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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Copulation, contraception, lies, and paranoia.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've, as most everyone one has, heard the rumors about contraception and sex. I've had quite a few lies told to me by even teachers, and even more by peers. I would like to know simply the facts. If, and this is still only a thought on the horizon for me, I were to copulate... (167 words)

I refused to take him back! Did I do the right thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5697 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i gave up on the one thing i loved in my life, my bf!!. i loved him loads but he messed me around to much tht when we split up and he asked for me bk i said no!. even tho the whole of my heart was tellin me to take him back, i no tht i love him, but i also no tht i did the ... (172 words)

He got out the lube! Why did he do that?

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19 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, im a pretty sexually active person and have had sex with several long term partners i was over my current boys last weekend and we were in the mood and all of a sudden he gets out lubricant, ive never used or needed to use it in the past..is he trying to tell me so... (62 words)

Please help. I have a really strong ache in my stomach that wont ease no matter what I do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - help! I'm in pain after I had fairly rough sex a couple of days ago, it didnt hurt at the time but gradually its increased. I thought it was cystitis, but it doesn't hurt when i go to the toilet, just a really strong ache in my stomach that wont ease no matter what i do. Hav... (79 words)

They all think I am gay! Why they are saying this about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I just started hs, and i think theres been a rumor abt me being gay. Well it all started in May when we had a pizza party 2 get 2 know all the freshmons. I met this girl, there and we were just talking and then just randomly her boyfriend comes up and says "Who's tht gay girl ... (221 words)

Why did he flirt with me and then tell me he likes one of my mates?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

19 September 2008 (?) age 26-29 - Hey ! so i propa like this lad and have done since the third week of summer. but lately weve been getting on really well , flirting the lot. but my best mate asked him if hed ever go with me , and he said he wud of in summer but didnt know me well enough , but woud go with me ... (94 words)

He let a strange woman give him a blow job..and he may have gotten an STD! How do we move forward as I don't trust him?.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5697 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi. My boyfriend of a year and a half started acting strangely and told me his hernia was acting up. The following weekend, we were partying and he broke down and said he had let some strange woman give him a blow job in his truck after a night out with the guys. He thought ... (102 words)

What do you do when you are 'bi' and like a 'straight' girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this girl who's straight and i'm bi. I told her i liked her and tried to be her friend, but she said i was weird and blocked me. I really want to just be friends with her, but i don't know. What i should do?... (47 words)

I didn't follow up after she smiled at me at a function. Do you think I upset her by not doing anything about this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

19 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I met this girl at an event in Manchester about 12 weeks ago who i realy liked and I think she liked me too as i noticed her looking at me a lot even when i was not looking i could sense her looking at me and she smiled at me as well. i did not follow up on this at the time ... (196 words)

He didn't respond after my last racy text! What's up with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5697 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have known this guy for over 2 years. We have flirted some, hooked up some, and flirted some more. I am very attracted to him and sometimes get the same vibe from him. Last week he texted me for 5 days straight, with one text session lasting over 7 hours. After that ... (345 words)

We are trying to work things out but I found out he's contacting other women! Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I just found out that the man that I've been trying to work things out with had been reaching out to other women, and most importantly the day before he left Iraq to come home to me, as I thought. He's now in treatment to deal with so many things that affected him during his ... (158 words)

In love and we gave our virginity to each other. So why does her past bother me? All she did was kiss a guy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

19 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey people I need some help! I have been with my gf for 1 year and 9 months. she is my first ever girlfriend. She is the first girl i have ever done anything with. I have only ever kissed one girl before her. We gave each other our virginity and have said that we ... (360 words)

I just want to know if he actually loved me, or was he playing me?

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19 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Did he really love me,? This lad fancied me for a while, well about 3 months b4 i decided to get with him, then like about 1 month in the relationship, i found out he was going to dump me to get back with one of his ex-gf's. i was sad but then he said he didnt tho. he stayed ... (398 words)

Did any of you girls find your prince charming after jerks like this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with this guy that I lost my virginity to for a couple of months. He told me that he was studying to be a lawyer and therefore too busy to have a serious relationship, but i foolishly kept sleeping with him hoping that he will change his mind. After some time away... (170 words)

I feel so rejected and I don't know why, he's nothing special - not like my current boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi all, my boyf at the moment is lovely, kind, generous, patient, trusting, loving, and good in bed, lets just say he's almost everything i look for in a man, and he also adores me. thing is, when we first met i was in a casual relationship with someone else which i wanted to ... (233 words)

Is this normal behavour for a straight man in a woman's company?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i was out with my boyfriend last week having a few drinks when a gay man sat down and started chatting to him. he then preceeded to rub his hands over my boyfriends face and through his hair and admired his voice. the gay was asked to stop, but my boyfriend said it was ok..... (70 words)

Sometimes I feel my house is invaded, it's a really small place, so all I have is my room!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

19 September 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I have a very strong dislike for my sister's boyfriend, and I don't know what to do! They've been together for almost 4 months, of which he was away for two months working in another city. My parents dislike him also, but they're good at hiding it. I, on the other hand, no... (307 words)

He always give me a hug and I love that. Do you think he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm in yr 9 and there is this boy in yr 10. He's really cute and i like him alot. Everytime he sees me he always give me a hug. I love that. Also hes getting to know my friends by hugging them too. And there is this girl who wants us to go out but im just not ready, i mean i ... (167 words)

I feel like I'm crap at everything I do. Does anyone else ever feel like this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, im 25 and have a fairly comfortable life, nice parents and a wonderful boyfriend, so i feel stupid writing this, but i sometimes wonder what purpose i have in life. i mean im not particulary good at anything, i dont have a talent and even though im not stupid im not extre... (132 words)

....So what should I do? Should I ask him out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5697 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I love him a lot. He is a great mate, I cant ruin that But I love him lots, I am happy because he might like me too, I am sad because I am confused and I cant have him which is all I want. I am confused? I am angry because I am sad. He gives me butterflies in my belly, I am goi... (160 words)

I have some trust issues, and I don't know if this is destroying my relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, thanks in advance for reading my letter and I apologize because the english is not my first language. First of all I am in a relationship with this wonderfull guy for like 7 months. In many ways we are alike, but in other ways we are extremelly different, I am very outg... (488 words)

How do I approach things without making it awkward between us - or coming out of it like the office bike!! Argh! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am very close to a colleague; we have a similar sense of humour, and make each other laugh all the time, we've kissed twice - very passionate, very intense, but gone no further. Since then, he's not mentioned it, or acted in any way like he's interested in me. However,... (158 words)

I'm really worried about my girlfriend, she's just had an abortion.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

19 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend had an abortion ten days ago. When she went to the clinic she kissed me and said it wasn't going to be a big deal, but ever since then she seems really depressed. I text her and she doesn't reply. I went to her house and she says she's "busy". Then I saw her in t... (152 words)

I can't even afford to eat a cookie, and he's brought up the subject of getting me plastic surgery for my stomach and breasts!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband stood me up while i was in labor. I'm still really upset about it. When I was in the early stage of labor (when you're just waiting for the contractions to come closer together) my husband left me alone to go out drinking with his friends. We were supposed... (409 words)

It was just a few strokes unprotected, but I am worried.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I am hoping someone can answer this question. Well it might seem like a stupid one but it is one I need an answer to. Can you get pregnant through just inserting the penis in a few times? It was just a few strokes unprotected, but I am worried. Thank you in advance.... (56 words)

How do I find out if this marriage was even really legal? Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5697 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I was married a few years ago to a man that used me for his green card to be allowed to live in the country. I don't know where this man is at, and haven't had contact with him in over 8 years. How do i find out if this marriage was even really legal? Also, I'm engaged ... (87 words)

My husband's a miserable asshole who only discusses the prospect of us getting a threesome on, so he can boost his self esteem!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married to my husband (we'll call him steve) for less than a year (we've been a couple for over 9 years) but i have been cheating on him with our good friend (we'll call him rick) for nearly a year and a half. Rick and his wife (call her susan) are very good frie... (691 words)

With no hesitation, she just said no, does this mean she has ANY feeling for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

19 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i asked a girl out on the bus, and she didnt even have to think about it, she just said no, and that she just wants to be friends. does this mean she has any feelings for me or she doesnt want to ruin being friends or something else? also it took me a long time to find the cour... (64 words)

Am I being jealous.....?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Am I being to jealous when my man looks at other women when I am standing next to him, and he does those double looks when he sees someone attractive?... (30 words)

I'm scared now of what else can come out of the woodwork. How can I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5697 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - A couple of years ago my common law husband and I were not getting along very well. I confronted him about having an affair because he was very rude to me at times, slept in his truck one night instead of coming home, talked constantly about the females at work and the ones ... (290 words)

I really want to tell him I like him, but I think it's too soon after his break-up.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5697 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i boy who i like had a gf but they split up wednesday. i have liked him for a long time now, and he told my friend i am "fit". i really want to tell him i like him but i think its to soon after his break-up. how should i aproach him, when the time is right?... (64 words)

He want's to keep our relationship quiet because of our religions.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - One of my friends told me that he fancied me and when I told him that I did fancy him too, he told me that nothing can happen between us because his family would not approve due to our different religions. He then says that this is not the reason and that it is because we have... (308 words)

Do you think he will want contact with his child in the future?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i dont want anyone telling me how evil i am for having an affair as the other woman i am quite aware that the other woman always gets the blame. i had an affair with a married man ,we fell in love with each other, i also went out with him when i was alot younger went our ... (215 words)

He's got the biggest hold over me and my life, everything is about him. How will I ever get over this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

- I lied to my ex about being pregnant. Im not. He split with me 6 weeks ago, we were together a year. 2 weeks later he started seeing another girl.I was very hurt but I let him get on with it. The 3 weeks ago I heard that him and his new gf were gettin on really well. That my ... (520 words)

Will they ever let me out agaiiin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 16 years old and 2daii my mom just found out that I am takin birthcontrol pills so she figuered im havin sex...she told my dad and I don't want to go to my house what do you think I should do im scared there not gunna let me outside aniimore and that they going to think of ... (63 words)

Do guys lie to other guys about their sexual encounters with women?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age - Ok, here's a great question, I think. Do guys lie to other guys about their sexual encounters with women? For example, if 2 guys like the same gal and the one guy has sex with her, does he tell the other guy that the sex was great, or that it wasn't? Let's face it, guys talk ... (61 words)

How and where and when will I know if they are attracted to women too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5697 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a 40 year old female and ever since i was 17 i have sexual fantasies about other women, i get far more turned on thinking of womens bodies than i ever do thinking of mens, even though i have only ever had relationships with men, i have just become single again after my ... (127 words)

How we can fix the bigger things if I don't even want to kiss him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5696 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't like kissing my husband. It sucks, he is a terrible kisser. He's always been a bad kisser, for some reason I just skipped over it. But now there are other problems in our relationship, and I don't see how we can fix the bigger things if I don't even want to kiss him. ... (123 words)

He treats me like crap now that we are back together! How can I get him to be more respectful?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Long story short, my boyfriend and I went out for a year and three months. We broke up for four months and I dated another guy during that time; my boyfriend did not date anyone. He and I got back together a couple months ago and now he's treating me essentially like crap. I ... (237 words)

I have a problem with my boyfriend who is still living with his wife. Should I be suspicious?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm very upset and feel bad. Today is my bf bday and we had some nice plans tonight. He's getting divored (final in January) but still lives with his wife. We have beendating only a few months and its been a huge concern of mine that they live together, moreso that neither plan ... (181 words)

Was she just testing me about saying she wasn't a virgin to see if I love her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

19 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i belong to muslim family i was going to marry afther 3 month with my gf .i did not sex with my gf.i knew her 8 months ago she never told me about her past but before one month she told me she is not virgin becouse she raped.i was mad at her why she lied me that she is ... (152 words)

Does a person's forehead change over time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

19 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - A girl the other week said to me and i quote "my god you have a horribly massive forehead" lol. this took me by surprise and ever since i have been paranoid about it. subsequent comments have also been made so i looked at pictures of when i was 18 and they are right - my ... (107 words)

His older friend tells lies to get us to break up! Am I in a losing situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age - I have been seeing this guy for 6 months now. He has a best friend that is an older lady who he has known for over 10 years. He says she is like a mom to him. Every time she comes around she or he creates drama and he ends up asking me to leave. Of coarse this hurts my ... (171 words)

I am puzzled here due to his not planning time with me in advance. Should I be concerned?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5697 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, thanks in advance for read my letter and I appollogize because the english is not my first language. First of all I am in a relationship with this wonderfull guy for like 7 months. In many ways we are alike, but in other ways we are extremelly different, I am very ... (438 words)

Why won't my ex talk to me even though there isn't anything awkward about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5697 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Before we went out, he was always chasing me and talking to me all the time. We only went out for a month and didnt even spend that much time together.I told him that we either needed to hang out more or we could just be friends. He said that we should just be friends and we ... (167 words)

I don't want to step on any toes but how can I get his dad to leave? I can't stand it any longer!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 21 year old and have been living on my own for years. I currently live in a amall apartment with boyfriend, our roomate, and my boyfriends father. The problem is I want his dad to leave! He's been staying here off and on for a month! He stinks because he never bathes, he... (339 words)

How can he really love me if he's with someone else?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need help! Jusge me if you want but I was 16 at the time and naive now I am stuck! I started to see this guy when I was 16, he was bit older than me. When we first went on a date he told me he had a girlfriend and like an idiot i carried on seeing him believing that he ... (247 words)

We are still in the relationship even though she's not 'in love' with me. How do I let go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5697 days ago

19 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I met my girlfriend just under three years ago, at the time i was in an unhappy relationship of about 9 years, and when we met the whole cliche happened... fireworks, sleepless nights, shortness of breath upon even seeing her in the street. We both left our relationships and ... (370 words)

How do open relationships work? Why would anyone want to have one?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - How do open relationships work? What happens if you fall for one of the 'other people' you've been messing around with? Isn't it just asking for trouble? I recently met a married guy who I have strong feelings for- who has an open relationship with his wife. I'm scare... (103 words)

Is going to the zoo considered a date?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

19 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, I am 25 and completely useless and inexperienced when it comes to women. But i've been speaking to this girl for about 6 weeks now and we text and email every day. I've only managed to meet up with her a couple of times but now she's suggested that we go to the zoo. In my ... (165 words)

I don't know why I am obsessing over a small sex party? About threesomes and exchanges of partners?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

19 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i am a male 19 yr old. i find it weird that i want to do 3 somes with other guys to have sex with my gf with another guy. or possibly just have sex with my gf and have my friend with his gf have sex in the same place as us after we toke up get wasted and stuff and have a double ... (128 words)

What is an appropriate way to find out if your girlfriend has feelings for an other guy?...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5697 days ago

19 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been talking to me girlfriend about some things refering if she liked somebody else. I have a big feeling that she is either cheating on me, or having other feelings with other guys. She has always been saying that she loves me deeply, we've been dating for 11months. ... (212 words)

Everytime he looks at me, my thoughts turn to mush! What do I do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. So there is this guy, called *Rob. We were introduced through a good friend of ours. This is in January. Anyway, we didn't really get the chance to talk or anything until a month later on msn. Soon, these conversations came every other day, and they were long... 2 hours was ... (289 words)

How do I choose between two girls that like me without hurting anyone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

19 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - See, well I liked this girl(C) and she liked me back. But after a while we grew apart but I still have feelings for her. And there's this other girl who I kinda like as well (I)she likes me back too. But I the first girl wants me back and I cant choose between them because I ... (65 words)

She is listed in her profile as being in an open relationship. I told her we should meet. Is there any way I could consider a possibility of a relationship at some point?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

19 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - As I mentioned, I am starting uni soon. I added a few people on facebook doing the same course or are in the same hall as me. Anyway, I was talking to a girl I added a few weeks ago today on the facebook IM service. She doesn't know anyone going besides a couple of people... (275 words)

HOw do I fall out of love with the man I am having an affair with?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I'm having an affair with a married man....yes i'm married too. we're friends and about two years ago we stepped over that line. .....I've always thought that people who have affairs are cold people only thinking of themselves and vowed i'd never be able to do th... (113 words)

Did I have to tell her like this, or could I have waited?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

19 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - This girl I'm seeing has heard all kinds of bad things about me from my other friends, all things from my past, things that don't even pertain to her. Two of them being about my mother's true sexual orientation and the truth about how an ex-girlfriend of a few years back and I ... (186 words)

Is my husband cheating? He doesn't come home and blames our fights on me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I been with my husband for 6 years married for 5. he got a job 2years a go as a driver. in the first couple of months it was good coming home in time then everything change he started coming home late then not coming home at all an his excuse was the truc brook down and i had ... (130 words)

My boyfriend slept with my younger stepsister. How do I get over this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - well for starters i have a stepsister who is younger then me and we were close or what i thought was close. ive been around her since she was a baby. i have a daughter by this guy that i was with for three years that she kind of knew because of netrual friends. she would alwa... (346 words)

I'm used to my girlfriend forgiving me after I abuse her, but this time she's fed up. What do I do?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

19 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I've been with this girl for 3 years now. We have a child together. I love her dearly and want to marry her. She does everything for me. She let's me want for nothing. We have the same religious background which is wonderful (first girl I've ever met who shares my ... (491 words)

I'm worried that one of my friends is getting in with the wrong crowd.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

19 September 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My best guyfriend hanging out with losers. They do drugs and shop lift all the time. Hes actting diffendly. He never going to school anymore. Is he on drugs or I am worrying too much? ... (39 words)

Can guys run out of sperm?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

19 September 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, just wondering if I could run out of sperm after having sex a large number of times in a year/week, I mean, women run out of eggs, but supposudly, a man produces around 2 million sperm a day, but what if you run out of all 2 million? Will your body have trouble making ... (135 words)

My girlfriend is always going out with other guys, but won't let me talk to my female friends.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

19 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this girl for 7 months, everything was great, but now she has to piss me off, and by this I mean going out with all the guys and rubbing it in my face and that doesnt bother me so much, what does bother me is that she can do whatever she wants and I cant go ... (118 words)

Will this guy ever talk to me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i met this guy in net chat, we got to know each other we also got each others emails and since than we always kept in touch. we became really good friends, sometimes he used to say words which made me feel he likes me more than friend. one day there was a small arugeing... (289 words)

My dad didn't tell me he'd been in an accident until 12 the next day! Do I tell him how mad I am or ignore it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

19 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I just phoned my dad as he had been out drinking last night then he told me 12:00 the NEXT afternoon that he had spent the night in the HOSPITAL! he had had an accident on his bike being a for-kakin wast-anka and not staying at his mates like i had told him to. When i ... (96 words)

Do I let this woman be, or do I call her? I just want closure.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

19 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I was in a relationship with a women who was in the process of divorcing her husband, we grew fond of each and dated for a couple of months. Now the husband is back and I'm pretty sure she has fallen in love with him again. Now I'm just looking for closure. I haven't spoken to ... (94 words)

Has anyone ever had a serious relationship develop from a one-night stand?

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19 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am just curious, has anyone ever had a serious relationship leading to love after a one night stand or sex the first night you've met them? Is it possible for him to respect you after you did the deed?... (40 words)

My ex always brings up our past. Should I confront her about it?

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19 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - my ex gives me shit about our past not in a direct form but she seems to say stuff relating to how i was. now i think she likes my best friend but i dont understand y she stills gives me shit about the past. i want to confront her about many things relating to our past and now ... (170 words)

I can't seem to find any girls who share my view on sex. Should I just give in?

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19 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - It seems like every girl I meet is one of two categories: 1. Girls who are religious and want to save sex for marriage. 2. Girls who want to have sex right now. I'm in a conundrum because I don't want to have sex until I'm in a serious relationship (maybe to marriage... (129 words)

Is this girl only interested in me because I'm different to what she's used to?

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19 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Question: Does this girl actually fancy me, or is it just because i'm different to what she's used to the only reason she seems interested? I started dating this girl at university back in June, before the summer holidays, and we've been texting each other regularly, an... (473 words)

How does one maintain their identity in a relationship?

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19 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok guys today in class i had a major break through in my opinion. In the back of my mind in always thinking about what happened and why, and all the good stuff. I came to the conclusion so far that ive been depressed and that is what really did the relationship in. I didnt know ... (344 words)

What is your opinion on a 15 year old sleeping with a 17 year old?

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19 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi DearCupid, I was wondering how you all feel about a fifteen year old being sexually active with a seventeen year old, just want your opinions. K, thank you (:... (31 words)

How easily can pre-cum cause pregnancy?

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19 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was curious how easily it is to get pregnant from pre-cum, because while having sexual activity, my Boyfriend will put the condom on after a minute or so, and then when finishing up he'll take the condom off. Could someone just tell me how easily pregnancy could occur?... (49 words)

Am I a terrible boyfriend, or is she just being manipulative?

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19 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My partner and I have a huge fight. It is the third time we fight this way. It happened because of a simple misunderstanding. She dropped me offline messages in instant messenger. That day, I login to see if she left me any message then I logout due to unexpected famil... (498 words)

Can you get pregnant if you have sex on your period?

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19 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Could you get pregnant if you have sexual contact while on ur period?... (13 words)

I don't want anyone to know about my previous marriage...

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19 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Unfortunately, I will be getting a divorce soon. I've been married for almost 6 years and my family does not know about it. My family, being my parents and siblings. I wish to keep this confidential, especially to my future gf/fiance/wife. Is this possible? There will be ... (122 words)

I'm stressing out and I feel like giving up. How much is too much?

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19 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I am a 19 year old college student I was going to be in my junior year of school. But I had to drop out a semester because I could not afford it, I plan on going back next semester. I am so stress because I was looking for a job ever since I came home this summer, I am ... (474 words)

I have been with my girlfriend for 7 years, but now I have a crush on a girl at work... what do I do?

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19 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I everyone, I am 30 years old and I am with the same girl, not married, since 7 years. The problem now is I m having a crush on a girl at work who is with her boyfriend for 15 years. A little voice tell me not to act on it but I can't stop picturing myself kissing this gir... (97 words)

Why is my girlfriend acting so strange? I'm confused, help please!

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19 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, i just want to let a few things out about how i feel and basically whay my girl is making me feel like (if u get me).. Just to let you know it is a long story, so if you dont want to read i understand. Ok, i met this girl literally last year in work, and when i... (956 words)

The 'situation' that will dumbfound you!

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19 September 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - About 2 years ago I met a woman on an online dating site. She had just finished a 3 year relationship. This guy was verbally abusive and always wanted a 3some. She was very much against that. They subsequently got engaged and then he left her out of the blue. She told me after ... (390 words)

Is my ex "The One" or my current boyfriend?

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19 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with my ex boyfriend, and I always knew that the feelings I have towards him were different than everyone else. We went out for a year, but then we broke up because he moved. He lives hours away now, and we didn't talk for over a year. During the time we were bro... (277 words)

Am I Needy or is he Neglectful?

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19 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - We've been together for 3 years and do not live together. We see each other for a few hours Friday and Saturday night. During the week we talk on the phone and he may pop over for dinner on occasion. We live in the same town. I want to see him more, he thinks there is not a ... (104 words)

We broke up but I want him back! How do I make this happen?

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19 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Back in February, I got my first boyfriend. His name was Hunter. At the time, he was a freshman, and I was a sophomore. Our relationship wasn't perfect...we had our share of ups and downs, much like all the other couples out there. In April, on our seven-week a... (145 words)

My boyfriend and I only talk every few weeks, is this normal?

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19 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I have been going out for a while now. We only see each once every two weeks, roughly, and he never texts/calls in between. I'm getting really depressed; I told him I'd understand that he's really busy and if we could only see each once a week/every two weeks...I ... (97 words)

How do you get close to someone you have feelings for?

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19 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - how do you get close to someone? i'm talking about someone you have feelings for. me and my ex were really close. it took a while and we went through a lot and then we finally ended up being so close that we just went out. but that's over with. i'm just giving an example. ... (170 words)

How do I treat a girl I've just met?

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19 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I am a guy who is 14 years old i just started highschool as a freshmen a few weeks ago. i am an average guy. i wouldnt say i stand out as attractive most the time but im not bad either. the point is. i have never had a girlfriend or anything close and i havent had much ... (154 words)

How can I slim down my thighs?

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19 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm really conscious of my thighs and need some tipso n how to loose a bit of weight from them. I'm a size 8, fairly active woman - I do horse riding and walking, I don't carry a lot of weight and am happy with my body everywhere else apart from my thighs. I have a lot ... (114 words)

What does it mean when her profile says she is in a 'open' relationship?

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19 September 2008 (M)

How can a 13 year old find the right guy?

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19 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Im 13 and fell in love for the first time. the guy i love broke my heart and we went out five times. each time i fell for his tricks. and im trying not to again. i dont understand why i dont feel the agonizeing pain like i did before. and i can never seem to be truly ... (166 words)