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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What could this stuff being coming out of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been having a white/clear liquid coming out of my vagina... what could it be?... (16 words)

Should the fact that he has a lot of comments on his online profile from a girl in the year below bother me?? Should I talk to him about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5685 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. i have a new boyfriend. i really like him. but we're not really communicative yet. like we're shy to each other. but i went on his page and almost all of his comments are from this girl in the grade below us, and he comments her of course. i don't like her and never have ... (145 words)

What does ''in too deep'' mean? How am I supposed to take this?

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25 September 2008 (?) age 26-29 - Heyllooo :) can i ask , what does ''i feel like im in too deep'' mean as the lad ive been seeing said it to me before , how am i supposed to take to this offensively ? or in a good way ? does this mean his feelings are too strong and he crnt escape it or something like t... (70 words)

I want to tell her that I'm not interested...but how can I do this in the nicest way possible??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

25 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, so I'm wondering if there's a nice way of breaking it to a girl that you're not interested. Back in June I hooked up with this girl at a party, and all we ended up doing was kissing, because she said she wanted to take it slow, which I thought was a bit weird, you d... (405 words)

Does the fact that he is missing me means that he loved me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a relationship for about 10 months with the perfect man, he's really smart (a scientist) and so nice to me, he gave me flowers and all tipe of presents for no reason, he cooked for me every time we were together, treated me like a princess. But he often didn't call as ... (271 words)

I want to end the cycle - but I fear that means ending the marriage...what should I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

25 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I met when I was 18; she was 21. We've been together for 15 years and married for 13. After we moved in together the challenges of married life started to surface, I started to notice she'd distance herself emotionally and intimately. As the months and years went ... (466 words)

How can I ride out this difficult period?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

25 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. Me and this lady at work were flirting with each other for a good few months and then I decided to ask her out. Big mistake! She hasn't spoken to me since and won't even look at me. This has gone on for a couple of months now. She must know that her cold shoulder approach ... (129 words)

Why do I still feel sad about him? For 4 months he put me through hell!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I finally broke things off with my emotionally abusive boyfriend a few weeks ago. During our short relationship (4 months but we've known each other for years), he put me through hell and also had some 'dark secrets' he told me. Well, one of those was that his last relationship ... (628 words)

What's he hiding???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

25 September 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend and me had sex but for some reason he kept his boxers on. When I tried to pull them down it he would jerk away. Why? ... (30 words)

I need some impartial views on all this sillyness!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - im single and i have been for about 4 months. my ex split up with me because he said he didnt love me anymore and he is now seeing another girl who i also knew at work and we got on reasonably well as she lives in the same appartment block. initially i was shocked and i re... (369 words)

Should I let him follow his dream??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I met my partner nearly 16 years ago he is married and has two grown up children. We have been together as a couple for nearly 14 years. i have never asked him to leave his wife and never would. He himself came from a broken home and has always said he would never do that to ... (662 words)

How do I overcome my fear of sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

25 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a problem to which I need some advice. I have been in a gay relationship with my soulmate for almost 3 years now. When we met we were polar opposites: I was 21 years old, very sexually experienced, loved one night stands, was sexually versatile and considered a varied ... (813 words)

His wife passed away a few years ago. Is it safe to be with him now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5685 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age - almost 30years ago I had a relationship which lasted for 3 years, he was married, we had a child who is now 27yrs old, He chose to stay with his wife and family, My son wanted to meet his father, Contact has been made,we have spoken, his wife passed away 4 years ago, I have... (139 words)

Do giving blow jobs make your stomach hurt?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey :) whenever my boyfriend and i hang out (two-three times a week) i give him a blow job. but the next morning, my stomach hurts really, really bad. are they linked? or is is a coinsidense?... (44 words)

I feel like I'm invisible and don't fit in anywhere. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I always feel low about myself Im 17 and i just cant find anything right about myself i compare myself to absolutely everyone ! I think for split seconds i look ok then when i see other girls my spirit goes well down and it is just so horrible. I got two friends and they r ... (93 words)

Have I blown my chances with this guy I really like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5685 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been talking to this guy for a few months over a well known social networking site. anyway we go to the same university and i saw him today for the first time and we briefly spoke. the conversation went something like this, he says hi hows it going i answer yes fine ... (125 words)

Why does my friend hit on every guy I date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a close female friend--I'll call her "Anne"--whom I've known for about two years. Anne and I get along very well in most regards. Since it's rare for me to find a girl with similar interests, I've forgiven her things in the past that would certainly have ended my ... (333 words)

I have clear discharge after having sex, is this normal? I'm sore too.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, yesterday i had sex for the first time in a year and now i notice a day after i feel quite sore and irritated down below. I also have a clear discharge with no scent. Is this normal after not having sex for so long? ... (49 words)

How do you tell people "we met on the internet" or do you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

25 September 2008 (M) - Hi guys. I'm 22 and i'm a virgin - and had minimal experience with girls. I've decided I want to have sex whenever it feels right for me (i.e. not wait until I find 'the one', but a one night stand is a possibility if the opportunity presents itself and it feels right) ... (229 words)

How long can a guy hold out for not having sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - does it matter how long a guy lasts depending on how often he has sex? I mean, if a guy claims to not have had sex for a long time, but can hold out for quite a while, is that normal?... (42 words)

Am I weird for not having french kissed someone yet?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Guys :D In need of a little advice. I am 16 and I want to know if its weird that I am a vl and haven't fully kissed a boy. I have pecked someone on the lips but never frenched kissed someone. Am I weird? Thanks for any advice you give me :D xxxxxx... (64 words)

Is he the stereotypical Turkish guy or could he be for real?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok here is the story...I met this guy on holiday in Turkey. He lives there and was a barman in my hotel. He is 18 and I am 16. So there isn't a large age gap. He constantly flirted with me and kept tryin to get me to go walks and kiss me. I wasn't sure what he was looking for ... (121 words)

I hate how clingy and insecure I am so how do I stop?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm looking for advice on how to stop being insecure, and how to talk to my boyfriend about the way I feel. My boyfriend is a good guy, but he is often moody and withdrawn. He goes from being really clingy and caring and affectionate to being really moody and withdrawn all of ... (167 words)

I lose my erection when its time for sex! Why does this happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

25 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay here is the deal. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for like 6 months now, and its time for sex. But my penis (Uncircumcised) has a problem, it will be hard in the pants but when it comes out it gets soft. This also happens sometimes when i masterbate. Does anyone know ... (94 words)

If he doesn't see me as a girlfriend, where will this end up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have known this guy for 8 months now. Ever since we met we have been inseperable. I think I have fallen in love with him and I have told him this. I feel like I want to be have the girldfriend title but he says he does not want to put a title to our relationship. Says we ... (266 words)

Can someone help me sort out if I'm in the right relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5685 days ago

25 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - First of all I am 23 and my girlfriend is 20 I have been with my partner for about 5 months now. We got to know each other very well and started living together about 3 months ago. We get on really well and I am absolutely crazy about her. She has 2 kids to her ex boyfriend... (261 words)

Am I just being silly? Please put my mind at rest!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, Me and a guy im seeing slept together for the first time yesterday and now for some reason im so worried and nervous. I'm on the pill so i really dont know why? And i've never forgotten any. Am i just being silly? Please someone put my mind at rest.... (58 words)

I see the guy I had an affair with every day, he now has a girlfriend while I am single, I can't get myself to date others because I'm stuck on him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - (I am completely in love with a guy who works with me. We had an affair for 18 months when I was divorcing my husband and his girlfriend had left him. We are sexualy crazy about each other but, he is not sure if something else is there. A couple of months ago he met someone in ... (582 words)

Are these my boyfriend's pictures or could it be his brother's?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5683 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone : ) ... My problem is that I've become very insecure about myself and I'm worried that I may over react about a lot of things cz of the way I feel about myself. Sometimes when my bf and I go out I see him look at other girls even though he thinks I don't see. But... (305 words)

How can you be in something too deep that hasn't begun?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5685 days ago

25 September 2008 (?) age 26-29 - Lads !!!! Explain this ! Why is it that you kiss a girl and repeatedly kiss her basically lead her on and then we recieve messages sayin '' i know this is gunna sound tight but can we forget about what happened with us . i feel like im in too deep!'' Tbh . this lad that i ... (134 words)

What can I do to avoid her? She betrayed me and now she's staying in my house!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I had this friend that I was really close to a while ago. We're both in college and used to go to the same school but now, shes moved away. I wont go into details but one night, we went to a party. I was upset that my bf cheated on me and got really drunk and started gett... (238 words)

Do men in their 30's want women as just friends or do they usually want more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - You swap numbers with someone (just as friends) that you have known in the pub for a few months and they txt a couple of days later asking if your well and saying have a nice day, you reply, then they invite you round for a cup of tea, you have a good chat for a couple of ... (100 words)

The distance made us realise we miss each other, I told this to him but I'm not sure where I stand now, what he wants to happen between us and if he is willing to make it happen!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have known this guy for about 5 years we have always had a close bond we have seen each other have one bad relationship after the next and have always been there for each other to pick up the peices. sometimes this close friendship bond turns into something that has the ... (341 words)

I fancy my mum's boyfriend's son?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok heres the problem My mum is going out wiv this guy she has been wiv for 8 years and he has this son called sean, and ive started having strong feelings for him, sometimes i just feel like kissing him He has a girl friend and i hav a boy friend, i want to tell him but i d... (107 words)

My best friends are bullying me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey My Name Is Amy. Basicaly (im sorry if you get confused, it is quite confusing) i met two friends years ago called kai and joss and they were the nicest boys ever. At the time i also had a friend called gwen. Gwen introduced me to her friend amy. So then, it was me, kai a... (177 words)

I love him but does he just want to sleep with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with this guy for several months. I lost my virginity to him hoping we will end up dating but he said he just got out of a 3 year relationship. I dont really know why, but I kept on sleeping with him for 2 months. I know it was stupid, but I had the most amazing ... (198 words)

Do you think my friend's girlfriend is jealous of me? I admit I like to tease her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

25 September 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My guy friend's girlfriend hates me. She thinks I'm going take him from her (not true .) We both tried tell her we're just friends. Me and my friend flirt a bit when she isn't around. We don't get along at all. I lip off to her a lot (shes so annoying.) It bugs my friend a lot ... (132 words)

Does this guy fancy or have a crush on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Righty, Yes this question comes up alot, but i dont care. =] Okay, does this guy fancy/have a crush on me. I'm not sure if he does, because i was talking to him in geography last week and he randomly came out with 'Your fit!' then i said what and he started laughing... And... (181 words)

Should I abide by my wife's last wish?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

25 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I came home from work this morning and found my wife unconscious then I had to take her to the hospital where she died. She committed suicide. In her note she specified that she did NOT want anyone to know that she took her life. It is the only main thing she wanted and begged ... (919 words)

My affair wants nothing to do with me since my pregnancy and is now only paying child support!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age - I am distraught i have just given birth to a baby boy and the father has said he wants nothing to do with him.He is married and we had an affair for a few months when he found out i was pregnant he got caught at the same time. He wanted to stay with his family and his wife let ... (186 words)

I am in love with my teacher and I don't want to be!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Cut a long story short, i am madly in love with my geography teacher. i am a 17 year old Bisexual (very nearly 18!) female and she is 25 years old and apprently also bisexual (but this has never been confirmed although i do get what some will say vibes from her). My feelin... (310 words)

I cheated on my boyfriend while drunk, the "other guy" agreed to forget but is dropping hints to people, I'ma fraid teh truth will come out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. This might be long, sorry. I have been with my boyfriend on and off for 2 years. Last month i was extremely drunk when camping with some friends, and i cheated on him with a guy my friend (Lucy) knows. i can't even remember what happened, but i know we didnt have sex. i ... (189 words)

Once my husband and I are in a "social" environment, he gets so shy and lacks confidence! He can barely speak to anyone or relax... but wants to change!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband is so painfully shy and lacks confidence! I do not know how to help him and he himself feels very frustrated and gets quite down about it. I have a social life and do try to include him in nights out with my friends etc. But when he comes out with me, he rarely makes ... (660 words)

How can I put myself in position where I seem more like a romantic interest than a friend?...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

25 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - While I was in one of my college classes I caught a girl checking me out. Later that day I talked to her and it was relatively awkward. I've talked to her since and the awkwardness has dissipated. She seems really nice and is someone I'd like to get to know better. Recently ... (114 words)

I fancy her but she has a boyfriend, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

25 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I really like a girl who's the same age as me and she is going out with a kid who is 17 and has been for about 7 months. I like her a lot but what should I do?... (39 words)

How do I sort out my girl problems?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5685 days ago

25 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, im 16 tand have been with few girls but none have which have been in my mixed school. it seems like all my friends have met or went out with someone in the school but i havent. its not that i dont talk to any girls cause i do. how do i sort my problem ?????????????? ... (63 words)

If a guy likes both men and women, but likes men more, is he confused?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am just wondering.. if a guy came out as gay..then realised he liked women as well but is more on the gay side...then comes out as "bisexual" do you think he is confused?the guy i am talking about used to be gay but now he is bi.. he seems to go with men and women (but h... (88 words)

When I try to get intimate I am often pushed away. I'm so frustrated with our sex life! Is it because of his premature ejaculation and what can be done about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi! My name is Jayne and am extremely fustrated with my love life. Here's the situation--my boyfriend of a little over 6 months does not want to ever have sex--it's like pulling teeth or something. In all other aspects of our relationship everything is fine. We get along ... (301 words)

Unsafe sex 12 days before my period, can I be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) age 41-50 - I had unsafe sex 12 days before my period,can i be pregnant... (12 words)

I've been doing Kegel exercises to help with the pain during sex caused by my prolapsed uterus. Is this all I can do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i just had my second child which has left my uterus prolapsed. It hurts when I have sex with my husband. I have brought it up to the doctor, tell them that I am doing the kegel exercise, but then it seems like they drop it. Like the only thing to do is the kegles. Its ... (123 words)

My friendship with a late 50s man has become sexual. He's married and I am getting over sexual abuse in my past. What shall I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm good friends with a man who's in his late fifties and have been for quite some time. Since about April time this year, we've been seeing each other once or twice a week and been sexual. Although we've only had sexual intercourse twice, we've been feeling each other up, etc, ... (139 words)

Why does my guy hide his porn habit from me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - What should I do about my guy porn habit? We've been together for almost two years, and when we started dating I made it very clear that porn was not an option because I consider it cheating. I told him that if he wanted to watch the stuff that I wasn't the one for him. A ... (165 words)

He blames me rather than his kids. And they're the ones who keep breaking us up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5685 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age - i have been on here alot since i started dating a 69 year old man. i am 65 years old and we have been dating 3 years and 9 months. We had broken up two times times until day before yesterday. it seems that his grown kids that are married are very controlling. i believe that ... (340 words)

I don't know what decision to make with my life and relationship with her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5685 days ago

25 September 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, i am in a bit of a situation.long story really, but here we go. I have been with my partner for 5.5 years, and we had planned on movign to another country where i was brought up, we planned this for 2 years, but when it came to the crunch this year in feb, she told me she ... (380 words)

Can she still get pregnant or is her period just coming slow?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5685 days ago

25 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, i have a question and i need some answers here...My girlfriend and i had sex last month 4 days before her period(28 day cycle) but she had a NORMAL period and then she ovulated again this month around the 11th(her period was the whole last week of august). And she ... (100 words)

He said he loves me, but doesn't want to go back with me, and has sex with another woman!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5564 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I don't know what to do. I was going out with a man for 1 year...it wasn't easy....we fought a lot....so from time to time we decided to take a break....but everytime we went back together because our love is too strong. Recently, we decided to stay friends, because we ... (497 words)

Anyone has an idea what is "abandoned child syndrome" for an adult guy? I want to help him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Anyone has an idea what is "abandoned child syndrome" for an adult guy, who was left by his cheating mother. Now he hates her and lives only for his father ... his relationships are great .. but least exactly year and a month, and he dumps the girls!!!!! Anyone knows a... (441 words)

What should I do about my attraction towards a male co-worker? I hear he was into guys before.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

25 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone who is taking the time to read this. This is my first posting and I kind of really need some advice. I am beggining to have a huge attraction for a co worker of mine. I knew I was into guyz before but I never actually had feelings for one. The only thing is that I ... (262 words)

Marriage proposals: do you have a story to tell?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age - Hello All, I am wondering if anybody can help me. I am currently researching for a new book that I am writing and looking for stories of marriage proposals with a difference. Anything from the ultra romantic to the down right funny or corny. Do you have a tale to tell? please ... (53 words)

I can't remember if he wore a condom or not, my period was very light and short, now I seem to be having pregnancy symptoms, but I can't go to the doctors on my own nor can afford a pregnancy test, help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a very confused person at the moment! I would be very happy if you would reply nicely with advice and not actually insulting, because I am only 16. A very confused one at that. So, I had sex roughly on the 28th August.. I can't remember if he wore a condom or not. I ... (389 words)

Discharge, abdominal pains, pain during and after sex ! What is wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am really freaked out! For the past few months my sex life has been really bad;I get horny and that but the sex isn't good anymore..I have also been getting strange,smelly discharge, abdominal pains, pain during and after sex and I don't seem to be producing as much wetness ... (119 words)

My live-in partner has changed tremendously since the baby was born. He says that he hates me. I really do not know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 35 years old and about 10 years ago I met the love of my life. We were both seeing other people at the time. He was living with his significant other. We both worked together at the same company. We could not help ourselves and ended up having a purely physical ... (792 words)

Confused as to whether he's actually busy, or all of a sudden he's just not interested in me anymore, or even getting back with his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5558 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Where do i stand with him? There is this boy that i work with and we're pretty good friends. A few months ago he broke up with his gf of 2 years and since then we've got really close. we were pretty close even when he was with his gf though as she was a bit jealous of me. we ... (224 words)

I've been on a period for three weeks! Could I be infertile?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) age 30-35 - I'm 14-years-old and started my period when i was 13. Since then they have been somewhat irregular, and light. Then in April i had a extremely heavy period where i was bleeding every 30 seconds. Then for some reason i didn't have another period for four and a half months. But ... (102 words)

Does he want me? He said he could no longer see me pretexting that my ex is in prison, but he does come round once a week and has sex with me!?...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5683 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a young man about 3 months ago we are both in our early 20's, at first glance he wasn't my type but we went out a couple of times and i realised he was such a lovely person inside and we started spending time with each other and sleeping together. He told me i made h... (222 words)

I keep myself in a shell when it comes to boys, give one-word answers, always believe they think something is wrong with me, etc. How can I rebuild my confidence?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5685 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok i have a serious confidence issue.It started a few years ago.I feel that if people look at me for longer than a few secconds that they think somethings wrong with me.Or are looking at my flaws or something and i really hate that feeling.I know that it's vertually impossable ... (246 words)

I think my best friend feels as though she's always in my shadow, what can I do to make her feel more even?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

25 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi...I need help... I think my best friend feels as though she's always in my shadow...its hard to explain..but like people think im prettiers than her, and I get more attention from boys than her and my schol marks are better than hers...people even forget her name....... (72 words)

I am having a hard time with him keeping a hang on his past, is it me or what?

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25 September 2008 (?) age 51-59 - I been married for a very short time and it seems he cant let go of his past girl friend he keeps her pics in his puter looks for her emails and he had bought this dog for her and after a yr or two she didnt wat it so he kept it the dog comes after me and he pets it i am ... (86 words)

I found flirtacious texts on his phone, he said he did it because we were on a break at that time, I understand that but can't get the texts out of my head!

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25 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 1yr 7 months.Last night i went through his phone i know this was wrong but... i found texts he sent about 3 months ago to this girl saying "i enjoyed our sexy kiss last night etc.... I got really upset and confronted him. I ... (201 words)

We've done the odd sexual things but not actual sex, I don't dare to please him in case it goes wrong and he thinks differently of me! Please advise.

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25 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - wel me and my boyfriend have been together alomst a year, and we've done the odd sexual things but not actual sex, but im scared, and i havnt done anything to him either wich im also scared about incase it goes wrong and he thinks different of me, what advice can you give me?... (54 words)

My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months yet he doesn't agree to change his relationship status to committed on his online profiles!

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25 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Please tell me if you think I'm being paranoid. My boyfriend snapped at me becuase he said someone changed his profile on some bebo thing to show that he's in a realtionship so when I said does it really matter he said yes it does because someone has been onto his account... (175 words)

Any advice or tips of how friends of the opposite sex can live together? I lost my virginity to him but he doesn't have feelings for me as I have for him.

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25 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Next summer I will be moving in to an apartment with my best guy friend. We will both be 18. We have known each other for a little over 4 years and get along really well most of the time. I lost my virginity to him, and we have never been together as a couple. I'm a littl... (130 words)

I get frustrated and angry at little things he says and can't seem to control it, why am I behaving like this?

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25 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am concerned. I have been with my man 5 years. We recently had a 7 month break as our reltionship was in a bit of a rut (my call). I am glad to be back together, and he is making such an effort, doing everything he can to make things better. I really want it to work, howe... (132 words)

Is it legal to do sex between an unmarried couple in a hotel room?

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25 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I want to do sexual intercourse with my girlfriend in a hotel. Is it legal to do sex between an unmarried couple in a hotel room? May I arrested by the police?... (36 words)

Kissed another girl while I was drunk, can I ever be forgiven?

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25 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently moved away to college about an hour and a half away from my girlfriend. We decided to stay together since I will be able to come home and visit almost every weekend. I recently got drunk and kissed a friend of mine that lives in the same dorm as me. I told my g... (121 words)

Should I end this before I do something bad...or should I stick it out?

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25 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend thinks the world of me. He cries when he talks about how much he loves me, and there is no doubt in my mind that I love him too. We finish eachother's sentences and take the words from eachother's mouths. It feels as though we've reached the strongest point ... (197 words)

I have trouble finding a woman because apparently I'm not "hot"

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25 September 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi Guys. Im 13 and my Ex - Girlfriend is 13 (she was a few monthes older than me). We went out for roughly 7 monthes and we loved eachother so much and called eachother everynight and i gave her roses and i was there for her anytime she needed me. Last week at school she sa... (775 words)

Has he broken up with me?

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25 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Did my boyfriend breakup with me???? Me (22) and my boyfriend (25) were together for 1 year. We were really great together we connected in a way that made me fall in love for the first time in my life ( i had few boyfriends before him). He used to care about me; msgs every h... (798 words)

Men hardly ever approach me or notice me-Advice please?

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25 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice on something. Men hardly ever approach me or notice me. I see all types of women getting approached or complimented by men, but not me. Women seem to have nicer things to say. I am African-American, slim and 5'7". Some people say that I resemble Stacy ... (64 words)

Is my friend bisexual like me?

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25 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, ok this is pretty long but those of you that help thanks you. Ok so im pretty sure i am bi, and i have this boy that i have liked and came love. we have talked for a year and have hungout alot and go pretty close but nothing physical. problem ... (637 words)

I am beginning to wonder if she is not being true to her word. Am I wrong?

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25 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hello all. My ex and I are going to see each other soon and are going to see if we cant maybe fire things up again. Because of this we have both decided to stop with our current flings to keep things good between us and get rid of any jelousy.Our relationship before was long ... (137 words)

I have a hard time loving in my relationships.

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25 September 2008 (M)

- I have unrealistically high expectation of myself and this daunting perfectionism triggers nothing but stress and anxiety in my daily life. It seems to permeate every aspect of my life, namely my relationships. I’m never sure if I “love” a woman. I have wonderful moment w... (300 words)

I love him but I can't get turned on to him! Help-any advice?

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25 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I use to be very sexually active with my husband but now it just went away. I still find him very attractive and i love him more then anything, but i just cant figure out why i cant get turned on. I've tried role playing, using toys and even exerising. We do not have any kids ... (98 words)

He wants to kiss me, but he's too shy! What should I do?

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25 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my boyfriend have been have been dating for like 3 weeks and last week he told his friends that he wanted to kiss me and i want to kiss him too but he keeps chickening out!!! he leaves me notes in one of my classes and he tells me "at lunch" "afterschool" but he never ... (109 words)

My gf's is upset that I don't like her displays of affection in public! What should I do?

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25 September 2008 (M)

- My girlfriend is big on public displays of affection but I feel uncomfortable with it. It's much more than just holding hands and a quick peck, she's licking the back of my ear and running her hands over my body. She's so crestfallen whenever I bring it up. What to do?... (56 words)

I find myself accidentally in love with this past gf, who I just want to see, be around. What can I do?

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25 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - 3 years ago, I had a pretty bad fall out with an ex-girlfriend. And now everytime i think about the relationship, some assholic memory of me will arise and I hate it, it makes me hate myself and i get embarassed thinking about it even if im alone because I just can't believe I ... (514 words)

I feel like I have failed at getting over him. Any words of wisdom?

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25 September 2008 (F)

- I hope someone can help with a situation which seems hopeless right now. I broke up with my boyfriend in June but we have to keep seeing each other and it is proving to be so hard. We do important work on a committee and he had a soiree for the committee members and he did n... (183 words)

My wife thinks I cheated and I can't prove otherwise. What do I do?

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25 September 2008 (?) age 41-50 - My wife thinks I cheated on here while on a seven month deployment and of course there is no way to prove other wise what do I do?... (28 words)

Is there a chance my girlfriend could be pregnant even though she had a normal period?

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25 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, i need some help...Ok i am currently 19 yrs old, and my gf and i had sex 4 days before her period, which comes every 28 days...So which means she ovulates two weeks before her period...Well we had sex 4 days before her period, had her period and it was normal then ... (92 words)

I have feelings for my third cousin. How do I tell her?

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25 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi Im a 18 year old boy from the united kingdom and, i have a question, i have feelings for my cousin who is a third cousin who i met only a few months ago.. but i dont know how to tell her.. because i get along with her alot and i dont want me saying that i really do... (125 words)

How do I go about getting in touch with ex girlfriends?

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25 September 2008 (M)

- I’ve been thinking about getting back in touch with my ex-girlfriends. My girlfriend is in touch with most of her ex-boyfriends and they chat casually once in a blue moon. I haven’t spoken to any of my ex-girlfriends since we broke up. It would be nice to maintain contact... (141 words)

The guy I like just asked my friend out... What do I do?

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25 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - im a freshman in high school. been through a ton of boyfriends, but never felt the way i do about this guy..i am seriously madly in love with him, but the thing is, he just asked out my friend and they are going to a movie....how the heck do i tell her that i love him without ... (72 words)

How do I warn my friend about the dangers of STDs? She won't listen to me.

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25 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So my friend has been going out with her current boyfriend for 6 months and recently started going farther and farther but not in like a"I'm getting ready to sleep with you way," but I know either, or both of them (I don't know who's done what) have given each other oral. And ... (207 words)

My boyfriend hit me, but the thought of leaving him hurts too much.

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25 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend hit me, and the thought of me having to leave and star all over with another guy hurts so bad I still love him to death cause we been together for a year and a half. Should I leave him? ... (42 words)

How do male teachers feel about their female students?

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25 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. Im want only male teachers or males who work around highschool females. I want to know is there ever one time when you think of your female students. like im not saing chasing them down but like getting a crush on them but not acting on it. I want to know the males response ... (88 words)

Our sex life is boring - help!

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25 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Basically ive been with my girlfriend for 1 year and a half and were both only 18 so its early times still. we recently got our first house and everything is great. However our sex life is extremely boring she just hasn't got any sex drive anymore and i don't know what to do ... (121 words)

I'm 14 year old with a 17 year old boyfriend. I just want to hang out with him, but my dad doesn't trust us.

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25 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im a 14year old girl that has a 17 year old boyfriend that is turning 18 in two days. i really like him but my dad doesnt want me to date him and my mom think that she wouldnt care as long as she meets him. i want my dad to meet him too but i dont think he wants to and my dad ... (171 words)

What is happening to our relationship? Is it me or is it her?

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25 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 17 and I've been going out with my girlfriend who is 16 for 7 months now and I truely love her. Recently, she has been getting very angry at me for no particular reason and blaming everything on me. Even though I am not doing anything wrong. She told me that she was ... (198 words)

I broke up with my ex and now regret it. What do I do?

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25 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My now ex boyfriend and I had a very intense relationship. We were only together for 5 months but in that time we both fell desperately in love with each other. Here is a little bit of background info. He has a very needy job where he gets very little time off. With tha... (558 words)

Do you think he is messing with me, or do you think he really wants something more?

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25 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Last fall I met this married cop, who is 27. I am still in high school, and only 17, but it feels like he does not really care that im underage. When I am around him, he is very flirty towards me, it almost feels like he does not really care that he is married either. Since I ... (324 words)

How do I fill my mother in about wanting to have sex?

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25 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey im only 16 and me and my bf are wanting to have sex. were both virgins and my mom freaked out when she found out the he was massaging my boobs when we made out. im just wondering when to tell my mom of my thoughts and how me and my bf want to have sex.. Any tips on th... (69 words)

My boyfriend hasn't said 'I love you' yet... is there something wrong?

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25 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I know people say i love you way to much.. but iv'e been with my bf for 2 months and he has never said i love you...i know he likes me a lot cause all his friends tell me how happy he is and how he always talks about me.. but i was wondering.. is there something wrong if he do... (66 words)

We're both in the armed forces, but she wants to leave the Navy solely for me!

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25 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i started seeing this girl just before i was about to transfer to the army from the navy. i made it very clear that i was transferring and she was fine with that. After training i decided to leave the army so i could take our relationship to the next level. We are now ... (116 words)

How do I deal with my overly needy boyfriend?

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25 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for a few weeks now, it was originaly not my plan to even have a relationship, but then he came along...but latley he has been really annoying. i dont get free time to my self he gets whiny when i spend time with my friends and threw a hissy fit ... (116 words)

I want to move in with 'my own' family. But my mum hates my girlfriend!

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25 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, I'm 22 and my girlfriend is 20. We have a daughter together she is 15 months. I wanna move in with her but my mother hates her guts. How do I tell my mother I wanna move and live with her? Please help... (44 words)

Why would my ex have been sooo nasty and horrible? I'd like a girl's point of view.

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25 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I would like a girls point of view on this preferably.....Why would my ex have been sooo nasty and horrible? Sorry if it gets a lil long.. I dated this girl who i realy cared about and she knew it, i was very open and honest with her. Unfortunetly when we broke up ph... (426 words)

How do I deal with a harassing ex?

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25 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I have been dating since July. The only issue in our relationship is his ex. They were childhood sweethearts and they broke up over a year ago because she cheated on him multiple times. Now he's with me, but the main issue with her is because they had... (245 words)

I've been having an affair with an older woman, now my girlfriend has asked me to marry her!

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25 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 23 years old, and have been in a steady relationship for 2 years now. However, for the last 6 months I have been having an affair with an older women. She's 45, and I know that there's no future with this woman, but I enjoy her company. My girlfriend has just asked m... (78 words)