the spark doesn't need to be there, u just need to feel respected and loved like it's natural to be with that person
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reader, KANDIWRPR +, writes (1 December 2009):
 i was like that too
i wouldnt worry
as long if you are happyy with him
and know that you two care for each other
the whole tongue kissing is complicated
ive also only kissed my boyfriend but he's kissed many others
but as of the 2 years we were together
he hasnt said anything about my kissing..actually
his kissing is sloppy for a more experienced person ahha
but wen i first got my kiss it was like "ok just go with the flow" like normally he would or you would stick the tongue in then just kind of play around with each others tongue..
also i heard that if you leave a big wet slobber on your partners mouth area that makes you a sloppy kisser..but im not sure haha
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