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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I a bad person because I either want everything or nothing at all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

14 September 2008 (M) age 51-59 - I've been moved reassigned from LDR to "friend" and she can't understand why my attitude towards her has changed. She's been hinting at it for a couple weeks now by telling me what she wants in a man (none of which I am) and the other night she told me exactly the kind of guy ... (120 words)

He broke up with me, but it's like nothing has changed. Does he still like me or is he just being nice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - im confused. i went out with this guy 4 2 months.he moved away about 3 weeks after asking me out but 2 a neiboring town. about a week b4 school started he broke up with me.he said he was coming bac 2 town 4 1 day and he said were he was going like he wanted me to go there and ... (125 words)

It turns me on to think of my girlfriend having sex with other guys! What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

14 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hello cupid site. i am 19 a male and i have been dating my gf for a good amount of time now. i dont know what to say but i have a really odd question. we broke up before and got back together but for some reason it turned me on so bad to think about her having sex with other ... (227 words)

Is he losing interest in me? He has trouble staying erect...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 23 years old and engaged to a man who is 30. We have been together for 4 years and have had a good sex life until recently. About a month ago we start having problems, where my sex drive is a lot higher than his and he is not satisfying me. Yestreday we had sex twice in ... (118 words)

He acts like we are a couple even though he has a girlfriend! Does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. Right, I'll start at the beginning. I'm 15, very nearly 16, a Christian, and go to church. There is a big youth group there, and the minister's children go to this. They are L, 23, R, 21, N, 17, and C, 13. My problem is with R. He's got a girlfriend, B, who... (768 words)

If my ex is not the real father, is it wrong to have a relationship with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i was with my ex boyfriend for a year and 7 months. i broke up with him because my mom doesnt approove of his age, since he is 24 and im only 17. i immediatly got into another relationship, and accidently got pregnent. i am now 4 months pregnent, and still talk to my ex daily... (109 words)

Having a girlfriend is stressful for him right now so how should I support him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. We have a healthy and supportive relationship. We don't really fight much. I've helped him through his academy. He's helped me through school for the past year. When the program for school starts, the plan is for us to move ... (493 words)

I can't seem to find other girls that even compare to my ex! It's depressing...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

14 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - A couple of months back I met MY perfect girl, it was an utter freak to find such a match. Her age, rare interests, personality and passions were also mine. We are both known to be extremely thoughtful and nice people, though me being pretty damn shy. Her body, character and ... (374 words)

My desire for a relationship is strong but I think my size is an issue! How can I overcome this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

14 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have posted questions previously about how I worry about how my appearance will affect my relationships in the future. Quick reminder - I am nineteen years old, six foot dark hair blue eyes. My close female friends say I'm sweet and kind and lovely. I'm also consider... (411 words)

Am I being selfish for wanting him to pleasure me? Should he always use a condom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 7 months. We have taken it slow and respect each other sexually; we are still virgins as well but I am on birth control and we are working on sex (he's too be for me). When we fool around though, it always seems that I end up ... (142 words)

What can I do to have my partner touch my G spot?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - What can I do to have my partner hit my g spot and make me cum... (16 words)

I am seeing and sleeping with a married man! Why am I such an awful person to have gotten myself into this situation? What should I do? What does this tell about me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need to ask a complete third party about this because I can't ask anyone I know. Im feeling horrendous guilt and I don't know why I do the things I do. I really don't. I have a good career and 14 months ago I started a new job and became very close friends with ... (611 words)

I have a friend I like, and I feel threatened by this female friend of his, what do yous uggest that I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am currently in the friendship stages with a nice guy who lives in staffordshire we get on well and have met once.He has several female friends one of which he is visiting at the moment, he says there is nothing sexual between them. She has just split up with a guy and it s... (143 words)

He found someone else after 7 years, now we are back together but we fight often; he lives in a rented home instead of staying at mine. Any hope for us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been in relationship for 9 years. He broke up with me after 7 only to find out he was trying relationship with someone else. started dating again, then about 5 months ago saw text from another girl, he said nothing happened just flirting got carried away. Now we fight ... (104 words)

He golfs every weekend and I am tired of feeling lonely at the end of the week!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a live in boyfriend of 2 years who golfs every weekend without any thought of me. If I ask what's up, he becomes irate and tells me I am a control freak and he doesn't need permission. I am tired of being lonely, any suggestions?... (47 words)

What is this brown stain in my underwear a week before my period is due?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys, well friday afternoon; just as i came back from school i went to the toilet and noticed a brown stain in my underwear - ive started my period since a year and half - and im not due till about 7 days - but no brown stuff is appearing anymore. what is this? im n... (76 words)

My husband of 20 years has a very low sex drive compared to mine, I'm starting to feel resentful and worry this is the end!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I've been married for nearly 20 years. I love him to bits and cant wait for him to come in and I know the feelings mutual. He's kind and caring towards me and my three children (aged 18, 16 and 15). My only problem is (if you can call it a problem?) he has a very low sex ... (181 words)

Scared to tell him I love him in case he doesn't say it back, and I don't know how to tell him either.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya, You'll probably think me silly for writing about this but i feel so miserable. Been with my boyfriend for a while now, i am so so happy we've both met each others family and all that stuff the problem is im falling in love with him and it scares the hell out of me! Ive ... (160 words)

Men do seek me but they only want sex. This guy wants emotional bonding with me but at his terms. Do you think he's taking me for granted?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a separated woman in a relationship with a separated man.Both of us dont want to get back in our tragic marriages. He is the shy types and i am a hard die romantic but both of us like each other as we are simple honest people. I have met all his friends but he has not yet ... (410 words)

While I am in a long term relationship, I am aggrieved that my sex buddy is getting attached to me and not respecting our deal!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i got involved with a guy on a purly physical bases, we where both very attracted to each other and i was in a long term relationship that i have no intention of leaving. i know its not ideal but we both were in tune and understanding of the situation. for a year it was grea... (210 words)

Hardcore making out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 22 and im not actually sure what the term hardcore making out is.......One of my friends said they like to do the hardcore making out before before hand leading into the hot and heavy stuff. So im not quiet sure what hardcore making out is... Can anyone fill me in ple... (64 words)

Is it normal for me, as a female, to enjoy watching porn?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, I am just wondering if I am normal, or this situation is normal. Well, I have been in a relationship with my fiance for nearly three years and I have always looked at porn on the internet. He does not know this, nor will I tell him because I am actually embarrassed ... (186 words)

He loves me but can't hurt the other...what can I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5700 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello . :) I've not long split up with my boyfriend. I said to him that i wanted a break because he was away on holiday for 2 week's and i was getting invited to party's and i reaaly wanted to go to them. So, i said can we go on a brake. I wasn't going to these pa... (200 words)

I want us to last but we argue alot and he seems to still want to be with his wife.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am confused.ive been dating my boyfriend for almost a year. He is still married but seperated and has kids.I love him but we have alot of money problems and we argue alot. I also think he still gets together with his wife and im not sure i can live with that. Why does he ... (72 words)

Should we break the law and date if we are really in love??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, I'm only 13 years old and theres this guy; hes 17. I went out with him at the beginning of the summer then we broke up cause we didnt want to get in trouble and im still in love with him. I think about him 24 7 and i recently found out he likes me still also and i found... (153 words)

My girlfriend left me today and I am sad. How long do I wait before I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

14 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I met a girl little under 4 weeks ago, and since that time, we spent almost every evening with eachother. Today she had to move away to a new job, effectively putting an end to our "relationship". We plan to stay in touch, which I think is a nice idea, and a testimony ... (241 words)

I'm a teen cheating on my boyfriend with a man in his 40's. Is this wrong?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok well this is kinda supper coplicated so i'll try to just keep it simple. im 15 and i have a bf thats 16 i live in florida but hes now moved all the way to oregon. but i still love him. now theres this guy that ive known for a while and really liked but hes 41 and i was ... (206 words)

How do I get my boyfriend to hate his mum?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i love my boyfriend to death..everytime hes in my house he asks like himself.but wen he is at his house next to his mom he totally changes..he acts like he is big..not by weight..but by attitude. i hate when he does dat..also i dont let him look and talk 2 other girlz..a... (155 words)

My bestfriend's sweet on this guy. Did I give her the right advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5699 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my best friend were talking today about this guy shez been sweet on for ages. She has a little baby and the father of this kid is a hypermaniac. They have split. But i think this new guy ill call dan is perfect for her. Im just wondering did i give her the right advice. ... (118 words)

How do I cope with his cheating and our break-up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my now ex for over 5 years and he has told me that he cheated on me two days ago. I have split up and am moving out at the moment. He is still on his holidays where it all happened. I was suspecting him that he wanted to cheat for a long time and I have rea... (197 words)

Shoud I ask her out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

14 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi Dear Cupid, I feel that I am a bit lost at the moment. I met a girl at uni last year and we became really good friends, we would hang out together almost everyday and talk to each other everynight online. I became really attracted to her and wish I had asked her out. O... (402 words)

How Can I learn to Trust Men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for several years with this guy. We have a home and a child together. We talk often of marriage, but I am apprehensive because I have a trust issue. Years ago we had a rough patch I suspected he cheated on me( kinda broke into his cell phone ... (146 words)

Will my bf's obsession with america cost me the man I love???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i realy couldnt love my bf of 9 months anymore than what i do but i also cant help but pick silly fight with him and its tearing us apart. the thing is he is hoping to move to america in feb to go to uni and has tols me that if he gets offered a decent job he wont come bk. im ... (207 words)

Am I too old for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - help i like a lad who i have known for over a year who is 14, he has told my best friend that he likes me but i am 19 what shall i do am i too old!?... (38 words)

What should I say? Does he like me? How should I approach him? Please help I feel like I am going insane!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

14 September 2008 (?) age 30-35 - In January I met somebody who I was not particularly interested in - at the time I was hopelessly 'in love' with my married art teacher whose wife is now pregnant. He was 17 at the time and I was 14. We went on a theatre trip together and he seemed and he seemed to pursue me ... (1258 words)

What should you do when your boyfriend makes a pass at your friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - what should you do when a boyfriend makes a pass at a good friend... (14 words)

I have depression and don't want sex - it's causing arguments!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi,i lost my sex drive due to depression and its really upsetting my boyfriend as he really wants it ad i can't give it and its causing arguments everyday,what should i do?... (32 words)

He's been using his ex for sex and cheating on me - should I forgive him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - can i move on and trust my boyfriend again? before i started dating my boyfriend he was in a two year relationship with another girl who goes to my 6th form( me, my boyfriend and his ex all go to the same very small school). when they broke up she took it really hard, its... (376 words)

I was masturbating and urine was mixed with cum....should I be worried??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

14 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - When i was masterbating earlier today, i reached orgasm and started cumming. This was normal however i also started urinating at the same time so it was both cum and urine. I thought that this was not meant to happen becasue your urine thing is cut off or something. I'm really ... (87 words)

How can I subtly hint I like him too??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so im going to sound like such a loser but oh well. I am 15 and go to an all girls school, and i have a few good guy friends but not that many although ive got off with a few people at parties when ive been drunk i havent had a serious boyfriend before theres this guy at ... (132 words)

How can I deal with my lonely long distance boyfriend??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Everyone, Need good advices from you all beautiful people here. My long distance bf and I were 2 yrs now and yet am still dealing when he gets lonely. Though we haven't met yet but planning before end of this year. Were both busy with our careers but my problem is I need... (307 words)

A married old flame is back in touch....should I do this??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age - Should I do this? An old married flame of mine has contacted me again. I know that I should walk away from him and not go down this route again (I am also married) but my heart is saying to give him another chance. He told me the reason he walked away was he felt he was fall... (150 words)

My best friend thinks I am depressed and should go to the doctors...should I??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Am I depressed? My best friend says I am, and have been for the last three years out of the five he has known me. He says he knows, because he's had severe depression before. He's been to councelling and got better for it about a year ago. Supposedly, he recognises a lot... (333 words)

I'm waiting for something bad to happen in my (seemingly) perfect life and it's agonising, please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Right here it go's, sorry if its long! Im 16, a model for elite modelling, and ive always been lucky in life, my life has always been very comfortable money wise and ive never had to worry about anything. Im considered very good looking and have never been unlucky with the... (687 words)

I am willing to accept my hubby's son (product of his affair), but now comes the hard part: telling our daughter that he exists. Not to mention my depression! Help me with my emotions!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband has another child as a result of an affair, she (the mother) wants him to walk away from his son, he does not want to do that. I personally don't know how anyone could ever expect that of another human being (especially one that they supposedly love). I am will... (252 words)

I don't know if he ever liked me but I have this feeling that he did, because of all his hints. Is there a chance he still does?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've known this guy just over 10 years (since high school, we're both 25 now). Back at school we used to flirt all the time and we went to the school dance together but nothing ever happened between us. At school I had this stupid crush on an older guy and he knew about it. ... (288 words)

Men and multiple orgasms?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a question one of my friends claimed to have given head to some guy and got him to cum 3 times in the same session. she said she just swallows and keeps going. she told me it was longest about 50 mins. im wondering if that is possible because as far as i know a guy goe... (110 words)

Ex staring at me! Does he still like me or was he just sizing me up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i met my ex at a club about two weeks ago. it had been a long time since we saw or spoke to each other. We said hi and hugged, but everytime we came across each other, he would stare at me. When i'd look back he wouldn't turn his eyes away. I caught him scanning me too. So I ... (101 words)

I lied to make it seem I was thinking about her, she's mad, I want to fix it because I'm in love with her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

14 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i went out with this girl who i was madly in love with and she broke up with me and went back to her ex who treated her very poorly. she now left her ex in hopes of going back out with me but i messed it up. one night we were talking on the phone and i made up a story of a girl ... (125 words)

Should I try and show him I care or wait until he next texts me??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello...i've been talking to this guy that I met online.One day we were talking about relationships online.Then he just wrote a message that said that him and his girlfrirnd broke up and he gave me his number. I texted his phone to let him know I had his number.Then we just sta... (184 words)

I want to get pleasure myself but don't want to make her do anything she doesn't want too.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

14 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay me and my girl friend have been going out for two months. I have started to finger her more often but I never get pleasure myself. I want to but I don't want to make her do anything she doesn't want. I talked to her and she doesn't know and shes never been in a relation... (281 words)

My parents think it's wrong for me to date a black guy, is this racist?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4136 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My mom and dad are soo protective. i like this black guy...alot and he likes me. but my parents think it is wrong for a white girl to date a black boy. i think thats racsism. but me and this boy have been talking for a year and we tell each other that we love each other but li ... (93 words)

I'm hot for my cousin's husband and I'm much prettier than her! Should I avoid him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 21 years old and I have a cousin living in the same city with me. My cousin's husband, who's 30, is a very sweet guy and I always feel he's too good for my cousin. I had a crush on him ever since I met him, and I think he has feelings for me too... because although my ... (222 words)

She's against me going down on her or fingering her. How can I boost her confidence?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

14 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, really needing some advice, I've been with my girlfriend for 3 months now and she is happy to give me head and says she will have sex soon if i want it but she is very against me giving her head and/or fingering her and won't tell me why. We are both in our late teens a... (278 words)

How do I tell him about my weight? He needs to know before he meets me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone, Sorry if my question is a tad cheesy and confusing but I could really use your help. I was on one of those chat lines tonight and met a wonderful guy who lives an hour away from me. He's the sweetest guy I've talked to in a long time. We connected almost i... (218 words)

Should I ask him if he's seeing other girls? He said he's not ready for a commitment.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing this guy for awhile now but he's long distance and we only see each other about once a month. He told me at the beginning that he's not in a place in his life to commit to anyone and I said ok but we still go out and things have gotten physical. I was thi... (128 words)

Does anyone have advice regarding job seekers allowance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

14 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am claiming Job seekers Allowance. In April, i moved out my moms an moved into my girlfriends, however my girlfriend is in a relationship with her husband. I haven't told the Job centre that iv moved in with my girlfriend, i have told the however i have changed address. ... (147 words)

How does a player act when he finally falls in love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2382 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age - Does anyone out there know how a "player" acts when he finally falls in love? I think I'm being pursued by one who in the past has had women pursuing him. I really need to know the answer to this question because it will help me decide what I need to do.... (54 words)

Is my mental health damaging my relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm worried that my mental health issues are affecting my relationship with my boyfriend. He's very, very supportive, loving and kind, and he encourages me to talk about my feelings - he's even told me to phone him, no matter what time of day or night, if something's both... (200 words)

This guy won't break up with his girlfriend because of his obligations to her! What now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. i am in a fix. i love this guy and well..he has this gf who loves him as well,and he cant really leave her because she helped him out of a real tight situation and then asked him out.he feels obliged to be with her. me and they guy's families know each other pretty well a... (175 words)

If his wife was taking care of him, he wouldn't have to lean on his female students. He isn't 'traditionally' attractive but should I flirt with him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - A few months ago, I couldn't help but fall for my much older principal. Sure he isn't TRADITIONALLY attractive, but looks aren't everything. He has a big.....let's just call it a 'beaver'. I just know it. He also has a really cool voice, kind of like a mix between Napoleon ... (174 words)

His family doesn't like me so what should we do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5703 days ago

14 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay I'm bi and there's this boy I like. We're pretty good friends, and I know he likes me. My mom has no problem with it, but his mom and his sister do. Another problem is there's a bit of an age difference between me and him. I'm 16 and he's 13. I really like him, but... (86 words)

How do I break the ice? I told him I had a crush and now things seem different.

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14 September 2008 (?) age 41-50 - Sorry, this is so long. My now ex-fiance and I moved to a 2-family house 2 yrs ago and his best friend lives right upstairs. Naturally, his friend is here a lot and usually has breakfast with us and comes over after work - basically all his free time is spent here. We've all ... (279 words)

Was I given a date rape drug?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - About 2 weeks ago 3 guys that I met while I was at my aunt's house called to say that they were driving to my town to see me and that we should meet up and hang out. First of all I was in shock that they were driving about 130 miles just to see me. Also I was secretly happy ... (462 words)

My partner went to prison for attacking me and then I had an affair. Should I break up our family for this guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend (let's call him John) for 5 years, we have 2 children together. Last year he went to prison for 4 months for attacking me . I held out and was faithful to him but since he's been home I just don't fancy him. We never have sex, we never go out ... (249 words)

I caught my boyfriend looking at VERY young girls online!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - so here's my problem I am 22 and my boyfriend 26 have been together for almost a year and we recently moved in together. I was on the computer the other day and I saw that he had been looking at sites such as veryounggirls.com and others related. I clicked on them and they wer... (196 words)

Do I need to wait for more signals that he's interested or should I just go for it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

14 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So there is this guy im somewhat intrested in..we met at school and we instantly clicked however we are just friends. We always talk at school and even hang afterschool 2 study sometimes..we text eachother back and forth almost..well pretty much everyday and i still cannot ... (133 words)

Should I go meet this girl I met online? She says she loves me and wants to be with me...

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14 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok heres the thing, i have been with this girl for over 3 years, we havent really spoken or seen each other the last 2 months as we had a small argument and she needs time to her self. I met a girl on msn and we just clicked! she asked for my number and we havent stopped txting ... (209 words)