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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I miss him like crazy, but I don't want to feel rejected again.

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24 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i hope you'll be able to help me. 5 months ago i dumped my b/f because i sensed he didnt want us to be an item anymore. i tried to get him out of my head to no vail. 2 days ago he called me n he told me he missed me. i told him that he had a funny way of showing it. the ... (85 words)

I'm so confused and I don't know what to do! I love her, but I'm not IN love with her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok i got a major problem. well i have been with this girl for 1 yr and 7 months and i love her to peaces but i have the feeling of wanting to date other ppl. well i told her how i felt and she ran crying. so i felt like a complete doosh. i didnt leave her for another and i do... (172 words)

I was so fond of him and I'm losing a friend, albeit a lousy one! What would you do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a guy last year through work. He invited me out to dinner a few weeks after we met and I was going to stay at his house for the night as i live quite far away. We met at a cafe bar before going to the restaurant. When I arrived a girl was talking to him and she was quit... (429 words)

Would you say I was alcohol dependant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I find I have alot more confidence when I have a drink in me, as I am usually shy and prefer to sit in the corner un-noticed. But as soon as I have a drink, I love meeting and chatting. Does this mean I am alcohol dependant?... (48 words)

Middle-aged guys, help! I'm 18 and he's older, but I think he likes me back... What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

- One of my best friends (I'll call him Ross) used to live in a place with a few other guys up until a couple of weeks ago, when he went away to university. One of them, I'll call him Mark, I've always had a bit of a crush on. Weird thing is, he's about 35. I'm 18. I thought I'd ... (312 words)

I'm so confused, do I go with my gay friend or find somone who's straight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

24 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Don't know what to do. I am in love with a good friend. We have done stuff before but I don't think he is gay, at least he will never say anything about it. I am afraid to say anything to him in fear of ruining our friendship. I keep waiting for that one day we end up toge... (89 words)

Please help. I'm too scared to leave him, beacuse we have two beautiful daughters together, and I don't know what he'd do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with my boyfriend for 3years and we have two kids. he always yells at me, he calls me names like bitch, whore , dumb ass, etc . he hits me and pushes me, but i love him and he says he loves me, but im not to sure. he always calls to see where im at, who im with and what... (111 words)

Can my moody ex ever get over his jealousy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Can anyone offer me some advice? I was dating a guy for 4 months after being single for a year (by choice). This person came out of an 8 year relationship which was acrimonious and they are currently trying to sell thier house. A few days ago we split up again (we have s... (893 words)

Am I doomed to stay with this man -till death do us part- just so I can keep my kids together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I dont know what to do. Can anyone help pls? about 5 months ago my husband suggested we try a 3sum to spice things up in our sex life, to make matters more complicated my husband said it should be with an ex of mine (well i say ex, i had an affair with him a couple of mont... (634 words)

How should I react or even think after finding an email he sent to an ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - my fiance of 3 years sent an email to one of his old female friends, and ended the note with 'lets rekindle freindship or more'. how should i react or think?... (31 words)

Is he just using me to get over her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

24 September 2008 (?) age 26-29 - hey for 3 nights running i've been with the lad i like. Huggin, holding hands and tonight we kissed , the problem is his friends just said to me that ''his love of his life goes with someone else'' whom he used to go with. Is he using me to get over her ? Help, i dont want ... (67 words)

Is it bad to get my hopes up that this boy likes me, as my friends like to think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - All the time I'm talking with my friend about the smallest interactions i have with the boy that i like. They always joke around and stuff with me. Sometimes they say "oh he likes u" and stuff like that, and I just blow it off like 'yea right' and now i'm just a little, ... (128 words)

I got them together... but my heart skips a beat whenever I see him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I go to school with this guy who is a year younger than me and has a crush on my best friend... well I think I may like him, but I don't know why. Everytime I think about him, I see him with my friend, and I'm the one who kinda got them together... But everytime he looks ... (126 words)

My ex and I had an on/off relationship with him going back to hsi ex every time. I felt horrible and insecure to know they are together soon after our break up. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my ex two and a half weeks ago. Since then, I've been very good about not calling, and I was finally feeling good about myself and the situation. Then, yesterday, his ex-girlfriend's boyfriend wrote me a message over myspace telling me she had spent the entire ... (166 words)

It's not fair on us. We want to spend some time alone, but his family keep getting in the way!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i love my boyfriend he is 27 years old and moved back in with his mum and dad when he broke up with his ex. We are putting in for a house together and he is fighting for his kids, but since i have been with him we dont get left alone. people are always getting him to do s... (289 words)

Please tell me how can I get over this and just be happy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i was going out with this guy 'ray and i really like him. after 3 days of being with him, he tells me he kissed his best friend the 1st day we were together, and the same day he dumped me, i've been told because he thought i was going to dump him. i sort of came to the conclusi... (237 words)

My gran is very ill, she's the most special person to me, I can't see her go through this, how will I go on without her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - someone please help. i recently posted asking for advice after being told doctors had found a tumor in my gran's liver. on friday i was told it's cancer, i can't handle it. i am so close to her. she's 77, they won't operate, it's in her liver, going into her bowels and traces ... (134 words)

My ex refuses to let me move on, he threatens me on a daily basis, police won't do anything and I'm constantly terrified when I leave the house!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some serious help! I have been with the father of my child for 4 yrs... he was very verbally and physically abusive so I left and moved in with my mother and my son from a previous. we still tried to maintain a relationship and he promised that he would change and of ... (339 words)

My first relationship ended because she didn't have feelings for me, am I doing something wrong if girls don't connect with me emotionally?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone! I'm in a bit of a bind and I'd like some help, ANY comments are welcome!! So anyway here's my problem, I'm 22 and I've only been in 1 relationship which didn't go over too well for me (reason being is because she took nearly 7+ months to figure out IF she had f... (158 words)

I'm female and I've have had it hetrosexual relationships! So now I'm looking for a discreet gay guy who is looking for a 'wife'. Any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5683 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age - Hello everybody. I am looking for a discreet gay guy who is looking for a `wife`. Where do I start? I have `been there and done that` in many heterosexual relationships and want a partner who can be more of a great friend, caring, thoughtful, and loving without the sexu... (94 words)

If I had a 3'sum with another guy and my girl, would that make me gay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

24 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a straight guy and i'm just curious, i haven't done this yet, but i want to try for once to have sex with another man and my girl. Also, would that mean i'm gay?... (35 words)

My ex thinks I'm over him (but I'm not) - what can I do to pretend I don't care? How do I act around him and his new girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

- well, i got dumped 6 weeks ago for another girl. It broke my heart, i really loved my ex - i think i still do but i know I can never get back with him. For the first couple of weeks I made it known to him and his new gf that I was hurt and wanted him back. He didnt want to ... (376 words)

"Well, if you're not happy then I can't make you, but call me sometime if you want sex"?! How could he tell me that after all the nice things he said?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I was dating a guy for 3 months, he is getting divorced but still living with his wife until the house sold. I had been uncomfortable with this from day 1 but until now it never bothered me as I didn't know things would progress. He said she can'tafford to move until the house ... (207 words)

Should I tell my mum about the appointment to the doctor? I seem to be having symptoms of depression...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend of 5 years (who used to be severely depressed but has come out of the other end) has recognised immense symptoms of depression in me - and has done for the last 3 years. We agreed, after a lot debate, that i'd go to the doctors. I have an appointment next ... (130 words)

My ex kissed me twice, though he has a long distance girlfriend. Do I continue hanging out with him and see what happens?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have not seen my ex-boyfriend in nearly 6 years. During that six years, I have had two very serious relationships and he was engaged (and broke it off) and then living with a girlfriend (and then moved away from her.) He currently moved back to the state we are both orig... (384 words)

I am falling for the girl at work, she is married so I'd never act on these feelings, any comments or similar stories?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I guess this is just a confession. I have been with my gf for six years. We are close and everything goes well. We communicate and work well together. Recently I met a girl at work that I have become infatuated with. I was not looking or asking for this. It just happened. How... (125 words)

We used a condom, but I haven't had my period for nearly 2 months. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) age 30-35 - I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time and we used a condom but i havent had my period for nearly 2 months. what do i do?... (29 words)

He makes me feel low and lack confidence about myself. How do I change myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well heres the thing, iv been with my boyfriend for a year now and he always seems to make me feel low and tells me that my friends don't like me. We split up a few weeks ago becuase he was finding problems about my personality and a week later he was with another girl. I told ... (288 words)

How would I know if I've had an orgasm?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im having sex with my bf but i dont know if ive had an orgasm. my friends say it feel awsome but i really dont know. sex does feel good but not so good that im screaming out so loudly that my next door neighbours hear me. how do you know when your having an orgasm? what do... (71 words)

I bled for a couple of hours after rough sex, then stopped. What happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been having sex regually for about 5 months now. i like it hard and fast, and this one time i started to bleed. i beled for a couple of hours, not a lot and then stopped. what happend?... (43 words)

What emotional and common level would a 40ish man and 19 year old girl have?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age - why would a 40ish male want a 19ish girl and visa versa. on what emotional and common level would they be. alot of people say go for it... (30 words)

Is my friend gay? We fooled around a bit, but we never talk about it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Is my friend gay? I am a bi guy still in the closet, and my best friend ,that is a few years younger than me, who clearly acts straight in public or around other friends, but when we drink alone he always likes to get get naked, and we always end up masterbating together to ... (112 words)

I wish I'd waited. Am I wrong for feeling guilty?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello. my boyfriend and i have been dating for six months now and in the last month, we've had sex 4 times. he says he's perfectly content with what he have done and does not take it back, although i know that deep down he wishes he hadn't done anything and and that he'd ... (78 words)

Is it possible to get pregnant if you have sex while you have your period?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i know this is a really unorthodox question, but is it possible for a woman to become pregnant if she has sex during her period? has that ever happened?... (29 words)

The scars from my breast reduction are making me insecure about sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Three years ago I had a breast reduction...and now I have scars on my breasts and they also had to make my nipples smaller so there are scars around them too. My question is, if I have sex with a guy, should I tell him before we have sex or should I just not even mention it at ... (107 words)

Always a Best Man, never a Groom

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - This is my situation. I have been outta the dating game for a very long time. My last serious relationship was 10 years ago. I've dated maybe twice since then. I have a full-time job and am always busy with that and family. I'm considered middle class, but I make an okay ... (162 words)

How does he feel? My friends think that he blows hot and cold because he doesn't know what I want, as I tell him I don't want a relationship..but I DO!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - im really confused. ive been seeing this man from work for a while now. no-one at work knows about it as we decided ages ago we wanted to have a casual relatiohsip. But now im beginning to have feelings for me but im not sure how he feels. Sometimes he is very loving to... (192 words)

Internet date already has a girlfriend, what shall I do? I would rather just delete his number, but how to tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I joined a dating website and started to talking to a guy, he messaged me first. I checked his profile and didnt really fancy him but didnt want to be nasty so chatted for a while. Anyway he turned out to be very funny, a really good laugh. And I checked out some more of him on ... (286 words)

Why would he want to know how my week went? Is he just a nice guy or am I reading too much into it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Sooo this guy I've hooked up with 2 times basically let me know this past weekend that all he is really looking for is a good time and nothing more than that. This is cool with me, because I'm not really looking for anything more than that either. He tried meeting up with me ... (215 words)

What does karma have to do with it? Is this just an excuse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I fell in love with my friend with benefits. We've been on and off since november 2004. What we have is a secret, even though, after all this long many people realized what was happening between us. He doesn't want anything serious, and neither do I, we talked about it and w... (237 words)

He comes from a rich family, I come from a poor one...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I come from very different backgrounds. He comes from the perfect family, they helped him buy his home, he is still on their insurance, he is supported in all he wants to do. I come from a very different background. I get no assistance from my family and if I ... (138 words)

He makes insecure comments now after our threesome, and now when I want to interact with one of my friends I don't tell him. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My Fiance and I had a threesome with one of my friends. Everything was beautiful, but now he makes these insecure comments when he knows i'm going to see her alone. I think its unfair, because she was my friend before this episode. I was open with him and he knew about my ... (76 words)

The condoms we have are for oral sex, can we use them for regular sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to have sex with my boyfriend but the only condoms we have are for oral sex, is it possible to use them for normal sex or do we have to buy another type? ... (39 words)

Can you get herpes if you get oral sex from someone with a cold sore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5673 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend told me that if you given oral sex when your partner has a coldsore, it's possible you can get herpes, is this true? Thanks ... (31 words)

I feel like being the "other man", what to do? Give her a reasonable time to leave her controlling boyfriend? (she said she would, but it has not happened yet)

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I met this girl some months back. Initially we were friends and spent lot of time together. Then, she slowly disclosed her problems with her controlling long distance boyfriend. I helped her out as much as possible, and in the process we fell in love. Now, she is with her ... (279 words)

I cheated on my boyfriend and confesses, he wants me to think of a solution. His is to get even!...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I cheated on my boyfriend the other day, i told him what happened, now he wants me to think of a solution, but i don't have one, and his solution is to do the same thing to me, to make it even. what should i do?... (47 words)

I'm worried because my girlfriend's roommate is a girl of loose morals?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so my girlfriend just started college and its all been going good but she has a roomate who has to be the dirtiest w____ of all time she brings over boys and she parties everyday and she doesn't even sometimes sleep in dorm!! I don't care what she does but im scared my ... (101 words)

I'm stressing about possibly being pregnant, even though we haven't had sex yet!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well here's the thing...me and my boyfriend know each other for 2 years and something but have been dating for almost 8 months now. Some days ago we talked about having sex for the first time but we haven't done it since im waiting for my period to take birth control pills. I'm ... (140 words)

What to do about my unemployed Prince Charming? I honestly think guys that can take care of themselves and their woman are sexy! How can I encourage him to get a job??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 8 months now and it's been going pretty good so far...well, sort of. He's smart, funny, attentive, compassionate, caring, and great in bed. The only thing is he doesn't have a job! When I met him he was working but it was a temp ... (315 words)

I like to flirt but when I do have feelings for a girl I'm not the same, I don't know what to say or do, any tips for me and for my first date with this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hello everybody, well i'll try to tell what is my problem really quick.well i'm really a very shy guy, and i like a lot to flirt with the opposite sex.So i don't have problems with it. But when i really do have feelings for a girl, i become "stupid" don't know what to do, what... (230 words)

Pro's and con's of dating your ex's best friend? Any advice and stories from women who have dated an ex's best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Could do with some advice and stories here from women who have dated an ex's best friend. My ex and I had a very complicated relationship, it didn't work out, it ended on very bad terms. However through out the relationship and indeed before, I have always been good friends ... (231 words)

Would it be right to leave my daughter to go abroad with my girlfriend for work? But would in turn be right to stay and leave the girl I love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello Cupids, I have a problem. A extremely life changing problem. My girlfriend is moving to Australia for work next month and has asked me to go with her. We've been seeing each other for 2 years and we are deeply in love. But the problem is, I have a 3 year old d... (192 words)

He threatened he'd stay in the rain, suicidal, so I invited him to my house where he continued his abuse, when I refused sex he said his ex was better, etc. Is this emotional blackmail?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there, I have been with my boyfriend for almost 16 months now. When i first met him he was a depressant after splitting up with his ex girlfriend, i helped him through it and he has been on and off them for some time know. He often says he wants to kill himself, he says ... (366 words)

I'm worried I might have an STD. What does an STD test involve?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

- I am wondering if I could have an STD. When me and my ex bf were together I gave him oral with no condom. But I trusted him enough to believe him when he said he had no STD's. The thing is though we have no broken up as I realisd he wasnt trustworthy. So I am worried now mayb... (140 words)

I don't trust myself around him, how do I find an easy way out without anyone getting hurt?

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24 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, Basically i met this guy a few months ago we came really good friends then we kinda started seeing eachother it kinda went sour and we fell out majorly. Then he started seeing my best mate i was quite upset by this this caused more conflict between us countless argument... (224 words)

I really love this girl, and I don't want to lose her. What are my best options right now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

24 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there, I had been going out with my girlfriend for a year, and things were great, we never argued, we got on really well - as best friends, made each other laugh, and both really loved each other. Basically there were no problems whatsoever. We would see each other lots ... (314 words)

He said he would stay with me, but I can't get his comments out of my head!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age - Hi, I'm so confused and upset. I have been with my bf for over 4 yrs. I have been ill and out of work and he has been living in my house and supporting me. We argue because he's not good at communicating and therefore i keep second guessing him. We had a row 2 weeks ago ... (207 words)

My girlfriend is violent and refuses to compromise. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

24 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend regularly and violently freaks out over ordinary problems. This morning she was angry because I stayed up late on the internet in our room after she went to sleep (having put in earplugs, as we live above a main road, and simply said 'goodnight', without asking ... (767 words)

He and I have been dirty texting, but he's getting married soon to a good friend of mine and I have a boyfriend! Need help getting him out of my head!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Aunts i am in a bit of a pickle i am with someone for the last four years, but a few months ago me and a male friend who is getting married soon to a good friend of mine started flirting with me, we have always got on really well we have been constant dirty texting ea... (128 words)

Should I back off? I'm not sure what to do with him, as I am so out of the loop on this dating lark!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I am a 33 year old woman who has been dating a 40 year old man for 4 months now. We spend every weekend together and, two weeks ago, we went away for a holiday for a week. During the holiday, I told him that I was falling in love with him. He said he hoped I would un... (250 words)

I will sacrifice just to be with her forever!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - ., I am inlove with my friend,i want to fight for it, but how? i cant,..because she is also a girl, i knoe that she also love me, we kissed already,! im not a lesbean, and shes not also a lesbesn, pls help us!!!... (44 words)

My jealously keeps ruining my relationships, but is it my problem or his? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Guys..Im in a bit of a dilemma…I have written to you guys before about my insecurity problems…I am very insecure about myself, and get very jealous in relationships. This is the reason that I split with my last boyfriend, becuase he couldn’t cope with me. I am a very ... (476 words)

I need tips on having a BBQ so I don't burn the house down!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - This may seem like a lame question but thought may get some good tips here! I am throwing a surprise party at my house and am having to organise everything on my own. The only thing I am a bit confused about is the BBQ as I have never done it before; so I want to get it r... (214 words)

My friend got married recently but is hiding it from me. Why is he acting like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - A very good male friend of mine - I have never displayed or had a sexual interest for him (I am female)- got married 2 months ago and has not told me a word of it yet! When I asked him after I found out of his marriage - anything new in your life ? he replied - no nothing new, ... (97 words)

Should I move on or tell him that I still have feelings for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

24 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okai i was going out with "j" who is this really hot boy in my school and pretty much all the girls like him!well me and him hook up but broke up for some reason well i forgot!well we been over for like 1 month now and we both found other people but the thing is i still like ... (87 words)

Every night we don't talk, I'm worried she's talking with her ex! I'm not really sure what to do...

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24 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I met this girl back in high school, we dated for a couple of months, then we broke up. We talked off and on from then until now (4 years later), sometime during this off and on talking she moved away. She just recently ended a relationship, and before this she had a nice ... (194 words)

How do I leave? When is the right time? I need serious responses...

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24 September 2008 (F)

age - Strongly considering leaving him. topics arent being budgeted, or even discussed so nor are they changed. bills are still piling, ive no nest egg just existing sex life: his weight is hurting my legs hips and joints I work out to strengthen my body for him he refuses to wo... (138 words)

How can I become more confident during sex and foreplay?

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24 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boy friend for 7 months. We both want to try different things during sex but i dont have any confidence when it comes to my body. Im not very experienced when it comes to sex ( i have never given a head job and sometimes i wish i could) but my boyfriend is. ... (140 words)

Before I met him he was quite the ladies man, now I need to forgive him, but I'm not sure I can...

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24 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I have been in a relationship for almoust three years now. Yesterday i found out that my boyfriend was planning to cheat on me, meeting a girl for the first time, while he was telling me that he was going to the doctor's with his mother. I found out about this, ... (346 words)

He watches porn even when I am in another room or in the same room, he just sits and stares at the computer images while ignoring me... I don't know how to handle this, it makes me feel bad and ignored.

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24 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years. I have known for a while that he watches porn, we have watched it together and even bought various sex toys to use with each other. About a year and a half ago, he started using the computer. It took a while for him to start look... (334 words)

There are 3 guys in my life, but I don't know what to do! I'm so confused.

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24 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I’m jus a confused 14 year old that needs help ha!......well I’m stuck between 3 great guys one is my boyfriend (age 16), the other is my ex (age 18) and the other is the sweetest guy that I jus met about 2 weeks ago(age 17)! Ok the problem is I dated my ex for 9 months and ... (444 words)

My husband is my roommate, there is no love and never was. So I'm married with two children and I'm having an affair! What can I do?

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24 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi! I am new to this. I have been married for ten years. I have two beautiful daughters ages 6 and 7. My husband is a wonderful caring husband and a good person, I am just not in love with him. I honestly don't think I ever was. I feel nothing for him whatsoever, this has been ... (222 words)

My wife is behaving strangely, how should I interpret it?

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24 September 2008 (M)

age - I have noticed some inappropriate behavior from my wife your thoughts and input please, 1. my wife goes to a bus. client's bedroom when he is alone and when his wife is out of town, leaving my daughter in the car in the drive way. her excuse, " he called me because he was... (150 words)

Should I send this email to my ex?

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24 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Here's the backstory. Before we started going out, we worked together and became good friends by being there for each other through tough times in our respective lives. Once she left the job, we started officially going out, and we were inseparable. In fact, she got really ... (1537 words)

We're Christians, my wife doesn't dislike sex, but she doesn't like it, we have sex very seldom, how can I fix this, what am I supposed to do?

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24 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - ok I dont understand this and I know it probably sounds like every other question that guys ask about sex, but....My Wife doesn't like sex, and doesn't seem like she is ever going to. She doesn't dislike it, but she doesnt like it. During the first year of our marriage we ... (328 words)

Are we to be or not to be?

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24 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am concerned. I have been with my man 5 years. We recently had a 7 month break as our reltionship was in a bit of a rut (my call). I am glad to be back together, and he is doing everything he can to make things better. My concern is that i have totally lost my sex driv... (127 words)

I’m utterly devastated, I did admit to him I had made mistakes in the past, but he became very disrespectful and nasty to me, and in the end he dumped me. Is this what I deserve for trying to be perfect for him?

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24 September 2008 (F) age 30-35 - I admit I had made serious mistakes. And I never denied this to anyone. For starters I lied to him about my past when he asked. I lied because he was jealous much, and I kind of expected an awful reaction to the truth. I lied, but told him the truth immediately. He reacted so ... (620 words)

My question is, how do I know if I like him or not? I would hate to be leading him on!

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24 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 21 and up until a month ago had never dated. A friend set me up with this really great guy. He's very sweet and understanding but i'm not sure if I like him or not. There is a part of me that thinks I do, especially after I talk to him, but later on I start thinking and ... (125 words)

Anyone know of any way to get rid of these bumps that show up on the back of my thigh? I am afraid to wear a skirt or shorts that show my legs...

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24 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have always had a few problems with getting a boyfriend in my life, I could never find a guy who liked me enough and was worth keeping at the same time. Recently I have become embarrassed of my looks because I have gained some weight and I am very self conscious. My ma... (163 words)

Has porn really become so prevalent that it has shaped the sexuality of people today?

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24 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Are all young men fascinated by porn? After 20 years of marriage to my first and only sex partner, I got divorced and decided to live a little and see much younger men. In the bedroom, they all seem to want to live out their porn fantasies. They are either preoccupied with oral... (79 words)

I am travelling next year so I decided to keep the frienship with benefits until I leave, I am sad and desperate, scared of being alone, what are your suggestions?

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24 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know where to start.. I have been in a "friends with benefits (FWB)" relationship for a ridiculous amount of time. Initially it was because i was hurt very badly in another relationship and when it ended i needed a friend and he was there. As time went on i realis... (243 words)

He likes me but he's been hurt, while I'm ready for a serious relationship. Should I leave it alone or continue seeing him?

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24 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy that I've been seeing for about 3 weeks now,and he's telling me that he doesn't really want a relationship. I like him so far and he feels the same,so should I just leave it alone or continue to hang with this guy even though there MIGHT not be a chance ... (92 words)

How do I know for sure if I'm pregnant or not and how do I tell him I think I am pregnant?

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24 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been together for like half a week now and we've been friends for a month...we had sex and i think i am pregnant... i'm seventeen years old in high school he's nineteen and in college...my parents know me and him are dating and they love him... but how ... (131 words)

I am having a very hard time trusting him because twice he has tried to cheat on me, any advice?

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24 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for 2 years recently I am having a hard time trusting him because twice he has tried to cheat on me. I forgave him because he said nothing will ever happen again it was all online conversations and he will never do it again. But now ever... (81 words)

I forgot to take my birth control pill a few times, now I think I might be pregnant! I don't know how to tell him if I am. What will I do?

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24 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My guy friend has a son that is four that doesn't live with him. He only gets his son every other weekend. Me an this guy have been messing around for over four months now. He acts like he really cares about me and everything. But Sunday we had unprotected sex an he asked me if ... (109 words)

I keep asking her about all these guys, now she thinks I don't trust her. Should I be worried, should I trust her? If so, how do I show her that I do?

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24 September 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend thinks that i dont trust her. There is this guy at her school that she used to like and she has just found out that he likes her. So now when she gets home and I call her the conversation usually starts off with "So did he say anything to you today?". She keeps on ... (355 words)

I've left him and now he says he won't see the children anymore. Have I made the wrong decision?

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24 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I left my husband of three years last weekend. We have two children together and I have a older daughter that he was parenting for 4 years. He says that I have broken up our family and he will not see the kids anymore. That if they want they can find him when they are 18 years ... (189 words)

Should I tell my husband the baby isn't his?

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24 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married to the love of my life, John, and just gave birth to a beautiful baby girl. However, the baby isn't his. About a year and a half ago, there was this guy named Mike, who was friends with me and my husband. One day, we all got really drunk and I ended up having ... (175 words)

I'm wondering what walks of life the aunts and uncles come from?

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24 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear posters, I think its wonderful to have people from different walks of life, to be able to come here and look at others situations with a different set of eyes. its great! On to my question, I was left wondering what each and every one of you do for a living? Take ... (76 words)

I have been on birth control for a month and had sex. Could I be pregnant?

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24 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - so i had been on yasmin birth control for almost a month i was on my white pills and the last day of my period and my boyfriend and i were having sex and he cumed inside of me,is there any chance that i could be pregnant cause i had to take a blood test for my doctor who was ... (68 words)

I am truly in love with my teacher. How can I become friends with him?

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24 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I am truly in love with my teacher, and it's more than a crush. He is about 20 years old than me, happily married with two kids. Obviously it's never going to work out, and I know that, but I am always day dreaming about him and have actual dreams about him, sometimes a bit ... (161 words)

This guy I like has a two kids with his girlfriend, but says he wants to get to know me better. Should I?

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24 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i have feelings for a guy and he also has feelings for me.i been talking to him for about a month now and about two weeks ago he told me that he has a two year old little girl and a seven month baby and he also lives he with his babies mother.now he tells me that he wants to ... (151 words)

Could this be my period?

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24 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had all of the signs of getting my period, (I haven't started yet), and today I had a round, kind of biggish brown spot on my underpants. Is this my period?... (32 words)

How can I let a boy at school know I like him?

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24 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - There's a boy at my school that I like, and when i see him hanging out with other girls, i start to feel jealousy. But it's not against him, because i know he doesn't know about how much i like him. The most i ever did was send him a rose last valentine's day that said "from ... (232 words)

How can I get a guy to ask me out?

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24 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How I can make guy ask me out?.. he likes me and i like him! but I'm really shy to talk to ask him out! we are gonna see tomorrow! I really need some helpppp! ... (38 words)

She likes me, she likes me not. What the heck is going on here?

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24 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I have liked this girl at school for just over a year now. She knows this as i have told her in person. At first she didnt feel the same way about me which i was totally fine about, but then she started to say things and do things that suggested otherwise. I spoke to her a... (489 words)

Shes got a boyfriend. Would it be wrong to try to 'wait' for her?

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24 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Is waiting for a girl to become avaiable a bad thing. There is a good friend of mine who i really like but yes she has a boyfriend so typical. I have never met anyone as amazing as her she has every aspect i could ever want in a girl she is my dream girl. She has told me bad ... (225 words)

He just keeps on breaking my heart!

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24 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there, Me and my ex have been broken up for around six months. I felt that I was finally getting over him until I went on holiday. He was on the same holiday as me with his friends. We met and exclaimed that we still loved each other and decided that we would like to gi... (151 words)

He accuses me of going on dating sites to meet men!

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24 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - pls can someone tell me why my partner constantly accuses me of going on dating sites, meeting men and sleeping with them. i have in the past been to chat sites and chatted, flirted a little but that is all its been, and only went there when we fell out and i was hurt and ... (193 words)

We broke up because he thinks I deserve better! How can I change his mind?

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24 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend just broke up with me. He thinks i deserve better... he is still in school, and i graduated last year and got a good job. He feels he is not good enough for me, and last night told me he is putting his feelings aside and doing the best for me..... I absolut... (110 words)