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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He's hot but I think he may be gay! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) age 26-29 - hi i met a guy how is hot and i think he is half gay. i really like him and we make each other laugh. i tried calling him but he wont answer or even txt. he is on to drugs and were the same age 13. the other day 9/27/08 i was asleep at a sleep over and he laid next to me on the ... (142 words)

I have a tendency to fall for people really hard and really fast! How can I get a grip on that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a tendency to fall for people really hard and really fast. I hate it because I always end up semi-heartbroken! I feel a lot for this person and the relationship is new, too new for me to feel the way I feel. At times they are okay and at other times they aren't or at ... (88 words)

Is 'queefing' a turn off for guys?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3950 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What are guys opinions on queefing? I think its pretty normal for a girl to do it but do guy like it or are they turned off by it? Or do they not even notice?... (35 words)

I let him go because things didn't get any better, but I miss him so much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I had to break up with him. Although he said he does love me. He never shows it. Never says it...only through a text. Never kisses or cuddles me anymore. Even a non existent sex life. So i said all this to him. and he said he'd try. Just that he found it hard to show his feel... (94 words)

We want so much to be together. We can live in Turkey, but I want us to live here, in the UK. Please can you help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age - i was living in usa with my turkish boyfriend and we apply for a english visa, but he got refused by the english embassy from there. what is the chance of him getting one from turkey now they have stamp his passport ? we need to know what we can do to get a visa from turk... (109 words)

Can someone please help me figure out a way to get this problem out of my mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello. Let me tell you the background of this story first. I went out with a guy in the beggining of this year. We went out for about 4 months and something happened between us so i broke up with him. Our relationship became difficult but we still talked and we were friends. ... (456 words)

I think I’m a stalker..and my teacher has become my latest obsession. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have fallen in love with this teacher since June 2007, she is beautiful(age 25 this year) . And she left at the end of june 2007 to a different school to teach. And i still really really miss her :( and i haven’t seen her since. I think about her everyday and i daydream about ... (199 words)

How can I get my ex off my back without letting on that I have a new boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, well, my ex bf tell's me he still loves me, but i have a new bf now, but no one knows cos were keeping it quiet for a bit to see how it goes. so my ex bf dosn't know, and i can't tell him. but he keeps telling me he still loves me and tht he wants me back. he keeps ... (219 words)

I've tried everything to forget about him, but nothing seems to work. Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i am 21, I met this guy when i was 20 and been in love with him ever since. problem is hes got a girlfriend he told me that he liked me sooo much and he wished things wre different. i have tried everything to forget about him, but nothing seems to work. I realy need help to f... (77 words)

Are we 'tying the knot' too young?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been dating my b/f for almost 3 years now, and i know in my heart i want to be with him for the rest of my life, and he feels the same since he wants to get married and have a child. i want that as well but im 19 and he's 21 but my mother is really against young marr... (138 words)

How do I get past these feelings of inadequecy, beating up on myself, etc?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am confused. My husband and I have been married for 2 months, and dated for about a year. Sometimes I'll tease him and not make love to him and other times I will make love to him. Thursday night, I kept delaying making love to him and my stomach hurt, then it was alittle. ... (435 words)

What are the early signs of an abusive man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i'm in this new relationship and i was wondering if you could tell me the warning signs of an abusive or controlling man. ... (23 words)

How do I build my confidence back up so I don't always feel like I'm competing with the "hot babes"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend knows i have an issue with porn, but i am working on becoming more open to it. he knows it has greatly affected my self-esteem and i feel very insecure and even jealous when a "hot blonde with huge boobs and a tiny waist" comes on TV when we are watching TV ... (285 words)

Is there any chance of her coming back to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 14 years old. About 2 years i met this girl. I immidiatly fell in love with her. after a year she went out with me. I was thrilled it was really the happiest day of my life. it was my first time i ever relle felt love for someone in such extremes. But after 2 months the ... (324 words)

Is he gay? Sex with him isn't normal.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i've been with my bf for a few months but i'm starting to wonder if he might be gay. He told me that he nearly once kissed a guy, also he says he has an arse obsession. He seems to enjoy sex but the only thing that makes him hard is if he touches himself (i won't touch it ... (119 words)

What's the best way to split up when you live together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my girlfriend for over 4 years and we are currently living together. I know that I want to get married and have a family however I know that I do not want these things with her. She is my best friend and has been so since long before we got together. I love her ... (197 words)

Is this picture really that big of a deal? My girlfriend is freaking out over it...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I ask this because I want to make sure that I'm being reasonable, because I don't want to be that guy who only thinks of himself. My girlfriend took a picture of me sleeping in my underwear with my hand down my pants (hilarious!). She sent it to some of my family, because ... (239 words)

How do I get to know my art mentor better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and in love with somebody who seems inappropriate for me, because he's 47 years old. He's also my mentor of art performance in the school. I can't get him off of my mind. I think about him all the time. When I first met him (the year before) I just liked him. Then sud... (492 words)

How do I improve the taste of my cum?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (M)

- How do I improve the taste of my cum? My gf says that sometimes its very sweet and other times it's bitter.... (22 words)

My married man doesn't make me climax like he can with his wife! Any suggestions?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm 20 years old and have been seeing this guy for about 4 months. He is married but we have this amazing attraction. However he is a little frustrated because he hasn't been able to make me come yet. I don't know why as he is so gentle and loving, and is very big on ... (122 words)

Question for guys: Is it easier to stay married if you already know what's out there?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

29 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I’d like to know, what its like for guys who settled down and married after having a several different women in there beds? Is it easier knowing you got to have your wild days before making a lifetime commitment? What about guys who married their first or second girl? Do ... (77 words)

I have a personality disorder. What can I do to be a better mother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ive got personality disorder and on the 25th of september my daughter got taken of me ive been to court but its looking slip that i will ever have my daughter back im gutted its so unfair they think that when my daughter gets abit older i wont manage her but i love her and am ... (100 words)

My friend from myspace is obsessed! How do I let him down easy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok i have a problem.a friend of mine who i first met through myspace is obsessed with me.the only times weve met is when he came to my work a couple times,and that was a long time ago.we still chat sometimes but i dont talk to him much becuz everytime i do its the same thing.he ... (231 words)

How do I get over being so nervous around my crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - to all agony aunts with advice. i really really like this guy but we have been very good friends before i decided or felt love for him, now that i hav told him it is really awkard and i basically avoid the awkrdness by not talking, my question is- how do i get over this aw... (84 words)

Just found out my husband of 8 years is a member of 100 online pornography sites!! Now what?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Three weeks before I was to get married I caught my soon to be husband trolling for sex on the internet. He promised nothing other than curiosity was happening and I forgave him. Now here we are 8 years and 2 kids later and I catch him with an internet account under an alias. ... (110 words)

How do I try and stop my friends from having sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

29 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - One of my 14 year old friends and his girlfriend (also 14) are thinking of having sex... they dont know that i know they want to and i want to try and stop them. They are both very close to me and they are not thinking of using contraception. Any ideas?... (51 words)

She hasn't told her mom about us yet so she keeps getting set up on dates!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay here is my problem me and my girlfriend have been together for like 5 months now and she hasn't told her mom yet. Then her mom set her up with some guy and she had to date him and she was still dating me!!! This really hurt my feelings but I let it slide. They broke up and ... (104 words)

Should I keep trying to keep our friendship going or step back to see if she even cares?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have this friend that I met through an old friend of mine. At first I didn't like her but as we both grew farthur apart from our mutual friend we became closer. We both had a baby only 2 months apart from eachother so we have that in common. It has been bothering me though, ... (287 words)

Has he been emotionally abusing me for years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age - I have two children, 6 and 8- my 6 year old has autism. My husband has been battling alcoholism for years. He just informed me he has been seeing another woman and left. He has treated me especially poorly over the years and very much so now. I filed for divorce the other day ... (154 words)

My best friend likes girls and now she's attracted to me! How do I respond to this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a best friend and she likes girls. She told me she had a crush on a girl and I advised her to tell her and see where it went from there. A couple of days later she told me that she was sexually attracted to me. I'm not sure how to react to this? She wants to take our ... (114 words)

What should I do to fill up my time? I'm my own worst enemy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Everyone I know thinks im this popular, confident and intelligent person. The truth is the things I think about myself I wouldn't even say to my worst enemy. I worry all the time that people will realise that I am stupid, dont know how to do my job etc. I hate how I look and i ... (156 words)

How do you 'make out'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am a 15 year old girl and have never made out although i have had the chance but got scared of his experience to my inexperience. i want to do it for all the right reasons and i am sure about it though i dont know how. anyone who will guide me through it step by step fro... (64 words)

Does he love me? He didn't say it back....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hello I have a question here, yesterday I was cuddling with my 8 months boyfriend, and I told him that I loved him for the first time, his response was that he hugged me really tight, but he didn't say anything, should I be concerned?. Our relationship is good, he does ... (87 words)

Why do his balls disappear when he's erect?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age - why do my partner's balls disappear when he is erect. he is 57.... (13 words)

How do I do the right thing and remain understanding?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, ive been living with my boyfriend for a year and he is seperated but not divorced from his ex wife. He pays her a huge amount of 'child' support every month and we know that she doesnt spend it all on the kids. She kept the house which is real big 4 bedrooms and 3 bathroom... (334 words)

Anyone ever heard of these WTF US sex laws?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Crazy US Sex Laws... Ever heard of them or any others that are crazy like these. I find it hilarious!! 1. Oral sex is illegal in 18 states, including Arizona. 2. In Virginia, it is illegal to have sex with the lights on. 3. It is illegal for husbands in Willowdale,... (202 words)

What is considered 'normal' in starting a relationship now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone i’m an 18 year old Canadian living overseas...my question is regarding how to go about being in a relationship with a guy i am interested in...but i’m going to give a bit of background information to help out with my question....i moved here two years ago and ... (1056 words)

How do I approach a woman for a sexual fling with no strings attached?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a female, but I am posting this for a MALE friend. So keep in mind while reading this, it's being asked by a male, not me. I'm a 24 yr old virgin (because of where I'm from) and want to know how to approach a woman for a sexual fling, without any strings attached? I am v... (115 words)

Do we leave him in the dust and say life goes on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello! Recently i've seemingly lost a bestfriend to his new girlfriend. He has never had a real relationship before (he is now 21) and recently found a 17yr highschool girl that he fancies attractive and fun. A year ago, she was fun and all of his best friends thought ... (248 words)

How can we be sure we're ready to move in together? It's a big step...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. (We've known each other for close to 5) And while we've gone through some sticky patches in our relationship, as all couples do, we have a pretty good relationship overall. We have our ups and downs, but have a lot of fun ... (372 words)

Am I too fussy or am I just worthless?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - The man who left me for his baby mama got married this weekend. i hurt like hell but i guess for me this was closure.however i am left feeling worthless and not good enough and am consequently feeling sorry for myself. i am in another relationship but i have pointed out to the ... (187 words)

Why doesn't he ever want to discuss our future anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok story is like this... I been in a online relationship for 15 months.. We been online close friends for around 3 years, and very very good friends at that. Well when we first became a couple, the romance and way he behaved towards me was amazingly special. He cal... (462 words)

Losing your V card: does is hurt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, before the question, i would like to give you some background onto the situation. I am thinking of losing my virginity, im 18 and i have a boyfriend. We are not in a hurry to lose our virginity to each other, just thinking about it. We know all about contraception etc.... (324 words)

I really like this guy, but there are rumours he got a 14 yr old pregnant, I don't know who to believe...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok Guys, theres this guy a really like he is just a year older than me and he is actually amazing. He isn't the nicest looking guy but he means the world to me, he has the nicest personality ever. Recently his pals have told me that he got a 14 year old pregnant and thats why ... (141 words)

I blew my chance with the guy I love and now he only wants me as a friend!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am feeling so sorry for myself at the moment. A while back while I was in an unhappy relationship I met someone, a man and we became friends. I gave him the impression that I was in an unhappy relationship and just didn’t know how to get out. Well we became great friends and ... (353 words)

I'm worried my friends will start gossiping if I ask this girl out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - every week, i attend masses and participate in our church's youth group which consists of many teens from various towns and we meet about good 4 hours every sunday. recently, a new girl joined and we became friends ever since. as time went on, we've gotten closer and closer ... (182 words)

My boyfriend doesn't wake me up to join him in bed at night, if I fell asleep somewhere else. I don't see why.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was just wondering what other peoples view on this is... When I go to bed at night, if my boyfriend has fallen asleep somewhere besides bed, I always wake him up to come join me in bed. Last night, I had kind of fallen asleeep on the couch. I heard the movie end, then I h... (200 words)

Do women kiss more passionately than men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age - I have found that after kissing a woman now I dont find men kisses to be as good and/or passionate. Does anyone out there have felt the same as me? ... (31 words)

He kept dropping hints about escorts...what does all this mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello people, this question is mainly for the guys out there!! Recently my partner and I started talking about changing our sex life. We have been together since we were both 22 and though we have both been with other people before this, I got him to admit that there is a ... (291 words)

How can I make each day we are not together special?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all. Im in a longdistance relationship for 2 years now. The last year was tough. But after this vication with him. Im sure about my feeling ext. I want him to know how i feel each day im not with him. I want it to be special. Any ideas how to make each day special would ... (60 words)

Why haven't I had an orgasm yet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Well here goes; Me and my bf have been together almost two and a half years now. In that length of time he has never given me an orgasm (I’m not complaining by the way), but yesterday he got really upset about it, and I would like him to be able to give me one, for his sak... (236 words)

My LDR isn't working and I don't know if he's cheating or just not that into me. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship just over a year. My track history with relationships is dire so I am not sure how a healthy relationship evolves over time. I loved the honeymoon period of our relationship but that disappeared about 8 months in. ... (687 words)

I'm really into this girl but I don't know whether to tell her how I feel?

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29 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm really into this girl and we have been talking everyday for 2 months but i don't know wether to tell her how i feel. We have been out together a few times on her suggestion but i don't know if she thinks we're just friends because she mentioned she doesn't usually go out in ... (154 words)

What to do about a cheating friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

- My husband is good friends with a guy who lives close to us, and I am friends with his wife. We have always thought of him as a decent person who will help out when he can. However, he has recently confided in my husband that he cheated on his wife when he was away on a ... (174 words)

He seems a bit intense. Should I end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating this guy for a few weeks and by his own admission we aren't technically boyfriend and girlfriend. I'm not even sure if I like him. But I think I could. The problem is that he always wants to be around and says things like, you kept me up all night thinking ... (301 words)

We have a baby and he keeps cheating on me. I don't know if I should stick with him or move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi There, Well the story goes like this. My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 2 yeard and we have a 9mnth old baby as well. last year while I was pregnant I found out that he cheated on me and that the girl was pregnant. I was completely torn and d... (440 words)

How do I date someone at some point when a male friend still likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - So I have chatted casually to Andy, same age as me, 2 kids too in the pub for a couple of months, just amongst others too. A few months ago i met a guy, Jack, 8 yrs younger than me in there and we txt most days, just asking if we've had a good day. Nothing more. But we spoke a ... (314 words)

We didn't really get together before but how do I get him back again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - If I have turn a guy off in other words dosen't like me anymore..knowing it was both of our fault we stop talking but you want him back beacuse you care and you have no way of getting his attention then how do I get him to like me again???... (50 words)

Whats going on? why is he acting this way? and what does my mate mean when he says he probably hasn't admitted it to himself? is this all because he likes me but is confused??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey ok could you explain this for me please. Basically theres a lad i like and in the past i thought he liked me because he was always staring at me, showing signs and people seemed to act like they knew that he liked me or knew something about us, although he has denyed it to ... (977 words)

Should I move away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

- I really need some help. I cant handle it that Ive been dumped for another woman by a man who I'm hopelessly still in love with. This happened 6 weeks ago and I still feel as much hurt now as I did when I found out. Initially, I did cry loads and lose alot of weight and had ... (332 words)

Should just tell him to drop dead?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I desperately need help before I lose the plot! My boyfriend cheated on me, and when I say cheat I mean he had a full blown relationship with another woman. We broke up for ages talked and finally decided to get back together. But since this happened I am paranoid and annoying. ... (170 words)

Should I pull out now completely (not even friends) and move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5657 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating a guy for five months. He is 32 and I am 27. In the beginning we both wanted to be free and enjoy life and time together without labeling our situation. I warned him that as we progress my feelings could change and I may want to move forward with a commitment. ... (401 words)

I'm afraid of having sex for the first time

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there im in 17 and i always hear about sex nad espashily for the first time and how its painfull and some screemed on that day. in fact after that i became very afraid about it coz i didnt went through this yet and i have a boyfriend everytime i do with him i set down and... (148 words)

How do I get her to stop before I do something stupid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, everyone! ok i have a big problem. im married to a great man who has a child by another women. they had him when they were teenagers and now we are in our early 20's. the childs mother is crazy! my husband didnt have any parental rights {wasnt on birth certificate} so i ... (600 words)

All he wants is oral sex to satisfy himself - what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age - been with my partner for close on ten years ,i have always had to ask for sex and all he wants is oral sex to satisfy himself ,he drinks far to much and we just shout and scream at each other ,i want to leave but my problem is we have property together which was bought with my ... (81 words)

Should I include my child in meeting my boyfriend's parents for the first time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been divorced for 3 years, I have a 5 year old daughter, and i have been dating this guy fr 4 months. We were talking about meeting his parents. He has met my daughter and spent time with us. She adores him! I know his parents are all about family and children. ... (172 words)

What would you do if you caught your partner cheating on you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (?) age 30-35 - What would you do if you caught girlfriend/boyfriend cheating on you ... (15 words)

Is it normal to have sex after one week?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

29 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with a girl for a week and we all ready had sex. Is that normal? She talks openly about it on the phone and I feel comfortable talking about it. She trusts me with some of her secrets and I told her mine because I can trust her. We do stuff together. This ... (360 words)

Should I tell him the truth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

29 September 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend wants to be a writer when he finishes high school. He gave me a few pages to read and it was horrible. I let some of my friends read it too (without him knowing) and agree with me. He wants to know what I think, I just don't have the heart to him. Should I tell him ... (61 words)

How can I deal with rejection. It's really brought me down.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5687 days ago

29 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I wrote about a girl who i thought was interested in me last month and today I finally brought myself to ask her out. When I did, she told me she was already in a serious relationship and so I said it was ok and changed the subject. I've worked with her for almost 6 months ... (193 words)

Should I let him have sex with me even though it hurts after several contacts?

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29 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I'm 15 and ill admit I party so I was completly wasted and me and this guy had sex but were not dating or any thing and I was just wondering HOW MANY TIMES can I have sex and it still hurt because I had to push him back a couple times because it hurt so much and I could tell ... (82 words)

I used to be esteemed, but since I am hanging out with this nerd, things have changed. What to do?

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29 September 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I used to be pretty cool but ive started hanging with this nerd/wierdo, and now everyone thinks of me like him. i still wanna stay his friend though.... (28 words)

He says he feels pressure but I feel like the pressure is on me!!?

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29 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I just got into a relationship with this guy. We were in a friends with benefits situation for months and now we are official. I saw him yestersay,we were supposed to hang out today, but he canceled at the last minute and told me we will hang out later. When he called, i aske... (134 words)

7 weeks pregnant and I started to bleed after fingering, what does thsi mean?

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29 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 7 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend was fingering me and i started to bleed, what does this mean? Did I lose the baby?... (25 words)

Problem with getting wet since I'm on the pill - I'm embarassed to buy a lubrificant though!

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29 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone : ) I have a problem getting wet especially since I've been on the pill. I want to buy lube but I'm embarassed. I'm 18 btw any advice?... (31 words)

We broke up as he wanted to examine his feelings and focus on himself, so we cut all contact! How can I get him back if we don't talk?

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29 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey guys So .. my boyfriend of a year broke up with me month and a half ago. We completely stopped talking and seeing each other. He said, he needed time on his own, to think about his life and focuse on himself. I tried to understand and I do not contact him at all ... I... (293 words)

Why did he ask me if I would marry him if he does not even want to date me?

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29 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am just looking for some advice with a guy I am seeing. I met him 4 months ago, I was 17 and he was 23. At first he was concerned about the age difference, but I turned 18 in August and I figured that would ease him a bit. I don't have a problem with the age at ... (623 words)

I thought he would be ready for casual sex but he started shaking. Why, do you think?

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29 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been sort of dating this guy from Germany. I bumped into a bunch of his friends when I was walking my dog. They were a bunch of law students having orientation. Well I hung out with him a lot more because we got along so well. But I had just found out he was 3 years ... (304 words)

He's 40, we met online and he says he loves me after only two weeks! How can this be possible?

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29 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all, need some advice on a LDR. I am 38 yo woman and 5 yrs out of a long marriage ( and so far dateless) and recently met a 40 yo man online. He lives in the same country (though diff nationality) but is overseas on work contract at present. He seems so sweet and ... (233 words)

I got married because I'm a passive person and go with the flow - I hate the majority of time we spend together, so should I end it?

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29 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been in this relationship for 7 years, we've been living together for the past 4 years, and we just got married this past july. That said, I'm pretty sure I should have never accepted the marriage proposal in the first place. In fact, I didn't even really want to d... (481 words)

Is he just doing this because he wants me to know how he feels or what?

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29 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, i have a huge problem me and this guy talked for 6 months and then starting dating and going steady well i went to a party and i got really drunk and me and his brother kissed and well he found out like 5 months later and we are no longer together but he is all i think ... (126 words)

How do you know when you should get married?

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29 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my boyfried for 4 years and we live together. We have talked about getting married but it still has gone no where. I am 27 and he is 34 I feel like it is time that we move on to the next step in our relationship but now I really don't know if I want to get ... (68 words)

How do I give my boyfriend a blow job?

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29 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i tryed giving my boyfriend a bj and hj but its like im hurting him but yet its not my first time doing this and i have no clue what to do! i want to give him the best cause thats what he does for me but it seems im just hurting him everytime... what should i do?!... (60 words)

I can't get over this one girl!

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29 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i had a relationship of three years with a VERY attractive girl,although a loved her and i know she loved me we were going to have to have a long distance relationship and i felt all we had was a physical relationship..so i ended it.now i can see shes having casual ... (176 words)

My ex suffered a terrible tragedy. How do I support him?

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29 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex suffered a terrible tragedy and now I don't know what to do. My ex of 2 years decided to finally pick up his stuff the weekend before I move (I have been asking for 2 months, he lives 2 hours away and I am moving 1 hr further away). He wanted to get dinner afterward... (398 words)

I can't escape seeing him so what do I do?

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29 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - So, about 9 days ago my boyfriend(we will call him jack)of three months broke up with me and it killed me, and to make it worse it was homecoming. It killed me but I went to homecoming with my 2 best friends. I started talking to jack again and we were just acting the way we ... (173 words)

She wants the relationship a secret and I don't. What now?

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29 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my girlfriend for 5 months now and I knew her for about 7 months before then. We get along really great and we really care about each other. I'm 25 and she's 21. Overall, I'm happy with how our relationship is but there is one thing that I don't like. Initially, ... (520 words)

How do I get over these feelings I have for my friend?

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29 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - About 2 years ago I started having sexual thoughts about a friend. Nothing ever happened, as we're both female, and I wasn't sure what i really felt about her. (up until this point I thought I was straight) The feelings were getting pretty strong, but I knew I would never do ... (353 words)

What dress should I wear for homecoming?

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29 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone i am 14 and i am a freshman in highschool or homecoming dance is in a few weeks i was wondering what kind of dress to wear i dont know if i should wear like a sundress or a fancy dress or what. (I have a dress from last year from my 8th grade semi formal it is a ... (107 words)

Why have I lost my sexual desire?

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29 September 2008 (M) age 51-59 - HI, I wonder if its sound familiar for anybody...I truly believe, that I love my wife, but I lost my sexual interest. I don't know what went wrong.But I don't feel excited about sex at all. Its very much out of character, as I used to be very interested. She is very sexy, an... (160 words)

Our adult son is addicted to drugs and we cannot say no to helping him...how do we cope?

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29 September 2008 (F) age - This about a parenting dilemma. I hope someone can come up with some good advice. My adult son is addicted to drugs. We tried to help him many ways. We never found out ,what happened in his life what made him turn to drugs.. We tried many ways to help,rehab etc. But nothing ... (249 words)

We're 20 year old virgins, who want to keep trying to have sex. Any tips on how we can relax?

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29 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 3 years and we have talked about having sex for a while, last time we tried it hurt me a lot and we haven't tried since. We're both virgins BTW. we are planning to have a weekend alone no room mates, no family, just the two of us. So ... (117 words)

Found out he sent flowers to another female, a long time ago. Should I confront him or just drop it?

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29 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently discovered that the guy i've been with for two and a half years has sent a girl flowers and a teddy to her work office about 6 months into our relationship but he's never done anything like that for me, i found out he had been online chatting to girls so investigated ... (170 words)

Any tips on how to deal with her? Everyone is uneasy and unsure of who she will go after next.

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29 September 2008 (F)

- Hoping the great aunts on this site can give insight. I work with a woman who I admire in many ways...she is extremely smart and has her phd. The issue is that we are all on eggshells around her as she seems to blow up at any opinion that anyone of us has. I suspect that she... (108 words)

He hates my past so he calls me ugly and disgusting! How do I cope with this?

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29 September 2008 (F) age 30-35 - My boyfriend hates my past. Even though it wasn't terrible, I mean most people would think it's mild (the worst I did was give oral sex to a friend once). So yeah, but it bothers him. We were arguing, and he told me how ugly and disgusting I am. He gave me details about my... (324 words)

How can I help my friend to see the real truth?

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29 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My Girlfriend is in a relationship with a guy that is still living with his ex. He swears it is because of the laws in the state he is in. He tells her that he will lose his daughter if he tells his Ex about the current relationship. I think he is full of it, but my friend ... (100 words)

My bf is insisting I give up my chat room friends!

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29 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok.. so here's the problem.. my boyfriend and I fight all the time! one of things that we are constantly arguing about is the fact that i like chat rooms and all that stuff.. he wants me to give up msn and my chat room and leave all the friends that i like.. just cos... (123 words)

Do I confront him about the suggestive text messages, he's sending her?

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29 September 2008 (F)

age - Hi everybody, Thanks for those who replied to my last message.lt was about my husband of 31 years sending sex texts to a woman (18 years younger than me) whom he knows through work but doesn't work on the same premises. When I discovered some very suggestive ones on his phon... (316 words)

What should I do about my friend's boyfriend?

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29 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My friends boyfriend is sexually attracted to me and i dont know what to do? ... (15 words)

When's the earliest for me to tell from some sign that I could be pregnant?

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29 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf have been having unprotective sex once, twice, or more a day, for almost 3 months.. how many days is the earliest for me to tell from some sign that i could be pregnant? -Michelle... (39 words)

I really like my ex bf's buddy! What should I do?

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29 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have decided to end our relationship. It's a mutual decision and we're going to stay friends. We're still together at the moment, because we're sorting thing out first... Anyway, the thing is, I've had a thing for one of his mates for a while. We'll cal... (174 words)

I never though it would get this bad. I'm SUPER SHY! Pleasee help!

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29 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - So I kinda have this problem. I never though it would get this bad. I'm SUPER SHY! I can't start a conversation with anyone! (everyone and anyone) I can't make friends! See, I'm even transfering schools because I have none at my current one. I have a hard time talking to my b... (72 words)

Why are my orgasms not as powerful as they were when I was younger?

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29 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have found in recent years that my orgasms are very faint, and last only a second or 2. I remember when I was younger that orgasms were much stronger and I could feel them all down my legs. They were never longer than a few seconds though (excluding build-up of cour... (80 words)