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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Sex is painful, not pleasurable! Any advise?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been sexually active for 8 months now, and sex still hurts. I use lubrication in which helps but I still find that sex is painful more than enjoyable and even at times where sex doesn't hurt, I'm expecting it to hurt and therefore cannot relax and enjoy it I feel ... (183 words)

When a man is aroused by a sex scene in movies or porn, is it due to the beauty of the woman or the act of sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - When a man is aroused by a sex scene in a movie or a porno, is it because of the amazing beauty of the individual woman or the act of sex itself? Thanks.... (33 words)

Can having sex weeks before your period make your period late?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i want to know if you have sex a few weeks before your period can it cause you to come n your period late ? if so, how late ... (29 words)

Everytime we come close to have sex, I can't, it hurts too much. What can I do about this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been happily dating for over 2 and a half years (our third will be February 1st of next year) and we are totally committed to each other. We just got our own place and things are pretty good. However, there's just one problem: we can't have sex. Now ... (281 words)

Why can't I bring myself to tell her "I love you"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm in hs and my girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year. We are close and in the early stages of our relationship use to tell each other that we liked each other a lot. Now I feel like I love her... not necessarily that she is the one or anything like that but I ... (127 words)

Is it ok if an eight-year-old masturbates?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I been babysitting all my life since i was 16. I baby sit this 8 yr old girl she's Always wanting Privacy. One Day I was Baby sitting Just her cause the other went to spend the night with grandparents. well One Day i was down stairs Doing some Laundry i Heard Moaning coming ... (90 words)

My girlfriend is jealous for me looking at nudity in (not-porn) movies!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

7 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been dating a girl for 6 months, and we have had a good relationship, however she gets extremely jealous and can't stand that I've seen movies or anything with nudity in them. I'm not talking about porn, I don't watch it because I only want to be with her. But I have ... (149 words)

Why do I always end up being just the friend?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

7 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - in the last two years ive come across girls who ive like or fancied. but it always turns out that im just a shoulder to cry on, and they decide to get back with their ex boyfriends even though they've told me the think im fit and they wanna go out with me. why have i never fo... (88 words)

Is there any hope for me to get her back or have I been put in the friend zone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Long story short, I went out with this girl for a month, and eventually she broke it off stating she liked me more as a friend and she wasn't ready for a serious relationship. A couple of months pass and we stay friends. And she starts behaving strange like complaining if i... (258 words)

Is he cheating on her or did they really break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Lots of advice on this welcome. I split up with my ex a year ago and he met someone else. I have a daughter with him and still have feelings for him. We email each other because he works away and for different reasons i had an inkling that he has split up with his girlfriend. I ... (156 words)

Why do I keep on getting these bumps after I shave?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am really worried so any help will be great! Im 15 and have quite a embarressing problem. I shave all my pubes off, as i dont like having hair down there. The other week after shaving a day or two later a hard lump appeared and it wouldt pop but you could see that there... (227 words)

Why didn't he smile when I took the picture?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - On August 30th, I went up to take my boyfriend to the Mud Drags and my mom had asked for me to get a picture of my boyfriend and his dad, so I did and he asked if I was going to get one of me and him and I said "Yes, before we go." I forgot but took one before I went home. When ... (91 words)

He seems undecided about what he wants from me. Should I keep on waiting or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with this guy for almost a year we both live in different parts of Canada. I tend to have high expectations of men, and he tends to be a workaholic and has a relaxed nature. In the beginning things were great, he called everyday, commuicated well..but I guess I ... (333 words)

Is this just a silly crush or should I do something about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - At my work theres a new guy that has been spending an awful lot of time hanging around me. Hes very nice and respectful and has been flirting with me quite a bit lately. He absoultely gorgeous and i cant get him out of my head. I get so flustered when he's around and find it ... (220 words)

Why do women always want their men for themselves only, if it's known that men like "variety"?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

7 September 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hello, I've noticed a lot of porn related questions from females lately. The age-old question is "Why does he like to look at other women when he has me?". And the answer is difficult... Well, now I have a less common question. I'm a woman myself, and God knows some... (145 words)

Why after I told him we should only stay friends because I saw him with no interest did he go back to flirting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Met this guy went on a great date talked about two to three times a week then the phone calls and texts just stop (we were seeing eachother for a couple of months). After a week of no contact i called it off and he said it would be a shame if we never talked again since i was ... (136 words)

She said she didn't date on the summer... yet she went out with two boys at that time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl i like we have been talking for 6 months i asked her out in the 3rd month but she said she didnt date in the summer but she went out with 2 other guys before school started she said she was still in love with me after 6 months and i am still in love with her ... (69 words)

I am out of state right now so I cant meet him, how do I keep him interested in dating me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone I recently met this guy who is the same age as me on Speeddate. Hes really awesome and we have a lot in common and seems to be interested in me. The problem is right now I am out of state doing a research internship at a hospital. So I cant meet up with him. i wont ... (164 words)

He's the love of my life but he doesn't trust me. Should I give up on him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hey... I'm so sad. I wish to stay single... I don't know, but after all that's been going on with my relationship, I feel un-confident... See, my boyfriend has problems with my past. Even though I never sletp with anyone before him, he thinks I had no self-respect bec... (387 words)

I would like some tips on how to get into shape

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

7 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hello, i am 14stone and i am 15 got any tips to get me in shape... (16 words)

No matter what I do he still doesn't trust me. What can I do about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - We've been together for 5 months now. I spent 3 solid months with him in America, and I've got my next flight there booked. This is the first time we've been apart. He's very hateful, jealous and paranoid. He doesn't like to socialise, he doesn't go out much, he doesn't ... (343 words)

Should I worry that we have sex all the time?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

7 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my fiance have sex all the time. We love eachother and would die for one another, what we have is something special. We werent always like this. I was afraid to kiss her for the first 3 months we dated and after that i was terrified of sexual realtions. We were both ... (99 words)

How can I make my boyfriend be more mature about my pregnancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - how can i get my boyfriend to help with my pregnancy? ok .. well my boyfriend n i been together for a yeae..n hes been really happy lately because of our child. and i really love him and care bout him .. the thing is ,, hes always buyin video games,, n movies,, and e... (152 words)

Do I miss him or do I just miss having a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend a few monthes ago but now i think i miss him. I was wondering how you can tell if you miss the guy or if you just miss having a boyfriend?... (37 words)

Why does my boyfriend deny he has watched porn with all the evidense on his face?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i kee finding evidence of porn viewed on my partners pc but when i confront him about it he adamantly denies it, when it is blatantly obvious! we are from different countries which has meant that we have been apat for months at a time! please advise.. i appreciate that men need ... (83 words)

I know it's wrong but I just can't resist this man. Please help me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi I hope i am nt bothering u much with my promblem u anwered my question on 26th august which had a heading "what happen to my romantic life"....?I just wanted your valueable suggestion on my lastest situation, I tried to keep this man away from me the more kept him away fro... (140 words)

Does he want to work out the relationship in the future because he wants to keep contact with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - In a LDR for many years pretty close relationship we were looking towards a visa and overall serious connection. He broke up with me because he says I kept doing things that bothered him such as he would warn me don't go spend the money on that you don't have the money for that ... (233 words)

My wife isn't attracted to me anymore and cheated on me, can we make this work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - my wife(together 5 years married oe year)says she isent attracted to me anymore, and that she loves me but isnt in love with me and had felt that way for a long time. i knew we had our differences but i did not see this coming. i asked her if there was another guy, she said... (486 words)

I slept with him hoping we'd get back together, does that work?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I just dont know what to do anymore, i think that im over my ex then i see him with another girl and i fall apart. we broke up more than a year ago but we slept together a while ago and i thought this might mean that we could get back together..I always believed we would get ... (86 words)

I always try to be confident when he's mean, why is he such a jerk?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi me and my boyfriend have been going out for nearly 9 months. we have both said we love each other...my friends think we should break up.. my problem is he confuses me by saying stuff like my boobs are to small he can be a jerk and mean . i always try to be very confident... (89 words)

How do shy girls like to be asked out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - This may have been asked a million times but I still haven't found the proper advice, even after searching the web. I'm thinking of asking someone out but I have absolutely no idea how to (without her thinking it's going out just as friends). I know some people would just tell ... (221 words)

Does anyone have any useful books/websites on sex education?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I was just wondering if anyone had any useful websites for me to look at or good books to read on sex ed. as I missed it at school and don't really know that much and I want to learn.... (41 words)

How should I win a date with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

7 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hello people, im here becasue i need your help to me and i really need this help, i will begin: i like the girl next to our house and i want to have a happy relationship with her, her birthday is on 14 of this month and she is celebrating her birthday from now till 14... (224 words)

What do I do about this girl? Her father doesn't even know we are dating...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

7 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone , i'm dating a girl for about a year,just it's our actually fourth time that we r being together in past 6 years,not only that, we have a boy 5 years old.She constantly tells me in a last few months that she is in some kind of faze and that it would pass her and ... (169 words)

Everytime I try to explain things to her she accuses me of calling her slutty.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone! Ok so my ex an i broke up like a month and a half ago due to long distance, (she decided she didnt love me anymore). Anyways she was the love of my life and always made me feel good with comments about wanting my children and talking of marriage one day....ext. ... (207 words)

My fiance doesn't always cum -i need some advice

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my fiance and I are currently in a long distance relationship so we're just seeing each other every after 3 months and we spend one week together. Between that time we always do a lot of sex and he could cum at least 3x a day for a week. But recently, while we are spending our ... (222 words)

My ex, told me last night that he loves me and can't get over me bit I'm with someone else now!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - So I have this amazing boyfriend of almost 3 months. He means the world to me and we don't argue he doesn't flirt with other girls. And to me his is perfect. The thing is my ex, told me last night that he loves me and can't get over me even though its been over 3 months. I ... (86 words)

Is this throbbing chest pain something to do with anxiety over my love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I get a throbbing pain in the upper-right part of my chest whenever I see or think about this girl I like too much. I just wondered if anyone had any medical insight into what this might be? I checked the net but I couldn't find anything. It's not crippling but it is noticeable ... (91 words)

Really I'm just looking for any tips and information about anal sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year now and been having sex for about 6 months. he suggested the other day that he wants to have anal with me, hes 5 years older than me so he's experienced. i would like to try it but i dont know anything about it.. ... (102 words)

I still can't reach an orgasm with a partner, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so I'm 29 years old and I've only seriously been with 2 sexual partners, both of whom I've been pretty comfortable with in bed. My concern is that I can't have an orgasm. They both tried to give me one orally and through manual stimulation, but I feel like there's so much ... (104 words)

I'm on the pill but I'm afraid I might be pregnant. Am I?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so me and my boyfriend had sexual intercourse on Monday. we did not use protection and he came inside me. i have been taking the pill for 6 weeks now and not missed one out or anything and i am still taking them. the only trouble is i feel really different. i see... (264 words)

Do you think his parents will ever accept me for who I am or do they just care about what I have and what I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So This is my dilemma I have Been with my boyfriend now a year and a half, a year into are relationship I still hadnt meet his parents and now I can see why I didnt meet them, He was finshing his law course in university and he said if he failed his mother would blame him on ... (374 words)

My husband went on a cosy 'business' dinner, I'm worried he will cheat!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age - My husband recently went for a dinner with his supplier who met him at office for business purpose. I saw his mails and found they went out for a cozy dinner. He hid it from me. I asked him he said just a friend. What should I do after this. I worry they will continue their ... (70 words)

What do you think? should I hold on to him because hes so amazing and I love him, or should I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so i feel so confused at the moment on what to do. i have been sleeping with this guy for ten weeks now. he's 21 and he is just amazing. i love him so much and he loves me, he has told me this. but the only trouble is im starting college now, i wont be looking at other ... (211 words)

Am I Stupid or What. I really need all your opinions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Am I Stupid or What. I really need all your opinion? I've been seeing this guy for 7 months now and he lives in Sarasota and I'm in Ft.Lauderdale. I met him down here and when he was here he never wanted to leave my side. Eventually he told me he wanted me to live with him. At ... (559 words)

don't understand why he doesn't seem to be interested in S&M anymore? What happened? Is it just me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. He is (was?) into BDSM. When we first started being intimate and he broached the subject he was very happy to find that I didn't think he was sick and although with no prior experience, a willing partner with him. ... (137 words)

I used a fake id to ask my bf if he had a girlfriend and he kept saying no!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi!! i have a botfriend but i ws not so sure if he took things with me seriously so i kinda decided to check things out myself. so i made a fake id and added him as another girl.And i asked him out on that id. He told me(thinking i was the other girl) That he needed time to ... (119 words)

He hardly talks. he stopped telling me he loves me when he used to say it everyday.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im in a 2 and a half yr long distance relationship and things were going pretty well. we saw each other once a month or every 2 months after last yr. just recently he was acting strange and thinking that he is a failure and nobody wants him and really pushing me away he said ... (286 words)

How can I stop gettin jealous and paranoid???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now. He's really good to me and i love him alot. The only problem is i cant trust him at all, even though he gives me no reason not to trust him. I think this is because ive been hurt so much in the past. When we go out with ... (189 words)

I am starting to feel like he was only in it for sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) age 36-40 - I was with my ex-boyfriend for two and a half years. We broke up last year in October. He cheated the whole time we were together. What I want to know is if he could've cared about me even a little. I am starting to feel like he was only in it for sex. He started dating one ... (104 words)

I can't let go of the past and the dreams I had with my ex-boyfriend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) age 36-40 - Thank you for reading this message. I feel as though my world is falling apart. I broke up with my boyfriend who I had been with for 4 years nearly a year ago now. It was a very painful and horrible breakup, but I was living abroad and threw myself into my new life. It was hard ... (265 words)

I'm the "new kid" at school. How can I fit in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have just moved to a new school where everyone else knows each other and am finding it difficult to get to know any fun people and fit in, especially as they are not particularly welcoming. How can I "get in there" with people so that they make an effort to speak to me, or ... (62 words)

How can I defuse this situation, did I lead him on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Grrrrr ive gone and complicated my life. After a turbulant split from someone in january (my decision) ive been going in a certain pub every weekend, and made some frieds of the regulars. But one particular guy has marriage problems, and me being a softie and liking to offer ... (314 words)

I love a guy a decade older than me. Should I let him know?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a high-school girl in love with a 27 year old guy. He doesn't know this and i have no idea what to do. Should i tell him and hope for the best? Help please!!!... (35 words)

Mixed messages from my ex, is there still hope?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex-boyfriend and I started hanging out again and it was like we were back together, we even said "I Love You" to each other. I go to school 3 hours away from where he lives and he just told me that he met this girl 2 weeks ago and said they "get each other." He said he ... (163 words)

I can't move on even though we've broken up, and he can't forget me either. What should I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - its been months already since i broke up with my exboyfriend. and i still have not moved on a bit. is it because i lost my virginity to him or what? im unsure because at times i will hate him to the core until i get too disgusted with my past with him. at times, i tend to miss ... (350 words)

I feel left out since all my high school friends are paired off.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - recently this year, i did quarrelled with my only friends i had over a many reasons. firstly, last year we were all very close. simply because we are all single and have been going a rough patch in our love life. and this year, all of them got attached including me. i didnt ... (265 words)

I said I liked him, but his answer didn't tell me anything. What do I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There's a boy I really like at my school and before the 6 weeks summer holidays me and him got on really well and I thought we had a chance but we chose to wait until after the holidays to see what could happen. When I went back to school last week I finally plucked up the ... (152 words)

In love with my sister's best friend who is straight. Do you think she is playing with me? Also, could my bi colleague like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so here it goes. it started 2 years ago. i'm a girl and i fell in love with my sisters best friend. i had a boyfriend back there and it was the first time i actually had feelings for another girl. first it was just a crush u know i thought that i'd forget her. but i didn't. ... (386 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend's best friend that I'm falling in love with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) age 30-35 - Hello, my name is Holli Me, my boyfriend and his best friend all work together. They spend a lot of time together and recently ive realised that im falling in love with him, Everything about him's so sweet and he's never awful to me. Recently we have been texting a... (143 words)

Whats dry humping?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

7 September 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hi people please answer It sounds so stupid but what is dry humping!?!... (13 words)

She's suddenly incredibly insecure! How can I fix it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) age 36-40 - Hi. My girlfriend and I have a great relationship in almost every way. We have been together since we were 17, and we have never broken up. I love her more than anything, she is the most beautiful person inside and out. But there is one problem we have with trust. She doesn't ... (440 words)

What's a safe way to meet a boy from the internet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, i'm really good friends with this boy i met online, and we have known each other for about 2 years, and we talk on the phone, and go on webcam and stuff, so i know he is him and everything, but the thing is i would quite like to meet him, and i dont know what i should d... (71 words)

Why did she suddenly have a loss of feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Back then, me and my girl, we met each other online. I can't really say much of my status now with her. We're together for 2months plus now. We played the same game together, and after a period of time, we found that we liked each other very much. We started texting e... (523 words)

Does it matter if her 'lover' is 'smaller' than her husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. Do you think a woman would be disappointed if she was to have an affair with a man and discover that his penis was smaller than that of her husband? What a sad question! Anyway - I look forward to your ridicule/replies! Many thanks!... (45 words)

If my boyfriend cums on my vagina, can I get pregnant ?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a virgin and want to know, if my boyfriend cums on my vagina can I get pregnant even though my hymen isn't broken? Thanks ... (27 words)

He flirts at me and I flirt back, but I don't understand why his wife would be mad when I'm only in high school!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - About a year ago I met this cop in my town. Im only 17, and I never used to pay attention to him. Then I noticed he was really really cute, and I started talking to him. I found out he was married, but had only married a few months before then. He started flirting with me, and ... (325 words)

How can I forget, once and for all, the guy I love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (F)

- im heartbroken.....ive been dumped AGAIN for another woman....by the same man!! I should never of took him back after he did it the first time, but I did.....and I fell in love with him again, and now hes finished with me for someone else. I cant handle this pain and my whole ... (158 words)

We still want to love, but where did it all go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

7 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with a girl for three-and-a-half years. We fell in love from the start. It was freshman year in high school during a school trip to Disney. We are the longest remaining relationship from our school and were voted High School Sweethearts. Everyone ... (176 words)

What can I do to give him a great blow job?

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7 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I have a few concerns tht id really like some advice on. I've been with my boyfriend for about a month now, but ive had feelings for him for sometime. Recntly I gave my boyfriend and hand job and he did the same to me and then peformed oral sex on me. This brings my first ... (144 words)

I just can't get through her! What else can I do for her to see what a wonderful person she is?

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7 September 2008 (?) age 41-50 - she doesnt have poor self esteem...she has no self esteem. no matter what i say or do she thinks she is the lowest being on earth. ive told her how great of a person she is and how beautiful she is on a regular basis, trying to help her out, but it actually seems that its had a ... (147 words)

She was giving me a blow job but... nothing came out!

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7 September 2008 (M) age 36-40 - Question is quite simple. I received a blowjob from my new girlfriend for the first time today and I just...didn't get off. She was going at it for at least 10 or 15 minutes and still nothing (although I have to admit it felt greattttt). Is this a problem of mine, or inco... (61 words)

I need tips on how to be better at sex!

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7 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm seeing this guy and I think we might have sex soon. I'm only had sex with one guy previously and I wasn't that great at it. I wasn't sure what to do when on the bottom and I REALLY didn't know what to do when I was on top. I'd like to actually improve on that somehow and ... (114 words)

My mom's boyfriend cheated on her with me. I don't know what to do in this situation but I don't want her to be with a guy like him!

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7 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have this problem and I'm not sure how to handle it. I'm gay. I came out years ago and my family have always been cool about it since they saw it coming. My mother especially as I always stood by her and helped her through a divorce to my father. I'm 26 years old now and ... (323 words)

How can I ask her out when I have never done this before?!

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7 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a freshman in high school and i have a crush on this girl who was in my class last year. We never really had a conversation but we do know each other. Also she is nice to me but she kind of acts this way to everybody so I cant tell what her feelings are towards me. How do ... (92 words)

I'm getting mixed signals from the most amazing guy ever!

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7 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I like this boy. And, Oh my god He is amazing! Like literally the cutest most charismatic person I know. Anyway. I;ve liked him for a while, and I've been trying to figure out if he likes me or not. I know I sound like a little kid not knowing, but it really is hard to ... (253 words)

Confused about what he thinks of me?

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7 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - There is this guy I am interested in. He told me he misses me and stuff too. We met at this party couple months back! He lives in the east coast, and I in the west coast, and now he is visiting here for work. We had dinner the first day he was here, but after that he seems to ... (213 words)

I have a crush on this guy and I can't focus on school! Why won't he approach me?

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7 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - In high school, there's this sophomore that, when I saw his face, completely started to crush on him. My heart aches during classes when I don't see him. I always see him around between my classes and during lunch. Thing is, I don't know who he is and he doesn't know me. I've ... (102 words)

If I get my periods soon...would it be possible that I could be pregnant still?

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7 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I have been having unprotective sex for over a month now, everyday, sometimes more then once, trying to get pregnant, i am getting a couple days late, if i do get my period soon do i still have a chance of being pregnant? And is there anything different I should feel ... (60 words)

Falling for his friend! And I don't want others to think I'm doing this to get back at my ex!

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7 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, so i just got broken up with him, like two weeks ago. im doing good, im getting over him. [guy B] but im falling fast for a friend of his.. [guy A] i used to date this kid but we both lost interest and remained friends.. well then i liked B. but since we broke up A... (166 words)

Pre-cum plus underwear. Is she pregnant? Advice!!

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7 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Can a girl get pregnant from from pre-cum if both of us were wearing underwear?? ok me and my girlfriend were doing stuff, n we started striping each other. well i had pre-cum not semen on my underwear and were both were just in underwear only and i was laying on top of... (178 words)

She's amazing! So why does she want to hang out with me?

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7 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I feel like I'm in the shadow of my girlfriend. She's smarter than me, she's more attractive than me---she's even stronger than me! I just don't understand why she'd want to hang out with me when she's so amazing.... (39 words)

How do I get rid Guy A, because I really like Guy B....any advice?

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7 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey im in a situation. I met these two guys online at a dating website. Guy A became interested in me, he talked for a little and then he starts getting very interested in sex and now that is all he talks about. When we talk online all he wants is naughty pictures and talk ... (359 words)

My wife freaked and left me, when she found this other woman's business card! I would never cheat..how do I get her back?

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7 September 2008 (?) age 41-50 - A co worker gave me their business card by putting it in my front shirt pocket (I'm a waiter). She wants to cover a shift of mine. I get home and I put the card on the counter and leave to pick up my wife. When we get home, I take her jacket and put it on the counter, covering ... (170 words)

We broke up! How can I prove to her that we are meant to be together?

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7 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend of 4 years broke up with me about 3 weeks ago. we have lived together in a house i bought for 3 years. she says that she doesnt think we are meant to be together. i cant be without her. i need her back. how can i prove to her that we are meant to be together ?? ... (60 words)

He came back from officer training school and doesn't seem interested anymore! What should I do?

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7 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are 22 and 21 respectively and have been dating for 2 1/2 years. He just graduated college and I'm a senior in college now. He's in the army reserves until December until he goes to flight school to become a pilot. Everything was good in our relationship ... (286 words)

My fiancee is experiencing fears about marriage--should we still get married in a month?

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7 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - To continue the present course or not. My fiance' and I will be married in slightly over a month and while I have zero fears about getting married she does. She says that 50% of herself is afraid of marriage and 50% can't wait and is telling the other half that its being f... (379 words)

He dumped me and even though I don't want him back...do I tell him I am pregnant?

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7 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey So ... my boyfriend broke up with me 3 weeks ago. He said "Things weren't going the way I wanted them to" ... well .. I wished he at least told me before that he is not happy with something ... but nothing. He was acting like nothing is going on .. all happy and stuff ... (243 words)

I didn't understand that he couldn't tell me where he was due to his military job. What can I say to him when I apologize?

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7 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My crush is military and right now is in a location where it's supposed to be confidential. I send him a note making reference that he didn't want to tell me where he is. He replied and ask me to try and understand that he can't tell me where he is b/c of his job. He also sai... (112 words)

We had unprotected sex last week. So after 7 days into it... would she be showing signs already that she might be pregnant??

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7 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, so, I am engaged, with a woman that I absolutely love, care for, and means the world to me. Randomly today she told me she was going to take a pregnancy test, she said it was nothing and no reason why... well I finally got it out of her. Last week we had unprotected ... (261 words)

How do I end my affair with my married boss?

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7 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How in the world do I end my affair with my married boss? Never in a million years did I think I'd do something like this, and now that I have...I've gotten my feelings in too deep...advice!... (37 words)

He says it's over but wants me in contact his child, who is close to me. What do I do?.

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7 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Met someone ten years younger 5.5 months ago. He was divorcing (bitterly) with 4 children under 5. We became friends, I supported him through difficult times, I helped with the children during the holidays, ten days ago he announced that he felt he would like to have a ... (106 words)

He's pushing me away! He doesn't seem to care.. what can I do?

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7 September 2008 (F)

- Please help me, i dont know what to do. My best friend of 4 years found a boyfriend (yes he's bisexual). And since he came into the picture i got pushed out. To the extent that he stopped hanging around with me and would ignore me on msn. He had a fallout with his boyfriend and ... (241 words)

Do I have an eating disorder? It can't be normal..what's going on with me?

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7 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I found it quite hard to write this question which indicates to me there IS a problem. Still i'm not certain. i am a size 10 (in England) and i feel i could have an eating disorder. I do fear gaining weight and hate looking at photos of me because i just think 'do i actually ... (189 words)