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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do I forget this kiss even happened or should I talk to him about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i've recently started a new job and there is this really nice guy ill call him james. me and james have been getting on great and we've been flirting and when we work together he always gives me a lift home from work, but the other day when james dropped me home we had a good ... (133 words)

I know I'm not pregnant, but I'm just wondering why I haven't had my period come yet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

28 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, i need some help..I had sex last month, 4 days before my period, had my period the last week of august and it went into the first part of september. Would i have another this month or since it came into this month, would i just skip this month? My boobs get really achy... (94 words)

What do these gestures mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - What does it mean if a guy you are dating but not in a relationship with, sometimes is looking at you in bed when you are a sleep and pushes your hair back from your face?... (36 words)

My internet LD guy friend recently got a gf! I thought he was the right person for me, though...advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5685 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - One of my best friends lives in Canada, and I live in the US. We both have admitted to liking each other. He tells me the cutest things, things you wouldnt hear normally. He makes me feel like the luckiest person in the world. I dont get to see him often, so we keep in touch ... (175 words)

I don't feel his love anymore. May be I should give up. Please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5685 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 15 years old . My boy friend does not really like talking to me now like before. When I say that I like another guy but i already give up on that guy and now I only like him . A long time ago he cheat on me too, but i have forgiven him just for one day. Should I let ... (141 words)

Is a long distance relationship worth it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

28 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - About a year ago, this girl moved from LA and we've been friends since. We met at a church which we attend very so often. She is absolutly amazing. She has great personality, she's very cute and has an amazing body. The thing is, she lives too far away from me. I would've... (75 words)

He's totally ready to take the relationship to the next level, but doesn't understand why I'm not.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im a 19 year old girl in the usa. I have recently become involved with a 39 y.o man who is from the U.K . I greatly enjoy his company and conversation but am afraid to commit. I feel we don't have a good chance because of the age difference. I have told no one of my dating him ... (140 words)

I confronted her about that secret and she said that she was NOT a girl at all...she is a transexual!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

28 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a serious question that has been bothering me for a couple of days. I met this girl two months ago online and she and I were fully in love with each other. We always chat almost everyday and she has been sending me pictues of her. I thought she was really cute and I even ... (298 words)

My best friend keeps asking me out, I've rejected him before, but he won't leave me alone.

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28 September 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My best guy friend keeps asking me out. I just want to be friends. I rejected him before, but he won't leave me alone. I'm trying to be nice and sweet but it's not working.I really don't want to hurt his feelings. Any ideas?... (46 words)

I'm very worried, I already have one child, I don't want anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I had my period 5 days late and my period was not the same, it was lighter and shorter. Could i still be pregnant? I've heard of implantation bleeding but i dont know how often that really occurs... ...if i take a pregnancy test will it show up if i am or not?... (55 words)

Whenever we arrange to meet, he has to cancel at the last minute. Is he seeing someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I met a guy about four weeks ago, we got on very well and have been texting chatting on the phone, but he never seems to be available to meet up, or else when we arrange it he has to cancel at the last minute. Is he seeing someone else?... (51 words)

He picked me over her, now he's dating her. I still miss him. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm pathetic. im still so in love with my ex, since we broke up in february we've been back and forth, and still having sex. we broke up cause he was trying to play me and talk to other girls, he even hooked up with one! the main problem we had was this girl who kept tryi... (85 words)

I have these stupid obsessions, right now it's Richard Hammond.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Help! I am 14 and all my friends seem to have boyfriends. I am the only one in my year who has never had a boyf and it's really getting me down. I recently went through some points with my social life and I am too forward with people. Also, I have these stupid obsessions, righ... (105 words)

Is this the end of our friendship, or am I just being stupid about the whole thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, well I'm an 18 year old girl, and this summer I made best friends with another girl of the same age. i have literally never been so close or so attached to anyone. but she went to university last week, and now I feel this like heartache everytime she doesnt reply to a ... (167 words)

How likely am I to be pregnant? I am starting to worry!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

- Okay aunties and uncles ... I am on the pill, and I had protected sex 3 weeks ago. I am on my pill-free week (3rd day in) and no hint of a period.... how likely am I to be pregnant? I am starting to worry.... (47 words)

Am I reading it all wrong? Does she think we're just friends? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

28 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I speak to this girl everyday and have met up with her numerous times for quiet drinks and a couple of days out mainly on her suggestion. Question is does she like me? i'm really into her- i feel comfortable and enjoy her company. but i can't tell how she feels. She ment... (192 words)

How can I reclaim my life and feel better about myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5683 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for two years now, since I was a senior in high school. I have a complicated family life; my dad was mentally, physically, and sexually abusive and was kicked out of the house when I finally told my mom at age sixteen. (This had been going on since ... (612 words)

I really don't know if I should continue the relationship, because I get hurt anytime he talks to me about his wife

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm in a relationship with a guy who is much older than i am, he is happily married with kids, i know he loves his wife so much. i really dont know if i should continue the relationship cos i get hurt anytime he talks to me about his wife, He is the only guy i have met who unde... (76 words)

I'm young, I don't want to be trapped in a pointless relationship for the rest of my life, so please, help me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. this is actually weird and hard to type and to share with everyone, as i havent spoke about this to my best mates, or my family, as i know wht theyll say, but i dont know if i want to except it. I'm 17 and have been goin out with my bf, who is 20 ths year for 3 years. ... (608 words)

I think he is generally shy,please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been taliking to a boy i met at a party for about a month now. we have met a few times mostly with our mates with us. whenever we say bye we always hug, but nothing else has happend. im not sure wether he likes me but we were out once and he put his arm around me. i do ... (79 words)

Can I have my cake and eat it ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

28 September 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello, I've been in a relationship for nearly 3 years, is a long term friend that went further, she is married and has intended on leaving her husband but we have had set backs, we've had our ups and downs as any normal "proper" couple go through, we spend lots of time together... (371 words)

I can't bring myself to ask her out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

28 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok,, I'm having a bit of a problem. Theres this girl I like and I think she does me, thing is, I can't bring myself to ask her out, or even ask for her number, I do talk to her quite a bit and I really believe that shes meant for me. Now, 2 things I know, I have very little... (130 words)

Were we wrong to want to smoke weed? My boyfriend freaked out about it...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Please don't judge me on this but i really need your help, for a while now me and 2 of my friends hve been wanting to try and smoke weed just once and not even a whole joing just to see what its like. so i spoke to one of my really close friend who we knew does it and he gt us... (261 words)

Should I be worried about my husband flirting with a coworker?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey i found out my husband has beeb texting a coworker female loads, he says it was just about work stuff as he has just got a new job and doesnt know how to do everything. So he says he was asking her how to do work stuff, and he said sometimes she just text asking what he is ... (162 words)

Why in the world won't he have sex with me? It's been a month!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Warning, this is a sexual problem with a little bit of graphic detail, hope it does not offend! I've been seeing this guy for over a month just now, and since we live 30 miles apart, every time we've got together we have also spent the night together. The first couple of ... (832 words)

Am I being unreasonable with my boyfriend about going out by himself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I have a boyfriend since almost 8 months ago, we really get along very well, and he is wonderfull with me and he does everything to please me. We both have very tight schedules so we normally see eachother 3 times a week. I know he has give up time with his friends to be ... (248 words)

Why exactly do people have anal sex when it's so disgusting?!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Here's the thing, all these people brag about anal sex, the porn industry claims that women love anal sex. We tried anal sex and all I can say about it is that it felt like i was taking a big crap. It was discusting and the thought of it made me sick. I have no desire for it. ... (133 words)

Please help with my drunk, insecure boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some help, I hope you have time it's a long story. I just turned 28 I have been with a man for 12 years, he was my first everything and we have 5 kids together. Here is the problem, he drinks ALOT. At first it wasn't so bad but know it if terrible. To top that off, he ... (387 words)

We were forced apart and now I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

28 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I were forced apart. During the first few months we were apart, she lied about me, lied to me, and was flirting with her ex boyfriend. Then when she said that we'd "never be allowed together again" she gave up and dated him, yet she said to me that she ... (572 words)

I feel like I'm cheating again! Will someone please help me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

28 September 2008 (?) age 26-29 - Im in love with my boyfriend of 1 month and my best friend of.....over a year. Im soo upset, because of everything thats been said between my boyfriend and I...things like...I'll always love you, your mine forever....ect. I always said i love you to friends cuz i cared....but ... (93 words)

Dazed and confused....do I follow my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm very confused at this point. Here's the deal, I'm currently in a relationship that has been going on for just a month. 2 weeks before i got with this guy, my ex and I had just broken up. I would sometimes space out while talking to my current boyfriend and think about my ... (310 words)

Why is he not replying to my messages? Did I make him mad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5678 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a male friend who I made while he was serving duty here in TX. We only met twice but got attracted to each other. Unfortunately, there was no time for anything else. He left a week after to Korea (He´s military). We started to keep in touch since. It´s a year ago now. ... (300 words)

Will this LDR work out or is my friend only asking for heartache?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5678 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering if my friends new relationship will work out? They've been dating for 1 month and the first week in September, she moved away for school and will be back at christmas. However, they will be spending 4 months apart at a time. She never met his family or friends ... (187 words)

My abusive boyfriend dumped me and I'm devastated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My abusive boyfriend dumped me and i am devastated and torn i know it was for the best but im consumed with pain and confusion because i did everything for him i forgave him for cheating on me and getting his ex pregnant then cheating on me with my friend, i forgave him for ... (184 words)

On having a bisexual boyfriend.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am currently dating a bisexual guy. I know he loves me and would do anything for me - that's not what is in question here. I recently found out that he's been looking at pictures of naked guys. Fine- it's like how straight guys look at porn. What's worse is that I found ... (125 words)

He's pushing himself away when I need him the most! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5685 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been going out with my BF 4 7months now, its been great up till now, we've both said that we love each other which was true, i still love him. But near the start of the month i've started feeling off (emotionally, physically and mentally) my teacher noticed and told me ... (228 words)

I don't know if it's healthy, I'm only 13. I feel supid, it started when I was using the bathroom at home!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

28 September 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - i know its stupid neither not good, but i usually get horny a lot. and i jock on my self. i dont know what to do to controlled my self but its hard. i need help with that, i cant stop watching porn and . sometimes it hurt my feeling. i dont know if its healthy but im only... (81 words)

He cheated but didn't go all the way with her. Should I be okay with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well ive been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now and around April he cheated on me with a girl.. he didnt go all the way with her. Well i forgave him and we've been fine ever since.. well the last week she text him for the 1st time in ages and all it said was hell... (192 words)

What can I do to maintain his erection longer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - For a few weeks my boyfriend cannot get hard with me and when he does its when I am giving him head and he tries to put it in me and can't get it in on the first time and goes limp.What can I do to keep him hard long enough to have sex?... (54 words)

Would it be acceptable for me to ask to visit her sometimes, to have dinner together? Her college is about 1.5 hours from my house.

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28 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My question is fairly simple, but requires some exposition. I just started freshman year in college. Throughout high school, I had feelings for a girl who was one of my closest friends. We started dating around middle of senior year, and had been together for around 6 mon... (169 words)

Would my age have any affect on him being granted a visa?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5683 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age - i have known my turkish bf 3yrs, been with him 1yr and see him 5 times a year even at the end of the season, i am 20yrs older he knows ive no money. i rent my home i asked him to visit me in the uk but he says no. now last nite he said he would apply for a visa. do you thin... (86 words)

I dislike girlfriend going out clubbing until 4 am with her male friends, is this unreasonable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

28 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hi, hope someone will help, been with my gf nearly 2 years and we both left long term partners to get together.she's 22 i'm 28. where as i have stopped going out much without her except mainly cos i dont want to, but she still goes out clubbing till 4am with her mates who ar... (130 words)

How do I say I'm sorry? I know I should have kept my mouth shut! I don't want to lose our friendship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5683 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

- Okay so...there's this guy I like who's basically my best friend. He suffers with Anorexia, and while he's been healthy for a while now, lately he keeps saying he needs to lose like 10 pounds. The thing is, he was in an accident, and he really can't exercise at all, so that ... (295 words)

I asked his friend if he was single, he said no, then returned to say that in fact he was single. He works near and I'm suddenly super shy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not an overly shy person, but this situation is making me feel incredibly timid, and I don't know how to go about it. I work at a mall, and from the entrance, I can see across to the other store. I'm not usually anywhere near the entrance, but recently, I've gotten to t... (253 words)

No commitment, and I think he may be controlling, should I just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating this guy for 5 mths. He tells my straight up he doesnt want a girlfriend but on the other hand he says if i see anyone else, touch, kiss, etc. then its over between us.And he's not seeing anyone else.what does that mean? are there differnt stages of dating? ... (74 words)

Am I a chump? Why am I even thinking this stuff?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

28 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Here's my story. I did have sex until I was 25 with a girl who I had pined over for a LONG time. We then had a 2 year relationship which started off great- both in love, it wasn't just physical I think we clicked quite well. Going into the second year the cracks were appearin... (677 words)

I'm not able to masturbate anymore, I'm 30 yrs old. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

28 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i Was enjoying masturbation very well 2 yrs ago and i am lost now now. i don't have any desire now . Earlier when i was ok i used to masturbate daily twice a day i used to feel guilty to have masturbated to known persons. i used to run finding toilets whenever i have a urge... (151 words)

What could all these symptoms mean? I'm so worried and confused!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, so I posted a couple of days back to get peoples opinions of whether or not I was pregnant. So a quick summary of that was - "I had sex with a boy, he had a condom, but I told him that he didn't have to wear it, and he said he would, but now I'm not sure if he did. ... (403 words)

I would really like to be friends, how long should I wait before talking to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5685 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend, now ex boyfriend, broke up with me over a month ago, and I was devastated. I'm a teen and I was in a long distance relationship about 2 hours distance. I had belongings which I left there last time I was there. So there were complications about it for about a mont... (205 words)

Are there side effects from masturbating 5/6 times a week?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

28 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i mastrobate 5 to 6 times in a week and i really wanna know if it will affect my health, or it is natural? or is there any side effects of that...sometimes i licked up some semen? so plz tell me that if its ok or shud i reduce it to 2 to 3 times in a week?... (60 words)

Please help me on how to deal with family and my ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age - I left my husband, he sent divorse papers to me. He has a girl friend, i don't have a boy friend. Before he gave my family member the divorse papers he told me on the phone he need to meet me to give me my belongings back. he will stay silent then surprise me all the time... (101 words)

We are having an affair, I got divorced recently and she is in an unhappy marriage, I realised I love her, your opinions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) age 41-50 - Hello All. I never thought I'd fall for a married woman since I 'KNOW' how wrong this is. However, I realized that it is possible even when you're 30 y.o to fall hardly for someone regardless of that they're married. The thing is that she's falling for me too. We never de... (153 words)

My friend to wait for her call, but in the end she didn't call me, I am very annoyed and want to get revenge!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - recently my freind invited me to hang out and said she would call for me (come round my house and meet me) within the next half an hour.i waited for about 40 mins and still no sign of her so i walked to house to see where she was to find out from her mom that she is not ... (112 words)

Does size and shape have an influence on sexual compatibility?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3477 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) age 51-59 - Sexual compatibility is important. We all have certain preferences; we all have certain things that do turn us “on” or “off”. Why is everybody so easily claiming: “It is not the size but the technique that is important”? It might be the scenario for some women but defini... (439 words)

Shall I just cut all contact with my ex as it's doing me no good?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have been thinking an awful lot about my ex boyfriend( we split 2 years ago!! i know, together for 8) i feel down and weepy recently- - yes ive been out with other guys - we split as he said he didnt love me anymore and starting seeing someone else - no he wasnt chea... (137 words)

Do women actually enjoy performing fellatio?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3641 days ago

28 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Do you women actually like the idea of having a penis in your mouth while giving oral? Or is it an inconvenience you're willing to go through to satisfy your man?... (31 words)

Why are fine-looking women so worried about their appearance? Do women have some kind of competition or acceptance problems with each other?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

28 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Alright, I just wanted to express my opinion. From a male perspective, and not that of a guy who looks around hungrily for sex. Women seem really image conscious, a little too much I'd say. I mean it's surprising how much women actually fret over this. Talking about si... (214 words)

Why do I think about giving my friend a blow job, since I am not gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

28 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - right, i am not gay but every time i see my friend who i have been friends for about 1 year and a half, i just like think about sexual stuff. like him giving me a blow job and stuff. why am i thinking this? plz help me... (49 words)

Should I get my ex a birthday present?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - we were goin for 2 months we broke up 3 months ago i want to get him a birthday present coz his b-day's in 2 weeks but im not sure i shud we still talk but we aren't as close as we used 2 be i appreciate all the help given thanks x ... (55 words)

I need to know how to win back his trust

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Im in love with a guy from 6 years now, n he does too. We were preparing ourselves for marriage and all of a sudden things went wrong completely. Even though our parents were against it, we had made all arrangements to get married. But I did a mistake by meeting the g... (204 words)

I miss my old military college...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

28 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Short story: I enrolled in a military school my first year of college. I was stressed out so I quit after the first semester. Now it's looking like a bad decision, but I don't know how I could reverse it. Longer story: My freshman year of college I enrolled in a military co... (258 words)

I need my job. So how can I cope with my ex courting another girl? We're all coworkers.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5562 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

- Hoping someone might have input on this. I split with my boyfriend about three months ago. I do have to seem him each day because we both work a second job. I felt bad about the breakup at first but am moving on now. Lately he has been a little strange at work. I ... (166 words)

When we have disagreements he insults me and kicks me out of his house. I'm the only one who apologises, every time. Help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I was with a guy for 3 1/2 months. Things went very quickly and we fell in love. He is 38 and I am 41. He is divorced with a 9 year old son and I am single with no children. When things were good, they were great. We were very compatible. The problems came when we had a di... (840 words)

Is it possible for a marriage to survive an affair when both partners are willing to try?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it possible for a marriage to survive an affair when both partners are willing to try. I had an affair and no longer love my husband - I do however feel great affection for him and love him very much as a friend. He still loves me and is keen to keep trying to make u... (118 words)

What do I do? do I carry on trying to get over him or do I try and get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi... I'm so low and confused....i feel to old to feel like this, but this is how it is! This is a follow on from a question dated 22/8/08 Sex is starting to slow down. Is this normal so early in a relationship?" if you would please read. sex never picked up and my now... (434 words)

I would hate not to have her as a friend. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

28 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have this really good friend who is female and we have known each other for a while now and we have talked about being more than friends and sgreed we would rather keep it at that tah have a relationship that may not last. But the problem is we keep falling out and I hate it ... (208 words)

He looks at women constantly. Any advice apreciated...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

28 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi... My husband and I have been together for nearly 3 yrs now.. our children are teenagers so we are not 'young chicks' as such. But he looks at women constantly (particularly blonde ladies as they are his preference) when we are out...sometimes i can take it an... (170 words)

He beats me, he cheats on me, he takes my money,but I'm lost in the mist of love..

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28 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - this guy and I have been dating for almost two years now. Its been a hard relationship I will admit. I gave my all I to this relationship and I feel so foolish at times when I actually take the time to think the "relationship" through. I did everything I could for him cause he ... (284 words)

Is this all just a game?

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28 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, i have a been with my partner for 18 years. We had our 1st child in 2000 after being together for 10 years, who is now 8 years old. Our 2nd child in 2002 who is now 6 years old. The last child in 2007 now is 1 years old. All our children have development proble... (349 words)

I turned down my coworker as I am married and love my husband, but why then can't I stop thinking about my coworker?

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28 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. Just a quick post before my husband catches me using his computer! There's this guy at work who had the cheek to ask me out a couple of months' ago. I turned him down *of course* - but have not been able to get him off my mind since. In fact I do not see him that often ... (123 words)

Spermicidal lube vs. Spermicidal foam?

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28 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was just wondering what the difference is between spermicidal lube and spermicidal foam..? and which is safer to use as well as a condom. Answers much appreciated. :)... (41 words)

My best friend has fallen for the one I fancy, he admitted he liked her too, I said it's fine to me although it's not, how should I react further?

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28 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - dear all you awesome agony aunts and thank you for your help in advance. i have liked this guy for quite a while now and learnt from past relationships that its worth the wait anyway just the other day he decided to like my best friend and as soon as he admitted that, my ... (145 words)

Should I break up with my boyfriend?

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28 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - should i break up with my boyfriend? i've known him for 2 and a half years ive loved him for half that and we've been dating for 5 months he is my best friend and i tell him everything. we did meet on myspace and we talk on the phone and use web cams all the time we talk eve... (116 words)

I like her and I want to be her secret lover for as long as she is here (she has a boyfriend back in her hometown). How should I go about this?

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28 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I'm confused, excited, nervous and thrilled at the same time. I feel overwhelmed. Yesterday night/Earlier this morning I slept with a beautiful woman that I meet last week. It wasent love at first sight, but more like instant attraction. We went ... (473 words)

He is ready to break up with his gf for me, but I'm worried about my reputation. I also need tips on how to react if he approaches me sexually, as I don't want him to break up with me if I reject him!

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28 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - dear agony aunt, i have 2 problems and have no idea how to deal, first of all i like this guy who likes me back and he is prepared to brake up with his girlfriend for me but i am afraid of what others might think, lets put it this way; i always aim higher and what people thin... (250 words)

Does he really not care at all?

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28 September 2008 (F)

age - I broke up with my bf of 4 years about a week and a half ago. The reason I broke up with him was because he wouldn't make a commitment to me as in living together or marriage. I've been back and forth with my feelings. Sometimes I miss him and sometimes I feel I did the r... (207 words)

My dad is dating this girl that hates my guts!

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28 September 2008 (?) age 26-29 - My dad is dating this girl that hates my guts and has no respect for me. I don't really like her when she's over I just igorne her pretty much or go a friend's house. She treats everyone like crap (cluding him). He treats her like gold. Before they started dating, me and m... (80 words)

Its so many things plaguing me that I don't know where to start and I feel like I'm going crazy.-Advice please!!

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28 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have reason to believe that I am suffering from depression. (My boyfriend suffers from clinical depression also) I've been dating this guy for almost 3 yrs, we have a 1yr old son, and we live together. Also we r both 21 yrs old. I believe that i started suffering from... (364 words)

Should I trust my girlfriend is not trying to go behind my back?

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28 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my girlfriend for about 5 months now. I have been cheated on by every single of my ex's so it has always been hard to trust a girl. Well just the other day, i was on my girlfriends facebook without her knowing and she was talking to some guy who she says she ... (229 words)

The idea of my wife being with other men doesn't make me jealous outright. But I don't know how I will feel on the night?

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28 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi my wife are i are 26 and have been married for 3 1/2 years. We were each others first but both had one other sexual partner before we started officially dating and eventually got married. My wife has recently lost a lot of weight she had put on due to a medical conditio... (200 words)

Now I am back on my feet and well able to perform but my wife wants to continue seeing this guy-Any suggestions?

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28 September 2008 (M)

age - Due to an injury I was unable to perform sexually for several years. The problem has since past. During that time I allowed my wife to take a lover. Now I am back on my feet and well able to perform but she wants to continue seeing this guy because she enjoys it. That is fine ... (199 words)

We like the same boy, but now she's getting competitive. Who do I choose?

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28 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so there is this guy that me and one of my other frends like. We both dont know if he likes one of us but we dont wont to ask him cuz we dont wont to hurt the others feelings. I flirt with him when i can but im always worrying about if she sees me doing that that she will ... (150 words)

She might be cheating, should I confront her or not?

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28 September 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - me and my girl have been dateing for 2 years now but people keep telling me she is cheating on me and she gos to college so she nevver has time for me i dont know if i should belleve them and brake up with her or to just dropp it what should i do ... (57 words)

Are these the symptoms of pregnancy?

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28 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - September 27th, Ok.I am scared.Me and My love had sex and i started suspecting pregnancy about 4-5 days ago.I have the symptoms: -Nausea (without vomiting) -Cramps (In legs) -Twings of wierd pain between my hips(below waiste) -Indestion(Never had that ever befor) -Skippe... (406 words)

Is it wrong for me to date an 18 year old guy? I'm 14.

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28 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so is it so wrong for a 14 year old girl who loves a 18 year old man be such a bad thing? I feel in love with a man named Daniel and he feel in love with me to, but my mom found out we were together and called him to "talk" to him. Now I am band from seeing or toling to him ... (95 words)

My soulmate is a gay male who's sending mixed signals. I fear I'm going crazy

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28 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Four months ago I connected with a co-worker. We began hanging out profusely shortly thereafter, with an unexplainable urge to be together every night. We would find ourselves talking until 3 am in parking lots in deep discussions that we never wanted to end. We found we had so ... (859 words)

We break up when we fight but get back together, then the cycle continues. Opinions?

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28 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I have been fighting a lot this week. We have been dating for about 4 months and we live together. In the beginning of the relationship we had a fight in which he called me a fucking bitch. I told him we needed to just be friends because I couldn't be with ... (465 words)

What do I do if he does not stop this nonsense? We serve on the same committee.

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28 September 2008 (F)

- Thank you in advance to all the great agony aunts who take the time to answer this. I did write in last week about a difficult situation where I am working on a committee with an ex who is being alternately rude and disrespectful. The work I am doing is important as much as the ... (242 words)

I gave him my heart, my virginity, my dignity, my everything! He took it and left! Will I ever get over him?

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28 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - We're both 18 and after nearly two years, we're over. I gave him my heart, my virginity, my dignity, my everything! He took it and left! I have no idea what I'm going to do without him! I based my whole life plan on him! I was in love with him, still am! And I know he loved me, ... (144 words)

WHy is he so upset with me but yet I give him the world?

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28 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - alright so heres the kicker my boyfriend isnt happy with me sometimes i dnt see y though because i give him the world he lives with me i feed him i make him dinner evry night i give him sex nethng sexually 2 him except anal No thnks neways i love him 2 death Id do nethng 2 see ... (108 words)

Do you think there could be any happy ending here? My ex is now with a woman who has done time for drugs, and has a history of domestic violence.

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28 September 2008 (F)

age - Do you really think there could be any happy ending here? It's been a year now that they have been together. Please read. Her name is T****. My man of 9 years left me for this woman he met. He has never done any kind of drugs and is totally against them. He met her... (261 words)

I was okay with being the 'other woman' but I have fallen for him. Now he's engaged, I love but I don't know what to do!

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28 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in a casual relationship with someone for 3 years. About 2 years ago he started dating someone he grew up with. He never hid the fact that he was dating her from me. Initially I was ok with being the "other woman" but over time I fell in love with him. I never told ... (126 words)

Am I too young for sex?

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28 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hi im 13 and want to lose my virginty.im i too young? what will i feel like after the sex? and worst of all i want to do it with my cousin whos the same age as me. i've like him sence i was 2 and i think he likes me back.what do i do.how do i get my parents to get me birth ... (90 words)

I betrayed my boyfriend's trust but have since come clean, now I need to prove to him I love him and we should be together!

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28 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I started dating my boyfriend and in less than a month of dating I went on vacation with my girlfriends, drank a little too much and cheated. When I got home he asked if anything happened I said no and we continued with our relationship. I never would have done what I did or ... (235 words)

Can I date my ex-girlfriend's friend?

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28 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I've been going out with this girl for couple of months but we broke up past summer. We broke up because she said she only wanted to be friends but she still had feelings for me. Since school stared, I've started to hang out with one of best friends and I guess we started ... (92 words)

Is there a chance for us? I know I sound selfish but he was my first and only love.

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28 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i met this boy in 2006. He chased after me for one year and a half and we went out for a while. everyday he would call me and we spoke for 4 hours. he wanted to spend all the weekends with me. but i cheated on him with his friend. he caught me holding hands and kissing his... (509 words)

What do her words and actions mean? Friends or more? And what should I do next?

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28 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I need some help with this situation: FACTS: - We've known each other for about 2 months, met through a friend - We've spoken everday wether it be txt email or msn. But extensively -huge messages numerous times a day - We met up for a few drinks then she suggested going ... (229 words)

Can Adult Friend Finder create a profile from information they find on the internet?

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28 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I found out my boyfriend has a profile on Adult Friend Finder. When I comfronted him about this he said it was a mistake and that he never made one. He said that the adult friend finder site must have created it, but it has some of his information. Can Adult Friend Finder ... (66 words)

My psychologist wants me to go out on a date, as I never have had that experience before. The problem is that I have a boyfriend who lives in another state....

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28 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - When I went to my pshycologist today, she told me that I need to go on a date with someone. She doesn't care if he becomes my boyfriend, she just thinks that the experience of going on a date with someone would help me, because I've never had that type of experience with a guy. ... (105 words)

Am I really his number one girl or am I blinded by love?

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28 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I have been broken up for about six months since april almost and now he has a new girlfriend after we broke up we were still dating on and off until the middle of july and we stopped because he found a new girl. now its september and she has been his girlfriend for ... (400 words)

My husband told me he flirted and danced with another girl in a club. Should I take this seriously?

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28 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I 23 years old and married with my husbund, 32, for three years and have 2 years old son. Last night he went out from work, and came home at 1am, drunk, and told me he flirted and danced with another girl in a club. I dont know, what to do. Shall I take this too seriosly? ... (57 words)

How can I get him to be with me and just me?

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28 September 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Ok, I just started my new job a few months ago and have had the biggest crush on my boss, to my surprise one day he text me and asked if we could hang out..so we did and ever since then we have been messing around. Well the downside to this is..he is married and has two kids. ... (193 words)

I like my friend's boyfriend, he likes me too, now I'm wondering if I should tell her what happened or keep my mouth shut?

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28 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - ok heres my problem well my freind she has this boyfreind right so we were having this party and latley i have been having feelings towards her boyfreind but i figured that since she is dating him i keep my mouth shut so like were at the party and were hangin out and my frein... (229 words)

What I want to know is should I give this another shot? Do I have the right to know if she had sex with this guy?

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28 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - About 3 1/2 weeks ago my girlfriend broke up with me. We had both become stressed from living with my parents, working, going to school, and raising our young son. The relationship unraveled. She says she loves me emotionally but not physically. She says there is no ... (1086 words)

He's dating another girl because his friends want him too, but he wants me to wait for him. Should I?

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28 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend broke up like a week ago. he says it was cuz we argued to much and we did. but now he wants to be back with me but his friends want him to be with another girl and so he's confused an wants me to wait for him and her to break. and he doesnt want me to date ... (142 words)