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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why did he last so long during sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my friend have a guy friend that have sexual inner course with for a long time (8 hours) and she is tired of him but scare to let him no. She don't no what to do. She think that he have a problem about how long he last. she ask him is he taking any pills and he said no. She ... (73 words)

He ended it because he "just doesn't feel the spark." So what is this "spark" anyway?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2686 days ago

2 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been dating this guy for about a month and he's just ended it with me because he "just doesn't feel the spark". He says he can't explain it and subsequently spent considerable energy telling me I was really sweet and thoughtful and attractive, that he really likes spending ... (416 words)

The truth about hysterectomy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ok, most people says when you have a hysterectomy you no longer have feelings during sex. They also said that guys can't feel nothing (its like a big hole). In other words you're no good down there anymore. Is that a true statement?... (44 words)

Do you think she would change after telling me this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

2 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm the 15 years old guy with the immature girlfriend. Ok well, I'm sorry if this is too fast but I had to write this because I'm running out of time. She sent me an email and tomorrow I don't know if I shoul talk to her or ignore her. Here is her email: ~beggi... (458 words)

Are there any signs I can pick up to know if a girl would like me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm not too sure whats going on... before i had told a friend and i said she hadn't accpeted me well we had a long talk and everythings okay..but that was a while I finally had come out to my best friend he had freaked out and said he doesnt hang out with gays. Again we had a... (156 words)

Does this guy have any respect for me or is he going to sleep with me then never speak to me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy alot i know him from online and we text each other we've been talking for about 2 and half years. We have cyber sex and text sex all the time but i have feelings for him, and i told him this about a year ago and he didnt seem to care but when he was drunk he ... (147 words)

Is my girlfriend being unreasonable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5707 days ago

2 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Here's a problem that's developed over the past month while my girlfriend and I have been apart... We have been together four months, and friends for two years before that. We both live in London, although not together. She went back to Spain a month ago, theoretically... (453 words)

My partner wishes that we have children in 2-5 years, but I really just cannot see myself as a good mother. What are some positive aspects about it? Will I be able to adapt to motherhood?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a terrifying conversation with my fiance the other day: Children. For a long time, I have been somewhat opposed to becoming a mother. I am a very seclusive person. I need personal space and me time in order to keep sane. I cannot even begin to imagine having absolutel... (393 words)

We've had intimate moments, although not full sex, we've spent weekends together - and suddenly he doesn't want me to get too attached!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok, so i've been dating "mike" for about 4 months now. We can only see each other on weekends because of our work schedules and bc we live 40 mins away from each other. We only talk a couple times a week and thru text (he never calls) just to see how each others weeks are going ... (216 words)

Married man 'says' he wants to be with me....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm going to start from the beginning...so bare with me please! I met this guy and we started talking. He was in town for business...and lives a couple hours away from me. We just talked, nothing sexual happened. We talked all night long, and it was amazing...something I ... (400 words)

What happens if you just don't pay rent for a month?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I need to get some answers regarding rent payment in an apartment. My 2 roomates and I live in an apartment in orange county, ca. We are moving out on september 26th because we bought a home. yay!!! The thing is, our leasing office is horrible. They have screwed us so many ... (151 words)

Could I be suffering from depression after my break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I'm after an answer to my problem. I split up with my ex after being treated very badly (he finished it). That was now nearly a year ago yet I feel like crying quite a lot when I think of him.Could I be depressed? I wanted to be friends but he refuses to talk to me, but then ... (233 words)

My friend is ignoring me since I told her about her boyfriend's cheating. Wouldn't she want to know?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I tried to tell a friend that her man had cheated on her and going around town trying to talk to everyone. She wanted me to tell her at first then said she didn't want to know then told me who ever he is sleeping with it won't be for long because they moving. That pissed me off ... (207 words)

Is it selfish and petty that he stopped speaking to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I split up with my long term boyfriend a few months ago. and he just asked one of his friends, who I became quite good friends with over the course of our relationship and now we like to keep in touch every now and then on a simple level, just a phone call every now and then or ... (112 words)

My mom might ruin my dream of going away to school!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there! Well, I have a problem ... I tell you: Three years ago, I was a girl who disliked school, who didn't like anything except laughing,I was 12... But when I was 14 , my life has changed and I discovered that I liked a lot of things like the studies, the U.S, readi... (222 words)

Am I putting on too much pregnancy weight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hey there, Well i'm 30 weeks pregnant with my first baby(A boy!!). Before getting pregnant i was slightly underweight...About 100 lbs..(i'm 5'4)...i'm naturaly slim so this was a normal weight for me. in the early stages of pregnancy i didn't put on much weight atall...p... (104 words)

Isn't it wrong he emails his ex when we are in a personal relationship now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey Aunts Ok ive recently been seeing this guy and things r moving very quickly and we almost had sex last night. Ive known him for ages as i work with him and have liked him since i started working there.. I came across his bebo the other night and found a dedication to ... (122 words)

How do you find out if a woman has had anal before?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

2 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I would like to know if there is a way to find out if the woman had had anal sex before ? Well, lets say you can find out if she had vaginal intercourse by asking doctor to check her vagina. Now, I want to know if there's any way to find out if she had anal intercourse ... (67 words)

My girlfriend believes marriages aren't happy. How do I change her opinion?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm currently with a woman who is in love with me, or so I believe, and yet is afraid to have children or get married. We've only been seeing eachother for 5 months, so I'm hoping she'll change in a year or so...depending on how things go. If things go as swimmingly, as ... (190 words)

He's perfect but I think he's not right for me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok im 16. A met a guy through a friend and he really liked me, i was unsure about whether i did like him but i met up with him anyway. True he's not great looking but im not shallow its not all about looks. Though little things annoy me about him and the first time he kissed me ... (171 words)

Is Sarah Palin a suitable candidate for VP?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

2 September 2008 (M)

- [Part of a DearCupid series on the forthcoming Nov 08 presidential election] Sarah Palin, John McCain's choice for vice-president, is a strict anti-abortionist, pro-guns and against sex-education. Her 17 year old daughter is now pregnant. Should she be able to tell othe... (106 words)

I feel as if I had to compete with the computer for her attantion...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - why does my fiance always go online and ignore me and then get upset with me when i say something to her about being online all the time ??? We both had yearbook and tagged and myspace accounts and always argued over them so i erased all mine but she still kept myspace and wont ... (76 words)

Should I talk to this girl about my old guy or just leave it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Should I message a guy's old lover to find out the whole story of what happened? Im currently in the process of getting over a guy I've liked for a while. I found out he's a jerk and was seeing other women while we were a thing. He now has a new girlfriend and I realize th... (133 words)

How long does a girl have to be on the pill for it to be fully affective?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I was just curious?? how long does a girl have to be on the pill for it to be fully affective?? ... (21 words)

Why did it hurt when we had sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - When I have sex and he thrust in hard it hurts really bad. I know that this can happen when he my hit the uterus or the cervix. But I have had a hysterectomy so why is this happening?... (39 words)

What exactly is phone sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi every one, My questions a bit weird, but i can't help but be curious! I was just wandering what is phone sex? And what do you do to have it? Well I know it can't be having sex whilst on the phone because if you are having phone sex with your partner then your hardly... (91 words)

My husband is ready to leave but I don't know how to handle this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I need help! I have a husband who is ready to leave because he is just not happy! He can't tell you why but will tell you that it's our relationship! His moods change with me and everyone else including his children! I believe he is depress and refuses to seek help! Even a ... (149 words)

How do I stop being horny all the time?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been single for about 5 months, which has ment no sex, the problem is im horny all the time, its driving me crazy and its all im thinking about How do i stop thinking about it? and how do i stop being horny 24/7? Should i just go and have a one night stand?... (57 words)

I want to start having sex with him, but I'm afraid of the idea because I'm a virgin and he's not!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Guys, I need your help! I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 months, I'm a virgin, he isn't. He is absolutely perfect and wonderful, a really nice person, caring and lovely and all of that, and before he asked me out we were pretty much best friends for a little over a ... (390 words)

Why did my boyfriend tell me I was too young to get married?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know where this question will fit in. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now and everything seems to be going pretty good. He seems very happy, I'm very happy. I'm not expecting a marriage proposal anytime soon, he's looking to go into the police academy, ... (197 words)

My boyfriend sent his ex an email. What's the best way to handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age - My boyfriend has sent an ex-girl friend a email reading "remember me? thinking of you" now this is making my skin crawl!!!! How should it be handled? fuming red... (33 words)

How can I tell him that I feel he is smothering me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, So been with this guy nearly 4 months now. We get on most of the time apart from when we argue and that is quite a lot. He is going on saying Im the one and wants to move in together, get married and have kids yet when we kiss I dont feel anything. Ive g... (201 words)

The guy who broke my heart came back into my life. Should I take him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i went out with a guy last year and really fell for him..but he ended up hurting me real badly..i never forgot him.. and i still love him.. the thing is that he came back into my life again.. asking for a second chance and telling me that he has changed should i believe ... (56 words)

I think he likes me but his actions sometimes confuse me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well theres this guy and well basically i'm confused. We're mates and eveything but i like him and i mean i REALLY like him. ut anyway lately we haven't been talking much, we went back to school on the 1st and we barely spoke then but today [2nd] we talked more like 'old t... (182 words)

I'm pregnant and my boyfriend wants a DNA test, what should I do?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - im 5months pregnant in and i cheated on my boyfriend in i dont now what to do? I know if its not my boyfriend than im on my own and its going to be over because he already thinks its not his because i use to work in the strip club.and he wants a dna test. so what should i do... (61 words)

Can it ever work with a guy who's best friend with his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - The guy Im seeing still meets up with his ex girlfriend - they are really good friends. I think I mind a little bit deep deep down but purely based on my own insecurities and because I like him. Can smoeone who has been in this situation tell me if it can ever work being with ... (67 words)

After I took the pill, my period hasn't stopped coming!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm currently on the pill (Not for contaceptive use, but to shorten and lighten my period) However, i first started taking it on Thursday 14th August and have only ever failed to take 1. Anyway the problem is, i'm still on my period - it has been almost 3 weeks now, they're ... (135 words)

Will she come back or is this her way to make me feel better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

2 September 2008 (M)

age - I have been with my wife for 17 years. We're compatible in lots of ways but sexually. The time we've been together I have found sex elsewhere. ( a man has needs) My lastest affair she has found about and is now leaving and has since bought a house. She says she's needs time ... (190 words)

How can I find out if this guy likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - so there's this guy in my science class that asked if i could help him with a worksheet after class the next day and i obviously said yes. well come to find out, he already had just about all of it done and didnt really need help. then as we were leaving he asked if i had any ... (171 words)

I'm incredibly afraid of my abusive husband...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem i'm 22 years old and have been married for over 2 year. I have recently become awary of my husband abusive nature. We fight alot and i dont know what to do i have told my family and they are trying to help but it seem to be getting worse...He has a very bad ... (165 words)

I think I'm falling for a much younger girl

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

2 September 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello all. I have a very confusing situation that I need help with. I am currently married but we have been living together but separated for years. We stay together because of our kids and the lifestyle for them; but neither of us are happy. We simply don't get along and ... (565 words)

We've been trying to conceive with no results. Is there something wrong with us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I Recently got married and me and my Husband have been trying to concive for the past 3 months and we've had no luck. Im a little worried that maybe theres something wrong with me or him, I was checked out not to long ago and told everything was fine, but I'm still worried, ... (60 words)

How can I tell if my girlfriend is pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a slight problem. I am 19 years old and my girlfriend is 17. we just started having sex about two and a half weeks ago. the second time we had sex my condom broke and i didnt know it until we were done. then i told her what happened. she has been on the pill for about a ... (166 words)

Why doesn't he talk to me anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - why dosent he talk to me? ive been seeing this guy for about 7 months through college. we have recently got back together after i dumped him becuse i wasnt happy. when we are together he dosent no what to say and we never talk, i no hardly anything about him. i dont no if he is... (103 words)

Did I do the right thing for breaking up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, Yesterday i broke up with my first boyfriend because he didnt like my friends and i liked another boy. He asked me out on msn so i thought i'd break up with him on msn so when i started saying how im breaking up with him he started saying how he loves me and he wi... (186 words)

I'm afraid that if I tell him the whole truth about my past that he will not want me anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a special guy in my life that i have dated for a year now and i am so in love as he is with me...at least for now anyway. i have told him all about my past, guys i have kissed and slept with (all of whom i have dated) and other miscellaneous things. i have never been a ... (491 words)

Did I get my period sooner because of the coil?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I went to have the coil fitted yesterday because I unluckily can't take the combined pill (I get migraines) and for some reason I react badly to the mini pill (I got terrible acne, lost my sex drive, got mood swings and headaches) However, because I've never had kids the doct... (136 words)

What can I do to make my boyfriend call me more often?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i jst wna knw how to attract my boyfriend towards m so dat he wants to toke to m mre n mre on phn as he hates toking on phn for long hrs...dosnt gift me preasants nor surprse...tell m smthng i can do so dat he miss m alot n gets attrcted towards m [moderator's note: Please n... (75 words)

The reason I forgave my girlfriend's infidelity is because I also cheated on her. Should I tell her?? She says she needs a break.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

2 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3yrs. Weve had our ups and down through the years. I recently found out that she cheated on me by reading a letter in her email account that she wrote to some guy she met and slept with in Los Angeles. The reason I checked her emai... (617 words)

Why did he ask me for a walk at all if he didn't want to talk much? I don't know what to think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi! there is this guy i love and i think he cares abt me too..i hope he does.. well a couple of days back,he asked me for a walk,and i said yes.we walked quite close but not touching,and he talked very little during the walk..i am wondering..why did he ask me for a walk at ... (147 words)

Should I feel guilty for "messing" with a guy who has a girlfriend?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - should I feel guilty about messing with a guy who has a girl??? but they are not married????... (18 words)

Why doesn't he say "I love you" in public, only privately? Why does he not invite me to visit his family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my boyfriend for about one year two months, now; he has been using the "L" word for a while, now. I can't remember who started it. At first, it was, "you know I love you". Since he would always say such a thing, I stopped saying it first to him (silly, I ... (294 words)

Will God forgive my dead cousin for her gesture? I am open minded to all different beliefs.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My cousin killed herself. She was 27yrs old. In my church we were always taught that if you kill youself then you are going to burn in hell forever. And I was eavesdropping when some family didnt know I was there and I heard them saying things about her soul being cast out of ... (228 words)

I'm newlywed and thinking to confront my husband about an inappropriate mail sent to his ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a newlywed. My husband had left his personal email account open last night, and i read a recent email from an ex girlfriend og his from years ago who he never slept with. He said in the email that he had really wanted to sleep with her, followed by a smiley wink. The em... (120 words)

Unhappily married - do I leave my wife and son to try and be happy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

2 September 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married for six years and have a son with my wife but I am unhappy. i have recently met a young women and I have got feelings for her that I have never felt before. I dont know what to do. do I leave my wife and son and be happy or do I stay with my son and be ... (68 words)

Is he being trained to play with minds and lie?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - He is working as an investigative service agent, i respect him so much. But the question is he's in this job why he's so very good in playing others mind and a very good liar?are they being trained for these? He cheated his wife and also me (i dont know he's married). Now i ... (68 words)

I'm worried about my relationship and the direction it's going, can someone help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5707 days ago

2 September 2008 (?) age 30-35 - next year my boyfriend and i are taking a gap year together in europe. we are going to live together and i'm very excited because i've always wanted to live with him. the thing is i'm a very independent person who really enjoys being alone, he doesn't know this, no one really ... (393 words)

My husband and I get into nasty arguments, help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Need some help.... recently my Husband and i have been arguing alot, almost on a weekly basis. He says very nasty hurtful things and the tone in which he says these things is as if he really hates me. I've tried talking to him about it but he tells me not to be so stupid and ... (105 words)

I don't remember my boyfriend putting on a condom, could I be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - ohh dear where do i begin?! sorry if it sounds rude or dirty or such. back to skool thursday, but im wodering what people will say to me because basically, on the 2nd of august, it was my best mates party, me and my bf were there, who ive known since we were, like, babies, he ... (465 words)

Do you think changing my facebook status will prove anything or was it a mistake?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi all, just started a new relationship with a really nice guy..... the relationship didnt start well i was seeing someone casually which broke off and he flirted with a female friend to make me jealous. i went over his last night and as we've dated for a while i assu... (211 words)

Is it likely he broke it off with me because he was afraid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Can anyone explain something to me?... Is it possible that a man wants to break off a 4 month relationship with you because he is just too afraid to get hurt? He has been hurt on 3 other occasions by women he loved and trusted and was left feeling bruised. This guy im talking ... (173 words)

Is it possible for my husband to fall in love with me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - We've been married for 4 years. He has left because he says I have changed. He has moved into our other house. He says I am not the same fun, confident woman I was when we got married. I don't know what happened. I hadn't seen it until now. I can't eat or sleep. I've lost ... (160 words)

Is my boyfriend just keeping me sweet only to dump me when he comes back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hey there, my boyfriend is now workin away for a few months but unfortunately in his job contact is minimal cut a long story short i found out just before he was leavin via another source that my bf had told his mom that it felt like i had been checkin up on him (i speak ... (222 words)

Why am I so terrified of actually having a baby?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) age 41-50 - hi, i'm 27 years old and since always i've been absolutely terrified of having a baby, and really quite scared of being pregnant- and nobody understands the way i feel. i don't know when it started, but i know that my birth was tramatic for my mother, she had a 36 hour la... (613 words)

He called me a tease even though I told him I wasn't ready to have sex! Now I'm having nightmares....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

- About 4 or so months ago I was with my ex bf. One night i was over his place and he kept harrasing me to take my clothes off. I kept saying no because I didnt want to have sex- i wanted to wait until we were in love to have sex. He said 'we dont have to have sex, i just want to ... (652 words)

My boyfriend's personality has changed and I find myself going off him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Right this might be long so il apologize now! Me and my boyfriend have been together for around 8 months, we never had a honey-mood period, i dont no why we just didnt. when we got togther we argued all of the time but something stopped me ending the relationship. Af... (419 words)

Two years, a ring and a break?? I don't get it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I have been dating this wonderful man for over 2 and a half years this last christmas he proposed on his leave he has been overseas twice and his most recent tour he just returned from in march. Tonight he told me he needs a break I am not one to mince words so I asked ... (208 words)

When I met my boyfriend he was with someone else, but didn't tell me. He left me for two months to try and get her back and I'm only finding out two years on. I don't feel I can trust him. Is this worth keeping?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - When I met my bf..he was in a relationship with someone else. I didn´t know this till now. She found out that he was cheating on her with me and broke up with him. When she broke up with him... he tried to get her back and asked for space from me. We had our space and he came ... (141 words)

How can I end it?

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2 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Ive been dating this guy for about a year on and off. We have slept together, he is 44 and I am 39, both divorced. Earlier this year I ended it because I found him on dating sites and was very upset but then I went back to him because I missed him so much. A few weeks ago he ... (187 words)

Should I relocate? Should I enter this field going against my parents??

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2 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 19 years old,since the time i was 16 people have been telling me to join the acting world,the glamour industry and fashion..i personally would love to get into this field too..its like a dream come true..i want to follow my dreams but my parents are totally against it..so ... (207 words)

I'm in love with my little brother - what can I do?

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2 September 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I'm in love with my little brother. I am currently a senior at my high school and he is a freshmen at the same school. He's casual, down-to-earth, funny, and he has the cutest smile. I've been in love with him for as long as I could remember. I've always flirted with him... (132 words)

How does she see me? Should I try to get her back? Are we done?

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2 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex have talked for months before we actually went out. She used to say things like, "no we'll never go out because i only see you as a friend." Except one day this girl made my ex jealous, and my ex ended up telling me that she really did like me. She'd lie to me ... (234 words)

Why am I never invited to anything after all I support him?

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2 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a male friend with whom I am close. As part of my work, I see him now and again (he is a sommelier) and I go to his house sometimes and make dinner. I stay over and I share his bed (no sex) and he kisses me goodbye on the lips. I am falling in love with him. We have ... (249 words)

His sneakiness really damaged my trust in him. Once I ended up with bruises, and I hurt him too. What can I do to stop the fighting?

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2 September 2008 (F) age 36-40 - My boyfriend has betrayed me numerous times in the past by lying to me about who he was with and hiding things about other women. He never did anything with them I don't think but the sneakiness really damaged my trust in him. I wonder if he will ever change and truly be honest ... (533 words)

My parents think my boyfriend is with me for my money! Why do parents always think they are right?

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2 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Why is it parents always think there right. I have a boyfriend and I love him very much but they seem to think he's on with me for my money. He doesn't earnt the same amount as me and therefore I pay for pretty much everything but he always says that if he had the money he ... (197 words)

WHY this fantasy of being subjugated and humiliated by an "alfa-male" in front of my girlfriend??

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2 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I often have the fantasy of being subjugated and humiliated by a stronger, muscular, handsomer, and more well-endowed man in front of my girlfriend.she tries to stop him, at first, but eventually he ends up woo-ing her into having sex with him because of his alpha-male ... (159 words)

Two guys in my life, the first is withdrawn, the second admitted to have been acting strange because he is jealous of the first?

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2 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been with a guy for a months and few days. Our relationship is so cold and withdrawn. Initially I felt like he was not really into me. I am on another relationship. When we started, I was looking for someone who in future i can settle with and leave the current ... (302 words)

I fell in love with my female teacher but I don't know what to do about this.

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2 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 18 years old and i just graduated from high school in june. Im in love with one of my teachers. i had her as a teacher the 1st semester. She is 23 years old so there is not that big of an age difference. I have sepent a lot of time with her alone we both had a free peroid a... (291 words)

Is it considered cheating if she kissed another girl?

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2 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Ive beeen dating this girl for over a year and we talk about getting married.So its serious.I know I love her.But something bad happened and it really has hurt our relatoinship. The other night we was drinking with a few friends and she kissed a girl and did it behind my back ... (184 words)

What can I do to have an orgasm?

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2 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my name is fanny, my question is: i never feel a orgasm before, just if i do it myself.what i can do? i really want to know how that feels?i take birth control pills do you think this is why i cant feel one? i love my husband and i tell him everything i turn off the lights so ... (75 words)

Why does she do this? Why after being so nice to her does she treat me like garbage?

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2 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - She uses her friend to talk to me. Hi, you may have heard of me in previous posts. The 15 years old boy with the not so nice girlfriend. First of all, I would like to thank the people who have supported me and answered my previous questions, you guys are somewhat... (1408 words)

Could I just give him a "sensual massage" through his boxers?

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2 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi so last night me and my bf were making out and well it just naturally progressed to my hand being down his shorts, but still outside his boxers/briefs. Well while I was there (this is gonna sound extremely embarrassing and stupid)I wasn't really sure what to do?.. it was ... (203 words)

I can't stand my highly immature boyfriend! Please help!

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2 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months. He is 19 but acts like a 15 year old;he is childish,immature and downright annoying.I am 17 but have been through so much in life that I have taught myself to be logical,rational and unbiased. We live with his family,and I... (166 words)

She gets upset everytime we have sex. I've offered to stop but we start all over again. Why is she doing this?

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2 September 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been having an affair for the last 2 years now with a married woman. We love each other but know what we are doing is wrong. We have tried to cool things down more than once but our feelings for each other are too strong. Anyway when we are together we often get close. ... (142 words)

I have a thing for the bridesmaid but I don't know what to do in this situation!

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2 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My best friend is getting married in 4 weeks. I have a bit of a crush on bridesmaid. She is brides cousin. Not sure how she feels about me. Been around her a couple times, but the last time is the 1st that I felt something back. I wanted to say something to her then, but ... (135 words)

Does it mean I might be gay because I find this guy fascinating and good looking?

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2 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - So I'm a teenage boy in high school and I think I'm gay. How can you tell the difference between lust and love? I'm focused on this guy, which is sorta weird, b/c it's not like I'm stalking him or anything, but I just find him fascinating. He's a really cool guy but I rarely ... (172 words)

He's been saying he's "too tired" but I catch him watch him porn!

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2 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband and i have been married since may this year we have been together for a year and a half. in the beginning of our relationship we had sex atleast once a week but for the past year he always says he is tired but I catch him watching porn it has been four months a... (71 words)

My husband and I are trying to concieve. Could we be failing because he smokes a lot of weed?

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2 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello can someone pls help me. me and my husband been trying to get pregnant but it hasent happend .He smokes alot of weed is this the reason why?... (29 words)

I want my girlfriend to try something that is not something traditionally included in the avergae sex life. How can I bring it up without her getting scared?

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2 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I wont go into detail because the thing i would like is probably frowned upon by most. I really want my girlfriend to try "something" new with me. It's not something traditionally included in the avergae sex life. How can i bring it up/ ask her without getting to scared an... (58 words)

My ex had to break up with me for personal reasons. Now they're resolved and I still love him. But I've got a new boyfriend that I love too. Is it possible to love two guys at once?

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2 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well i went out with (and fell in love with) this one guy for a little more then a year, and later had to break up with him due to problems he had at the time. since then his problems have been solved, but i have a new boyfriend (that i think im falling in love with) the ... (127 words)

They've been raising my baby as my sister! What can I do to claim her back?

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2 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i really need some help and advice but dnt no were to go or wat to do! wen i was 12 i was raped and i ended up gettin pregnant! when i was 6 weeks pregnant my mum, dad and me moved away for a bit until everything settled, i was close to my mum and told her about everythi... (706 words)

The boy I think I love went to Afghan and said he wanted to see what happened when he got back. But since then I've ben with someone else.

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2 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I think i love sum boy but not sure if he feels the same. his in afghan and bfore he went he sed to me i do like yuu but i want to wait till i get bk and since then i have slept with over boys i dunno wat to do? Help me !!! xXx... (59 words)

Do you think he knows I was raped at 14, or is he wantin me to make the first move for sex? we've been together over a year now!

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2 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupids. ive been with my amazin boyfriend now for over a year and i love him with all my heart, we havnt yet had sex but have recently started to talk about it, like he was rubbin down there a couple of nights ago and i really enjoyed it, we have been quite slow, taki... (353 words)

How can I stop my boyfriend from being so controlling?

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2 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - so i have this boyfriend who i think is just amazing in everyway, int he beginning of our relationship i was kinda torn between him and my fiance who i was going to marry. i was completely honest with him about the whole thing and told him that i was about to get married but i ... (328 words)

I don't understand why he would want her email but swear he hates her!

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2 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My live in boyfriend of 4 years he has a daughter that just turned 7 and between his family and friend they have all asked me if he is still in love with her he says he is not and wishes her out of his life forever and that he does not have the money to make a commitement to me ... (257 words)

Would my boyfriend go to jail if I had a baby?

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2 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend is 16 and im only 15. would he go to jail if i had a baby? (but i would be 16 when the baby arrives).... (27 words)

I don't want to take a break, but we have few solutions to keep our relationship intact!

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2 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i recently wrote a question about how my boyfriend's family and friends don't want us to date. well we talked last night and we made two choices date behind there parents back and let his friends go with not wanting us dating. we would tell them in a bit when there a... (267 words)

Why am I coming second to his best friend?

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2 September 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hi everyone and thanxs for any help. Let me start at the beginning I go to school with this amazing guy who asked me out after a year of becomin bezzies but we broke up coz other people we'r presuring us to snog and stuff n I was realy young and dint want to I nether felt lik... (321 words)

I have some questions about sex for the first time.

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2 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hello i'm 17 teen right know and i was talking to my mother about sex cuz i was inrested and i was just wondering if it really hurts the first time? and if you can really bleed? i didnt want to belive my mom a whole lot cuz i was just thinking she was scaring me so i wont have ... (68 words)

How can I make my birthday party amazing?

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2 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay well i found this site and thought maybe you guys could help me out a little?! soo im 16, i was meant to have my 16th birthday party back in may but my mum ended up in hospital so it never came off, which i wasnt too upset about as my mums health is far far more importa... (311 words)

How do I set boundaries so he doesn't take advantage of my help?

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2 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Please help!!! I met this man, he is 10 yrs younger than me, im 36. He was wonderful, he lived an hour away and we were together every weekend. His ex died and he got FULL CUSTODY of his 3 and 4 year old kids which he just began to see when i met him after 6 months of not ... (206 words)

Why does he one day tell me he likes me and the next day he ignores me?!

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2 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, i know this is gonna take some time as there is quite a lot to the story, but anyway moving on. I met a boy who lives a couple of doors away from me, we became friends at the start i did really have a big crush on him and i admit it i did hound him on AIM and stuff bu... (797 words)