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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm 20, and I only feel happiest when I'm in a relationship. When I'm not a big part of me is missing. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 20, and I only feel happiest when I'm in a relationship. It seems like every time I come out of a relationship for whatever reason, I feel like something's missing in my life. I have only been in three relationships, and only one of those was serious, lasting over a tw... (85 words)

I'm worried about my girlfriend's health, she's just not eating properly. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

16 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with a girl i met at university for 8 months now. I feel that she does not look after herself properly and is very lazy in her approach to life. Eg. she wont eat three meals a day and wont cook for herself. Instead she will snack on things like... (262 words)

What classifies as an "active" sex life? Just curious?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How much times do you have to have sex in a week to have an active sexual life??... (18 words)

What can we do about our friend who is harming herself? Should we tell?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, my ex - best friend has been cutting herself for about a year now, and me and my other friends don't know what to do. I've been reading stuff about telling, but were too afraid. So, please tell me anything i can do to get her the help she needs. Also, she always wears lond... (87 words)

My ex is confusing me, is she with my friend just to bother me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - The problem i have is my gf left me practically 3 years ago, she has dated other guys, but i still feel that heavy look on my back when she is around, the one where you feel someone is watching you. This isnt just lately, but even when she was in her last relationship, i dont... (148 words)

I feel that now it's too late to do anything about her, or is it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey there, I've really liked one of my close friends for a while now. I asked her out but her reply was she didn't want to ruin our friendship. This didn't make me go off her one bit. she is unaware of me still likeing her Recently another friend of ours has got quite close ... (194 words)

I'm stuck! I'm in love with two guys and I don't know what to do. Please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. i have been with my bf for 3 yrs and we have a one yr old daughter together. at the beginning things were great but the last yr and half hasnt been good. we argue, we have little scraps and we just dont seem to be how we were. the romance has died and gone almost all ... (375 words)

I feel my life is going nowhere, for as long as we're at his dad's!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I lived with my boyfriend for a little over a year and then we moved out and moved into his dads house to try and save money to buy a house. Well, times got tough and we haven't been able to really save any money because his business was not generating any money. Now, his ... (436 words)

I don't want to go out with him anymore, but I'm afraid he'll do something bad to himslef.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I dont know what to do about my boyfriend. He is 14 and smokes about 15 cigarettes a day. His dad is an alcholic and beats him reguarly. Every time I see him he has more bruises. He has also tried to commit suicide by taking overdoses. But him and his father are getting coun... (129 words)

After hearing bad news, my boyfriend put his foot through the TV set. It scared me and I don't know what to do now.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I have been dating this boy for a while. I live with him in this cute little apartment in suburban Ohio. Recently he found out his little sister has cancer and when he found out he got so upset he put his foot through our TV. I love him very much but that scared me, a... (73 words)

Was he just in it for the sex? Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so ive been out on a few dates with this guy i met about a year ago.. we've kept in contact since then..emails, texts etc. and bumped into each other on nights out every couple of weeks, we've ended up sleeping in the same bed 3 times after house parties, nights out ... (175 words)

I don't know where to start seeking help about my bf's problems. Please read and advise?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm writing to ask for some advice, I don't know if this is the right place to go but I don't know where to start. It's to do with my boyfriend, Jack. I'll give a summary of why we're looking for help. Jack grew up in a pretty unstable upbringing, his dad left when he... (1142 words)

What exactly does "love" mean to you?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - heya, A friend of me asked me this, and i want to get some of your opinions on it... but can you tell me...? What exactly is love? I know... kinnda a big question... but i want to see what other people think it is :) And i dont really want the dictionary meaning of it... (66 words)

Our sex life is great it's just that he is wanting to do it always, is this a normal guy thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone just need some advice... i recently gave away my virginty to a person that i am with.. we both love each other and i felt it he was the right guy... anyway the issue however is the fact that he is alwaysss on it... our sex life is great and i do love it when we do ... (121 words)

I'm sure she's playing games with me. Does this mean she is interested? How do you play mind games with a woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

16 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - How do you play along to mind games with a woman? I've browsed this site and have seen that women like playing games and now I want to do the same on this girl who I'm pretty sure is playing games on me. I really like her, and sometimes she's really friendly around me,... (133 words)

My boyfriend pouts, holds on to tiny arguments and gives me the silent treatment for hours! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend pouts. He give the silent treatment and will hold on to TINY arguments for hours. If I say the wrong word he completely gets bent out of shape and gives me the silent treatment. I can be sarcastic at times, as well as him. If he is sarcastic with me I think it is ... (231 words)

He has a history of cheating and many opportunities to cheat at work, should I trust him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey aunties and uncles... i need some advice on something that is bothering me... so here goes recently ive got together with this guy after a long winded journey due to his ex still being in the picture, never the less we've been together for about 6months now and its goin... (194 words)

What are some examples of playful banter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - what is some examples of playful banter? i ask this because this girl that i like alot says the playful banter is a huge turn on. i dont want to ask her what it means because then i would sound like an idiot. please help me... (47 words)

I am worried how my being overweight will affect my relationships in the future. What can I do to increase my chances?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

16 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have posted questions previously about how I worry about how my appearance will affect my relationships in the future. Quick reminder - I am nineteen years old, six foot dark hair blue eyes. My close female friends say I'm sweet and kind and lovely. I'm also considerate... (484 words)

Reluctant to be intimate with him because he had sex with another girl during our break up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. I have a situation and would really appreciate some advice. Ok well me and my bf broke up 5 months ago. 2 or 3 weeks ago we got back together. But in the time we were broken up, he had sex with another girl. I was totally upset when I found out becuase he w... (221 words)

How do you make love to a very large guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This may sound so stupid but...........I need to know, my boyfriend is overweight a very large tummy and I'm thin. Oh my gosh I'm so embarresed to ask but how do you make love to a very large guy, his tummy gets in the way. And he's not very well endowed but he's wonderful and ... (65 words)

We are really serious, but I can't let go of the past.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 15, and I have been with my boyfriend for two years. We are really serious, but i can't let go of the past. He went to a party and cheated on me and i was so hurt so icheated on him and he used to lie and this hurts me to even write this. I don't know what to do, I want to ... (189 words)

He will not be with me if I keep this child!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - We broke up with my bf about a month ago after a year and a half. It was a great relationship, but he saiz, that he wasn't all that happy and so he needed time to be alone and focuse on himself. I gave him that time, even tho it was very hard. We didn't talk for couple of weeks ... (387 words)

I am really getting confused what does the look he gave me mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!! i would really like some advice on my sutuation. theres this boy who i have a big crush.he does have a girlfreind but yesterday i saw him with her i kind treid to ignore them so i turned away and spoke to my freinds.my freinds told me he kept... (126 words)

How do I handle my possessive boyfriend ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey all , i would like to ask for your advice about my problem. i really don't know who else i should ask .. well , i have a boyfriend who is younger than me. he's 2 years younger than my age now . now , i'm 17 years old . i love him very much .. i really love him! i nev... (455 words)

Any advice other than "aw, you need to trust him" which is what my friends have said?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a sort of odd situation. I've considered myself a lesbian my entire life. When I was 15 I told my mother that i wasn't interested in boys, but that there was a girl I liked and she freaked out. She instantly insisted that I start to date boys and got my cousin in on ... (552 words)

I keep losing my erection with my gf

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

16 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - well i have a girl friend and we have been going out for 3moths and the first time we had sex i was hard but the 2 time we had sex i coulddnt get hard. for some some reason i masterbat 2 porn but only like a littil not alot i do it like 1 or 2 times a moth thats it.... (62 words)

I am deeply in love this girl but she lives three and a half hours away-Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hi everyone i am deeply in love this girl but she lives three and a half hours away. i haven't yet confessed my feeling too her because i believe nothing will ever happen in the future. i went out with her in my earlier years but seeing her again brought back all those feel... (76 words)

I understand that parents are a bit wary of letting me go over to Ireland to see someone they'd barely met, but they're being unreasonable about it!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Aunts. It started like this, I met a guy online and we liked each other loads, so I gathered as much proof as I could that he was who he said he was, and arranged to meet up with him. We'd known each other for over a year and a half over msn before we met. When we ... (463 words)

I used to really love him and feel attracted to him, but now I feel that all I want to concentrate on is to study and get good grades -Why

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 months now. I’ve always had minor doubts about the relationship, thinking in general that it could only last till I go off to university, and I’ve heard much advice that long distance doesn’t work. Plus my boyfriend gets really u... (277 words)

Are all Turkish men this jealous? He said he's the only guy I should look at. Should I talk to him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2462 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a long distance relationship for around 2 months now with a turkish guy 4 years older. I really like him, but when we talk on the phone and he knows i have been out, he asks if i went out with boys. and when he says love you at the end of a call, and i just say ... (149 words)

Is my ex jealous that I'm interested in someone else or does he genuinly want us back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok im not too sure how to put this question but i will have a go. about 5 months ago me and my ex split up but we`re still really close. ive recently been showing intrest in another guy and me any my ex hasnt been as close, all of a sudden my ex told me that he loves me and w... (128 words)

Should I apologise for yelling to get his attention? Should he have apologised for the huge bruise on my leg? Should I find better ways to deal with him when he is moody?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Last weekend I went to a club and met my boyfriend there. He went out with his guy friends first and I went out with my girlfriends first. When I walked in he was super sweet and flirty and we were all having a great time. We were sitting at a booth with really low small ... (444 words)

We can sleep with other people although we are married... to each other! What does this mean? Are we over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - why would my husband be okay with me sleeping with other men? We have talked about an open marriage, but i can not wrap my head around this one? i am not emotionally stable to say the least. Why would i be okay with him having sex with others too? are we over?... (57 words)

I am afraid I will marry this guy and divorce to be with a woman!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - so, i am in a relationship with a man. and i always knew i was attracted to girls, but the more serious our relationship gets the more i really feel the lesbian inside of me coming out....Im afraid i am going to marry this guy just to divorce him for a woman... what should i ... (56 words)

Please explain why it is that when men look at porn and get aroused, they don't go to the wife to include her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a problem with my husband wacking off to porn! I'm a woman that believes in pleasing her husband! Even if I'm not in the mood, I will still give him sex. My other delima is that I want sex at least 2-3 times a day every day and he is usually once a week. I knew this when ... (432 words)

How important is beauty/cuteness? What do you think about love at first sight? The girl I like fancies another boy because of his appearance!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

16 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - What do you think about love at first sight? Is it just like to be in love with somebody we think it's pretty, just because of the appearance? I'd like to believe so... I like a girl who likes another boy, just because she thinks he's cute... I never told her what I felt for ... (60 words)

7 months pregnant and have to deal with the fact that he wants to keep nude pics of him and his ex! Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there I am 7 months pregnant, it has been a hard pregnancy as my partner and I were not together when I got pregnant but when all was decided we decided to give it a go... again. Our relationship of 2.5 years has a tough one as he was still very sad about the breakup from... (798 words)

I'm having his baby but my ex doesn't care and insults me after hearing lies about me, he also said I have an STD (untrue) and that our baby isn't his! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i just just lookin for some advice as im really lost right now ,my ex and i broke up after a big argument wer he punched the wall and broke his hand i never heard frm him again he changed his number! then a few weeks ago i found out i was pregnant an i got in touch with him ... (333 words)

How do you find a decent man? One who doesn't just want you for sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you find a decent man? who doesnt just want you for sex? How do you know when they are telling the truth and not just trying to get into your knickers? coz I dont have a clue, and neither does anyone else I know. Please help, Im starting to feel like I shouldn't trus... (71 words)

My partner gets off on watching 'she-males' and he wont stop!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - please help. I love my partner, but he loves watching she males all the time and he stimulates watching them. Its breaking my heart. Itold him to stop and he says its normal and wont stop. I have just had a baby and feel down. Is he right to do this.... (52 words)

Our 1 year wedding anniversary went unmentioned. Does this mean we have a bad marriage??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Wondering if this means we have a bad marriage..Although I feel we have a decent marriage. We have a 6 month old and a 17 month old. I stay home, he works. He likes his job and it is not stressful for him. Well, yesterday was our 1 year wedding anniversary and nothing was even... (200 words)

I'm bothered about all these pictures he has of another woman and some ex's, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This gonna be as concise as possible. I found six pictures of a woman in provocative dress (lingerie, bedsheet) in different poses in my boyfriend's email address. I confronted him about it and he got mad and said that he only asked for those because he wanted to see how she ... (331 words)

I keep thinking that I'm missing something in my current relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I was wondering if someone can help me. I cannot seem to keep thinking about my ex girlfriend. I have been dating another girl, and though I do not believe in cheating - I feel like I am, because I keep thinking about my ex girlfriend? I keep thinking that I am missing somethin... (59 words)

Should I shave or not? That is the question.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont no what to do. I dont no wether to shave my pubes or not! I mean, if I do then how much do I shave off! I shaved some a while back, and kept it up for a few months but there were always little bits of stubble. Please help! xx... (55 words)

Apparently I said some embarrassing things, now I've lost my friend, and she refuses to talk to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age - Hi I have a friend and we have this special relationship. We have kissed and flirted with each other quite a bit, yet we dont talk about it. However she knows that I love her because I told her quite a few times. I got drunk the other night and I called her and ruined the rela... (207 words)

Why wont he respond to my booty call?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - When you have slept with someone 2 times and both know it is just for sex.. then why would he not respond to my booty call? The sex was great and he is definately not in a relationship. help. ... (39 words)

Could this go anywhere, regardless of the age difference and distance between us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so one of my cousins moved to the USA (I live in the UK), and she has a friend who is a 16 year old guy. She introduced me to him via Instant Messenger, he is really, really nice and funny. I am only 13 and I truely feel as if I am in love. I know some people would say ... (144 words)

She just wants to be alone for the week to see if she misses me enough to get back with me. Any advice please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

16 September 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - we started dating 11/06. we moved in 6/07 and she broke off 06/08 on my birthday. she told me she did not feel loved. she lived with me until july 19. i went away for a week. upon my return, i made an effort to show her my love. she accepted my change and called me a few days... (265 words)

I'm sick of his behaviour and I want to break up with him, but how do I end it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has been ignoring me constantly recently, acting like hes mad at me and being either distant, or sarcastic and patronising when we do talk. Even though i still care about him, his behaviour is making me miserable every day, i'm getting sick of it and I want to ... (157 words)

What is all this? I have a boyfriend already? Why do I have these feeling for my cousin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i am 22 years old and i have a cousin (my mothers sister's son), he's 2 years younger to me. We have always been friendly n never really acted like brother-sister, but this time when i met him i began to have feelings for him that are not so sisterly. We kept holding hands and ... (210 words)

I told a little white lie and now he wont talk to me, please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Last night my boyfriend got majorly pissed at me for telling him a white lie. Basically when he was driving home from work he called me and asked what I was doing, I told him that I was just straightening up the house, which I did earlier but right at that moment I was slee... (154 words)

I'm hoping to go on a first date soon with someone I met online, any tips please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

16 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm hoping to go on a first date soon with someone I met online and i'm a bit rusty. We haven't actually seen each other face to face yet and i'm worried about there being a dreaded silence period, as i'm fairly shy and I think she is as well. I read somewhere that t... (166 words)

Are all 21 year old guys this careless about there finances?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 2 years is very and I mean very bad at keeping his finances in order. He's 21 years old and he has collection agencys calling him every day. he gets numerous letters in an atemt to collect debt, and his checking account is like -500.00. I know he is young but I ... (228 words)

She deliberately excites me...we're in our late 50's and we're first cousins!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5700 days ago

16 September 2008 (M)

age - I am a 59y/o divorced male who has a 58y/o female first cousin. We visit each other about 3 times a year. She is married to man about 15 years older than she is. Over the years weve always been close, she even tells me when she and hubby are having trouble, which has been a ... (352 words)

Is there a test to see why I have problems with pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, what it is, i have 2 boys age 2 and 4, i got pregnant in jan and had eptopic at 8 week. i found out i was pregnant in aug and just had a miscarriage and i was nearly 2 months. Is there a test to see why, cos its mad, and i want reasons why. i want a baby so much and i wa... (86 words)

I want to stay virgin until marriage but the idea of marrying a girl who will dislike sex is haunting me as I have a high libido. Please advise.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

16 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello People, This is my first time in here and in any website of the like. I came across your website when researching and I found it nice and friendly so here I am. I am a 28 year old virgin male. It is weird I know but well I like to have sex with my wife only. I al... (174 words)

We argue a lot, so should I move to another country with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married nearly ten years we have two children. My husband is from Albania and for the last five years he just wants to live in Italy or Greece. He has brothers in both countries and he thinks its a better life. I am scared of going because our relationship is not v... (155 words)

We're in a long distance relationship, she kissed another guy, can I still trust her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, ive never done anything like this before, but i need some advice and cant turn to my friends for it. im 22 years old and ive lived in the north east of england all my life, and i started dating a girl over 10 months ago, who was originally from california, but ... (463 words)

He won't open up to me - he is very secretive - is he cheating on me or has he got something to hide?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is sending me really bad mixed signals! From the outset, he's always been on the secretive side and never really willing to tell me anything too personal about himself. I've always attributed this to a) cultural differences (he's japanese and i'm english) and b) ... (548 words)

Techniques on how to cover blemishes by using make up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 17 almost 18 and really need help in the make up department.I get blemishes like every other teenager and untill i finally get rid of them i thought that i could mabye improve my confidence with make up.Problem is i don't have any idea which is best for me.I have pale skin ... (161 words)

I can't seem to penetrate her, we are both virgins, any recommended positions/tecnhiques?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I are virgins and when we try to have sex, I cant seem to go inside her. She seems so tight. We had done loads of foreplay and she is very wet and moist but im not having much joy. Any positions/techniques to try or what to do?... (51 words)

Are we ready to take the next step?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

16 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 26 and my partner is 20 are we ready to get engaged??? We have been seeing each other for about 5 months now, and i have never felt as strongly for someone as i do her, we have been living together for about 3 months now and over come jealous ex`s people trying to split ... (141 words)

Does this request for lunch mean anything from a guy??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I emailed a guy i liked to buy him lunch which he turn down coz he said he could not make it and suggested another day instead. I did not ask him again pursue since then. However, after a week or 2, he suddenly ask me about the lunch and insist that i buy him lunch based on the ... (73 words)

She is just so cold....do I sound needy??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

16 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, everyone i will to thanks those that help me out in my prior post in this site (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/we-became-very-close-but-now-its-all.html). Things are getting better for the past few weeks, but then there is another thing happened which i cannot explaine... (177 words)

I asked him to be gentle but he focused on himself during sex and wouldn't mind my objections. Should I believe him that it won't happen again?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

16 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, So I need some serious advice again. Ive been with my boyfriend a little over 4 months and for our anniversary, i booked a hotel to make our 'first time' special. I had told him I wanted to take it slow with lots of foreplay and candles and music ect and we tal... (571 words)

I found photos of him as a cross dresser in the Internet, it seems he was an escort and is bi, I am so frightened to aproach him about this and don't know how.

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16 September 2008 (F) - I have been with my man for 2 years now, we hit it off from the word go and fell in love pretty quick, we are so close and always confide in each other if we have anything on our minds. We have just bought a house together and I could not have been happier. We have even spo... (356 words)

We'll be meeting this coming Saturday, after texting each other. How do I make him want me the way I do?

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16 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, there's a guy i want to be with. we met through the phone mistakenly, when he mistyped a digit and dilled my number instead. we got talking, then we realised we visit the same club every saturday. we arranged to meet but it failed last week. since then, we've been ... (88 words)

It seems like he might like me, but inexperienced as I am, I'm not sure. What do you say?

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16 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. Alright, so I really like this guy in my grade, and I want to know if he likes me back. We're pretty good friends; we talk and joke around all the time. Recently he's started walking me to some of my classes, and whenever we're talking he looks at me a lot - even when his ... (121 words)

We only have sex infrequently and he lets everything else come between our sex life. How can I get him to see how much I need sex?

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16 September 2008 (F)

age - My boyfriend used to have a really high sex drive and now seems to have none. We have gone weeks without sex and I seem to be the only one who cares. When I said something to him about it he actually said to me "Well, I have a lot on my mind and it's not at the top of my ... (149 words)

Being cheated for 3 years, want out now. What type of financial support can I get from my husband for me and my child?

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16 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I found out my husband cheated on my when our son BeBe was just 4 weeks, he is going to be 3 this Oct. The other woman just gave birth to my husband child 3 month ago. After almost three years of sharing my husband with the other woman, there is no longer hope that he will... (105 words)

He's depressed and won't seek help, I feel all I do is take care of what he needs while he neglects me. I think I want to end it but how?

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16 September 2008 (F)

age - I'm a divorced 48 yr old in a four year relationship. My boyfriend is 50 and he is depressed constantly and won't tell the Dr or get on medication for it. He seems so up and down, you never know how he'll be. He never remembers my birthday (not in 4 yrs), he has sent flowers ... (185 words)

What should I do now to stop being pregnant??

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16 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Last night i had sex usig condom but unfourtunatley it broke and becose i was scared i took a pill of microgynon which i had stopped for a while, what shall i do now? Is it possible that this piss to not have an efect from the first day? What you advise me to do ? I am realy af... (65 words)

My online boyfriend can't seem to move on from past offences.

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16 September 2008 (F)

age - Hi I would like to hear some opinion from anyone here. I have my long distance bf from US whom I been with for 2 yrs, we haven't meet yet but soon. As a normal couples we do have our arguments even to the smallest things. I normally send an email or call to apologize to him... (315 words)

On top of struggling financially, I discovered that my husband has been sleeping with our neighbour. I don't know what to do.

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16 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help. I am in a very very bad place. I work in an industry that is taking massive hits and lay offs everywhere. I am responsible for 2 children (from my husbands 1st relationship)and my husband, He also works but we rely on my wage ( I earn more) anyway I constant... (361 words)

What is the difference between loving someone and being in love?

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16 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - What is the difference between just loving someone and being in love?... (12 words)

My boyfriend suddenly became abusive and now won't contact me. Help?

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16 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i met my boyfriend during xmas at my home in 2006. for quite sometime, we were so much in love especially i love him too much. but to my suprised sudently he changed his attitute towards me, and started abusing me everyday, still i told him that i love him. now its been a ... (98 words)

My girlfriend wants me to masturbate in front of her - but I don't know how.

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16 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm a 14 year male and my story's alittle akword... my girlfriend asked me to masterbate im front of her, (not going into detail) and i really don't know how to masterbate. i'm pretty despirate...... (39 words)

I really love gothic, black metal music. Does everyone go through this phase?

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16 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am a gothik girl but don't wear a lot of black.. but love the music.. black metal .. death metal..because of the state of war i lived in... anyways,i just wanted to ask if this a normal phase?i mean does everyone get threw with it?because it is affecting my life very much.. i ... (106 words)

I'm getting restless with my girlfriend of over a year. Help!

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16 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - ok, i dont know if im in love! ive been wit the same girl for 1 yr and 1 month and been faithful but ive been thinking about cheating on her! some days i wanna be with her and some days i wanna be single and be out meeting new girls! we fight alot and im very insicure so i dont ... (99 words)

I am unsure about my sexuality, how do I tell my boyfriend?

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16 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 17, female...and i am very confused! i have a boyfriend who i love but i cant stop looking at or thinking about girls!!! before i met him i considered myself bisexual...but i never knew for sure...i find women way more attractive than men...women are more attractive to me ... (90 words)

I gained a lot of weight through depression, any advice?

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16 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I really have a weight problem...am 5 10 and weighs 178. I gain weight because I went trough a depression....now I want to lose it but I find mysel depressed everytime I look in the mirror.....it becoming an obssession......and I don't know what to do.....I just wanna go back ... (78 words)

This guy tries too hard to impress me. How do I tell him to chill out?

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16 September 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I recently started dating this guy. Hes great and sweet but the problem is he seems to be trying too hard impress me. I think part of the problem is I have very strict standards for him I really like him but I wish just he relex a bit. Hes acting like a robort trying to ... (74 words)

An old affair contacted me, then blew me off. I'm crushed, how do I get over this?

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16 September 2008 (F)

age - 5am and the pain is still there. Its 5am and the pain is still there. I did manage to sleep but have woke at 5am and the feelings are still so ripe. The contact ended yesterday with a final text saying "it was for the best it ended". I instigated the ending because i... (561 words)

Why do I run away every time a guy shows interest in me?

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16 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What's my problem? I start to like a guy, and as soon as he starts liking me back, I run scared. It doesn't matter how sweet or genuine he is, I just don't like them anymore. It's as if I prefer the chase over the actual prize. This probably explains why I have never been in a ... (110 words)

Is it normal for my feelings to change this often?

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16 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Is it normal for me to have been in a 9 month relationship and stop liking him after 5 months but the 6th month love him and 7th hate him? Is it also normal that I can one day love someone and the next just dog them and have no remorse for what I did? Does this sound a little ... (125 words)

Why do I still have feelings for an old teacher, even though I know I have no chance?

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16 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I just transfered to a new school. I kind of like it, but it's more strict there. I'll admit, I do miss my old school at times. Mostly because I left someone who I loved there. That person was my teacher. He was 45, married, with a son who is now nine months old. I promise... (290 words)

He said he would enjoy meeting me, is he interested?

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16 September 2008 (F)

age - i am intrested in a guy i saw at a resturant he was performing ,after the performance when we were leaving he was staring at me but i could not tell if the look was look of intrest or something else, ihave sent him 2 e-mails commenting on his performance and that i want to see ... (93 words)

I'm aware being on the pill is meant to 'trick' your body into thinking it's pregnant, but....

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16 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Just a quick question here. Might sound silly but I just wanted to know. I'm aware being on the pill is meant to 'trick' your body into thinking its pregnant as such. Does this mean any emotions you experience whilst on the pill, you will be likely to experience when you... (63 words)

I'm just wondering what I can do to get my little sisters' head right without beating the holiness out of her.

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16 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - what's the charge if someone tries to get a person raped? i have 3 little sisters and the youngest invited a guy to our home while i was gone. my little sis who is 21 now, was raped by that same guy when she was 16. im just wondering what i can do to get my little sisters' hea... (69 words)

I want to be able to trust this guy more than anything...trust that he wont hurt me...but don't know how to.

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16 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Every relationship i've had i've ruined. As soon as a relationship starts getting serious or i start feeling to much i either end it or i act like a jerk and wait for the guy to end. I did this a few monthes ago with this guy i really liked and possibly could have loved. We d... (278 words)

Will this new long distance relationship last?

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16 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy i know has just started going out with his new girlfriend for about a month. AT the beginning of September, she moved away for school and Im not sure when she's coming back. He, however, lives in rez with some friends and has already cheated on her, in less than one ... (120 words)

Can a fetish be cured?

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16 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are a completely happy, normal couple. Sort of. Earlier in our relationship I noticed it was hard for him to get it up and even keep it up. We struggled for a few weeks. He was more mad about it than I was. He later confessed he had a fat fetish. I real... (91 words)

Should I even risk it since he is, in a way, one of my teachers?

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16 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm interested in the TA (teaching assistant) for one of my classes. We have a lecture session and then the discussion session for some of my classes. The TA directs and teaches the discussion session. He seems like the type of guy that I'd want to date though. Is it okay for ... (113 words)

How can I make my mum talk about masturbation?

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16 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 year old girl and I masturbate frequently. I don't know if my mum knows, I want to tell her, but I can't! alternatively, how can I make her talk to me about it, without letting her know that I masturbate?... (43 words)

16 wks pregnant and my husband's just told me he's fallen out of love with me. Please help.

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16 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 16 weeks pregnant and my husband told me after the last appointment that he has fallen out of love with me. I asked him how long he felt like this and he said just a few days. Can you really fall out of love in a matter of days? My husband has gone through depression this... (168 words)

Has anyone been to a clairvoiyant and what they told you helped you make a decision in life, or do you think it's a load of rubbish?

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16 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, just a quick question. I was on holiday a few weeks ago at a well known seaside resort and i went to see a clairvoiyant. I'd been to this area a couple of times and have always wanted a reading, and this time i plucked up the courage to go in. I have been interest... (259 words)

I know this sounds ridiculous but I want to spend the rest of my life with her after high school!

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16 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to tell her I love her, I know ways to tell her, but i want it to be the right time and if I should kiss her again. Of course I will ask because that is me, but I don't want her to say yes even if she is not ready. I know this sounds ridiculous but I want to spend the ... (143 words)

I don't want her to go with him, because I just know he's going hurt her and cheat like he did with me!

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16 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok I'll start from the begining. Ummm.I meet this girl this school year call her Tay. Tay started going with..."Jay". Tay and Jay were such a pretty couple and so affectionet. They were together maybe for about 2 weeks. And about 3 times a week she'd ask me about my ex "Rob" ... (236 words)

I am just so outraged! Is he some kind of pervert? What should I do?

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16 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently made a horrific discovery that is making me questioning the man I thought I loved. While helping to clean out his room, I came across a stash of some 30 or more porn magazines and several DVDs stashed away. I was shocked. He told me that he'd had them since before w... (96 words)