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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

 

Can you give me some sexy relationship related questions, please?

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20 September 2008 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend calls me on my way home from school every day, and asks me questions about our realionship, and i always run out of questions. Can you give me some sexy relationship related questions.... (36 words

He was playing it 'cool' so I asked, very casually, where I stood with him! I'm confused by his behaviour!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

20 September 2008 (F age 36-40 - i started seeing a guy about six weeks ago, casualy. I met himm for a drink and we got on well, we text a fair bit and i meet him in company maybe once every week and a half or so. I met him through my friend, he is very laid back. i was warned of this by my friend and told ... (321 words

I HATE my best friend's boyfriend, and now the situation has become very complicated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5696 days ago

20 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - This isn't really a "love" question, just wondering what the hell I should do... My (ex) best friend and I've been best friends since our sophomore year of high school - that's three years. We got together with our boyfriends within five months of each other (I got with mine... (380 words

I keep saying to myself that this is how it should be and move on but it really hurts so bad. How do I stop this feeling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

20 September 2008 (F age 51-59 - This is complicated at least to me. I had posted before about being attracted to a younger guy and I'm married. It's more that I really enjoy his friendship and company. The responses were what I thought that i should limit my time with him and concentrate on my marriage... (221 words

What is this 'ball with a hole in it', inside my vagina? Please help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2810 days ago

20 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey me and my boyfriend have been sexually active for around 5 months and weve been together for seven! Where both 16 by the way! Well anyway before we had sex my boyfriend was fingering me quite hard and when he went home i went to the bathroom and noticed i had some blood... (310 words

What does my girlfriend mean? I'm going crazy for her love!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5696 days ago

20 September 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hi,i'm a genial young guy from Ghana Africa,i'm 23yrs, loving,very tenderous,understandin,a laid person and very opened to all people. I was working in a particuler Restaurant and it happened that,i met a Norwagian Tourist who came down to Ghana for Tourism,and she came in ... (317 words

Should I tell my mom my brother watches porn? He's been doing it since he was 12, and is 17 now.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

20 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - HI, I have this problem since my older brother was 12 he started watching porn...since I was a little girl I didnt really understand but while I was getting older he was still doing it. Now he is 17 and I have seem him watching porn almost every day.Im confused is it normal for ... (68 words

My 15-year-old friend is having sex with her 38-year-old uncle! What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - My 15-year-old friend is dating her estranged fathers brother who is 38! They've had sex at least 10 times and she thinks she has fallen in love with him! This is disgusting! It's incest! At her party he was acting all sleazy around her, just rubbing her in really "inap... (219 words

Should I stay with him hoping he'll stop going out so often and for so long with his friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5693 days ago

20 September 2008 (F age 41-50 - I've been with my partner for 3yrs and have a one year old baby, my partner goes out 3 or 4 times a week for hours with his friends sometimes doesn't come home for days and will never answer his phone if I try to contact him, he almost missed the birth of our baby because I ... (129 words

Can producing too much semen be a problem?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

20 September 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hi all, I've been told a few times now that I ejaculate quite a lot of semen/sperm, so I started to read about it and discovered that the average man ejaculates about 2-6 ml of semen. I did my own little test (with an old medicine cup!) and my measurement of my semen ... (86 words

I know I must resolve this situation, either cut the woman I love out of my life or leave my wife. I don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

20 September 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hello, I have been married for 12 years, and have been in love with another woman for 7 of those years. I do not have any children. A year ago I "came clean" with both my wife and the woman I love, neither of whom had known previously how I felt. I feel miserable in my ma... (252 words

Should I try this program and live in my ex's country?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

20 September 2008 (F age 41-50 - i was with my long distance bf for about 6 years or so.. i had applied for the live in caregiver program in canada to help me obtain residency in the country. But we broke up.. I called him a name and did some things out of judgement that burned his pockets so he left. I have ... (217 words

Marriage issue - I don't know how to deal with this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

20 September 2008 (F age 51-59 - I dont know how to deal with what I feel is a problem and my husband doesnt want to discuss it. Met my hubby when I was 20, he was my first boyfriend I fell in love almost instantly and have loved him ever since (thats 16 years so far), I know he loves me too and we do alot for... (466 words

Why do I think like this, about her past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

20 September 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hello, i am one very confused person. Basically i met this girl over 2 years ago and we fell in love and are engaged everything was great with us until we started talking about her history. We never talked about it much before, always figured she hated it and didn't want ... (536 words

Should I wreck their relationship so I can have him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

20 September 2008 (F age 26-29 - ok so there is this boy and we are both 13 he is my nextdoor nieghbor! I really like him and he flirts with me all the time. even my parents like him but he has a girfriend and i want to go out with him so bad it makes me feel so sad when i see them together or just the thought ... (73 words

My boyfriend's 4 year-old sister hates me and I got mad at him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

20 September 2008 (? age 30-35 - I been with my boyfriend for awhile (almost a year.) But his sister (who's only 4) hates me. One day when I went over to his house. He couldn't answer the door so his sister answer it. And cover me with silly string (he saw the whole thing.) I pretty much ignore her when I am ... (84 words

These flashbacks and nightmares that remind me of the rape are geting out of control, how do I stop them?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

20 September 2008 (F age 26-29 - When I was 11 almost 12 years old I was raped. Im a very strong person when it comes to bad things happening to me and alot of things have but I wont name them all or we would be here for days. anyway Iv always had the mind set that everything happends for a reson and theres no ... (153 words

Am I going through a phantom pregnancy, is that possible at my age?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

20 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - hey, I'm Fifteen years old. recently i have gone through a bit of an emotional upheaval so to speak :P the guy im in love with had sex with another. i also got drunk and kissed a guy. Recently i've been feeling a bit ill my symptoms are : naseua, Headaches, i sometimes feel ... (227 words

He went to work and just never came back! I am heartbroken...please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

20 September 2008 (F age - My Husband went to work 2 weeks ago and has never come back. We've been married 14 months and I really didn't see this coming. I cracked my hip in Feb and it has left me with back problems. 3 weeks ago I was admitted to hospital again and when the nurse rang him up he told her ... (186 words

What exactly does it mean when a guy says "I care about you"? Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

20 September 2008 (F age 36-40 - What does it mean if a man says he cares about you? Does that mean he is really into you? And what if he says this when he is holding you (and you two have been "sexual" before but have not had sex yet, and he says he IS NOT expecting sex), does this mean he may genuinely care ... (88 words

Just lost my virginity..so what's this piece of skin hanging in my vagina area?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

20 September 2008 (F age 36-40 - I just lost my virginity, and i was bleeding heavily as soon as we did it. We stopped but i was still bleeding. I noticed the next day that there was about an inch long piece of skin just hanging on my vagina. what is it? And how do i get rid of it without my parents knowing?... (58 words

Does this older guy just want sex or could he really be interested in a relationship with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

20 September 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am interested in a older man. He is 32 and I am 21. I like him a lot and he says he likes the chase but, we have walls up between each other that we have discussed we have because we are both scared (we both told each other we were scared). I am scared though because I feel ... (181 words

Career decision...should I intern in the 'fashion industry' before I go to college?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

20 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi Agony Aunts :] First off how are you? You know whats up? :D I totally doubt this is the right place to ask but I really want to go to FIT or LIM, or maybe both if that is possible. But, I want to be able to intern my senior year when the school lets us. Does anybody kno... (173 words

How do I know if she's interested in increasing sexual intimacy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5696 days ago

20 September 2008 (M age 41-50 - My situation involves my old high school sweetheart. In jr. high school I met her and thought she was cute. We became friends and had a lot fun. In high school we dated. I went to the high school prom with her and we had a fun time. We wanted to take our relationship further, ... (311 words

Is a massage a good way to get her to feel good about having sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

20 September 2008 (M age 41-50 - I have met a very attractive woman who is 5 years older than me. We hit it off and have done some fun activities together. We had some good time to talk about each other and our lives. Seeing how beautiful she is I have thought about what she might be like in bed. I would ... (366 words

Will our differences and the fact I don't miss her tear us apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

20 September 2008 (M age 41-50 - My fiance and I have been engaged for 7 months now. We have been together for 3 years and haved lived about all but 9 months of those 3 years together. When we first met I told her I had every intention of moving back home (1800 miles away) soon as work permitted. So with a ... (400 words

Do you think she'll give me a chance even though she has a boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5696 days ago

20 September 2008 (M age 30-35 - So there is this girl that i am in love with. She knows i like her and she has shown signs of liking me. However she has had a boyfriend for about 4 years now. She has given me clues that one day hey may break up and hopefully if that happens i will get my chance with her. ... (209 words

Is love dead?

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20 September 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hi all, Basically I know that there are two 'schools' of love nowadays. One of which is the traditional one, the other is the modern, game-like type of love. [Traditional] It involves things like: 1). Being sincere 2). Persistence 3). Doing things for the one you... (355 words

How do I get him back? I have heard he's not happy with his girlfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

20 September 2008 (F age 36-40 - i met a great guy in july and we stating seeing each other, we had five great days together. than i had to go home and neither of us wanted me to go home. we were really happy and than i went out one nite and a old friend starting being nasty to me about him and saying hurtful ... (181 words

How should I behave around her at work when she gives me such mixed behavior?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

20 September 2008 (M age 51-59 - I was seeing a girl I work with for two years. I found out but chance she was up to something with another guy from work. I ask no questions and walk away. This happened in January 08. Weeks later I had tears saying it was all a mess I help but ask no questions. I then start to ... (687 words

Why won't she give me a straight answer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5570 days ago

20 September 2008 (M age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I Have Been In This Relationship for almost 5 years, We Have A Little Girl That Is 3 Me And Her mother Have Split several times Like 5 In The Last 4 years, i Will admit i am very insecure person because of past relationships(being cheated on). This Has Had a... (374 words

I'm afraid I'm addicted to my ex! Is there anything I can do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5696 days ago

20 September 2008 (M age 30-35 - I dated the girl since my senior year in high school. She was a sophomore at the time. I went to college about 30 minutes away from our hometown so I came back most weekends to see her. After 2 years, she broke it off because she didn't want to do the long distance thing. I am ... (428 words

Where did I go wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5696 days ago

20 September 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have a guy friend who ive been friends with for two years.He was always there for me,giving me advice when i needed it wnd we'd hang out from time to time. I went thru a horrilble breakup in feb and he was there for me through that too. About two months ago,he told me he fe... (216 words

I keep getting the signals wrong. How can I stop this happening?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5696 days ago

20 September 2008 (M age - I have been using the same hairdresser for nearly two years now. She is very beautiful and about 10-15 years younger than me. I have always appreciated her beauty but never thought more of it until recently. A few months ago, she started asking indirect questions about my... (282 words

Would I be making a mistake to marry her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

20 September 2008 (M age 51-59 - I will be marrying my fiance next year. I have discovered that in her past she had an abortion, had an affair with a married man and had sexual relations with several other guys. She also has the tendency to lie. She says she has changed but sometimes she acts as though she ... (94 words

Do I get my hopes up on thinking he has changed his mind or was it just the drink talking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

20 September 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi this is my first time on DearCupid so i am sorry if my question is too long but i need to get some opinions on my situation please. Where to start, well my boyfriend and i have been together for just over 7 months now. The thing is i have a bad habit of getting my hopes up... (287 words

I turned him down, my mate now has him and now I want him again. How do I get him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5696 days ago

20 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - Im in love with some that i thought i would never fall in love with, i had to the chance to go out with him but i turned it down because i denied liking him to all my friends and i didnt wont to prove i did love him.but the problem is now he's going after my best mate, and hes ... (327 words

What can you do to get someone locked away for sexually abusing your daugthers?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

20 September 2008 (F age 51-59 - The System, The World and People are so screwed up!! What do you do in a situation when you know 2 children have been sexually abused, without a doubt, and the abuser is "unfounded"/not guilty. It's sad when I can't get the information I need to persue this further. If I ha... (310 words

What constitutes a healthy sex life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

20 September 2008 (F age 41-50 - what is a healty sex life? How many times should you have it? When you don't feel like you are getting enough sex or feel rejected when you try to make the first move does it mean he is not interested in you?... (43 words

Why does he ignore me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5696 days ago

20 September 2008 (F age 51-59 - i am married and my friend is married too. my instinct tells me he likes me but sometimes he totally ignores me. All i really want is his friendship. He seems more intimate when we text and shies away from me or is more formal, when we see each other in person. Our childr... (140 words

He has no respect for girls who show a lot of skin. How can he say that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

20 September 2008 (F - Me and my bf are both 19 and I feel that there is alot of inconsistencies in what my bf does and says. My bf has posters on his bedroom wall of half naked women. This really offends me. I find it degrading and disgusting and whenever I go over his house I have to be subje... (539 words

I'm in the army and she is at uni, do you think our LDR is going to work? The love is so strong every time we see each other again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

20 September 2008 (M age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 and a half years, since we were 16. this summer i joined the army, things were getting a little difficult but we battled through it. i came back on leave and a few days later she left for uni, since then i have struggled like mad, i ... (110 words

I want him back but he wants to be left alone. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

20 September 2008 (F age 36-40 - Im not sure where to start! My husband and I seperated last November, we have a four year old daughter together. We had the most stressful year - id had an ectopic pregnancy and was finding it very difficult to deal with and in the end I asked him to leave. I felt that we... (896 words

What do I do about the church guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5696 days ago

20 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - this is a typical question i'm afraid but i'm just totally stumped on what to do. i have recently dumped my boyfriend because he was getting way too grippy, i mean he was talking bout getting married and he was sending me wedding vows off of random websites and just so you ... (244 words

Is it his problem ? Or is it mine? I can't give him my full trust and he thinks this is a bad sign in a relationship.

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20 September 2008 (F age 36-40 - hi their just wondering on peoples point of view on this. me and my bf are in a long distance relationship have been for 4 months now, we new each other before this..hes very kind caring reliable and loving..my trust is something very hard to gain because of past problems, b... (223 words

My boyfriend doesn't believe I lost my virginity to him and thinks I've deceived him all this time. How can I convince him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

20 September 2008 (? age 30-35 - My boyfriend doesn't believe that I lost my virginity to him. But I did. One, he knows that I gave oral sex to a friend (no longer a friend actually) years ago. Two, I lied to him about this. But of course I came clean, that's why he knows. But this makes him not trust me. ... (277 words

I wake up feeling miserable and my chest hurts. What is it, and how can I avoid it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 September 2008 (M age 30-35 - Do you ever wake up feeling angry or miserable? This morning, like many mornings, I woke up in a sort of "I just don't care" sort of mood. Also, there's this sort of... tight feeling in my chest, which worries me. What is this?? I got probably just over 7 hours sleep, so i... (159 words

Can I ever be as close to him again after such a massive blow to our friendship ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5696 days ago

20 September 2008 (? age 26-29 - my best friend in lads is the closet thing i have to a brother . when he promises me things, - he normally keeps them . a while ago he promised me he would never take drugs or turn to them , i said that i wouldnt speak to him if he did . recently he told me he was on skunk an... (205 words

We both always agreed that we never wanted kids. But now I'm pregnant and getting an abortion, he's changed his mind!? What is going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

20 September 2008 (F age 36-40 - I'm in a relationship with a great guy we've been together for over 2 years now and have had relatively few problems (well every couple has their share but nothing worth breaking up over!)... until now!! Now I have a very big problem! See, neither of us ever want to have chi... (700 words

Was he really too drunk to remember or was he just scared?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

20 September 2008 (F age 36-40 - I had a friend with benefits for about three years. He knew I was madly in love with him, but he didn't seem to care much back then. He was your typical young sexy blonde hair blue eye guy, and I was the girl next door type of person. I finally quit seeing him about six years ... (202 words

He got drunk and made out with another girl. Do I give him a second chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

20 September 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and me went a bar together. Well he end up getting drunk off his a$$ (I don't really drink.) I went to the bathroom. I get back and he was making out another girl. I did took him home before he do something more stupid. My question is Should I dump him or I sh... (85 words

I get so insecure when he talks about other girls ever since I caught him flirting with girls on MSN!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

20 September 2008 (? age 30-35 - I've been seeing my boyfriend for about 5 months now and we're normally really close. I love him and he loves me. A couple or weeks ago I found some of his msn conversations and it seemed like he was lining up more girls. I asked him about it and he apologised and uninstalled ... (204 words

Why does she update me about her life if we are over? The reason of our fight is very small. Do I keep calling her when she never picks up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5696 days ago

20 September 2008 (M age 41-50 - From time to time, my gf and I have a fight. Every time it happened, she dump me and we get back together after few days. This time is no exception but I feel it is quite different from the past fights and I am confused. Usually, during the fight, doesn't matter who start... (470 words

Is my boyfriend going to propose? He took me to see wedding rings, booked us at a very nice restaurant, etc.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

20 September 2008 (? age 30-35 - Hey it Just2Love...but i changed everything to Made2Love... What should i do if Vincent asks me to marry him? The first ring was out of love and surprize. Days ago he took me out to look at more rings... but i kept looking at other stuff. But he kept pulling me to t... (157 words

I am ashamed that we are hurting both of our spouses but no matter how hard I try I cannot give him up. Your thoughts? Do you think he'll leave his wife?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

20 September 2008 (F age 41-50 - My lover said he wants to leave his wife to marry me but keep her as a a business partner. Do you think that he is just keeping her around because he is afraid to let go of her completely? We have been having an emotional affair for about 2 years. About three months ago... (223 words

What do I do if I want to marry my fiance but he's technically married to someone else?

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20 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - What do I do if I want to get married Now to my Fiance but he is still techinally married to someone else? ... (23 words

I made fun of my Indian friend's lack of fashion sense and he's very offended, will he forgive me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5697 days ago

20 September 2008 (F age 36-40 - My good friend (male) and I were teasing each other and I made fun of his lack of fashion sense (brown belt and black pants), and I called him a "dork". He took great offense and hasn't spoken to me for a week. I apologized every day, and then he said he forgave me, but still ... (76 words

My LD boyfriend broke up with me. I'm thinking of transferring my uni from Australia to the USA just to risk it for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5697 days ago

20 September 2008 (F age 36-40 - I was in an online relationship for almost 4 years that has came to an end recently. The guy is in the US and I live across the other side of the world. We didn't get to meet but were very much deeply in love with each other. We're both still virgins. We had believed that we ... (467 words

He's eight years my senior. Advice on bringing this up to our families?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

20 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - After half a year of being single and actively NOT looking for a relationship, I find myself involved with a guy again. Unlike most guys my own age, he's smart and has his sh*t together--own car, (stable) real job, etc. Here's the problem: I'm 20 and he's 28. I personally find ... (157 words

Why did he let her use his phone to send me rude texts?

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20 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey dearcupid..this is my first time here..but I just thought of this situation..and it always bothers me because I really don't get it..Oh gosh where do I start..firstly I want to start off by saying that I am completely over this guy even though he once ripped my self esteem ... (459 words

I was depressed, my best friend moved away and I grew apart from my other friends. I tried to integrate in their circle but they exclude me. How can I try to get them back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

20 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - high school came, and things changed, what do i do please help!!! Hi, well in 7th grade i had the funnest time it was "the year" but when i got into 8th it was horrible, i was drpressed, my best friend moved away and me and my other friends grew apart,and when the summer came ... (113 words

I was wondering if some college girls could give me some tips on getting closer with girls?

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20 September 2008 (M age 30-35 - almost 19 year guy...started college...never had a girlfriend cuz i get really nervous and shy around them...i've been working on approaching people in general more and being more social...im getting an ok response... im not that great looking to be honest but i dress pret... (177 words

I had sex with another guy when my boyfriend left on vacation. Now I want a second chance, how to convince him?

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20 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've fallen for this guy.. again. We use to best friends, I can still recall on everything we ever did together, all the secrets we use to share. He was like family to me, I couldn't of asked for someone better in my life. Well this was all up until late June 08. Everything w... (326 words

He embarassed me by getting drunk. Should I dump him or I should give him another chance again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5696 days ago

20 September 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and me went a bar together. Well he end up getting drunk off his a__ (I don't really drink.) I went to the bathroom. I get back and he was dancing on the table. It so embarrassing having to get off the table well everyone was looking at us. I did took him home ... (100 words

Are there guys out there who can like my body (I'm very tall and somewhat overweight) and focus on my personality?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

20 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - okay um Im 15 and I really hate my body, Im 6 foot so it's really awkward im taller than everyone... and im big boned, im a little overweight but nothing big, i hate my legs and my stomach and upper arms, Im always wearing dark clothes and hoodies cause I hate my body so ... (211 words

Please can you tell me why I have this fear of kissing?

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20 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi umm.. my problems is that i have a fear of kissing. i dont really know why. ive had boyfriends before but of course it doesnt last long because i cant kiss them. i really dont know what to do.it seems like when when my lips become close to theirs i get a very nervous ... (104 words

I finally found my lost love after 16 years, but he's married? What do you think is the best thing I should do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

20 September 2008 (F age 51-59 - I just recently found a man i was in love with back in high school, and still in love with after. We were together for four years even after he moved away. He then moved back after high school graduation so we could be together. The thing is, the relationship never ended on o... (200 words

It's been 4 years and I love him so much, but he's messed with my head! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

20 September 2008 (F - Im really stuck. Iv loved someone for 4 years now. He used to like me too. but then messed me around, saying he liked me, then I would do things with him, then he would shoo me off and say he didn't like me. He said he liked me more than a girl, then he asked that girl out. One ... (269 words

My lover and I are trying sex in different places. What information/advice do you have?

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20 September 2008 (F age 41-50 - My lover and I are trying sex in different places. What information/advice do you have about sex in a spa/bath tub? What sex positions work well for sex in a spa/bath tub? What are some fun things that can be done as part of spa/bath tub sex? What information/advi... (85 words

Do other straight males masturbate to other males sometimes?

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20 September 2008 (M age 36-40 - I am interested in girls and I can never picture myself with a boy in real life. When I masturbate, I sometimes think about other males (all the males I have thought about are my friends). I sometimes masturbate to pictures of my male friends, some of the pictures with th... (92 words

My bf and I broke up and now his best friend seems interested. But I'm not sure..what do you think?

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20 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok this is a bit of a complicated story which I really could do with advice on. About 2 weeks ago I broke up with the guy I had been seeing for a month - who we shall call Harry. We'd been very good friends before hand but the relationship just didn't work. Although this ... (530 words

Is my hubby cheating on me with her? Am I being paranoid or taken for a mug?

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20 September 2008 (F age 51-59 - Ok hubbie cheated and told me, ive forgiven and all but forgotten, 2 years ago. Then out of the blue local bike gives me evils, stares at hubbie etc etc. I call his bluff and tonight, last minute he takes me to pub. Normal for a friday but SHE is there, NOT normal for a fr... (134 words

He will have to move with his parents, if they go...how do I convince the folks to stay put?

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20 September 2008 (F age 51-59 - my boyfriend lives just down the road from me. He used to live like 30 min away. But his parents are thinking about moving farther away like 15 min or even back to lebanon which is 30 min away. i really love him and he really loves me, but how do i convince my boyfriends really ... (67 words

Unhappily married female needs help to know if it's time to give up.

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20 September 2008 (F age 30-35 - my husband and i have only been married almost a year and i have promblems getting him to do household chores(clean up after himself, dishes, find his own clothes, etc.). i've told him that if he couldn't start helping that i would leave, but when i actually tell him to leave i ... (107 words

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