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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

 

I love my husband, but he's below average in the bedroom. I had 'textual affair' and now want my husband to try dirty texting...

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27 September 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi I am married to the most amazing guy.. He is soooo reliable and gets on brilliantly with everyone I know. I know he wouldnt be the most attractive guy to every other girl but to me he's special and I find myself really attracted to him. At time's he's so depandant, its too ... (228 words

Did she cheat or is he trying to break us up?

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27 September 2008 (M age 36-40 - my gf told me a guy tried to sleep with her but she refused she gave me his number i called him after his number was switched off for 3 days wen i got hold of him i threatened him he later called me 2 days later and told me she was cheating on me with him that shes a hoe and we ... (178 words

I want to know if I had sex while I was drunk last night!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

27 September 2008 (F age 41-50 - Me and my friend drinked at her house with 2 guys we know, i got so drunk that i don't remember what i did. My friend told me that me and the 1 guy went 2 the room, came back a bit later, how do i know what happened, what feeling must i have on my private parts to know if i had ... (181 words

I know I should break up with him, but it will be harder to do it the second time!

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27 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - i broke up with my boyfriend a couple weeks ago and last friday he tried to make me jealous telling me that he had a new gf. i really didnt care but it still bothered me. he keeps asking me to go back out with him and i just felt soo annoyed and sorry for him that i said yes ... (128 words

Will this long distance, complex relationship work?

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27 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - Will this work? They've been dating for 1 month, she moved away for school and will be back at christmas but they will spend 4 months apart at a time. She never met his family or friends yet. He cheated on her a week after she left but he sent her flowers for her birthday... (116 words

Is it wrong to love someone who's like a brother to me?

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27 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - a cupple of months ago a really close friend told me he loved me, ive been brourght up with him pritty much all my life and we`re almost like brother and sister and both of our dads are really close too. hes 15 and ive just turned 18, ive had feelings for him but because ... (123 words

Do I ask her out on Monday or is it okay to wait until I'm on holiday?

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27 September 2008 (M age 36-40 - Ok,, I'm having a bit of a problem. Theres this girl I like and I think she does me, thing is, I can't bring myself to ask her out, or even ask for her number, I do talk to her quite a bit and I really believe that shes meant for me. Now, 2 things I know, I have very little... (130 words

If your hymen is broken before you have sex for the first time, will sex hurt?

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27 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've been told something, and I just want to know if it's true or not. If your hymen is broken before you have sex for the first time, sex won't hurt. Is this true?? If so, can you break your hymen yourself?? And will it hurt??... (47 words

I got really drunk, & did things I did things with a guy I shouldn't have, what do I do?

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27 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - this is long, i'm sorry but i just am looking for any support or advice. well a couple of weeks ago i went to a friends party. There was a lot of people there and a lot of alcohol. i got really drunk, to the point that i couldn't handle anything i was doing. all i rem... (389 words

Do I tell my best friend that I am a lesbian and in love with her?

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27 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm not sure whether to risk the best friendship I've ever had. I'm pretty sure she's straight, but it's eating me up the idea of her with a man (or anyone else)! She is very confusing, and a lot of people have said to us that we are pretty much in a relationship as it is, and ... (110 words

Should I have sex with him? I told him I love him.

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27 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am a 16 year old girl, I'm a virgin, and I have been in love with a guy for 6 years. I know he has never felt the same, but we are planning to have sex together. I trust him completely, and I feel so ready to be with him. He's nearly 19, and all through school he had no ... (223 words

Should I keep meeting this 19 year old, or should I forget about him?

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27 September 2008 (F age 26-29 - Im 13 years old, i knew this 19 year ld that lives around the corner from me, a few months now. Every one thinks hes too old for me and hes really nice, ive met up with him loads now and i really love him. I don't know weather he loves me or not, but he wouldn't want to meet me ... (147 words

Who can I talk to without feeling sorry for myself? I feel like I can't confide in anyone.

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27 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - I feel really stressed out with everything thats happening in my life, and I want to be able to confide in someone but I don't know how. I have tried in the past but I end up sounding like im just being sensationalist or needing of attention. I don't want answers to my ... (124 words

I keep sticking my fingers down my throat to make myself sick... any advice?

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27 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - Recently i've bin so stressed wiv things at school and home... my bro and mum and dad keep fighting and i've really fallen for somone who's got a gf. i have low self esteem anyway and my friend's family frend said i was fat when everyone else says i'm ded pretty an all this but ... (132 words

Are these the signs of pregnancy even though I used a condom?

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27 September 2008 (F age 36-40 - okay, so im 14 and have only been sexually active for a couple of months. when i lost my virginity i didnt use contraception, but cameo on my period reguarly. (months later) although, the second person i was sexually active with used a condomn, i haven't been on my period ... (86 words

I respect my girlfriend's wishes of no sex before marriage but I need to find a way of relieving myself of sexual frustration. Any advice?

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27 September 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hi, I'm 25, male, virgin, in a very serious relationship since the last 5 yrs. My girlfriend and I will definitely be getting married in about 2-3 years. We have been intimate with each other on many occasions but never had intercourse. Further we live in different cities and ... (161 words

2 days after first time (unprotected) sex, I feel pain while on the toilet and can see a tiny faint bit of blood when I wipe myself, could this be an STD? How can I help the pain?

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27 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay am worried. I lost my virginity 2 days ago. I'm on the pill, n we didnt use a condom. well now wen i go to the toilet it really hurts so bad that i want to cry and i been needing the toilet more often. also wen i wipe myself there is a tiny faint bit of blood. is this s... (115 words

Which one do I choose? My girlfriend or my work mate?

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27 September 2008 (M age 36-40 - i have been with my girlfriend for two months, this is is my first serious relationship since i broke off with my fiance who i was with for two years, a year ago. In the year between the break up and this current relationship, i had a fling with a workmate who was and still ... (173 words

I'm happily engaged and want to help my ex with coping after recent divorce, but HOW, when both of us have a problem with impulse control with regards to one another??

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27 September 2008 (F age 41-50 - Forgive me, this post is long, but I feel that there is information necessary so that people can answer my question. I am engaged. I am very happy in my current arrangement and have no wish to leave my fiance. With this being said I have also been in contact with my friend (... (1077 words

I'm in love with a guy who's got a girlfriend but I don't want to turn him gay. So what can I do?

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27 September 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hey Guys I'm a 18 year old gay guy and i have 2 really big questions so here is the first one: I am deeply in love with a guy who is in two of my classes with me, since im a total failiure with relationships i asked some "flirt" advices to my friends (who get lucky all th... (168 words

What do I do or say to get her to be with me?

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27 September 2008 (M age 30-35 - ok me and this mykala girl i like a girl were talkin we started likin each other and she said she lke this other guy but she didnt tell me who it was andshe sad she liked me more tan him everything was fine and i found out who she liked not by her but someone else it turns out ... (191 words

Why do I feel so tired all of the time? Maybe the emotional problems in the past two years?

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27 September 2008 (F age 36-40 - I often feel very tired all the time I am normally a happy person even though I have been hurt so many times in the past I try to be positive and smile through the pain.. I am just wondering why I could be feeling really tired and drained all of the time? Sometimes it tak... (168 words

What can I do to stop remembering that my ex cheated on me? And why did he cheat, with prior intent, and continue to see me?

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27 September 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am trying to understand why my boyfriend cheated on me. Not just once- but many times, with different girls. These weren't one-night stands after getting drunk, but planned dates. Why was he even with me if he was interested in all these other women? Why would someone do ... (176 words

I never know when my violent boyfriend will lash out and hit me again!

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27 September 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi there. I have recently separated from my husband and met a guy who I really like and I fell in love with him. We have been together for about 3 and a half months, the only thing is he hits me. He does not hit me in my face just my body like my arms,legs and tummy. I ... (133 words

Angry girlfriend says that I don't show enough affection

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27 September 2008 (M age 36-40 - I recently wanted to almost take a break from my girlfriend of 5 years. Our relationship has been good. She has given me everything in the world. She is very special. However she has become angry at me because I have not shown her how much I love her. We are still together, not ... (225 words

Help! I need tips on how to win my ex back!

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27 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been arguin 4 a while now and things went a bit OTT and we split up. Does anyone hav any tips on how i could win him back? X... (37 words

I need legal advice

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27 September 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have just recently separated from my husband. This was my decision as I caught him being unfaithful for the third time. We have a child together and I remain in our home which we both own. My husband is paying me a sum of money per week towards maintenance and he is paying ... (130 words

My sister hates her fiance, so why is she still marrying him?

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27 September 2008 (? age 26-29 - My sister says she hates her fiance and his family. She has also said she doesnt want him raising her kids, hates it when he calls, Jeremi is contantly arguing with her....and yet Brandee is still going to marry him! Honestly...i dont get it. Could you explain?... (47 words

I love my ex and want her back. Please help!!

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27 September 2008 (M age 30-35 - my girlfriend broke up with me a month ago because she didnt love me anymore she didnt state a reason she said she didnt love me anymore. i ve bin chasing her and tried to be her friend but we have lately had arguments. all i want is her back can you help me?... (54 words

There was no connection on our first date! What now?

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27 September 2008 (M age 36-40 - well as i sayed earlier, i was on that date with this girl, well it was realy is for me, we stayed in a cool place, and then we walked and talked for like 5 hours, but she was always smiling, and laughing, but the problem is she never leted me close to her, and i didn't feel ... (99 words

Please help me with this love thing!

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27 September 2008 (M age 26-29 - im 12 year and am in love whit a girl in my class. to valetine i gave her a card........... a friend of me told me that she tornd it....... is that very bad....do got a chance or do i just give up??... (45 words

Why Is it that he´s ignoring me after so long?

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27 September 2008 (F age 41-50 - Well, I being keeping in touch with this military guy for a year and half. I met him in one of his duties before he left to Italy. I emailed him since and stayed in contact even when he was finally moved to the US on November 2007. Right now, he´s on deployment and we still ma... (199 words

For the guys...Are looks everything to you in a relationship?

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27 September 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hey, this is a question for the guys out there. But would you rather go out with a really stunning girl, with no personality, or a not as beautiful girl who you had lots in common with? I guess what I’m asking is, Are looks everything to you in a relationship? Thanks, Love ... (60 words

Moved to another state with my girlfriend.....now she wants to sleep with other men!!

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27 September 2008 (F age 41-50 - I came across this site and I hope I can get some help. I am in an open relationship and I don't know if I can handle it anymore. I agreed to this 11 months ago but now the emotion and love I have is much stronger. I moved with my gf to another state and I am all alone. All she ... (244 words

What do these suprise texts from my ex mean?

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27 September 2008 (F - I split with my ex 6 weeks ago as he went off wiv another girl. We had a big row about it cos I wanted him back and we were quite nasty to each other. Last week, Id had enough of rowing with him and just decided to be nice and friendly to keep the peace and to get on with my ... (287 words

I’m confused about my feelings for both of these guys. What should I do?

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27 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - I’ve been dating a guy for a month, but its long distance. He’s English but moved to France in June (I met him before he left but we weren’t going out at the time). He’s back over here next week, which I’m pleased about because obviously I get to see him. He’s not really fit ... (312 words

What did he mean by this 'spanking' message? Should I ask him about it?

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27 September 2008 (M age 30-35 - I was talking to a very intimate friend (possibly was a bf pref) early this morning we were casually flirting and sending pictures over msn, and just normal casual stuff, then he sent me a message saying oh yes send me that picture and i'll spank that ... what should i do? talk ... (59 words

We broke up and I have much of her belongings still. What should I do?

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27 September 2008 (M age 30-35 - Ok heres the deal my and my gf of 3 years and 3months broke up 2 weeks ago. I still have a lot of her stuff at my house, clothes,jewlery ect. I even have her bank card and set of keys to her house. She hasnt asked for any of this back, does this mean she still wants to b... (108 words

My ex gf is flirting with me! What's with the change in behaviour?

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27 September 2008 (M age 51-59 - My ex of two years has started flirt with me stare at me and be very nice towards me. For several months she wouldnt even speak. I found out she was seeing someone else so i walked away. We work together and see each other perhaps once or twic a day. The other guy also w... (194 words

Sex with my guy stresses me out! I worry too much about what he's thinking...help!

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27 September 2008 (F age 51-59 - hi im 37 year old female, ive been seeing a guy now for 2 months, but we only have one problem. sex,, he says it isnt a problem for him and he doesnt push me, but i just cant relax, and im anxious about things, what if i dont please him, or if i make a fool of myself with ... (125 words

I'm late with my period! Is this normal sometimes?

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27 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've been stressing out a lot this month because of certain situations and I'm late 3 days with my period. I was supposed to get it the 25th but i haven't gotten it yet. I'm getting worried and i was just wondering if it's ok for it to happen... (49 words

I have disturbing nightmares and don't know how to deal with the loss of my cat?

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27 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - My cat died 2 weeks ago and since then I've been having disturbing dreams (I guess nightmares) about him. No one close to me has ever died before except my grandma but I was too young to be affected at the time. I don't really know how to deal with grief and I'm finding these ... (94 words

Two weeks ago she wanted to have children with me, now she has moved on with another guy, we are all coworkers! Help me channel my emotions?

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27 September 2008 (M age 36-40 - I was dating this girl for 7 months, things were going well, until we started talking about things we want in the future. Trying to see if we was eye to eye on those things. Along in the mist of this she got scared saying things was moving to fast. I forget to mention we work ... (199 words

Since the news of my unplanned pregnancy, my boyfriend is very abusive, has started to throw my past in my face, I'm getting stressed out as I never planned on being a single mother either but I doubt he will change, help me?

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27 September 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi. I was a dancer in a gentlemens club and there was this guy that always liked me but i never would had pictured him being my boyfriend.im latina he's white and all my life ive been with spanish guys.so he was never a costumer there never gave me money he just went there for ... (585 words

My boyfriend stays on line for days at a time, lately he has been mean and hateful to me, please help.

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27 September 2008 (F age 51-59 - well my problem is lately my boyfriend who lives with me; we have been together a year and he has been mean and hateful to me, pushes me away and has been masturbating to online porn instead of making love to me and i treat him very good i never say no to him if ... (174 words

I cheated on her and she now has someone else. How can I get her out my mind?

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27 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi?i just want to get some advice cause i don't know what to do. There is something that i can't let go. It's that i cheated someone. Someone that became special to me. I know that it's not right to love in the same sex but i did. It starts when i texted her by knowing her ... (183 words

I just wanna be able to live my life but my parents are being mean!

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27 September 2008 (M age 30-35 - My parents used to be so nice to be but now all they do is be mean and dont let me go out with girls because they do not trust me. Please help i just wanna live a normal 15 year old boys life going to partys and having fun like all my mates. :'( i just wanna cry... (59 words

Have I ruined my university life in the first week of freshers or can I recover?

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27 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok... this isnt really a relationship question I know, but I still need any advice you can give me. I've just started University and I'm far away from home and my friends and everything. And I thought i would be ok, but I've gone a bit off the rails and it scares me. I got ve... (271 words

Is my girlfriend an internet skank?

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27 September 2008 (M age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I occasionally chat to eachother when we are at our parent's houses via MSN, now I have about 10-15 girls on my MSN contacts list and when she found out she went nuts at me even tho all of them but her were blocked, she told me thats unnacceptable as she only ... (241 words

Two girls. One's my ex-girlfriend, the other a girl who likes me, but I don't like her that way. What do I do? what does it mean?

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27 September 2008 (M age 30-35 - Ok, so here's the deal. About a month ago my girlfriend broke up with me. About two weeks ago, she was acting like nothing was wrong and was all touchy-feely to the extent that people have been asking if we were going back out. Its hard to just ignore her and try not to s... (258 words

I'm 17 and stressing that I could be preganant. We used protection but my period is really light.

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27 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi im 17 and maybe stressing over nothing but i had protected sex approx 5 days before i got my periods but since i got them they have being very light,could i be pregnant?help!... (34 words

My husband is texting a female colleague frequently, he says it's work-related. Should I be suspicious?

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27 September 2008 (F age 36-40 - hi, my partner keeps texting a woman from his work, i have seen his phone bill and he has replied 250 texts in one month to her, should i be suspicious? he says he was only asking for her help at work when he didn't know how to do something.... (50 words

I am smart and attractive but I freeze when I talk to girls, even my friend says I'm hopeless...

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27 September 2008 (M age 36-40 - i'm 23 and have never known any girls my age. i can't have a conversation with anyone of the opposite sex because i freeze up. i am smart and attractive but that doesn't seem to matter. even my friend said i'm hopeless and now i'm starting to think i am. anyone else in the same ... (56 words

My boyfriend is jealous and hurtful to me because of my past. How can I fix this?

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27 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - i thankyou all for your time in reading this, and advice is appreciated, i need help! i am 18 (keep in mind i live in australia where the legal age is 16) and my boyfriend is 23. the age difference is not a problem, i am more mature then most 18 year olds and he is around the... (939 words

I don't know if my boyfriend is serious about me or just playing around...

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27 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - I dont know if my boyfriend is serious about me or just playing around. He said that he really likes me a lot. Everything was going fine last week, but now hes acting different. Last week he would call me every night. He even called me at 4am just to tell me that he loved... (126 words

Should a best friend of 2 years be telling people all my secrets behind my back?...

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27 September 2008 (F age 26-29 - Lately, me and my best friend have been on and off having fights. She keeps on accusing me of "Mood swings" but i dont get how? Once, we were about to have a huge test, it was super important and i couldn't find my notes, i was so scared and anxious for the upcoming test, she ... (176 words

I have not had my period for two months, what could be wrong? I'm 13.

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27 September 2008 (F age 26-29 - I'm 13 years old, and have had my period since i was 11. I've never had sex before, but i haven't had my period for 2 months! What's wrong with me?... (31 words

My teacher comforts me about my problems, I have started to see him as a man and not a friendly teacher, how can I help this?

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27 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am a 16 years old girl and is in love with my house teacher of a boarding school I live in. He is 38 years old, married, and has a 3 years old son. I was sad in my very first days in school, since I 'm not so fluent with the language of the country I just moved to and it w... (507 words

Am I a bad friend?

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27 September 2008 (? age 26-29 - My female friend is pregnant . (We're both 15) she wants me and her boyfriend (he's 16) to help tell her parents. She thinks they'll going kick her out or something if there's no witnesses. I just dont want be get involght cause it's not my business. She's mad at me for not ... (82 words

In a bad marriage, but have a "male" friend

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27 September 2008 (F age 51-59 - I am in a bad marriage and recently met this single guy and we have become "friends". We seem to be drawn to each other.He always praises me to my colleagues and we talk a lot. Recently we went to a business meeting and afterwards we sat in our car and talked but when I ... (94 words

Am I being paranoid or is he no longer interested?

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27 September 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for more than 6 months now. He used to call or text me at least once a week if we don't see each other or if I don't text him. Last month, the company he worked at closed down and he was jobless. He has gone for several interviews now and ... (163 words

Boyfriend fingered me & menstrual stuff came out... WHY?

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27 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend fingered me the other day and menstrual fluid came out.. Only the like start stuff of it but it was definitely that! But a few hours later it stopped coming out so it didn't trigger my WHOLE period.. Just like a bit of it. I'm not due for another week or... (92 words

I just want the old husband back.

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27 September 2008 (F age 51-59 - I am a Navy wife of almost 6 yrs, and at first it was really good, I was his princess, and he spoiled meall the time. Well, my husband went to ship duty a yr and a helf after we were married. The first 3 deplyments were fine, emails everyday and always, but this new ship my ... (473 words

We are back together, now he is acting like a jerk

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27 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi, my boyfriend and I've been together for almost two years and we actually broke up for a few months earlier this year and I ended up dating someone else (which naturally creates tension when you go back to the original person). Now my boyfriend's constantly talking about ... (116 words

Betrayed hurt confused and angry!

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27 September 2008 (F age 41-50 - I started a new relationship with a guy who I thought was the one, it got intense very quick and I believed in him so much. He was like no other guy I knew before and I had experienced a pretty horrible relationship before that. He works away and a month into our relationship ... (801 words

Should I move on or hold out?

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27 September 2008 (M age 36-40 - So my fiancee of five months and I decided that we were going to move in together and get married soon. The thing is, she had to use a ruse to get out of her mother's house (lots of issues between her and her mother) and, once her mom found out the real deal, promptly drove all ... (440 words

My father loves my ex more than me!!

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27 September 2008 (F age - I am a 51 year old woman, divorced with two adult children. My father and I have never been close, but the situation grew even more stressed after my divorce. He goes to great lenghts to keep me from coming to visit. He tells my children mistakes I made as a child which I ... (92 words

I have an extreme attraction toward transexual pornography. Does it mean I'm gay or bi?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

27 September 2008 (? age 30-35 - I have a problem. I'm 16 and I fancy girls, I fantasize about girls, but I also have an extreme attraction to transexual pornography. Does this make me gay or bi sexual? Even the thoughts of gay porn arouse me...... (40 words

Does anybody have any creative ideas on how I should word this email to her?

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27 September 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hello, I got a girl's email (it's all she gave me) a while ago, and would like to ask her out, but I'm not sure how I can word it. I'd ask her out in person but I don't see her anymore, and email is the only way I have of reaching her. Does anybody have any creative ideas on... (67 words

I'm in high school and there's not much time left in my years at this school, so can someone please help me?

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27 September 2008 (M age 30-35 - I got somewhat of a problem with talking to girls. when I was young i didnt have a problem but as i got older i started to become shy with girls. Most of the girls in my class know who i am but dont really talk to me. Im asking for some advice on how to start good convos with... (83 words

He has a 9 o'clock curfew out on me, and treats me more like a daughter than a girlfriend!

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27 September 2008 (F age 36-40 - I just want people's opinions on my boyfriend and my relationship. I'm turning 22 and my BF of 3 years is turned 25 this year. We have lived at his Moms house the entire time. I have been helping out, by giving them money for a bill or two. Its to the point where I don't wa... (509 words

Is it wrong for me to be upset with her for "what I call" a bad decision to a quick fix from her failed past relationship?

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27 September 2008 (M age 41-50 - I am currently married to 2nd wife, who had her tubes cut and burnt a few years back due to the relationship she was in. I do have one son from divorce, and she has one from her ex-boyfriend, who is not involved at all in his life. After a couple of years went by, I really want... (151 words

I wonder why he hasn't told me about his daughter?

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27 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - I dont know if my boyfriend is serious about me or just playing around. He said that he really likes me a lot. Everything was going fine last week, but now hes acting different. Last week he would call me every night. He even called me at 4am just to tell me that he loved me:)... (119 words

Can I completely forgive her again?

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27 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok so here it goes almost 2 years ago i met a girl while my boyfriend( of three years) was out of province and she became my best friend we would stay up all night long chatting on msn and going on cam and goofing around and stuff we both had feelings so each other even ... (409 words

She told me she likes someone else...

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27 September 2008 (M age 30-35 - Well..where would i start.. i spent My senior year of high school in new jersey. While i was there , i met this girl that i was amazed by her from the very first time i laid eyes on her beautiful smile. So as time passed , we began to know Each other , spoke more often , and ... (291 words

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