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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do I wait for my online boyfriend, or go for the real life guy who cares for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) age 36-40 - Here is my problem. I met a guy online, we like eachother so much. He is going to visit me in a couple of months (We live in different countries). He is always busy since he is on duty in the army in Iraq. lately, He rarely talk to me or even email me. But it's not something ... (262 words)

Is this love or convenience?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Is this love or convenience? I asked my gf of two years to marry me and move to a different city. She said yes after thinking about it for two days. When she announced her resignation from her employee, she was relieved that her employer wanted her to stay a full month. Subs... (127 words)

My boyfriend spends more time on Runescape than he does with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey,, Since May 16, 2008 (Friday) I've got a boyfriend W.,, I really love him,, and he loved me too.. But now there's a boy V. and he's 12 years old and he makes our relationship bad and runescape too.. W. is 15 and I'm 16 before you didn't know.. Now W. says I deserve ... (183 words)

I'm unsure about losing my virginity. I love my boyfriend, but I promised myself I would wait until marriage.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 1 month and 15 days (( Yes, I counted the days, shoot me )) and we've been talking about sex latley. We played the nervous game one time and he was suppose to go in my pants, but he went in my underwear by accident. I dont know why, but ... (134 words)

I befreiended a high end escort with whom I have casual sex, I am jealous of her dates, what is the right thing to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

17 September 2008 (M)

age - I befriended an very beautiful high end escort that I saw three years ago, while i was going through a divorce. At the time she needed a place to move and I offered my spare room. At first we were just friends. It was like that for a year and half, and then we stared to have... (150 words)

I have a problem concentrating, and I am depressed,because of a girl I like, my friends have told me to get over her, but I can't seem too, what do I do to stop this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

17 September 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Well i have a problem with a girl in my year (9) and ive liked her for 2 years and im starting to get pretty peed off with everyone because they say get over her and i cant everyday its 'get over her' i cant understand everyones hate for it but she hates me and today i was sat ... (157 words)

So depressed and confused over the two boys in my life...what can I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend split up with me the other day and then i got with this other lad J, and i was happy at first, but now im not too sure. Lately i have been feeling really depressed and sad and emotional and have lately been crying much more than i used to. I think it has something ... (277 words)

My ex's flirting to me (while drunk) made me reconsider my current relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyf 3 and 1/2 years... a lil while ago i bumped into my ex who i was with for 2 years. He told me i was looking really well and reminisced about us when we were together and flirted with me all night. I was completely faithful and brushed aside most of his ... (105 words)

Will he judge me for being a 28 yr old virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a 28 year old virgin, I've just started seeing a new guy but I am worried that he will judge me and will find it weird. ... (27 words)

How can we make our first time about showing our love and not just about sex??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) age 30-35 - I am 16 and my boyfriend is 15. We met when he was 8 and I was 9 at school. We hit it off at school and started doing group things together and then eating lunch together. A year later his parents were looking to move to a new neighborhood. After some searching they ended up ... (732 words)

Do you think this is just my imagination or do you think he's attracted to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my friend introduced me to a friend of hers called Tom and he's quite a lot older than me. i put out my hand for him to shake and he gently shook my hand and didn't stop looking me in the eyes. he held on to my hand whilst i talked to him and then he realised and quickly ... (139 words)

Do I get back with my ex lover, as I always do, or do I stay with my new lover?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a girlfriend who ive been with for over 2-3 months. its good im happy. she made me straighter than i was before. but now my ex-girlfriend wants me back. she a very attractive and she wants to be with me again like it use to be. i might even go to the same college ... (156 words)

I have just started college and am working at the time so I am constantly tired and feel depressed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im really depressed in life at the moment i have just started college and am working so i am constantly tired. my boyfriend has just gone back to uni and i wont be seeing him in a while. also his best mate commented his facebook a couple of hours ago telling him t... (219 words)

My boyfriend enjoys getting period blood over him, is this normal?!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are both 16. Weve been going out for seven months and we both lost our virginty to each other around 4 months ago. I was just wondering if this is normal that my boyfriend likes to finger me whilst im on my period ( i only ever use tampons) and he asked me i... (184 words)

Is he just not into me? How can I get him to open up and feel more comfortable around me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm really confused. My boyfriend is really frigid. He wont kiss me unless I ask, he refuses to have sex with me and I'm always the one that hangs up last, or suggests sex, or makes the first move in anything. I've tried asking him why this is the case but he always just shrugs ... (122 words)

We both still want each other but there are reasons we had to break up. Will I ever get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I split up with the man I am completely in love with at Easter, and am having problems getting over him. I still think about him pretty much every second of every day and can't imagine things getting better. What makes it worse it that I know he wants me too - there's reasons ... (84 words)

Doesn't my boyfriend care that I don't have an orgasm?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've never had orgasm during intercourse, but previous boyfriends were always bothered, and tried harder to make me come, but my current boyfriend seems doesn't really care. We've been together for a month, and we've never really talked about sex between us, and he never aske... (61 words)

Should I take some more time and analyze my situation for my kid's sake before I move in with my fiance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 33 with two kids. I've recently become engaged. My Fiance has a daughter of his own and wants us to move in together. We really don't have any big issues, we don't argue that much and when we do, he always tells me 'lets talk about it and not let it simmer'. My only prob... (110 words)

Should money get in the way of old friendships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

- I have a dear, dear friend whom I just love being with. We are much on the same wavelength. Problem is, she has gotten richer while I've gotten poorer. I don't want money to come between us. Recently i made the mistake of asking her for money, which I intended to pay back, but ... (80 words)

Is it too late for counselling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been arguing for the last couple of months (mostly due to his moodiness). We have been married for 3 years and together for 7. He had mentioned that I had been snippy lately so I was actively working on the problem. He brought up the idea of coun... (471 words)

Is it normal for my breasts to be itching me so much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a teenage girl of 14 and I was wondering if it was normal to have my tits itchy... I never had sexual relations and I don't know why I've got this problem. Sometimes it's really itchy and I get some blotches. I use some cream and it makes me feel better. Is it normal and ... (111 words)

Why do so many people believe in the 'no contact' rule after a bad relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) age 30-35 - Why do so many people believe in the no contact rule after a bad relationship? Or if they had just gotten their hearts broken? Why shouldn't we contact them? And if we were to contact them.. would that be such a bad thing?... (44 words)

He couldn't stay hard for a minute without it slipping out. What's his problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Last night I tried to have sex with a guy who I really like. Every time he tried to get it up he couldn't. He went down on me which was good. He held me all night, but when he tried he couldnt stay hard for a minute without it slipping out. I was disappointed but I want to keep... (90 words)

What's wrong with my dad? He keeps forgetting things and I'm really worried about him, please help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

17 September 2008 (?) age 26-29 - My dad has trouble remembering things. For instance, I'm supposed to get him up at 5:30am Tues-Fri....But when i got him up today, he said he'd be upstairs in a minute. Ok, so i waited..he never came up. When i got back from my taekwondo class, he said to me why i didnt get ... (89 words)

I'm just so insecure. I feel like I'm competing with her, and it's driving me crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Am I being completely irrational in feeling inadequate? Here's some background. I've been dating this guy for 4-5 months. Prior to dating him, I'd known him for two years. We were pretty good friends and he told me a lot about his personal life. So, I heard a lot about hi... (210 words)

My boyfriend seems to have changed a lot, and not in a good way. Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello :) erm well i'm really worried about my boyfriend. We've been going out for 10 months but he seems to be changing a lot and NOT in a good way :( The thing is, since he started college he has been very quiet with me, very sarcastic and seems completely unintere... (171 words)

If my wife were to ever swallow my semen, would it get into our baby's system as she is still nursing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, my wife and I have oral sex and she nurses our ten mouth old, I was wondering if she were to ever swallow would the semen get into our baby's system??... (33 words)

Baseball....I love you...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - When I first started dating my current boyfriend I found a baseball that had "I love you" written on it on his dresser. It wasn't obvious, I found it when I was dusting (I am a neat freak :)) I questioned him about it and he said that he gave it to his ex girlfriend (of 8 ... (131 words)

What can I start a conversation about, just to get talking to this girl I really like?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

17 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - well basicallyy theres a girl at school that i like but we don't really know eachother, and i'm kinda falling for her :/ and really dont know why. but shes always with her friends so i cant go make conversation with just her. Also she is in the year above so she isnt in any ... (108 words)

I really can't tell if he fancies me and and need advice from people who know neither of us.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Right, I'm in high school. I'm a thirteen year old, and almost eight months ago I started going out with this guy who I really liked. We got on well, but after a couple of months he broke up with me, and was very honest, and told me it was because he fancied my best friend. I ... (439 words)

He was such a gentleman, so charming! But since he flew out of town, I haven't heard from him at all! I'm clueless! Men, what is your opinion?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I was seeing a very gentlemanly, charming man for a little over a month. Every time we were together his charming ways would shine through more and more. I don’t even think he realized how charming he was being. He would say the sweetest things to me and do things that were ... (228 words)

How can I get my teacher fired as she is real nasty to the students?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry this isnt a relationship question but i really need advice. This is a long story that goes over two years so ill cut it short. Well i am at a course for literacy numeracy and helping to get into work. It was going great and i got heaps of certificates. But now its changed ... (131 words)

My heart won't let me love anybody else but him. He on the other hand, can't love only me? He's the biggest flirt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in this relationship for 12 years. Let me explain how much I love this man. He's my first love. You know that ride or die type of love? The one that blurs what's wrong and right just as long as you're together. He's always been my King. We got married 4 yea... (411 words)

Can he get in trouble with the law, even if by the time our baby is born we are both of legal age and married?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 going to be 18 in three months and have a fiance who's 26. We're going to get married in December of this year, right around the time I turn 18. Recently I found out I am pregnant and I was wondering if he could get in trouble with the law, even though I'll actually have ... (76 words)

I'm making it obvious....but does my shy guy like me back??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hope you can help me on this situation! I started college about 2 weeks ago, and instantly found myself liking this guy in one of my classes. I never talked to him at first as i was too shy to do so, but recently i've began to talk to him - I tend to stare at him quite alot too... (189 words)

My girlfriend is willing to do anything just to clear her face of acne, and it's causing problems between us.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Am I really being selfish? My girlfriend of nearly 2 years is currently on the pill, and has been since nearly the beginning of our relationship. The problem is she is 23 and almost 24, and she still has achne break outs, and feels she is missing the best years of her life to ... (325 words)

He thinks this is not normal,is it true?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age - I am a very happily married woman,both of us are still in mad,passionate love after 10 years.On a recent trip to a strip club which was my idea,my husband found out that he is not attracted to any of those beautiful and sexy women.This discovery has shattered his confidence.He ... (129 words)

Maybe this is normal..?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I only have sex once a week. I don't ever turn him down but he only tries once a week... we haven't been together that long, only 5 months. Is this normal? Everyone I have been in a relationship with before him wanted it at LEAST twice a week, usually more so I ... (72 words)

Should I talk to him about what happened or shall I just let it go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I just got back with my husband after he told me he made me and the kids unhappy. 4 days ago he was talking about get separated because he felt I wanted him to change and he said he couldn't. We have to kids young children. A very close friend spoke to him last night a... (232 words)

My Girlfriend is a bitch...Or is it me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Well to start, my girlfriend blows up into a bitch at any chance, shes been diagnosed with depression a couple years ago. She gets 'stressed out' extremely easily. Today, I get to class and my class is cancelled. So talking on MSN at my school, I let her know that i have no ... (345 words)

I asked my husband if he had EVER cheated on me, he was defensive and denied it but my gut told me it is true...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I asked my husband if he had ever cheated on me and his response was really different. He kept saying i cannot believe you do not trust me. He was defensive and after a while my gut told me this is true .. He said that if it was when we were younger when we were dating why ... (149 words)

Is playing hard to get a good strategy to get the person you want?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

17 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, This question has been around in my mind for quite some time. So I would like to know does doing that actually makes that person you want crave for you, like you more and wants to pursue you instead? 'Cos I am susceptible to becoming too available to the on... (110 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend about my debts? I would rather do some clean up before letting him know...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have really bad credit that I am working on. I don't want to tell my boyfriend but I think this is the one I will marry. I am sure we won't get married for well over a year, is it bad that I am keeping this information from him? I would rather just clean up as much as ... (77 words)

My boyfriend likes to tease me a lot, sometimes rudely. Or am I a nit pick?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend likes to tease me a lot. I understand sometimes it is funny but sometimes it really gets to me. For example, when I got home last night we were about to go to bed and he said I bet in your dream home you want a huge closet, I said yes with a big vanity area..his ... (170 words)

My ex husband abused me and my children, I am still dealing with the after effects of his abuse and I finally want to confront him! Any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i am going to do a very brave thing and confront my abuser. as from 2 weeks ago he is now my ex husband but i am still dealing with the after effects of what he put me and my our kids through. i feel so much anger as he abused me emotionally and sometimes physically, he also ... (324 words)

I made him move out and her's was the only place he could go, we're back together now but she's pregnant, how do I accept this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my partner have been together eleven years. he recently had his head turned by someone at work. I made him move out and she was the only place he could go. After a few weeks he knew he had made a mistake and i accepted him back but now she is pregnant. He has told... (99 words)

It's very hard for me to see my ex every day (although we are both dating someone else) and know that we can't be together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey,i have a problem..i had a relationship that lasted about 3 months and it was then that i fell like falling in love for the first time in my life..we even had sex together because we loved each other..but unfortunately we broke up a couple of months ago..i think i still love ... (172 words)

I'm still in love with my boyfriend, and I believe he's in love with me but the distance that is growing between us recently, drives me closer to another boy. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for more than a year now, and I really believe we are in love. However, lately, he has been neglecting to call me much and when he does, he's usually watching TV or doing something online and barely pays attention. So a lot of the time I think that ... (213 words)

Does love involve belonging to your partner?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I would like an opinion here... Would you say that love involves belonging to someone else? In soul/heart? In body?... (23 words)

What to do about my lying boyfriend? He blamed it on me that he created a dating account! Do I believe him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - right so i'l try and make this short, basically me and my boyfriend nearly split up about 2 weeks ago and it was his choice he was saying he doesn't know wether he wants me or loves me anymore and we came to a decision that we were going to give it a week and see if things were ... (368 words)

My brother has asked me not to get involved with his coworker, but we like each other!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have this huge crush and a guy at my local shooping centre, and he has one back problem, my brother is a work collegue of his. My brother has asked me not to do anything with this guy as he doesn't want me making his work life hard. But me and this guy really do like each... (73 words)

What kind of present can I buy her, now that I'm employed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I’ am 19 years and going to have a date with my 18 years girlfriend and I don’t know which gift to buy her. We have being dating since February 2007 and now I want to buy her something special because I’m now employed. I am going to meet at the Zoo on Saturday this week. ... (70 words)

Should I tell my children I was abused by my dad?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I was abused by my dad as a child. I have had counselling and I am now a mother. All the family know about it except the children. My daughter is now 9 and I think its time she knew. My husband disagrees and said she will become frightened of him. Any contact my daughter and ... (103 words)

I want to focus on my marriage but how can I carry on with my life without feeling resentful towards the man I had an affair with?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married and very stupidly had a brief relationship with another man a couple of months ago. We were going through a very rocky patch in our marriage and although that isn't an excuse, I feel it was a way of escaping it. The other man is now very cold and distant towards ... (277 words)

Does he really love me? He's never cheated on me... but I keep on doubting???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, I am into a relationship at this time. We are about to celebrate our anniversary this coming NOvember. My fiance is really a good nad loyal man. He is very lovable and caring. we actually live together on weekends since during the weekdays i have to go to my apartment ... (157 words)

My wife kissed her friend in front of me. Am I crazy to have allowed it? Is it normal seeing that they've been friends for 8 years?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

17 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife and I have a close friend...his name is John. John spends a lot of time with us. He's single and hangs out with us a lot. He and my wife are taking a class together and they often work out together. Last night, we took John to the airport. He was flying to San Diego ... (205 words)

Hubby disregards counsellors' recommendations and I continue to feel unwanted despite of my efforts!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone, I have been struggling with a problem for the last 3 years and wondered if anyone could help. My husband has gone off sex completely, after years of counseling etc, he says he's just not interested at all with anyone including me! This really hurts! Counsellors ... (206 words)

Who should I focus on trying to start a relationship with? I've fallen for my guy friend who is straight...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

17 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - First off, i just figured out i'm bi. I have fallen for my guy friend who's straight but also very "friendly" to me. Such as lots of hugs, clinging to each other during scary movies etc. I think it's best to keep it quiet between us. In addition, i found my childhood frie... (282 words)

I think he is a psychotic. I have no escape from him. I tried to make him understand, but he cannot see any man touching me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a 41 year old divorcee, living with a 13 year old daughter. I got divorced 7 years back and had been having a relationship with a married person all these years. Even though he loved me so much, he had his limitations always and he could rarely devote any time for ... (554 words)

I have no doubt we'll stay together forever, I just don't know how I can stand this hurt about his past sex life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need help, I don't know what I'm supposed to do. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and I know he loves me more than anything in the world. He's the most wonderful person and I trust him completely. He's the first person I've slept with, I always wanted to... (205 words)

My boyfriend did not call me on my birthday-Am I reading too much into the situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, My boyfriend did not call me on my birthday. I wouldn't want to say that he "forgot" because that just might not be the case. Me and my boyfriend are in this long-distance relationship, me being in NY and he being in London. I had my birthday almost a week ago and he ... (126 words)

Too embarassed to buy a std test thinking about stealing one next time I'm in the store!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i think i might have a disease. i wont go to the doctor but somethings also make me believe i dont have one ill have a brownish color string stuff come out of me like when im fingering myself.. the usualy white stuff comes out along with a little brown string but it does... (108 words)

I know everyone is telling me get to know him before I do anything but I don't know. please help me!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5700 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im a bisexual girl and i kinda dated this girl once a little over a year ago but i broke up with her because i was not over my first girl friend to this day im still not but im moving on from her So... im kinda but not officially dating a girl and i like her alot but i d... (174 words)

I'm so sad and desperate.How do I get over him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I fall in love with someone who will never love me back. But I just do not want to give him up, even I konw that I should. It's so hard for me. Sometimes we meet and I had the most romantic time with him. It's the most painful when we had to part. Of course, it's him who wan... (115 words)

My boyfriend is so immature, he pouts constantly like a child, I am at a point where I feel I want a MAN and not a boy! Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 20 years old and have been in a relationship w/ my bf for 2 years. Sometimes I feel like it's very serious. Sometimes I just want to leave. There are so many problems that I don't where to start. First of all, sometimes he is so immature I feel like I should be getting paid ... (355 words)

Reluctant to let him see me naked as I feel too fat!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i am 18 year old and i am 5'2 i wieght 140 ok the problem is that my boyfriend what us to have sex but we havent because of me. i feel too fat and i dont want him to see me naked because i think i might crouse him out what do i do i know am losing wieght but for me to wi... (91 words)

I have lost interest in my current girlfriend, and I think about my ex-girlfriend, although it's been two years, since we broke up, what do I do at this point?

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17 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i think i lost interst in my current girlfriend and i still yhink about my ex alot although it as been almost 2 years since i lost her... (28 words)

She is my first girlfriend, and I think I love her, but am not sure, as she annoys me sometimes, not sure I want to break up either or hurt her, please help me?

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17 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - So I have this girlfriend of about 6 months, she's my first girlfriend (I'm 17 she's 18), and it wasn't love at first sight, I just wanted a short relationship cause she left for college (in Europe) about 5 months in. But as we got further I started to love her and fell in love ... (224 words)

My ex-boyfriend and I agreed to repair our relationship, but he got angry and won't talk to me.after he broke a date,and I got uposet with him, I saw him, and he wouldn't even speak, why is he reacting this way?

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17 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex-boyfriend and I are in the process of rebuilding our once really close friendship and had agreed to see each other Thursday. He cancelled on me Thursday and I got upset because I had rearranged my schedule around for him. So we stopped speaking to one another. Then Sa... (148 words)

My husband and I don't see each other as often as we should, and we argue a lot, I think I have fallen for my husband's brother and I don't want it to be true, please help?

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17 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been married for 2 years and im afraid that i've fallin for my husbands....brother. Oh my gosh this is so hard. I don't want this to be true. Could this just be a phase i'm going through because i don't see my husband alot and when we see eachother we argue most of the ... (56 words)

My brother and I got along fine, until he started dating this very rude girl, she and I fight, and my brrother and I no longer have a good relationship, how can I repair the relationship with my brother?

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17 September 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My brother is daing this girl that hates my guts (we got in a few cat fights) and has no respect for me. She treats everyone like crap (cluding him). He treats her like gold. Before they started dating, me and my brother never fight but we argue all the time. What shoul... (65 words)

I am extremely overweight, after having two kids, would a woman who is 5' 3", and weighs 140 lbs, be attractive to men?

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17 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 5'3 and have had two kids. I weigh 140 lbs and i feel extremely overweight. Before i had kids i weighed 120lbs. Do guys find girls attractive who have had kids and weigh 140lbs at 5'3?... (38 words)

I am dating a man, who is ten years my junior, he just got custody of his two undisciplined pre-school kids, I try to help him with them, he also wants me to pay some of his bills, I feel I am being taken advantage of, please give me some advice?

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17 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, please help, im dating a man that just got custody of his 2 kids, they are both preschoolers. The mom died. We had been dating almost 3 months when this happened. We were living in different cities and now he moved to my city. The kids are badly behaved and he has no ... (180 words)

I am in charge of a woman at work, who I have grown fond of, she used to have lunch with me, now she doesn't and has become distant, I asked her out, she declined, and she appears irritated, whatever I do, please give me some insight into what I shou

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17 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - For the past few months I've grown to have feelings for a woman I work with. About the first five months, I didn't feel anything for her and simply went about my day. She's the very quiet type unless spoken to. She keeps her answers short and does not delve into long ... (713 words)

My boyfriend texts another girl while he is out with me, I have told him it bothers me, but he won't stop, is he cheating on me or what?

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17 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend says he loves me still and wont break up with me and when i hang out with him or talk to him on the phone he keeps txting this one girl and when i tell him it brothers me he doesnt listen to me.... i dont know if he is doing something behind my back with this ... (74 words)

Most of the time, we can only talk online. Then her replies are delayed and out of context. Also feel she is finding excuses to end the relationship. Your opinion?

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17 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My gf has been very busy reading news and joining online discussion about election. When we met online, I need to wait a long time for her to reply the message. At least 10 minutes. The worse, the reply isn't actually a reply eg hahahahahaha or any other short response w... (349 words)

I constanly think about my boyfriend of about a year, I want to be with him, wonder if he is thinking about me, how can I reduce this constant longing to be in his presence, I can't focus on school?

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17 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been dating my boyfriend for a year at the end of this month.. and we've been through SO much over the last year and we manage to get through any problems we have.. but i feel like he's contantly on my mind.. i cant focus on school, or when im out with my girls, or at wo... (162 words)

She talks to a bunch of guy friends, and even if I know it's innocent, I still can't handle it!

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17 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey everyone. I am having serious relationship problems. I have been with my gf for ten months now and the paranoia that is with me is really taking a toll. She talks to a bunch of guy friends, and even if i know its innocent, i still can't handle it. that is the biggest p... (171 words)

My boyfriend and I have sex, without using protection, or birth control pills, what else can I do to avoid getting pregnant?

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17 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, my boyfriend and I have been having sex for a year and a half and have never used a condom and I am not on birth control. I feel like we are playing with fire and that it is only a matter of time before I get pregnant, but then again maybe I just can't have kids and that ... (121 words)

I want to return the favor of having oral sex, with my boyfriend, what tips can you give me, and does pubic hair turn guys off?

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17 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright. So I've been with my first boyfriend for more than a year and I truely believe we are in love. For remarkable respect for my personal values and both of our readiness, we didn't get physical until the past few months. Lately, I've been thinking more and more about ... (139 words)

The stretch marks and hair on my body, make me not want to have sex with my boyfriend, for fear he will be turned off, what can I do?

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17 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - So There Is This Guy We Have Been Off And On Since The Fourth Grade I Love Him Very Much We Have Not Been Together For Like Two Months We Text A Lot And He Always Tells Me He Wants To Have Sex With Me And Im A Virgin But Its Like I Have Stretch Marks And Hair Down There What If ... (78 words)

He is insecure about having sex. How can I help him? What if we never do it?

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17 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i've recently stared a relationship with a guy who i feel very strongly about. He's the first one in a long while that i've thought i could really stick with. The problem is a few weeks ago we shared a bed and to which i thought we would of had sex. It was going well but j... (196 words)

I really like this guy, and I want him to meet my father, so that we can see each other more, how do I approach my father about the two of them meeting?

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17 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - (: So.. I Have This Boyfriend and + He's Really Perfect. Our relationship is going really good. Very deep and Smooth and We are sure we love each other. He's not like other guys and i definetley can tell. AS far as im concerned he would meet all of my parents standards. ... (305 words)

When I came, it was lumpy instead of watery like usual. Is this normal?

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17 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i was having a 'moment' to myself earlier and noticed all wasnt as it should be... usually my cum is just like water but it was lumpy... this has NEVER happened before... should i be worried? ... (36 words)

Why would he ask for my e-mail if he wasn't interested?

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17 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - OK heres my story and i hope someone can honestly shine some lights on it. Im in school and theres a guy i like and since day one we have been flirting back and forth. Some minor touching and getting close. Lastweek he asks for my msn so i give it to him then i ask if he'll be ... (173 words)

In-laws from hell - help!

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17 September 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - OK ~ Heres the scoop. Im a guy. I am married to a woman with very wealthy parents. Im not. My 80K an year is a drop in the bucket to them. I, for stupid reasons, had a affair 2 years ago. After my wife moving in with her parents for 7 months, we ended up working things ... (271 words)

He abuses me - is it wrong for me to tell his disabled mother?

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17 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have locked myself in my dads car just to stop my boyfriend from abusing me. He also wants to go off at my mum over childish things that have nothing to do with him. Thats going to turn her against me. Is it wrong for me to tell his disabled mum that he beats up on me as she ... (74 words)

His kids are controlling and selfish, and pitch a fit whenever he mentions marriage. What do I do?

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17 September 2008 (F)

age - if a man does not propose after dating for 3 years and9 months, should a person leave the relationship or just hang on and hope that it will happen soon? his grown children which are married pitch a fit when he mentions getting engaged or even married. the son-in-law is a bully ... (116 words)

I don't know what to talk about with my boyfriend. What do I say to keep it interesting?

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17 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend and me have been goin out for about four weeks now i think and when we end up talking/txting i dont know what to say or talk about except "what are you doing?" or "what are you doing for the rest of the day/tomorrow?" he works pratically all day besides school so i ... (85 words)

I just don't know if I could be happy forever without ever experiencing being alone.

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17 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in college right now, and in a long distance relationship. ive pretty much been in a relationship since i was very young (different long term relationships, one after another) my boyfriend just finished school and is getting really serious about everything, and seems happy ... (198 words)

Is it normal after a 12 hr love making session to get up, switch on the pc and start going at it to porn??

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17 September 2008 (F)

age - Can anyone tell me, is it normal for a man, after a 12 hour love-making session the day before and a night spent together, to wake up the next morning, switch on the computer in the bedroom, and start wanking to porn while his girlfriend (me) is in the bed? I was just so hurt... (151 words)

I've told myself over and over again it's over, time to move on, but obviously nothing seems to work! Please help.

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17 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hiya, I'm in need of a tad bit of advice. I'm fourteen, freshmen in high school, and I just cannot get over my ex. We dated from March of 2006 to October of 2007, a little over a year and a half. I was the one who broke up with him in October last year, mainly because I though... (277 words)

I know this can escalate to something else...something terrible, but I like it, I mean I really like it. What would you do in this predicament?

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17 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy and now I'm staying with him. He's a bit older than me and he's very nice. I've known him for a year or two now, we only knew each other for about two weeks before I moved in with him. I thought he was the nicest guy. He showered me with attention, he made me ... (448 words)

I can't seem to get her past relationships out of my mind, and it's driving me crazy!

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17 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey people I need some help! I have been with my gf for 1 year and 9 months. she is my first ever girlfriend. She is the first girl i have ever done anything with. I have only ever kissed one girl before her. We gave each other our virginity and have said that we love each oth... (320 words)

Is it true you can get pregnant if a guy gets too close to you?

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17 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've missed my period, but i've missed it before i don't know why, but i wasnt pregnant cause i didnt have sex. But now im worried because i've heard that u can get pregnant if a guys gets close 2 u, if he touches u, and thats what happened, and now idk if im pregnant. But is i... (89 words)