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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My friend told me it's best to lose my virginity myself and not let my boyfriend do it....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - If been with my boyfriend for more that one year and i want to have sex with him (im a virgin)...so I told a friend about it and she told me that it was better that i would lose it with myself so he will not see the blood, and i wouldnt feel the pain with him. What should I do... (65 words)

Me, my wife and our girlfriend...happily ever after?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

15 September 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Okay, here is the situation. My wife of nearly ten years fell in love with a woman after a period of time, where it was mostly just playful and some physical stuff. It was not intended and I always thought my wife was bi curious, but she obviously is bi sexual. The othe... (170 words)

I can't tell if she is interested in me or just being friendly.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - OK, there is this girl at work who always makes it a point to say hi to me. She talks to me unlike she talks to her other friends, calm and peaceful. I catch her quite alot starring at me from her desk and when I catch her she looks away. I finally asked her if she wanted to g... (131 words)

Did I miss a small window of opportunity with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

15 September 2008 (M)

- Hello to all! A young lady(29) applied for a job at a small school I run a few days ago. The job is about 5 hours but during the interview there seemed to be an instant attraction between us. She asked me if I was married and when I said no(I am 37) she commented "I can... (655 words)

Are we dating if he hasn't come right out and said that? I met him online.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i met a guy on a dating site we when out like three times we kiss on the third day. then one nite him ant i we whent out with my friends and one of my girl friend liked him.so one nite that i whent to her house i left my cell phone and she got his number and she started ... (142 words)

Is it his behavior or am I noticing things that aren't really there?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I recently auditioned for a show and got in and I went to a rehearsal and we had to go round the room and meet people we haven't spoken to before and find out what part they were in the show and a bit about themselves... a get to know you session kind of thing. I was maki... (381 words)

Many years on my old affair has contacted me again. He relit the candle and now I miss his contact so much, as he left again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age - How long does it take to get over a broken heart? I am married and some years ago i had an affair. It ended after a few months. I was very sad for a long while but got over it. The affair was with a married man and was a "no strings" affair. Now many years on he has ... (235 words)

Is our love a lost cause or is what I did forgivable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5697 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello.. I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year and a half and we have been inseparable ever since. We were really close friends before we started to date, which means I would confide a lot of my darkest secrets to him about other men and relationships I have had. I ha... (342 words)

Flirted with a boy while on holiday, I have the chance to see him again, this is confusing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5527 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm quite confused at the moment. I went on holiday recently with some other families and met this boy while I was there he is abit older than me but i really felt something was there. Nothing actually happened but there was abit of flirting and everytime i was around him i got ... (85 words)

I feel like I'm close to losing everything I held dear, my nan dies 3 years ago and I've been dealing with extreme depression since, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i reli need help. everythings going wrong for me at the minute, iv suffered with extreme depression for the last 2 months and although i thought it may be getting better and i may be getting bak to normal with the support of my partner, iv reverted back to the old ways. My nan ... (325 words)

Does anyone know what this discharge is?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am having this "jucky" discharge from my vagina, its red/dark red/brown thick discharge it doesnt smell and im not hurting. Does anyone have a clue of what it is? ... (30 words)

How should I break the news to my gf about her increased financial commitment without upsetting her?...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

15 September 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm in a bit of a pickle. I have been dating my gf for over five years and we have 2 kids together. I also have a child from a previous relationship and still occassionally have sex with the ex. Last month, I had a one-night-stand with a 23 yr old I met at a bar. Now she's ... (152 words)

She wants me to masturbate in front of her but I don't fancy the idea. How can I convince her to desist it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my gf for 8 months and we have a great sex life but now she wants me to masturbate in front of her and I refused. She gets angry and threatens to stop having sex with me if I don't do this for her, because it's always been her fantasy to watch a guy do it in f... (100 words)

Am I reading into things and seeing what I want to see?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I need help figuring out if I have a shot with this girl. Here goes. I'm in First Year of uni and have a crush on a girl in my class. We've never actually had a proper conversation (mainly cos she makes me too nervous) but last week we encountered one another in a store and, ... (126 words)

He complimented me on my appearance, is he playing mind games and how can I react? Ask him out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 16 and I've had a huge crush on this guy who went to my school, only thing is he's 19. He left a year ago, went on a gap year, we started messaging again the past few months...he must have found out I liked him. you might recognize this question... update: i didn... (216 words)

Why wont my dad listen to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

15 September 2008 (?) age 26-29 - My dad broke his finger...weeks ago. Its still broken, but he wont see anyone about it. Why? He says not much can be done, but i keep telling him he needs to do something about it....still wont, Why?... (39 words)

Should I take things slow or get out now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5556 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I need help. I've been seeing this man for 5 mths now and everything is great when we are together. He says he doesnt want a girlfriend, but it seems as if i am. He wants to take things slow and not get too serious. He calls us friends lovers and companions. He says he doesnt ... (129 words)

The guy of my dreams dumped me because he said I was jealous!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, about six or eight months ago i went out with honestly the guy of my dreams but like he dumped me about two months after that because he said i was jealous and OK maybe i was but he kept on flirting with this girl he asked out before me she was a really good friend of mine ... (468 words)

My boyfriend is scared of intimacy, he stops in the middle and goes to the bathroom to masturbate. How to get him to behave like a man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm at my wits end. Please help me. My boyfriend, who I've been with for 9 months, is very caring and we get on really well together. We spend a lot of our free time together and I would say that I'm definitely in love with him. The problem is that he's scared of intimacy. He's ... (182 words)

Our problems were there before my husband's affair but are now a million times worse. Are we going to make it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - advice please, i have been married for 15 years and have 3 daughters ,myself and husband dont really do much together and our sex life diminished,we argued all the time and he refused to go to counselling,it has been like this for about 3 years or more,he never told me he loved ... (274 words)

Should I get my dolls out of the dumpster and break my promise or leave them?...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a serious packrat and can never get rid of anything. At my old apartment I had the spare bedroom full of Cabbage Patch Dolls and stuffed animals that I had accumulated. When I moved in with my boyfriend I agreed to downsize once we had settled in. I had ten large garbage ... (224 words)

She hasn't spoken to me or returned any of my calls since she found the porn mag!! What can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

15 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend is an ardent feminist who strongly advocates that all women should be totally independent, financially and otherwise. I agree with her but difficulties have arisen lately. Two weeks ago, she found a Playboy magazine in my room and went through the roof. She ... (80 words)

My ex has me utterly humiliated by revealing intimate details about me and our sex life to... anyone who will listen! How do I get revenge?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently went through a messy break-up with a girl who I'd been dating for two years. After the break up, she started revealing certain intimate details about me to members of my family and pretty much anyone else who'll listen. She's divulged every embarrassing sexual matter ... (119 words)

I found that he was asking a lot of girls for pictures, to go on cam, meet up for sex... I don't want to break up, I want to get this sorted out, but how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Anyway starting right from the start was ages ago, in April I think when we were in the park and we were stealing each others phones and wrestling them off each other (in a nice way) I had his phone and we were carrying on, but when I went into pictures and he got all ... (816 words)

My boyfriend whom I met online lied to me, it's over but I still care. Your thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age - Ok, I should be old enough to know better but I would like some input please. I have met a very nice man( so I thought) on a dating site. We clicked. It's been 4 months now and for the past month I got a gut feeling. Not a good one. So the one and only time he left his cel ... (181 words)

He stared at me while he was with his girlfriend, what does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i like a boy who goes to a school close to mine (he has a girfreind).i have liked him for a while but he doesnt know (but he knows who i am).i get very nervouse when i see him and i pretend i dont notice him.i saw him with his gf by school and i get nervouse and spoke to my ... (99 words)

20 yr friendship caught in the crossfire: can I trust to be around the person who played me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - So here's how it went down for me (skip to the last two paragraphs if you want, they said i had to repost vs re-wording the original). I've had a friend for over the last twenty years. Were both 24 and still living at home (he's my neighbor). Because his family is so friendly ... (559 words)

We decided to break up as he was leaving town, now we did so even earlier, I wasn't prepared to start missing him so soon! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5697 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - Hi there, My boyfriend is going travelling for about a year in a few weeks. We have been together for 5 mths. We did try and stay together until he leaves but he has said he can't do it which has made me really sad. He has told me that it's because he is finding it ha... (221 words)

I don't think I will get over my ex unless I leave our small town. Is it the right thing to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

- My ex has broken my heart in pieces and I dont know what to do. He split with me for someone else about a month ago and I cant get over it. We werent together long but I really love him and the thought of him being with someone else is tearing me apart.I went out with him ... (244 words)

I'm the only one in my grade with a light moustache and hair on my chin, I feel embarassed!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - im only 13 but i m having hair on my face i have a light moustache and some hair on my chin its so embarassing im the only one in my grade hlp plz... (34 words)

I can't put my life on hold any longer! I need some advice...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I posted the following question last week, http://www.dearcupid.org/question/shall-i-go-round-with-some-flowers-and.html I really need some more advice please. I made my gf a college (photomontage) of us both together i spent all week making it, i also wrote her a so... (399 words)

I have tried thousands of times talking to my fiance about how his mom and sister treat me, but he doesn't see it like I do! I'm out of ideas!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am wondering what I should do about a real tough situation I'm in. My fiance and I are very much in love, we just had our first baby... he is 2 months old... and we have been struggling w/ our finances and stuff. We have had to move into his parents house because ther... (462 words)

Why doesn't she care where her husband is?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am dating a man who has filed for divorce and is just waiting for his court date.He showed me the papers etc.. as I wanted to be sure before our relationship progressed. problem is they have to share their house until it sells so they can both afford to move on. I told him ... (160 words)

How much do I tell my four year old about the birds and the bees?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My daughter is 4 years old and starting pre-school this week. I was wondering what she should know about about the "birds and the bees" before she goes to school. I'm not sure what the age appropriate discussion would be. I've done some research on it, and everything just ... (85 words)

I watched porn and got aroused. Then there was all this stuff down below... is it normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I found porn films in my brothers bedroom and I started watching them and got turned on but I had all this white and clear stuff down below and I mean a lot is this normal.... (36 words)

My boyfriend is always late, it's getting annoying. How do I bring it up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im only 16 years old, and i guess you could all say i shouldnt be commiting mself into a serious relationship at this age, but ive nown my boyfriend since i was around 6 years old and weve always had that close bond. 8 months ago we got together and even though weve had our ups ... (367 words)

My boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me because I ran into my ex when I went out. What now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for three years, we have had our ups and downs, the other night I was mad at him so i went out and i happened to see my ex boyfriend when i got home i told him but he freaked out screaming telling me not to go near him and broke up with me. ... (70 words)

I put my girlfriend up on a pedestal and feel like I'm not good enough for her. It's ruining the relationship, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm in need of some advice. I'm an average-looking 24 year old and am currently dating a very beautiful girl 2 years my junior. The problem is that I think she's too good for me. She's so sweet (personality-wise) and pretty and i'm convinced she's completely out of my league. ... (135 words)

I don't have a life outside this relationship, I feel like I've lost myself. I've become very controlling... I need urgent help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey there, I feel i've lost myself! I've been in this relationship for almost 3 years and until this year i feel like i've change for the worst.I love my boyfriend very much and we plan to get married one day. I think i've become very controlling. when my boyfriend tells me... (205 words)

We slept together, went on dates, she was very affectionate and said she loved me. Now she says she has no romantic interest in me. I am crushed, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

15 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - So here's how it went down for me. I've had a friend for over the last twenty years. He's also my backyard neighbor (meaning not back to back, but corner to corner). Were both 24 and still living at home. Because his family is so friendly they've allowed people to live with ... (449 words)

How do I find closure from a relationship that ended a decade ago?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

15 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, It's been almost 10 years since my highschool sweetheart and I have broken up. I was 19 at the time and was deeply inlove with her. Perhaps I was inlove with her because of her looks, perhaps because I liked to have her around or whatever it was, she was just amazing... (375 words)

I have stronger feelings for my ex-girlfriend than for my current one. Should I break it off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - sorry its long and kinda mumbled So i've been seeing my latest girlfriend for about 3 months. before me and her got together i had a thing with a girl called amanda. we were never offically just two people who had deep feelings for each other, we stopped talking for a wh... (177 words)

Has he lost interest because of the weight I gained during pregnancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - weve been leaving in a same house with my boyfriend since we get started our relationship it take 1year and 8months and i get pregnant. after i gave birth of our son that was two months ago i gain weight 140lbs before im just 110lbs only! where not active on sex right now ... (256 words)

Should I wait for him to contact me or should I pursue him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5697 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there - I recently met a very cute guy who's new in town through an ad I put to rent out my appartment. He didn't end up renting my appartment but he did send me an email a few weeks later saying that he'd like to take me for a drink when back from a brief trip abroad. I ... (165 words)

Is it okay to take two packs of the pill back to pack so it covers a particular week?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya! Just a quick question, I've heard than if on the contraceptive pill, you can take two packs (I'm on microgynon 30) back to back.. I was just wondering after this time, do you leave it a week or two weeks before starting the next pack? I don't plan to make this a regu... (118 words)

Is this bizarre?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has a very disturbing relationship with his mother, it is a huge turn off.. I mean yes I would like a guy that loves his mother and gets along well with her but my boyfriend is way beyond that extent. I don't mean in a sexual sense, not at all, but he is very muc... (90 words)

Have I been played?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I was seeing an Army man for over a month when he was here locally for schooling. He had to go overseas to Germany to clear out and will return in Nov. I thought when he left we were on very good terms. He told me he would e-mail me and even call. I have not heard from him ... (98 words)

If you are happily married, how can you fall for someone else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How can a person be happily married, yet fall for someone else? If the person is happily married then they wouldn't have committed any acts to have fallen in love with someone other than their spouse to begin with, right?... (40 words)

Should we stay together for the sake of the kids?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband always talks about woman in front of me. Well we decided to have an open relationship... well i think it has gone too far, i feel for someone else very strongly. My husband is great, but it has been 10 years and i find so much frustruation. We have 2 kids, i know ... (68 words)

Is having sex 2-3 times a week really that bad? How can I get her to stop pressuring me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

15 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for over a year and our problem is that her sex drive dwarves mine. I do enjoy sex with her but only on an approximate 2-3 times a week basis, and this seems far too little for her. It never really sememed a problem to start with but a... (164 words)

How do you know if a person is just being friendly or if they want to be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

- I have come to the realisation that I dont have any true friends. All my friends pretty much treat me like dirt (emotionally abusive, use me, manipulate me, lie to me etc...) and ive finally had a enough of it and am giving up on them. Some of these friends ive had since I was ... (257 words)

Could he be playing games?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - What does it mean when a guy wants you to stay the night after sex, but then says he does not want a relationship with you. Is he playing games? ... (31 words)

Why has he never made love to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age - I spent the night in bed with a man I love on Saturday, and it's about the eighth time I have shared his bed. We only see each other now and then but he has already said that he adores me, that he thinks I am a great woman and that he admires me. On Saturday I took all my ... (179 words)

I've been refused a transfer - what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - HI everyone,i am a nurse working in saudi arabia,im devastated by the way things are at this time,to cut a whole story short,i am a hardworking ,ambitious and dedicated nurse,having said so i work in a crazy instituition where u r judged not for how hard u work but how sweet u ... (163 words)

How do I find a new boyfriend after I broke up with my last one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

15 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I met my last boy friend by complete chance. I met him while I was working at video ezy, only because he worked there to. Just a little about myself before I continue. At the end of last year I came out to all my close friends that I was gay, they all seemed to take the news ... (265 words)

How do I make the transition between friend to boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

15 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've got lots of female friends, who, when we go out, say I'm funny and chatty and great to be around; some of which (although I know I can only have one!) I'd like to date. (Some of them may even know I like them as more than a friend). This is a general question for readers ... (98 words)

What does it mean when you are dating but you are not boyfriend and girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating this guy for four months and we arent seeing anyone else but he doesnt want the title boyfriend. What does that mean. I dont undererstand the difference. Does "boyfriend" change things?... (35 words)

I refused to continue my affair with a married man, as I don't want to be hoodwinked again (I am also married) - did I do the right thing?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age - Hi, Please tell me I have done the right thing? Some years ago I had an affair with a married man. We were both married at the time. After a few months it ended and it took me time to get over it. Recently after 6 years he contacted me and wanted to start up again. I was ... (393 words)

He keeps blowing hot and cold, is he playing games with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been seein this man for a few months now i think and basically to start with it was just casual fun.. im begining to develop feelings for him now. and not sure how he feels about me. He keeps blowing hot and cold with me once minute he will be offering me a k... (133 words)

I choke during fellatio every time, what shall I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - MY bf is too big for me to give blowjobs, everytime i do it i choke, i want to carry on but i cant breath what shall i do?? ... (29 words)

I love my boyfriend to bits and feel very guilty for having kissed another under the influence of alcohol. What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hey, i'm only 14 :( i have a boyfriend of one year, i was at a party and got encredibly drunk, im not using tha as an excuse, it was my fault..im k not even supposed to be drinking.. there was a guy there, he told me he was 18, i knew i had a bf and that he was waaay to old, ... (206 words)

I am happily married but have fallen in love with a coworker?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) age 41-50 - i am happily married ....there is no problem in marriage apart from the ones i create.... i have fallen with someone else in office who is also married ...we both know that we dnt want to leave our spouses but we really love each other ...i am confused what do i do... (53 words)

When I have sex I either ejaculate too quick or can't get erect! Please advise.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a Big problem anytime Im havin sex either I come too Quick or I cant get hard or I get hard for a lil while and it go down I really need help with that because I dont why this happenin to me please get back at me with some good answer thanks... (56 words)

Did my hymen break by fingering? Is there a way to check?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

15 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I got fingered last night. This morning I I started bleeding, but it stopped so I'm sure it's not my period. As a virgin, I'm asking did my hymen break? Is there any way to check without going to a doctor?... (44 words)

I went out for a works do and drank too much too fast. I'm lonely and scared of losing my job. How will I explain myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i feel sick. i went out for a works do and drank too much too fast. i was a drunken mess and have no memory after a certain point in the night. i had work at 5 in the morning the next day and woke up at ten oclock but could not face going in. i was very ill all yesterday and ... (287 words)

I love a girl that's in love with my brother!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5697 days ago

15 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in love with a girl who in love with my brother. He seems don't really care about her feeling. I'm not sure about his feeling but I think I truly love her. I don't know what stage of love I'm into right but deep down in my heart I think I love her. I do anything I could to ... (243 words)

How can I know my girlfriend is ready for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - How can i know that my girlfriend is ready for sex?... (11 words)

I can control the orgasm but the problem is that when I'm ready my penis retracts, is this normal?

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15 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I can maintain my erection but the problem is when I'm ready to explode my penis retract or becomes small while inside the vagina and this is according to my gf. I usually notice this with my fast rhythm but my penis is fully erect and big when I'm doing it slowly. Basic... (121 words)

It felt as though I was having a bowel movement at the end of anal sex. How can I avoid this feeling?

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15 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question regarding anal sex - I have done this once with my boyfriend, but was fairly uncomfortable at the end, because when he was pulling out it FELT like I was having a bowel movement! Obviously I wasn't, but this makes me hesitant to do it again! Is it possible to ... (66 words)

I dislike anal sex, I think it's strange and I'm scared of it, but I do it for my husband's sake; our sex life has deteriorated.

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15 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been with my husband for over 10 years and married for 5, our sex life was fine up in till a couple of years ago we got a strap on dildo he wanted anal sex. lets put it this way i have never seen him like that before, he really enjoyed it. this was very strange and scar... (252 words)

We were best friends who tried to have a relationship. It didn't work, our friendship suffered and I'm confused whether we should try again as lovers?

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15 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - it's this guy that I kinda used to be bestfriends with.me and him used to sit on the phone all morning.Like 12 00 until 6 00 in the morning!we used to talk about everything.he used to leave me voicemails saying that he loved me.a lot.we were so close that we claimed each other ... (213 words)

I don't always take the pills at the same hour, what are the chances of pregnancy?

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15 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I have been on the pill for about 8 months now. I just wanted to find out what are my chances of getting pregnant if i take the pill everyday but some days the time may vary - for eg: i normally take the pill at 8:45 pm but if i forget then i end up taking it at 10:... (103 words)

My ex keeps analysing my past looking for proof that I'm an easy girl with no self respect! We're in the same band and I'm tired of him!

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15 September 2008 (F) age 30-35 - I'm tired of my ex's crap... Well, now he's my ex, but we're usually on and off... The problem is he can't tolerate my past, any part of it, he analyzes, and analyzes, and blah blah blah... Problem is, in my past I was a virgin. My "past" were a couple drunken make out se... (312 words)

How do I make my boyfriend realise that I'm more important than anything else and to quit smoking?

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15 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend likes to smoke but i dont want him to smoke.every now and then so i permitted him to smoke once in 2 months..but he cant wait...for him smoke is more important than me..i said him that i dont need him if he cant live without smoke...what to do to make him realise ... (64 words)

Mother and daughter trouble...need help!

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15 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for the past 3 years and we are happy to be together. I don’t have any issues with my bf but his mother (50) and sister (20). They are uncontrollable. When the mother and daughter get in to fights, they actually hit each other. Once in ... (605 words)

My boyfriend has a much lower sex drive than I do and I'm sexually frustrated. How do I fix this?

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15 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are having trouble keeping our sex drives in sync. He says he is satisfied with sex 2 times a week whereas I would prefer 2 or 3 times a DAY if I could (well I wouldn't expect that but basically the more I can get, the happier I am). So often I try to ... (287 words)

My boyfriend suffers from depression and he acts like he doesn't want us to be together anymore... Is this normal?

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15 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Whats happening to my relationship. Hi there my boyfriend of almost a year, suffers from very bad depression. At first he used to be very loving and affectionate, untill the last few months he doesnt text, call, or make any kind of a effort. When i see him he is moody and ... (147 words)

Is his sex talk normal, or a sign of paedophilia?

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15 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - im a 21 - if im having sex with my boyfriend and he says that he wants me to call him my daddy and he calls me his little girl or good little girl is that hot or perverted, pedophilia signs, or just getting freaky... (46 words)

Why can't I manage life with my stepmother after 7 years?

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15 September 2008 (?) age 26-29 - My Dad has been married to my step-mom (kristy) for 7yrs....im 13 now...and still cant get over the fact that he had remarried. I cant stan Kristy...Sometimes i feel like i dont matter. I cant stand living with her. I've begged 2 friends of mine to come get me on my 18th ... (86 words)

He went down on me and wanted nothing in return - is this normal?

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15 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and this guy that I've only met twice have hooked up each time we've been together while at a friend's house. Each time, he's gone down on me, but afterwards it didn't seem like he wanted anything in return. Does that seem wierd to anyone? Why would a guy go down on a girl ... (69 words)

I like a much older guy, but I don't know if I am wasting my time.

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15 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I like a guy, i am 23 and the guy is 47, he has a great job and he has a superior posistion in the office. I have liked him since the first time he spoke to me when i started. I actually thought he liked me but now im not too sure because i havent seen him for a while. What can ... (65 words)

He hates himself because he isn't female... how do I respond to this?

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15 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I know this guy who hates himself because he isnt of the female gender. He is always saying this and I have no idea how to respond to this. He is straight which makes this even weirder. He has practically no confidence either so this could be a contributing factor but I still ... (63 words)

To guys who were accepted by their partners after more than one rejection

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15 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I would like to know if there are any guys out there who have experienced more than one rejection by the same lady, and yet be accepted in the end? (In terms of confession) If that is so, how did you manage to muster the courage to go after her, rejection after... (106 words)

Is it true that you can get pregnant if you have sex a couple of days before your period?

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15 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I think im pregnant. Im supposed to get my period already, we had sex 3 days ago and people say that if u have sex like a couple days befoore ur period u can get pregnant. is it true? and what should i do?... (47 words)

Should I continue waiting, tell her how I feel, or give up?

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15 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so i guess i should start with a little bit about myself. I'm 15, and i've been homeschooled since last school year (including this school year that just started). During the entire time i've been homeschooled, i haven't seen any of my friends which was at first due to ... (475 words)

Single and losing hope. Any advice?

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15 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been single for about the past 2 years and I hate every second of it. I have been rejected by at least 50 women and I am at my breaking point. I don't want to approach anyone anymore because I know that I will just be rejected. I can't even find a woman who wants to ... (202 words)

Is it wrong for a 13 year old to date a 16 year old?

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15 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - im 13 and i really like this guy who is 15, but he is about to turn 16 in a couple months, is it wrong if we date? but i really like him, and he really likes me.... (38 words)

We're in a push-and-pull relationship. Can I fix things up? Or should I move on?

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15 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am confused here. I don't know how she thinks and what she want. Her actions and words are contrary. I am with her for almost 1 year. We start off great but now I feel the love is dying. We live far and rarely meet. We rely mostly on instant messenger, email, phone ... (348 words)

Does she still think about me or am I reading too much into this?

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15 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I broke up a year ago. It was one helluva rocky breakup. She ended up cutting me out of her life completely. She deleted me off her myspace friend list. She deleted all the pictures of us. She even deleted every single one of my comments off her pictures... (123 words)

We never have anything to talk about, and I get really sick of him sometimes. Is there something wrong with us being together?

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15 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - So rite n0w im in a relationship with "M". M and I have been liking each other since last October and we have finally gotten together. But 0n somedaYs I can't stand him and 0n others I get mad when he calls me so I ignore his calls. And when we taLk 0n the phone we have nothing ... (90 words)

She 'friend dumped' me through email - I don't get it!

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15 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have this friend who I went through a relationship crisis with a couple of years back. She totally helped me through it, I ended up trusting her on a deep level. Then she friend dumped me over an email. She said that we were Kindred souls, but the way we connected was ... (154 words)

We have no sex life, and he talks to other girls online - is he cheating?

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15 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i have been dating for over 2 years and our sex life is slowly dying. I recently caught him him talking to other girls online and ever since then we barley ever have any physical contact. He swears that nothing ever happend with them and that he was just ... (77 words)

I think he cheated on me while I was pregnant, and I feel betrayed.

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15 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. It all started when I got pregnant with our daughter who is now 2 years old. He started a new job and he would ignore me all day long and always be going out, coming home with friends and telling them how hot his new boss was. ... (241 words)

Worst birthday EVER! How can I lift my mood?

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15 September 2008 (F) age 30-35 - I had a totally awful birthday! For one, my grandma's brother died on Friday, and the funeral was today. But second... I love my "ex" more than anything. And we have had our issues, mostly because there's a lot he can't tolerate from the time I was single. Sometimes he'... (284 words)

My partner says he is getting an urge to cheat - help!

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15 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner and I have been dating for some time now, and well everything has been great! we have fallen in love, talked about how we truly are soulmates and have decided we will get married. Well that was all in the plans, now my partner has suddingly expressed that he might be ... (105 words)

Why wouldn't her friends let us kiss?

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15 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - went out clubbing with friends. And me and my friend started dancing. Than we started hugging and really enjoyin and i knew a kiss was coming but her friends kept pulling her away. She came back herself but they pulled her again and pushed her to some other guys. Why would they ... (68 words)

I'm in love with my transgendered FTM friend. How do I let him know I'm serious?

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15 September 2008 (F)

- Hello! I'm really confused here and could use some advice. I've been friends with this guy. lets call him Alan. Fot about 6 months now. We met online. the thing is, he's trans-gendered female to male. I recently told him I have feelings for him, at which point he said he o... (475 words)

How can you tell when a girl wants to be hit on?

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15 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - How do you tell when a woman wants to be hit on and when she wants to be left alone? I was trying to strike up a conversation with a girl at the store and after a couple minutes she said "Can't you see I'm busy!" I like hitting on girls but I don't want to be an annoyance so ... (72 words)

Did he have an affair with an ex friend's daughter?

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15 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - ive just been clearing some memory on my laptop when i came across a history of conversation that went on between my husband and a ex friends daughter who is 17 my hubby is 37 he had an affair over 10 years ago and pronmised he would never do it again i must admit i never fully ... (162 words)

Does he just want me for some booty or does he really like me?

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15 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Sooo, me and this guy I've met twice hooked up last weekend. The first time we met we also hooked up (we were also drunk each time). Although we ended up sleeping with each other, we only messed around and didn't actually have sex. Then last night we did a little bit of ba... (165 words)

I've recently noticed that some guys are attractive - am I gay?

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15 September 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Alright, I'm just an average 14 year old kid. I've always been sexually attracted to girls, I have "hooked up" with girls a few time which definitely turns me on and when I watch "videos" it is always just one girl or a guy and a girl. Just as puberty starts to hit me more I ... (162 words)

I'm in love but not with my husband. Do I follow my heart?

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15 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I've tried to deal with this situation alone but, it's getting the best of me. I got into a relationship in 2006, everything was wonderful, it was like he was made just for me, so we got married in 2007, had our 1st child in 2008. But, a week before the weddi... (166 words)