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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I like him, he likes me, but he used to go out with one of my good friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - i like this boy a lot. and he's told me he does also. but one of my good friends use to go out with him, and i know she likes him. but i know he doesn't like her. but i don't like to be with her at school because when he's around i can't really go talk to him because i'd feel ... (103 words)

I'm not going to ask him out, but how do I get him to ask me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - hello. there's this boy at my school. we went out a couple years back but it wasn't anything serious, i mean we were like 11-12? so yeah. but this year i started to like him so much. and he talked to me first. so we've been talking since and he's told me that he likes me a lot. ... (102 words)

How do we make him stop bringing us down?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 437 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - hey. so i have this friend. well he's one of my best friends actually. and he pretty much thinks he's so perfect and everyone else is a mess. like every day he tells me i look a mess and i'm so sensitive so it really gets to me and i get sad. and he also brings down my 2 girl ... (132 words)

I interviewed her for a job, does she seem interested in me? And if so, how do I proceed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 September 2008 (M) - Hello to all! A young lady applied for a job at a small school I run a few days ago. The job is about 5 hours but during the interview there seemed to be an instant attraction between us. I call her later to clarify stuff on the CV and she seems interested to hear from me... (225 words)

It's not the size but how you use it that counts. Or is it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 375 days ago

12 September 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Ok then, so how are we supposed to use it? We men always keep hearing this whenever we ask for a straightforward question when asked about size. It seems women are afraid to burst bubbles/feelings - this immense beating around the bush more than anything seems to confirm... (239 words)

How many sex partners is too many??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I guess what I want to know is what is the average number of people someone my age (22) has been with? I know its different for everyone and Ill get answers saying whatever is right for me. Im just curious is all. I've been with 12, which I always thought of as quite a ... (161 words)

We've been dating six months and he's never hugged or kissed me or even held hands!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hiia i need help my boy friend doesnt seem interested in me we've been dating for 6 months and not once has he either kissed me, huggd and not even held hands , its soo annoying can you help please ? ... (45 words)

Late period, took the morning after pill though and was on my period at the time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 426 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Sorry if this is long guys i just need some reassuring (: ! My boyfriend of seven months, threw me a 16th birthday party, and yes there was alcohol there. ( my parents new about the party and went out, they didnt no about the alcohol being there tho!) As it was in my hous... (468 words)

How often is it okay to text her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 437 days ago

12 September 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi, I'm 16 and still in school, but have a massive crush on a girl in my year. I think about her all the time..and I was wondering how often it is ok to text her? Is once a night to much? She never blows me off and always seems to give in depth replies.. or is this too s... (82 words)

He promised that we could have children together, so I married him. Now he's changed his mind! Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I have been married to my husband now for 2 years. He has two children from a previous mirrage, a boy 9 and a girl 13. Prior to our mirrage, I made 100% sure he would want more children with me since he is 20 years my senior. He said yes that he would love no... (117 words)

It hurts when I'm poked!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Hey ive been wid ma bf 4 nearly a month and it really hurts when he pokes me. what does this mean? wht can i do so it dosent. im not a virgin or nothing but i need some advice... (48 words)

Should I tell him to stop flirting with me or tell him to go ahead and ask me out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 435 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - theres this guy who i used to fancy for about 6 months and i really liked him he was my first proper crush i didnt ask him out because he was my best friends ex( she later told me she was fine with me going out wiv him) he knows i used to fancy him and now hes one of ma best ... (333 words)

Carried away in the moment... am I at risk for pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Is it possible to get pregnant if you have sex straight after you finish your period. Me and the other half got carried away in the moment. I wiped the cum away from my vagina but still think he came in me... (42 words)

I'm scared of being intimate with a man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Help me! I have such a fear of being intimate with a man. I am a 28 year old female and when i first meet a guy that i am into i get all excited about seeing him but the minute i realize that he is into me as well i start becoming really anxious and find that i become scared ... (91 words)

How can I stop the way I feel about him without stopping the friendship? I'm married.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Im married and have a terrible crush on someone who is 20years younger than me! I have tried stop how I feel and thought I I was over it but it started up again. I really enjoy his company and like how I feel with him but know it's wrong. How can I stop how I feel without ... (64 words)

My love life is in tatters and I don't know why! What ever happened to old fashioned romance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 412 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - my love life is in tatters and im fed up, iv jus had a baby 9 wks ago, her dad cheated on me and doesnt see any of us, i used to pick up guys all the time b4 i was pregnant and now, nothing. im not ugly or anything, and im quite confident, but still nothing. its like in a bar ... (83 words)

This under age kid has a crush on me! He won't take a hint...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi got a big problem. I go to a course for literacy and numeracy 3 days a week. Theres this kid there. I use the word kid as by law im a adult, he is only 14. He constantly looks at me. I am not interested as i have someone and he aint my type by far. He just dont get it and ... (102 words)

How can I drop hints that I like him?

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12 September 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - hi there. well i really need some advice. lets cuts straight to the story then, erm well ive liked this lad only recently and he is in the year below me. how can i drop hints to make him get the idea i like him? nothing to major cause im quite shy. i only see him on the scho... (120 words)

How do I give my ex boyfriend head?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

- Hiaa.. Well my problem is that i'm really close with my ex-ex-ex boyfriend we havent been together for ages and we have both had a fe relationships since but we have still talked to eachother and anythig we are single at the same time we have meet up and spent time ... (103 words)

Is he with her because she's pregnant or does he really want to be with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 437 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Okay here is the problem: I am 23 yrs old so this goes back 6 yrs ago. I dated a guy in high school basically all four years - we had rough times, but always wanted to be together. We broke up in 05' - I jumped immediately into a relationship and so did he. At first he would... (281 words)

Should I meet up with this online guy I've known for 3 years? I'm scared...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I met this guy online three years ago we talked ever since but he lived in london which is otherside of england to me. we never met up and havent talked for about 6 months. Today i got a text from him, he is in Leeds for a year and wants to meet up in the place i live. I said ... (163 words)

I can't see him for another month! What am I supposed to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - my boyfriend got grounded earlier today for a month, when i get ungrounded on monday, we both have strict parents and don't deserve to be punnished as we've done nothing wrong (both for different reasons btw) meaning i can't see him, or talk to him online or anything. i'm used ... (288 words)

He started having sex with his ex and then stopped....can he be trusted?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend and i had been together for about ten months when he was at work and his ex was meeting him there to drop the kids off with him. he went over to her truck to get his daughters backpack and she was playing with herself. he stopped to look and i guess went into ... (177 words)

Does anyone have experience using online dating sites?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering has anyone here ever used a dating website and was it a good experience. Ive never used one before all i hear is bad things. I'm talking to two guys at the monment I just wanted to know if anyone has had ever lasting love from using such a website. I'm new to ... (67 words)

They'll only be able to see each other every other weekend, can this work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

12 September 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi just a quick question about distant relationships, iv got a friend who has met a really amazing girl who lives about 1 hours 30mins drive away, and they see each other like every other weekend, will this work? and can they work if any one is in one or has experience please ... (59 words)

Do I have to live with this guy, or should I dump him? There's a baby involved...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend,is cheatiing on me with different girls, i tried to accept the fact that he is cheating. but the other time he wrote one of the girls im working with a love message. it real hurt me, i tried so hard to put it behind me and told him that at least he must'nt cheat ... (129 words)

I'm pregnant with his baby, but he won't split up with his new girl! I'm confused and scared...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

- Im 25 years old and this week found out im pregnant. Its by my ex, who Ive been with on and off for 3 years. Each time we got back together we would be happy for a few months then he would leave me for someone else. I would always be stupid and take him back cos I really love ... (252 words)

I didn't mean to make him cum!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I stayed at my mom's friends house, while my parents left town. Her son, whom is 24, has always picked on me, and He was tackling me and tickling me on the bed, so I rolled over ontop of him, and started tickling him, he moaned my name after a few minutes, and told me dont do ... (181 words)

Two counselors told him he was abusive, he moved out today and I feel so sad and guilty. Should I take him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband moved out today. He didn't want to go. We have been married for ten years and it started out so brilliantly. He began complaining that I was in charge of the money so he took control of it. Then it was another thing and then another. He had strict rules for... (225 words)

How can I get rid of the ugly stretch marks?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I really need help. I went through a stage where I was very heavy. I lost the excess weight, and I have pretty nice abs, but I have terrible stretch marks. Is there anything besides surgery I can do to reduce or get rid of them? And would a guy think less of me for having them? ... (59 words)

How do I get my boyfriend to give me oral without actually asking him outright?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 437 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - iv been with my boyfriend for 4 months now, and we have a great sex life. the only problem is the fact that no matter how many hints i make, he will not give me oral sex. Iv tried everything i can think of except asking. I dont want to ask him because he obviously doesnt like ... (92 words)

Likes me, likes me not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - my childhood friend is also my crush and his friends tease me and says he likes me. Does he? Okay, i'll go into details. His friends always say he likes me, his sms replys are becoming more and more "instant" than usual, i caught him starring at me 2 times this week, he seems ... (107 words)

How likely is it for the morning after pill to fail?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I, regretably, had unprotected sex. It wasn't planned and I am absolutely terrified of becoming pregnant now. I got the morning after pill the next morning and took it within 10 hours of having sex. The lady told me I should be fine, however I have been reading online a... (123 words)

Did he cheat? Or is he mad at me for making the acusation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend of 4 months had just broke up.He broke it off with me cause i questioned if he was cheating which he denied. I told him his friend told me and he said i was tring to get him mad at his friend.Of course he denied it and said a thousand times in text messaging ... (303 words)

He is threatening to take away my child once it is born!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - What do i do my boyfriend physically and mentally abuses me. Im pregnant now with his kid and he is threatening to take my kid and leave me and get me for child support... weve been dating since i turned 16. i got pregnant about 8 weeks ago. i just turned 18 yesterday. He is 28 ... (102 words)

Will these feelings I have go away eventually? I had a fling and have had trouble coping with my husband's depression!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am married with a 5 year old son. My husband has depression and has done since before I met him - we've always got through difficult patches and come out the other side still intact. However, his most recent episode (about 2 months ago) threw me for six and I really ... (340 words)

I just need to learn how to deal with or get over all this once and for all!! Help anyone?!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy that I have been in love with for like forever! But for reasons I really do not want to go into it would simply NEVER be possible for us to be together because of complicated reasons that would have adverse consequences - so simply NOT possible! Anyway so... (401 words)

I need some help with my bikini shopping!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - This might sound like a very stupid question but I'm actually stuck. I went shopping today for a bikini (I'm a happy size 14) but when I tried the bottoms on they were slightly tight, are bikini's meant to be like this or is it when they get wet they shrink or expand (can't... (119 words)

Suggestions on starting a conversation with a girl please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 437 days ago

12 September 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - Hi. I like this girl, blah blah blah, I'm sure you've heard it before. I'd just like some suggestions for conversation. If I know what I'm going to say, I can be a lively conversationalist. If I don't know what I'm going to say, I'll just sit there in sillence. What kind of ... (58 words)

My husband masturbates to porn and it makes me feel unadequate! I need your advice on how to change things!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 430 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I caught my husband masturbating to porn. I guess I can't understand it... given I always felt he could open up to me and talk about such things... he also could have come to me, as I enjoy sex a great deal. But instead he would wait for me to go to bed, and after I am asleep h... (182 words)

How do I keep my anonymous textmessage sex hot? I'm running out of ideas!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 437 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am texting this guy that i like and he does not know who i am .. but he texts me back all the time . We have been dirty texting back and fourth . i need more stuff to say .. i dont want him to get bored with me .. I has asked who i am and i wont tell him . and he is ok with ... (107 words)

Where can I meet a potential date? I dislike clubbing, and joining a club is not a good idea as all my interests are mainly "girly".

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 433 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

- I need some ideas of where I could meet some guys and hopefully one turn into a bf. Im not into the whole clubbing scene, and besides most people who do that typicall only want one night stands. So that is out of the question. My work is mainly all females,and of t... (133 words)

Dad doesn't like my boyfriend, because he is unemployed (at 19) and doesn't have a car! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a hafe now and my dad doesnt like him, because he doesnt have a job or a car and apparently im high maintenance and needs a boyfriend that can spend alot of money on me. I dont agree with this, i have a part him job and i can support ... (229 words)

He ejaculated on my hand, I touched myself when it dried. Am I pregnant or am I stressed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 425 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I have been with my bf for 2 months and i gave him a hand job. he cumed on my hand it dried then i touch the top of my vagina but not near my hole. im missing my period and im really worried im not even a teen yet... (50 words)

Now my hubby is nice to me but changes every now and then, he wants us to try again but this is so hard and awkward and I also feel pressurised for sex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone ...long story cut short i hope. Been with my husband for 5 years been married 3....i had a feeling something was going on when he started being strange with me...saying nasty hurtfull things for no reason. One night in july i was woken by his mobile going off 6 mess... (269 words)

How much longer can I act cold towards him after his asking me out? Am I strong? We're coworkers, I don't know if I fancy him? Will I be misinterpreted if I ask to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Any other women had this issue? I've been friendly with a guy at work for about 3 years. As far as I am concerned I've treated him just like any other guy at work i.e. professionally. So, we are not friends as such, but certainly friendly towards each other. Me: married - ... (398 words)

I do enjoy sex! But I can't explain the tears during it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi. Well, here it is. I've been together for with my bf for almost a year, the sex is good and i'm now pretty comfortable with everything we do together and we love each other dearly. Now i wanna know, is it normal to have tears dripping out when having sex? I recently have ... (112 words)

I am the other girl and I want him to get caught cheating because I hate his girlfriend! How do I get caught on purpose?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I am the other girl. Slowly i'm realizing that he's a complete jerk and this all might not be worth it. I do enjoy being the other girl because I hate his girlfriend. How can i GET caught on purpose?? I want her to know, I want him to get caught. I want to leak hard evidence, ... (83 words)

I don't want to push him into a relationship (he's freshly divorced) but I can't "hang around" indefinitely. He said while drunk that he didn't want to make me suffer. We haven't had sex yet. Any thoughts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing this guy now and again for the past year. It started out as a friendship but last year was difficult because he was going through a difficult divorce and he was quite distressed about everything. His wife told him that he had made her suffer a lot over the 15 ... (458 words)

Women only, penis question! Would you be ok with 3 inches?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 291 days ago

12 September 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - this is a short and simple question, can a 3 inch penis give a girl a gspot orgasm? and has anyone had sex wit a penis so small? how does it feel?... (32 words)

How can I tell if he is (not) interested? I'm afraid I will scare him away if I express my interest in him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - There is someone i am intrested in but i just don't know how 2 go about it..i don't know that if i say anything it will scare him away i just want to know how can u tell if a guy is intrested in u or not? Will there be any signs? Certain things he says 2 u? Or how can u t... (77 words)

Where can I learn more about the age laws on sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Can somebody please clear up the age laws on sex, concerning minors, adults, just like age things and what not. Or at least give me a site to read about it??... (31 words)

This coworker says he loves his girlfriend but likes to show interest in me, what is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy at work, is being flirty too much with me. He has a GF that works in the same company but different area. Every time we are in a meeting or reunion he looks for me and sits by my side, likes to talk to me and is pretty aware of what is happening to me. Some other ... (235 words)

She has a boyfriend but says she would rather be with me. Why doesn't she break up with him and should I wait?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 434 days ago

12 September 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - I have known this girl for about 5 years. and we are really good friends. She has had boyfriends on and off in the time that i've known her but i've never thought to ask her out. I have been spending alot of time with her lately and we've been talking alot. We've become even ... (111 words)

I hurt my soulmate because of talking to my ex. How do I get him to trust me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm having a problem with my boyfriend whom i really love and at one time we felt like soul mates we would finish each others sentences, he made my heart skip a beat every time he called me or came around my heart would race. but like a dickhead i messed up? He asked me when we ... (224 words)

My friend's a bit of a player so how do I not become a temptation to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 437 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - This seems to be a theme but I feel like I've lost my mind. I'm finally away from home and have gotten involved at the uni. I've befriended many of my band members. And then there's M. M is a year older than I am and is a huge flirt, with every girl he knows well including m... (213 words)

My mood swings are killing me since he cheated! I just don't know what to do....

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12 September 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost a year. We are both young-he is 23 and I am 21. He cheated on me in December last year 2-3 months into our relationship. I found out exactly three weeks ago. I was completely shocked and heartbroken when I found out. We just ... (956 words)

Is my LD boyfriend still in love with his ex or does he love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

- Dear Cupid: I am a 30 year old woman in a long distance relationship for about 3 and 1/2 years. We planned to get together for the pasted year but it just hasn't happened. However, the fact of the matter is that I do want to move in with him, but there is just one little ... (427 words)

I'm pregnant and my husband doesn't want sex with me. I feel so unwanted!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 361 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - i was wondering if anyone could help me out. i am 3 months pregnant and my husband wont have sex with me. he has never had a problem with it with my other pregnancies. but 8 months ago i had a miscarriage and i dont know if that would be the reason he has been like this. he ... (79 words)

Do you think her brother will harm me after I pushed her too far?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 September 2008 (?) age 13-15 - My girlfriend(my best friends sister) is a shy qutie around me, we were sitting at in my room yesterday, just softly kissing each other on the mouth and I started getting rough with her, kissing her all over and fast and I kinda forced her to do it and she told me to stop but I ... (123 words)

What should I get my wife for her birthday and anniversary?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 439 days ago

12 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - what should i gift her on my wife's birthday or on our marriage anniversary ? how to celebrate or treat her to make her happy (as i never did alike) and believe that i care for her ?............ (39 words)

When a man's heart and pride are hurt by a woman, does he try and hurt her in return?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 388 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - My ex and I had an extremely bad break-up (I broke up with him; both he and I were very hurt and very angry) and ended all contact with one another for more the majority of the past year. About a month ago, we began talking again and agreed to meet up for the first time since ... (332 words)

Am I the bad guy or is she manipulating me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 439 days ago

12 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am not sure if I am the bad guy or it is just her manipulating me. She has bad past experiences. Knowing that, I always assure her and do things her way. Is it wrong that I fulfill her need before mine? Sometimes, she is nice to me and sometimes she isn't. She likes t... (295 words)

How do I get the feelings back after my wife had an affair?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My wife confessed to having an affair before we got married. This is 7 years in to our marriage. 20 years after being married she has a couple of affairs. I had no clue. Didn't ask to be told. Over 12 years have past since than and it still effects me.How do I get back the ... (62 words)

How do I pick one of these two men? I'm crying buckets of tears trying to figure this out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 433 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am responding to the others who seem to be in the same boat. I fell in love with D at age 18 he is 30 years my senior he was my first and only...he has protected me urged me to go to school and many other pos. things He is also married. 18 years later we are still best ... (452 words)

I need to know how to write sexy messages to my online boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 439 days ago

12 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I have an online boyfriend. He loves getting sexual in his IMs and his emails. but i dont know how to really back. We would start an email, and he'll send messages that give you a kinky feeling...i want to send the same kind of thing back to him, but i dont know what to say. ... (62 words)

He had a problem with my past and dumped me! I have lost my first love... help me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

12 September 2008 (F) age 18-21 - I lost my first love. He dumped me like that. It was an on/off relationship. It would've been perfect hadn't it been because of his problem. He had a problem with my past. He verbally and emotionally abused me. He called me too many names and thought he was in the right of ... (240 words)

I'm a bit confused as to how to handle this. There are three girls that I like...

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12 September 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - I'm a bit confused as to how to handle this. There's one girl who I barely know, only talked to her a bit, but from the times I have talked to her, and from talking to her cousin, I know that she does in fact like me in a more than just friends manner. Like I said, I barely k... (394 words)

I'm going crazy! I can't help but think that my boyfriend is going to cheat on me!

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12 September 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Okay, so I can't help but think my boyfriend is going to cheat on me! And in all reality, there is absolutly NO reason for me to be feeling that way. He has never done it before, and he always tells me how much he loves me and how I am the best thing that has ever happened to ... (596 words)

This is really making me sad because he told me that "I don't satisfy him".

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12 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I have this problem, my significant other always want blow jobs, or anal sex. I've done both before, but anal hurts me, and i dont like the taste when i give him a blow job. This is really making me sad because he told me that "I dont satisfy him". I really love him, so can ... (84 words)

What do I do? My ex is 28 yrs older and doesn't want to have kids, my boyfriend is 40 and wants kids in the future.

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12 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex bf and me have never broken up, well we split up, but he has always been there for me, helping me economically. I have a new bf since Feb, he does not know I date both, neither does my ex bf. Right now I feel dirty and desperate, I think I love both for different reas... (253 words)

My friend told me my boyfriend invited her over to his house, what should I do?

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12 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Is it ok if my boyfriend asks my friend which is a girl to go over his place? he never told me but my friend told me that he invited her over. so what should i do ?? honestly i wasn't ok with it, and she didn't go! but should i confront him and tell him that i don't want to ... (74 words)

When is a woman too old to have a baby?

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12 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm speaking of age with everything being wonderful in the marriage and communication. Do you think having a child at 40 is crazy? Unsafe? ... (29 words)

How can I cheer my friend up? She's distraught because she cheated, but then so did her boyfriend, but his was just a one nighter.

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12 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey there, this is more of a problem about one of my friends and i need advice on how to help her out. A few weeks ago, my best friend (let's call her Stacy) went away for a few days. She has a boyfriend (let's call him John) and they both get along really well. Now, when ... (317 words)

Does the wet patch mean she had an orgasm?

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12 September 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - When i have sex with my girlfriend, there is always a wet patch afterwards, and the same when i give her oral. does this mean she had an orgasm?... (30 words)