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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do I face this situation now or should I just let it unfold later and face the consequences then?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

1 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have had a crush on my best friend D for a few years, a fact he has always accepted and appreciated as benign - he knows me well enough to understand that I am not the sort to manipulate or, for that matter, usurp. In turn, I know he is faithful and committed to his ... (398 words)

What can I do about my boyfriend's unwillingness to please me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age - What can I do about my boyfriend's unwillingness to please me? I don't ask my bf to do a lot of things for me but the things I do ask are very important to me. He never has done any of the things I asked him to do. He always makes some lame excuse or uses his social anxiety a... (421 words)

I had an email affair, but nothing more. Now I'm accused of cheating on him two times, which is a lie!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've never felt so messed up in all my life. I'm so utterly confused. I've been seeing an amazing guy for 3 months. In such a short space of time, i've never cared for anyone or been so comfortable with anyone in my life. (Previous to this i was in a 2 1/2 year relationship) so ... (516 words)

Should I tell people my step-dad touches me inappropriately?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - when i was about eight years old my step father began touching me in rude ways. i was to young to understand so i didn't tell anyone he is still doing it should i tell people and do you think they will believe me?... (44 words)

How can I tell my dad I'm pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a great feeling that im pregnant, because i have the symtoms. but i am not sure what i should do. you see im 15 turning 16 in oct. and it was my first time having sex non the less it was unprotected. i dont know how i should tell my dad. so can anyone help me.... (59 words)

My post pregnancy body is putting me down!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a baby about 6 months ago and actually lost the weight very early on without really trying. Problem is my pre-pregnancy perky breasts that were full of cleavage and looked great naked, got HUGE during my pregnancy and now have stretch marks and sag so bad. They are ... (94 words)

Flat chested forever?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I will be 16 in about a month, and I'm still almost completely flat chested. Do I still have time to grow, or is it too late?... (28 words)

My boyfriend may possibly be infertile but I want a child with him. Should I be positive or negative about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend has undescended testicles which increases the risk of infertility. This really upsets me and although he's been too embarrased about it in the past, I have got him to see a specialist where he should hopefully take a sperm count. The thing is that I don't be... (195 words)

It was the first time we engaged in sexual activities together, and he began to cry. Any insight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, The guy I am with now and I have been together for about four months. The other day, we were together in his home making out and touching and such (pretty much everything but actual sex) and he began to sort of cry. I was a little confused being that I have never se... (100 words)

I think my girlfriend is no longer insterested in me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

1 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Alright... I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a little over a year. Our 'honeymoon period' went very well. For almost nine months, infact. Sex, communication, friendship, etc... Everything was great. We never argued. Then slowly, as the relationship ... (574 words)

If I give him space is it possible that he will come running back to me when he's sorted his head out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - me and my boyfriend have recently split. (i ended it cos he wasn't making me happy). He just came out of a 3 yr relationship when we got together (about a month after they split) so I guess he was on the rebound. I still really like him so if I give him space is it possible ... (113 words)

I thought he was my soulmate but I found out he cheated on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have just found out one week ago that my husband has cheated on me. We have been together 21 years and married for 14. He cheated on me five years ago and has only just told me. The real problem I am having with this is that he cheated on me with the same person twice, ... (333 words)

Husband is in the navy and announces faded love. How can I make our marriage work again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my husband is in the navy and i moved myself and our three kids back to texas. he just told me yesterday he wasnt in love with me anymore because i wasnt there but i am moving to be with him this week. i need to know how can i make our marrage to work? i really love him... (59 words)

He's recently been in the army for 4 months and I plan to follow him in Cyprus, any advice / tips?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, im 17 years old, and i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, hes recently been in the army for 4 months, we miss each other like mad and plan to spend the rest of lifes together, its all planned out, and i know that sounds silly cuming from two 17 year olds, but there's ... (102 words)

What can I do to make this man stand up to his kids?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5570 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age - what actions do i need to take? because I have been dating an older man that has grown married kids that have rotten marriages, have never grown up, can't get past the past and always wants their dad to be with them and he always has to sugar coat anything that he says to ... (457 words)

It seems so out of character but my fiance hit me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am new here, but something has happened that I would really like some unbiased opinions about. This may be long... My fiancé and I are both 25 and have been really close friends for almost 10 years. He has always had a "thing" for me, but I was never interested in mo... (1051 words)

My boyfriend and my best friend deny the rumours (I was told they slept together) - now I'm hurt and don't trust them!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So about two weeks ago I was told by one of my bestfriends, that a previous rumor I heard about my boyfriend of 6 months was true. He had slept with my "bestfriend" of four years three or four times. I had confronted both of them about a month ago about it, and they both ... (85 words)

My cat is acting weird!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, my cat just suddenly turned into different behaviour. shes always following us and she never used to but then shel suddenly turn round hiss at you, growl, then start faoming and dribbling at the mouth. im worried what sort of illness it is can some one tell me what sh... (70 words)

Help me understand the selfish and inconsiderate behaviour of my fiance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am faced with a new problem in regards to my fiancee of two years. It has become a new habit for him to not follow through with what he says he's going to do. For instance, he'll tell me he'll be at a friend's house till 8pm and then he'll come over, but instead he will stay ... (401 words)

Why do women bring such sentiment and emotion into the bedroom? Why can't they just leave it at the door?...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

1 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - with most of the girls ive been with, after i slept with them they developed intense emotional feelings even when we weren't close to intimate prior to the events. so my question is this, why do women bring such sentiment and emotion into the bedroom? why can't they just leave ... (54 words)

I have a boyfriend but keep thinking me and this other boy could have been amazing together, had we had a chance!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know how complicated this is but I know it's wrong. I have been with my boyfriend for two years and we always have an amazing time together. But before I met him I was falling for another boy who I used to always see round school, I realised it wasnt going to happen so ... (185 words)

I have fallen out with all my school friends and I don't want to be looking like billy-no-mates...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there. well this is a rather strange question i guess. but im going back to school this week and i have fallen out with prcatically all of my friends (most of them anyways) and i think im going to find it really hard. i will be going into yr10 so i know i will need to con... (151 words)

Little things (not vulgar) to turn him on, in and outside the bedroom?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend of a year have been having sex now for a bout 4 / 5 months. I was just wondering, whats a big turn on for a guy. Is he enjoying it when after sex sometimes, he turns over does he not like it. What could make the sex more exciting, apart from new postions ... (126 words)

We've always been good friends but he rejected my friend request!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - HI i've been known this guy all my life hes more like a big brother but we have never been that close seen each other now and then hes 21 im 18, i saw him the other night we had a quick chat and then went our sepparate ways, so then i saw his facebook i added him as a friend ... (97 words)

Our relationship is fantastic now in all respects but I've got to live with his attempt of cheating, any advice or comments please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age - My husband of over 30 years has been having sexy texting with a woman he knows through work (not at the same premises). I found some on his phone a while ago and he said it was just a game (I had been very unloving for a couple of years due to the menopause). Realising what I ... (328 words)

We want to have sex but I am on the pill and REALLY don't trust it! I dislike condoms, too, thus?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, this is so stupid.. But I've got a new boyfriend, and soon we're going to be having sex soon for the first time, and although I'm on the pill I REALLY don't trust it. (The morning after pill failed on me) I'm assuming they've got different kinds of chemicals in them (I'm ... (80 words)

I don't understand her motives for kissing me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im a girl and ive liked my friend whose also a girl for a while and she knows and the other night while we were both quite drunk she kissed me, and told me she liked me, we went back to hers and went to sleep together it was so sweet but the next day things were weird i asked ... (188 words)

Age differences - should people's reactions matter?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

1 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 34 year old male who has just begun dating a 19 year old female. I love being with her and adore her greatly, she is mature for her years , fun, serious when neccessary and has all the qualities of my ideal woman! However, I am concerned about the age gap and in ... (73 words)

Why email me to say he doesn't care if he really doesn't care? Why not just ignore me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering why my ex boyfriend.. [he broke up with me a year ago because he wasn't feeling it so much anymore, but we've been talking and flirting and stuff in school (I'm now 18, he's now 17) etc... but not really spoken to him during the summer holiday we've ju... (424 words)

I'm 13 and I wish I could have sex with this boy I really liked! Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi im 13 and i want sex really badly i dream about it but i wish it was reality. Its always with this boy that i really like. Well i say like, but what i mean is love. I have tried telling him but he blanks me. i had a passionate kiss with him in march and we touched each ... (106 words)

He cheated to be with me...will he do it to me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

1 September 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I really like this guy and he has cheated on his girlfriend (my best friend) to be with me and I am scared that when I do get with him he will cheat on me. Is this true?... (38 words)

Dealing with my bf's beautiful, bitchy ex gf! How do I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (?) age 30-35 - For seven years i went to dancing school with this girl (who we'll call Angela) who was really bitchy, mean and made my early teenage life a misery. she made me feel really insecure about my dancing and was just a bully in general. seven years later and i'm with my dream ma... (234 words)

Am I at the right age to father a child? What do you all think?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

1 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, What is a right or optimum age to have a baby? I'm 22 and I feel like I'm at a prime age to father a child of my own. My girlfriend (same age) says we are too young and that we should wait. We both work full time so we have regular income and we are both mature for our a... (77 words)

I don't really want him, but I need him until I get back on my feet. Any other ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently posted a question in regards to my current bf cheating with his ex. It wasn't a one time thing, truth is I don't know how long or how many times or when it even started or if it ever ended when we got together. I believed him then when he said he wasn't with her, but ... (517 words)

Caught my bf in public, laughing and kissing with another woman! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My new boyfriend of 6 weeks became divorced 3 months ago. My sister asked me if i would go shopping with her to help her choose a dress for her works outing. While i was with her, I saw my boyfriend with another woman, laughing, kissing, holding hands. I showed my sister and ... (130 words)

My wife of 5 years left me, for my best friend. I want her back! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am looking for what to do? My wife of 5 years left me, for my best friend. She also left me with our two kids. She says that i don't make her happy anymore. I love her so much that i don't know how to take it. I had to quit my job to take care of my kids. She says she can't ... (178 words)

I adore my step daughter but her sisters with whom I have had seldom contact are very disrespectful so I can hardly tolerate their visits!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a step daughter of whom I love an adore. She is 10 years old and I have been in her life since she was 3. She visits her father and I on weekends or anytime she wishes. She has 3 sisters from her mother and step father. My problem is 2 of the sisters often want to have ... (276 words)

Wouldn't it destroy our friendship if I told my mate that I like his girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in love with my friends girlfriend: have been for a while, waaay before they started dating. I try and forget these feelings, but I cant. I just cant. One or two of my other friends know about this, and one of them seems to think I should tell my mate I like his girlfri... (90 words)

How can I make my flat nipples look more proper?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and really self concious of my nipples, or lack of. I have boobs, im a 32DD i just dont undertstand why i dont have proper nipples, theyre like flat how can i make them more like proper nipples? ... (45 words)

I have anxiety about him needing space and time to gather his thoughts! What now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - This past Friday, my boyfriend and I had a stupid argument. It started over my feelings about money. I asked him to buy me something and he related to me that he wasn't sure if he would have enough to get it. I caught an attitude because of this and when asked what was the ... (681 words)

Why am I so tired? Is it depression?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Lately i have been feeling so tired its not normal, all i can think about is sleep. When im awake i feel really down and dont enjoy any of the things i used to, mainly because i have no energy or no happy thoughts anymore. I went to have a blood test to see if it was an... (114 words)

Should I call and confront him or let it go? I need closure!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy over the summer, its been about a month and a half. He'd call me everyday, wish me goodnight EVERY night, go out for dinner/coffee etc. Basically, everything was FAB. About 3 weeks ago, he stopped calling/texting as much, and I found myself having to call. ... (137 words)

How do I keep things civilized if she keeps ignoring me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I got a refund for a couple of Music festival tickets the other day and half of that is my ex girlfriends money. Strangely enough i bumped into her at the festival (out of 100,0000 people) and she didnt seem surpised to see me at all and was quite off with me. we broke up 4/5 ... (209 words)

My best friend has gotten too close for comfort with my girlfriend!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

1 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for nearly a year now, and I love her heaps. Everything has been going great except for one thing. Soon after we started dating, my best friend started talking to her via msn. I was completely cool with this of course. However, as time ... (453 words)

What are some methods of emergency contraception?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - dear friends! I have a huge problem! Had unprotected sex with my girlfriend yesterday. Usually we do the pull out method, however I believe that didn't work. We're afraid she could be pregnant, and we are really worried. Are there any other methods of emergency ... (56 words)

What can I do, if anything, to make my periods lighter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, my periods a re really heavy, is there anything i can do to make them lighter? ... (19 words)

I took the morning after pill but am still scared about prgnancy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Last week I stupidly had unprotected sex. Within 24 hours I seeked out my local pharmacy. With my partner's help, I bought the morning-after pill and took it straight away. My period, to my calculation, is due towards the end of this week. But i'm nervous as to whether it will ... (71 words)

Could I be pregnant? I'm a day late?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok...my question is i'm wondering could i be pregnant, the last time i had sex was on aug.8 and we used protection, and on aug.14 i went and had my first pap smear so i could birth control pills, and i was tested for pregnancy..etc..everything was negative, and like last week i ... (80 words)

My husband offends me for even talking to a guy! He does not realise he is being disrespectful!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 27 years old and have been married about 5 years. I am very torn as to what to do about my marriage. (We have a 5 year old son) My husband has been very irrational about things lately. He calls me a w____, little girl, b____....etc when I do something that he perceives as ... (145 words)

I have a wife and two kids but I miss the relationships with men that I had before marriage!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

1 September 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello to all, I am so crazy right now. I am so in love with my wife and 2 kids but my insides still have desire for men. I told my wife before we got married that I had past relationships with men but never really felt like it was the right thing...for me... to be doing. I h... (186 words)

Do people think that 25 years is too big an age gap?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - do people think that 25 years is too big an age gap? I am engaged to my boyfriend who is 25 years older than myself. My only problem is my mother does not approve. I just want to see what other people think as I would like to be able to see it from my parents point of view. ... (59 words)

He won't tell me the reason why he broke up with me, we are now friends but does he keep staring at me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well i was previously dating a guy for 2 weeks n then he broke up with me. i still have feelings for him though, anyways,we argued alot and fought after he broke up with me and he wont tell me the reason why we broke up. i am still frustrated at that but recently we have ... (236 words)

Should I tell this man I fancy him, I'm 15 years older than him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age - Hi i am not sure what to do, i fancy this guy at work but i am 15 years older than him,i dont think he feels the same one minute he will speak the next not i am just the same.Now do i sit him down and tell him perhaps making a fool of myself and possibly him telling people ... (62 words)

He wants a baby, I think I'm still too young, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend for nearly 8 years now, we have a house and a dog, he is ready for kids i am not. We argued about this early this year and in the end to keep him i agreed to start trying after our holiday in september.(yes he didi give an Ultimatum) I'm ... (157 words)

How can I overcome this terrible paranoia?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some help... I have a boyfriend who i am very much in love with... But i have a big problem and thats that I get really paranoid about absolutely everything! The thing is i dont he would cheat, like now im writing this but im asking myself why as he is the nicest ... (500 words)

Consequences of smoking pot?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm happy with everything in my life, I love my boy heaps. We both work full time, and we smoke pot... is this affecting us in our personality? We only smoke after work...... (35 words)

I want to masturbate my boyfriend but what should I do with the seminal fluid?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i want to jerk my boyfriend off but what do you do with all the cum... (16 words)

Is my perfect boyfriend gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I think my BF could be gay please help i dont know what to do! When i first met my BF i actually thought he seemed quite gay but he wasnt and i eventually fell in love with him we have been together for over three years. every now n then ppl mistake him as been gay or he gets ... (208 words)

Would it be OK to rent a hotel room for my partner on both these special occasions? Any other ideas to surprise him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys just wondering if you could give me a few ideas on what to do... my partners been away for some time now on a travelling trip and is due to come back sat... so on that i note im deciding to do something special... thus i am planning to book his fav resturant and ge... (134 words)

We really like each other but people hate the thought of us being together, so what do we do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I split with my partner of 10 years around 6 wks back. I have been chatting to someone who my partner went to school with. People started rumours that we were seeing each other which wasnt true. Since then me and this guy have met and have had sex. We both like each other ... (127 words)

My husband says he is miserable with me and this time he sounds determined!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my husband are currently living in Japan. He is in the army. Ever since i got here things have not been the same. He has told me he is miserable with me but then a couple days later he says he wants to try to make it work. This has happened so many times. This time he is ... (104 words)

I'm in love & I'm pregnant, but his parents don't agree... PLEASE HELP!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm very young and am having a baby with my boyfriend (who is the same age as me). As anyone expects, his parents have reacted badly. But now it has come to an extreme. First his parents book him anger management behind his back, then they took away most of his privacy,... (312 words)

It's been 3 weeks and HE hasn't called..should I wait for him to come back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a single mother of 2 and I met a younger man aged 25 who seemed very sweet and loving towards my children. I wasn't looking for anything too serious at the start and told him so but he is very assertive and within a week, he was suggesting marriage and babies and withi... (334 words)

Help Being emotionally supportive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am currently in a relationship with the most wonderful woman. We've been going out for almost two years now and ive been the happiest man alive. Untill the other day. For a while ive noticed something was wrong but put it down to stress as she's starting her own business... (257 words)

I made up a girl and now he loves her and not me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I made a fake account and the guy that I really like started talking to her.. or me?. But now i don't know what to do because he's falling inlove with the fake girl that I made. I dont know why he likes the fake girl. The picture that I chose was an average looking girl wearing ... (97 words)

Should I swing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 5 years wants us to swing with his friend and his girlfriend. This is something he really seems into and I don't think I could. But should I do it for him? ... (35 words)

I don't have a previous sex life, but she does, how do I get over it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - how can i over come and stop thinking about my girl friends past ? i love her so much and i have waited for her for 4 long years but now that i have her in my life her past just haunts me bcoz i my self never had a past,pleeeeeeeez help ????... (53 words)

She keeps flirting with other guys, should I do the same to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been with my girlfriend for well over a year now. She is divorced with two kids and this is my first serious relationship ever. After five months seeing each other we moved in together and things have been really great. We do love each other and I have intro... (315 words)

My ex's best friend told me "you should tell him you want only friendship to clear his mind". What does he mean by that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Alright I am going to try to make this as short as possible but advice would be appreciated. So 4 years ago I broke up with the nicest guy ever who truly loved me and wanted to follow me. We dated for around 3-4 years and he is 5 years older than me. I come to find out that ... (644 words)

Is it normal if I can't pull my penis' foresking back?

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1 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok heres the thing my penis has really tight foresking and i cant pull it back.. well i could if i pulled it hard but it sorta hurts when i do it is that normal?... (35 words)

How can I get him in the mood after a long hard day at work ?

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1 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My Boyfriend of 2 yrs ... Is constantly tired or sore from work to treat me like he used to and im afraid that if i confront him he will leave me or we will have an argument. and one of thoes people that hate arguing as i was brought up with domectic violence. but th... (78 words)

My girlfriend ignores me for long hours. Is she playing with me?

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1 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am getting stressed with my current relationship. She distant herself from me and come back close. After awhile, she distant herself again. It happened so many times. When she does that, she went missing the whole day. Not picking up phone call, replying text and ta... (150 words)

My sister is dating someone who will clearly use her and she doesn't want to listen to me!

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1 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, my sister (who's just turned 16) has just started going out with a lad who is 24. This lad has no real interest in my sister and is clearly trying to get into her pants. He has a history of going out with many girls and having sex with them then dumping them. I have ... (98 words)

How can I bring his interest back again?

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1 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im 16 n m boyfrnd is 17..we bth love each other n has a very gud understnind we hav been in relationshp snce 5 mnths..in starting he gve a lots of importnce bt nw its getting reduce..m worried abt it...i knw he dosnt hav dat much time n manges to tok nly 15 mins in a day..my ... (111 words)

Why my friends can talk to girls but not me?

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1 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hello got 1 more question how come when i talk to girls i get really nerves and scared and like if i ask them something they will take the piss and plus most of my mates can talk to girls really easily... (42 words)

We can't be together for now but a part of me feels he's over me.

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1 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I work together. In the beginning he pursed me heavily. Finding my email, phone, even following me home so he could talk to me. At the time I was in an abusive relationship. Once I told him this he became a great friend. He listened while I talked through ... (195 words)

Is it jealousy that is clouding my judgment?

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1 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. Last January I started talking to this girl in my math class. We started to get really close and we had a sort of unofficial relationship. But we talked almost every night for months. We got really really close and she eventually was comfortable enough with me to tell me a ... (460 words)

Is it me or is this getting worse?

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1 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it me, or is she getting worse? I'm the 15 year old boy who wrote a post recently about his girlfriend's behavior. To read the past question, please click the link at the end of this post. Yesterday we had a fight, again. First we were joking and everythng was fine bu... (490 words)

What can I do to change his mind?

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1 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi,basically me an mum have fallen out so ive been staying at my mother in law 2 bs house. i recently got a txt from my fionce saying me being there at his house has made him less tolerable and upset and that i only consider his happiness when it matters to me and he think... (146 words)

Are rebounds O.K?

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1 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a 31 year old female and I've been in 2 relationships back to back (kind of overlapping actually)combined total of 12 years. My current or ex, depending on how you look it, and I are pretty much through with ALOT of heartache. Is it so wrong to just want to go be with ... (108 words)

How can I ask this girl out who seems more interested on guys that are the opposite of me?

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1 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok the same girl that i creeped out by the exaggerated attention, i wanna make a move on her but shes into the more skinny popular guys, and she sees me as a nice and funny guy, soo is there anyway for me to land her no matter how big i am and how popular i may b... (58 words)

My heart says take him back and use this experience to make the relationship stronger. My head says run. Which should I listen to?

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1 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Recently my boyfriend cheated on me while very drunk. I haven't forgiven him or taking him back at this point. Right now I have told him I need time to myself. I've asked him to move out of our apartment and leave me alone for awhile. I am really torn. On one hand I ... (202 words)

Do you think I'm spending too much on her so soon?

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1 September 2008 (M) age 41-50 - My girl's bday is coming up. We've been together for a little under a year. I was thinking of taking her to a $$$$ place for dinner(est $300 for 2), I'm wondering if that is too much too soon. I also bought her a gift that cost $100. Should I take her to a less fancy place? ... (65 words)

Is he still into me or has he just lost interest since we are far apart now?

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1 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated a guy over break for a few weeks but we go to different colleges that are significantly far apart. I really fell hard and fast for him and all the signs pointed to him really liking me (I am kind of a pessimist but that is what my friends would say every time i ... (222 words)

Why did he end his email this way?

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1 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Well, this guy and I have being in touch for a year now. We met on a business and since then we are kinda long distance friendship. I mean, we like each other but we are just friends. We enjoy our friendship and emailing, share thoughts, pics, jokes, whatever is going on with ... (199 words)

What do you do when you love someone who doesn't love you back?

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1 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - okay i having a REAL hard time but can anyone PLEASE help....here goes. what do you do when you love someone that 1-you cant have 2-is not your age 3-doesnt love you back yet,you feel like they are lying you feel as if hes/shes yours and if you let them go its like yo... (131 words)

What can I do to strenghten my relationship with my parents?

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1 September 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I am 40 and have a family of my own. About 20 years ago, against my parent's wishes, I attended University which led to split between us for about 10 years. About 10 years ago I realized that I needed to make an effort to re-unite with my parents and sister. After trying for ... (417 words)

He's my best friend and I'm in love with him, but it seems that we will never be together!

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1 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i like this guy sooo much and he knows that i do but he dosent have the same feelings as i do and it kinda hurts when he tells me about his gf's cause i know that we will never be together but he is my best friend he is like my personal i guess theropist cause he helps me ... (177 words)

How can I convince people that my 25 year old boyfriend is not wrong for me? I'm only 14

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1 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok this is hard...im a 14 year old girl...and i have a 25 year old boyfriend...i know he loves me very much...we have promised eachother that we will wait for sex till im 18..and till then we act like normal people...except till we talk on the cpu...we say i love you, i want to ... (95 words)

He has told me he can't see himself with me in his future. Should I stay with him?

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1 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my boyfriend for over 5 years. I thought we were in the same place when it came to marriage, but it seems we may not be. He says he doesn't know if he sees me in his future because I don't have a job and have a lot of medical issues at this time in my life. A ... (152 words)

Would our age difference play a part in the duration of our relationship?

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1 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - ive recently been seing a girl whos nearly 17, im 24. she s a very mature girl and dresses really well, and extreamly pretty,intelegent,funny. when we met i thought she was a bit older and and she thought i was a bit younger. it started as just fun but we really clicked.... (104 words)

He has just recently contacted his ex....

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1 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Girls, I need your gut instincts. I recently logged into my boyfriend's page for the heck of it and there I found him messaging back and forth with one of his ex from 2-3 years ago. Now while they were dating, he was into her, but she broke up with him. So now she is back ... (154 words)

My best friend is mad at me and I don't know how to apologize to her!

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1 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - okay I have a friend, who i use to be BEST FRIENDS with, i loved her SOOOOOO much, and i still know EVERYTHING about her, its just that, she was normally more popular than me. Then after a bit, she got REALLY REALLY mad at me. And One of MY OTHER best Friend sided with her, the ... (194 words)

Is it wrong to love your step-sister?

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1 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - So since we all went out as a family me and her keep talking on msn frequency and i enjoy the time with her i get shy when i'm up her house and now she's gone on holiday for two weeks it seems the two weeks are taking forever and I really miss her and I keep looking at her ... (69 words)

We broke up in good terms but I don't understand why I'm still in love with him!

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1 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I know its only been a month and a half but I am still in love with my ex. We were together for two years and we broke up amicably for good reasons. He moved 2 hours away and I just got job an hour and a half further away. He kept calling and txting me a lot but he backed of... (155 words)

My wife has difficulty reaching an orgasm in the morning

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1 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife seems to have a problem having an orgasm in the mornings. At night, it takes literally a minute or two, but during the morning hours, it doesnt matter how long the sex last, she doesnt achieve an orgasm. Any ideas?... (42 words)

I like this girl but I think she would be more interested in my mates because they look better than me!

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1 September 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - well there is this girl i fell in love with but now ther is like tow ov my best m8's that like her but they look a lot better then me and she might not like me no more... (39 words)

I didn't want to have sex with him and he went ballistic!

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1 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me im so heart broken. Should i stay or not? We went to the museum today everything was so fun.. When then he said lets go to (his friends names house) and he wanted to have sex but his friend was home. So i didnt want to of course i didnt...Especial... (387 words)

I had unprotected sex and my period came but it was very light. Does this mean pregnancy?

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1 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I had unsafe sex on the 19. i had light spotting 6 days after. it was light brown. i have all of the pregnacy signs. i was going to buy a test but today i started bleeding. not alot and its light brown. i'm a week late. is this light bleeding my period being weird? or is this ... (63 words)

I'm a virgin and I' mnot sure I'll be "enough" for my experienced girl

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1 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hello i have question i am with this girl but she has had sex but i anit im only 15 but i anit had sex yet, but i recon i will have sex with her pretty soon and i am very scared about and there is 3 reasons why and that is my penis size and that is 15cm with hard and am i going ... (92 words)

I like this girl, but all my friends hate her!

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1 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hello everyone, me and this girl has been getting long really well and she just asked me out, and i said i tell you tomorrow. but the girl that i have falling in love with is a girl how most of my mates dont like, but i really do love her and if i go out with her then i will ... (76 words)

I'm sexually attracted to my female cousin but she's afraid of any physical contact!

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1 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am Sexually attracted to my female cousin who Lives with me she's 21 and i am 29 i want do something to her when she comes into my room and sits on my bed and talks to me but I Love her but when we try to do something she gets Scared and runs off into her her? so anyone g... (65 words)

I want to meet someone new and have a sex life, but the problem is that I have herpes!

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1 September 2008 (M)

age - Picked up a nasty virus called Herpes over 20 years ago ... the 'lady' in question 'forgot' to mention it! Told my wife before we married ... she accepted it ok , but we never had a really good sex life ... i didn't want her to get it. Right now no problem as I'm divorced + n... (110 words)

He can't leave his girlfriend! What can I do?

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1 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been involved with a man for 6 months although we are both in relationships. Mine has been going on for 2 and his for 4 years. He says that the passion is gone and it is the same for me and my boyfriend. he even calls me his soul mate. we tried to end it but we couldn't... (97 words)

How can I keep on flirting with him without getting too physical?

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1 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have compleated my fiesr week of college and their is an older guy who is very intrested in me. We have a lot in common and he is absoultly perfect. We tease eachother a lot (verbaly and physicaly). I was wondering if anyone knows anything i can do in terms of flirting or ... (96 words)