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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

When I woke up my sister in law was in her underwear. Does she want to have sex with me?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

10 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm trying to figure out if my SIL wants to have sex with me. I work at night so I've get off in the early morning hours. Sometimes before I go home(1hour 30min Away) I sleep at my SiL's house for about an hour or two. So one night she says I forgot you were coming by and stay ... (167 words)

She's been hurt before - so how do I get her to trust me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

10 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Alrighty then. So, I got my gf. We've been together for 6 months... And off the bat I'm probably gonna get a lot of "High School Relationship" stuff. Well, it's been good until a few days ago. I was talking to her and I always KNEW she didn't trust me. I just sat back and was ... (190 words)

Does this person have feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I want to keep this as basic as possible. I want to know if this person has feelings for me. They: 1. they treat me differently to everybody else, with more respect. 2. They can't condemn me no matter what I do. 3. They stare deep into my eyes and when I ... (181 words)

I'm in trouble for cheating, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i have a gf. but i drank at my friends house and everything was getting wild. my gf friend was drunk and we started dancing around. we ended up gettin close but we both knew each other so we were like NO we cant. than she went into a room and i just went in and we fucked. after ... (207 words)

Jealous but not for the right reasons

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5693 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for five years. I have a huge jealousy problem. Everyone here will think I am crazy, and I am a little, but you have to understand realising the problem is the first step, but I am having a hard time getting over it. The reason I am crazy, is ... (172 words)

I'm having boyfriend issues.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Yesterday me and my boyfriend was chatting in general like we always do then he started talking about how he used to pull girls without even trying and that one of his mates would be desperate and come over to chat her up to but would reject him and that the girl would only be ... (352 words)

Getting married was a mistake. I am not in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I think I`ve fallen out of love with my husband, we`ve been together for 5 years and married for 1. I know I don`t feel the same way about him that he does about me, my feelings aren`t as strong, and I don`t know if they ever were. But recently I made out with a crush of ... (158 words)

I need to find myself.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5700 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i do have problem when it comes to sex i get alot irritated when having sex alot of qestion do come to my head like i'm feeling like a dog or an animal or i see who am having sex with as a very crazy person[i have had several account of rape in my live right from my ... (99 words)

How can I ask a girl out but on a professional NON-date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

10 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I just got a new job and I want to get to know people at work. I asked a couple guys out to lunch and it was cool and we learned alot. Now there's this girl in my department and I want to go to lunch with her BUT I DON'T WANT ROMANCE. I just want a business lunch with her. So ... (129 words)

My Husband doesn't want me anymore - what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I were best friends in high school and about a year through it, we started dating. He adored me and everything about me. I broke up with him sometime before our senior year. It crushed him. After school, I got married and after 4 years with him, we divorced. My ... (224 words)

Dating a potential employee because of instant magic?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (M)

- Hello to all! I have a problem that just came up today. I run a small firm that provides language lessons and I wanted to hire a teacher. Early today,I was expecting a woman for a job interview. She came on time and when we sat to talk it is as if both of us were jolted. S... (427 words)

The tests are negative - but it seems like I'm pregnant, so what's going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi... so like 4 weeks ago a i had a lot of unprotected sex with my boyfriend. i was suppose to get my period last week, but it never came, but the week before that i was bleeding for like a day or 2. I have almost all the early signs of pregnancy, but all the tests ive taken ... (69 words)

We've been together forever, so should I stay because of that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for 5 years. I'm 18 years old and he's 20. Lately I'm starting to realise just how long that is. I mean, 5 years! That was my whole teenage life! Anyway, I keep having doubts like this about our relationship, because I feel like it's all ... (230 words)

Don't know how to talk to my boyfriend about finding mother/son incest porn on computer!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really love my boyfriend and we've been together almost two years now. He's very close with his mother - he even slept in her bed with her until he was 11 or 12 - and I tease him that she's his "other girlfriend". Their relationship is very close but never seemed abnormal to ... (164 words)

Mature or Arrognat? And should I stay to find out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel that I'm an average 20 year old girl but it seems like everything I enjoy or do my boyfriend looks down upon, for example I like the makeup tutorials they have on you-tube well, he thinks anything in you-tube girl related is stupid. Another example, I like reality tv ... (156 words)

I'm pregnant but he believes the rumours that it is not his!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I was with my boyfriend for 8 months, when after not hearing from him for 5 days and having his phone turned off i decided to go round to his flat and find out if he was alright, when i went to his flat i found out that he had moved out and had not left a address to where i ... (423 words)

Can't deal with this ex- boyrfriend drama!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well about a year ago i wrote on this too an di think it really helped me. i was talking about my boyfrend who had pictures of other girls on his phone. i carried on going out with him but we broke up about 7 months ago. we broke up about the most stupidest thing and we both... (384 words)

My wife sent pics of herself in her bra and panties to some guys via email, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

10 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my wife have been married for just over a year. We dated for a few years prior to getting married and never cheated on each other. The last few weeks have been tough on us due to moving away from our friends and families and new stresses at work. Well i caught my wife... (107 words)

I want to stop imagining us together in 10 years time with a little baby.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I went on holiday to Turkey last summer and met the most gorgeous guy. He was working there as one of the entertainment team. I was 12 and he was 20. He was really sweet and we talked a lot in German as I didn't want anyone to be able to butt into our conversations. He made ... (193 words)

I am looking for advice on how to ask someone out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am looking for advice on how to ask someone out. I know she is Single But she hardly ever goes out at weekends and because of where she works it is not possible to approach her there either. I don't know her friends the only contact I have is the Taxi Driver who gives me a ... (95 words)

Are there any Sagitarius women in long-term relationships?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

10 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm with a Sagittarius woman, and was wondering if there are any Sag who've been in long-term relationships/ marriages/ or are currently married. Unfortunately my theory is that there are very few of you folk in commited relationships, but for curiosity sake...how many of you ... (49 words)

Am I weird for liking dry humping better than actual sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Am I weird for liking dry humping better than actual sex?... (11 words)

I'm having trouble down below but know I have no STD's because I've been tested! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

- Heya, I have found recently that my intimate area has been very painful. I have had unusual discharge inbetween periods, but my periods themselves have been completley normal. I haven't had sex in a depressingly long time! Although last time it was painful, also I find whe... (127 words)

Please help!! How can me and my husband get pregnant!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, me and my husband been married for 1 year now and I can not get pregnant. Everything is ok with our health there is no problems. I need any ideas, or anything that you might think would help us. I don’t really know when is my ovuluation days cause my period always come ... (62 words)

I am madly in love with my old school teacher

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i have moved school and in my old school i was madly in love with my teacher. she is so sexy and has shoulder lengh blond hair, amazing blue eyes, fantastic skin and a really fit body. i really miss her but today i walked past my old school and i bumbed into her. she said hello ... (98 words)

Should I ask this girl out even though she is my exes best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I recently broke up with my girlfriend and there is this girl who i kinda want ask out but the only thing is that she is my ex's best friend. I really think she likes me because when i see her outside of school she makes an ecuse to give me a hug.... (53 words)

Do I tell my sister her boyfriend tried it on with me???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey my sisters boyfriend just tried in on with me and i dont no if i should tell my sister i mean she really loves him and i dont wanna hurt her by telling her but wot if i dont tell her and he tries it on with other girls she will get hurt any way. but then wot if i tell her ... (100 words)

How can I over come my hate to my own parents, especially my mother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello Everyone, Here is my question. How can i over come my hate to my own parents especially my mother? since i was a little girl I already experince of what they called emotional abuse until im now 36 and still i feel the pain inside of my heart. i tried everything, theraphy... (104 words)

What should I do?... I'm always crying myself to sleep because of him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Well im 14 n have been with my bf for a yr n few months.. He says he loves me alot n wants to marry me etc.. N now his just changing =(... Hez alwez sayin tht am wrong n will always say am ryt.. we have alot off arguments now.. and he goez to me that he most off the time thi... (113 words)

We've been seeing each other casually but my feelings for him are growing! He keeps blowing hot and cold, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive kind of been seeing this chap for a few months. We decided we wanted things to be casual but i feel there changing between us now. My feelings for him are growing but im not sure how he feels for me. He keeps blowing hot and cold and im not sure how he feels. One minute... (88 words)

This isn't a lesbian crush, because I am straight. But why then this desire to be always near her? What is this feeling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is really weird, so i'll try and explain. I've just started 6th form and there's this girl i've just met who ever since i first saw her i felt really drawn to her. By the way, this isn't some lesbian crush, i know i'm perfectly straight and it isn't like that. Anyway, i... (266 words)

Internet relationship - she cheated on me and the pain is just getting worse... Should I do the same to her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

10 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My online girlfriend who lives 2000 miles away had a one night stand at a party with some random dude the second week of us knowing each other. What hurt the most was that she was talking to me that night on msn too, while at the party, and pretty much gave me a play by play of ... (1007 words)

She cheated on me, the relationship lost colour, now she asks me out for a drink when it seems she has a living-in boyfriend! What's on her mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

10 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - There's a girl I met on the internet 2 years ago. We hit it off right away, we met up and fell for eachother. 2 years on and we've had some serious ups and downs (which I understand is perfectly normal). It started off when we fell for eachother, she was coming to uni... (249 words)

I am not able to forget my affair, to be able to carry on with my marriage!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a 44 years old man married for 10 years with 2 small adopted girls. I am a complete family man, however 5 years back I seriously fell in love with another woman. She was married too with no children. She was ready to break her marriage but I was not. We fell apart and the ... (146 words)

When ever I look at the new boy, he's always looking at me and smiling, what should I do? (I have a boyfriend)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - theres a new boy in my class who i really like. Every other girl really likes him as well. The things is though, i have a boyfriend of a year who i love so much. the thing is though, he's in the year above so my boyfriend has already started collage, so i dont see him that ... (94 words)

I'm too afraid to stand up to her because I don't want to lose her! How can I do this without appearing 'bitchy'?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I first met this woman through a close relative, we started talking over the net and then met up a few times for a couple of drinks. We've been getting to know each other for a couple of months now, she's not quite ready for a relationship yet because a. she would be more ... (259 words)

I am in a class with this girl who I am in love with, I think she is attracted to me, but she has a boyfriend, she overtly flirted with me, and I am now confused, what do I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5700 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) age 36-40 - Hi, I'm 22 years old and she's 20. We're both taking a Chef course. Ever since the first day I saw her I fell in love with her. And I never truly felt this way before. Earlier this year I tried approaching her, we talked for a bit and then she mentioned she had a boyfrien... (246 words)

I am eleven years old, and I can't stop thinking about sex, and having sex, how can I stop this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey aunts and uncles im 11 and lately i have been really into sex and i want to have sex really bad. Any ideas on how to stop this feeling?... (30 words)

I really like my new girlfriend, but I think about my ex, but we had problems, I still care about her, but I am confused, is it possible to be in love twice, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - my first love lasted about 3-4 years. most of highschool. we had a lot of problems. bc we started breaking up and seeing different people. when she had boyfriends she would cheat on them with me. when i had girlfriends i cheated on them with her. its like we wanted each other ... (180 words)

He called me months after the break up and said he missed me but never called since. Why is he behaving this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Why do men try to control a woman..I was dating this guy who broke up with me 3 months ago I never tried to contact him and then a week ago he called and said he misses me and wants to take things slow...so one night he called and that same night he was going to this high scho... (91 words)

This guy flirts with me and hints about going out, but never asks, he tells my friends, he doesn't like me, but I like him, is he playing a game or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5700 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - this is a bit of a silly and unimportant question but it would be helpful if i could get an outside opinion... there is this guy in my group of friends that fancied me a couple of weeks ago,then he went out with someone else and i asumed he didnt like me anymore. he spli... (150 words)

I love this girl who is very abusive, and controlling, I have broken up with her, she makes her way back, she has hit me, how do I end this completely?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

10 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Basically Iv been dating a girl on and off for about 4 months now, and she's spoken to me like dirt for pretty much the whole time, except for the first 2 weeks when I met her. I really want to end it, and I have 9 times now, but everytime I do she always manages to talk her ... (815 words)

I like this guy, we did not date, we kissed and had sex, now he flirts with other girls and I feel used, what do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i really need help. i really fancy a boy and im not sure if he actually does like me, he flirts with me and kisses me at random moments, sometimes holds my hand. and were not even going out. He also keeps asking me to have sex with him alot, i did have sex with him, he still ... (105 words)

We used to flirt with each other but I think his crush on me has started to fade now, what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5565 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, so I have a problem with a boy that is quite complicated. It all started like a year ago when we never even knew each other but went to the same school, and people kept telling me that this boy liked me. Then for some reason we got talking and although id never got to ... (144 words)

How do you stand when you offer fellatio?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - where do i give a handjob to my boyfriend? sit or lie down or what? ... (20 words)

How do I initiate things with his more mature, older brother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i started casually hooking up with this guy about a month ago nothing too serious, i guess we both kinda got feelings so we started hanging out more and getting closer (i met him within my large group of guy friends) but last night we had sex and he couldn't get it up/keep ... (125 words)

My girlfriend insulted me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, this is the situation. My girlfriend had plans with her friends last night and so she saw them and we planned to see each other tommorow evening. While she was with her friend I planned to see my friend during the day time before I saw her. But she text me after we arra... (242 words)

Is it true LDRs never last?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is what they say about long distance relationships true? That they never last? I ask this because I really like this guy. He's sweet and caring and very romantic. We are good together. The only problem is that he's in the military and stationed off-island. He doesn't want to ... (155 words)

What does 'I lost her a long time ago' mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i go through my boyfriends phone every so often just to see he's behaving himself, he hasn't done anything to warrant me not trusting him but im afraid of getting hurt. I sorta cheated on him twice, no sex. so im going through his texts and he's talking to someone about ... (65 words)

Why does he call me 'kiddy fiddler'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello right here is my problem i have started seeing this lad he is a year and 37 days younger than me. ever since we have started seeing eachother he take the mick and calls me a kiddy fiddler do you think he actually believes that and do you think it is wrong for me to be... (102 words)

Should I go to a movie with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I like a guy in my college. We went on a trip together with friends. that's when i got to know him. he's really good looking and surprisingly very very sweet. i have just started talking to him and got him to ask me out for a movie. Rumer has it that he likes this another girl. ... (132 words)

Does his difficult upbringing make it hard for him to express feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i need advice on whether a guy i like feels the same. we've been sleeping together sporadically for 4 years (cos i was at uni) then i didnt see him for a while and he got back in touch about 6 months ago. i'd never seen him as boyfriend material before but this time i felt ... (224 words)

I cannot be comfortable with my lover's past, yet we may have a future. What can I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

10 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - my gf and i have been together for a year now, and all the while i have been trying to deal with the demons of her past, namely the 11 other men she has slept with. she was at an all female boarding school till the age of 18, and between then and the 15 months after when we ... (355 words)

Why do I still love him despite of his abuses? How do I deal with the conflicting feelings? How do I stop being in denial?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

- I know im probably going to sound crazy or something when I say how I feel about my ex abusive bf, but its how I feel and what bothers me most is how my feelins conflict each other. On one hand, I have so much anger and hurt and cant believe he would treat me so badly. But on ... (249 words)

He cheated on me while drunk and confessed, feeling guilty. Does he love me? How can I forgive him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and half years now and have trusted him wholeheartedly. We have always been open and honest with each other with a great friendship and he told me that he could never cheat on me. He recently went on a boys holiday to Magaluf about a mont... (321 words)

It's happened again. I'm lost and alone, no hope and no money, how do I cope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello. I have just moved back in with my ex again (a couple of months ago). As ever to get me back he said he wanted babies and a home together. Instead I have ended up spending my savings while sitting in his bachelor place waiting for him to join me in a mutual plan for the ... (248 words)

He said he loves me, but the emails to his ex say otherwise. How can he love us both?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone...recently i was at my guy's place. we were on the computer together, he then had to take a toilet break. So i was alone there on his computer. I saw his private email inbox and out of my curiosity, I checked it. I was shocked to find out that his ex's emails... (196 words)

Does this sound like something that's beyond hormonal problems?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm on the birth control pill Desogen and have been taking it every month for 18 months now. For the first like 17 months I had virtually zero adverse symptoms, but this past month was a nightmare. I felt nauseous pretty much every single day, had ridiculous mood swings, and ... (252 words)

We differ on how to bring up children, now I'm sleeping with her daughter. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (M)

age - This is the picture. I am 56 my partner 53 My 4 year relationship with my partner has suffered a major set back after over 1 year of continued arguments and disputes regarding the attitude between my partner and my 12year old daughter so much so that my partner has now left the... (614 words)

I cheated on him and we broke up. How do I get him back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i recently broke up from a 2 year relationship with my bf. he was 12 years older then me, and i was seeing another bloke, but we never slept together and he found out about it. i really want to get back with him but he keeps saying that he thinks we should just remain ... (186 words)

Pregnant or paranoid?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Over the past few days I have been worried that I may be pregnant, but I am hoping it's just my paranoia. On Monday early morning I woke up puking with a lot of diahrrea and felt like I was coming down with that stomach flu that has been going around. I felt weird all day, and ... (152 words)

My boyfriend hasn't bought anything for our future baby but keeps lending money for me and not return it. I don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiyaa Im 19 and currently 32 weeks pregnant.. My boyfriend (and father of the baby) is 18 and we have been together about 20 months. The baby was unplanned.. but we decided to keep her and things were ok. Recently we havent stopped arguing though, and i cant take the stre... (249 words)

Am I about to start my periods?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 10 yrs old, I have got a white discharge, pubic hair, even I get sweat in my armpits. Does that mean I am going to start my period?... (30 words)

She kissed another, while drunk, at the beginning of our relationship. Do I take her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with a girl for 2 months now, but i have recently found out that at the very beginning of our relationship, she kissed another guy. She was very drunk and couldn't even remember it, her friend had to tell her. Should i ever take her back??... (51 words)

My boyfriend is a compulsive liar, he said he cannot stop lying so I broke up with him. Good decision?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I really need some advice. Me and my boyfriend were going out for 8 months, but he was a compulsive liar. We have sat down and he has admitted the lying but says he cant stop it. He has told me every lie hes told. But he admitted to texting a girl he liked when we first go ... (126 words)

Why did she bleed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i tried to hav sex wit my gf but could nt do it as it was our first time and it was hurting her.my penis didnt even go half way inside.we wer nt using a condom.the next day she had heavy bleeding also.wld she become pergnant???what could be the cause of bleeding???... (52 words)

My boyfriend never wants to have sex with me, and nothing has changed since we discussed it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 20 year old female currently in a relationship with a guy, where the sex is very disappointing. Well when we actually have sex it is great but these days that's not very often. He seems to be a very sexual person on his own, I mean he used to masturbate several times a ... (174 words)

Would most girls like my fantasy and how do I approach a girl about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'd like to get a girlfriend that I connect with, but I'm not sure how she would react about something. I want a girl who would be willing for her and me to rub our bare feet against each other while laying next to each other. Absolutely no shoes or socks. I've noticed other ... (91 words)

Is this his way of keeping me attached or is he just bored?

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10 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was dating a known player for a short while and he got super serious. He asked me to moved in, insisted I got to know his family (hes 27 and only ever brought 3 girls home), and even said he loved me numerous times (I disagreed with him, tho to give him an out). He was even ... (282 words)

In love with my step brother but I will soon be acquainted to his new girlfriend. Help!! I've fancied him for 15 years now.

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10 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I dont suppose anyone could give me any productive advice on my situation but here I am trying anyway.... There was a boy who I went to school with who I had a crush on for the longest time I could remember. When we went to secondary school, long story short my mum met his d... (652 words)

Underwire bras have left brown marks under my breasts, any suggestions on how I can remove the marks?

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10 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am very slim and have very big breasts. I have always ensured I wore correct bras, even when sleeping at times to help with good posture and prevent sagging etc. My boobs are fine because of it and have no sagging, back problems etc. However, because I have worn underwire ... (190 words)

Trouble getting over a summer fling - are some people meant to come into your life only to leave you just as fast?

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10 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i am having a hard time getting over a summer fling. i know we have to go our separate ways, but i miss him so much. I wonder if anyone ever had a fling that they lost touch with, only to reunite later in life. And has it lasted..or some people are just meant to come in and l... (67 words)

Should I stay with my husband? He always wanted to take control of things in out lives?

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10 September 2008 (F)

age - Should I stay with my husband? He always wanted to take control of things in out lives but over the last few years it has got much worse. He also has difficulty showing respect for other people. He uses other people's things (even when they are precious to that person) ... (387 words)

I love her, she loves me - but she ALSO loves her boyfriend. Help!

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10 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - So, my best friend and I are in Love. We didn't realize is until recently, but we both realize it now. Only thing is, she has a boyfriend that she also "loves". I don't get it. We both talk to each other and say we Love each other and basically know we are gonna be together... (1020 words)

My period is late and I'm scared. Help please!

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10 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me. Im 15, 16 in early november and I recently had sex for the first time. Now I have done it around 3 or 4 times, but my boyfriend only came twice out of those times. Of course we used condoms each time, and at the end he said he checked for rips or holes. Well m... (299 words)

He says he misses me, but I always feel like I come second fiddle. I don't understand!

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10 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - so this problem I had since last week continues. I just want to know what others think regarding this situation. So to summarize relationship between me and him, we first met at a party early this year in the east coast, where he lives. I am in the west coast. Last week, he ... (400 words)

Why fret so much on appearance?

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10 September 2008 (?) age 26-29 - Honestly...i dont get it...So many people fret about thier appearence, a lot. Understandable, but i mean the "Im not pretty enough for him" or "There are better looking guys" ect. ect. Why do looks matter. Cant we love each other as we are? Im a bit confused and just wondering ... (51 words)

I love him dearly, but I can't deal with his parents!

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10 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i are 19 years old and have been seeing each other for 4 years and known each other 6. i love him so much words cant even explain but i cant stand his parents. they treat him and myself with no respect but expect us to bow down to them. his parents have sta... (260 words)

She said he was "pervy"-What did she mean?

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10 September 2008 (?) age 26-29 - I was talking with one of my best girlfriends, Lindsay. She went out with one of my best boyfriends Ray. She claims to of left him because he was "pervy". I dont get it, what did she mean. I've known Ray for over a year....im soo lost, some one help me!?... (51 words)

Girl who needs advice about forplay and teasing with another girl, help!!

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10 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya, So, I've got a girlfriend (I am A girl as well) And I'd like some advice on teasing. I'm not to good at foreplay, so I don't suppose you might be inclined to give me some tips in this feild? I've got the neck nibbling and the point under the ear down, but I'm not sure ... (62 words)

I believe this much older guy will only use my friend!

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10 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all. Just a curious question. I have a friend whos 20 dating a 42 year old man with a 15 year old kid.......am i wrong for thinking he's a freak? And now she ses she has feelings for him! Its like dude where do u think this is gonna go? I tell ya where...heartbreak and ... (128 words)

Did I do the right thing for breaking up with her because I thought she deserved better?

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10 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my girlfriend of almost 2 and a half years. She is devastated. She gave 110% to the relationship but I could not return it. She feels used and thinks that I am an awful person. She did deserve a better fate for all that she put into it. I am messed up myself... (123 words)

I've been in extreme pain ever since I found out he had a profile in a sex dating site!

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10 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i have a big problem i have been with my commen law husband for 8 years in january im going on 23 he's going on 26 we have two children a girl age 6 and a boy age 5 we have had a rocky relationship but i know he has been faithfull for about 5 years that i know of and last... (501 words)

Do I need to give us time apart to make him truely realise what it would be like without me?

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10 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for two years, it has been a great relationship, until the last month, as he has not been himself and i have had other stresses. Last week his phone goes off, but he has gone to bed and i read it as we're normally fine with this, it is... (360 words)

Does he remember our date or is he trying to make the week go by faster by being with his buds?

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10 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, I don't know if I am digging to deep into this or am just over reacting...My boyfriend and I are supposed to get together this weekend and he knows it. Last week he left and (is still camping) with a friend. He didn't tell me what he was doing or anything... Earlier ... (131 words)

How am I suppose to face my crush if he hates me and knows that I love him?

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10 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - how am i suppose to face my crush if he hates me and knows that i love him?hes 7 years older than me......... (23 words)

How do I start dating again if I don't know anyone in my area?

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10 September 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I just broke up with my boyfriend about a month and a half ago and im ready to get back out there...But i just moved and i dont know anyone here. I'm really anxious to get back in the dating game but how do i do that if i dont know anyone here??? I like guys at my new school ... (73 words)

I was almost hit by my boyfriend - where do we go from here?

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10 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in an overwhelming state of mind and don't really know what to do next. Here is what happened... A couple nights ago my boyfriend (of six years) and I had a casual night out. Dinner with his mom, and then we rented movies - but before we went home we decided to stop ... (638 words)

Am I being rational in giving him some space and hoping he will come around, or should I move on?

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10 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a man for about 20 months. In March he was promoted and it has been very stressful for him, including traveling a great deal of time. He was recently gone on a six week trip to seven different cities with only a day or two rest in between cities Before th... (279 words)

How can I ask this pretty girl out?

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10 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - seen this girl around, sent her few messages online general chat. How can i break the ice i want to meet her? I cant think how to do it. And i don't know how she would react because she is really pretty whereas i'm not even up to that standard. There's much better lookin guys ... (84 words)

I'm 18 years old and I have never had a proper girlfriend!

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10 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm 18 and haven't had a proper girlfriend. Only kissed once 2years ago. I've lost all hope! Everyone says the time will come, i been lookin for 6years at least and nothing has happened. Its me isn't it? I'm really nice, girls love me but only as friends! Is there anythin else ... (55 words)

Is this a normal procedure for massage sessions?

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10 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My partner and had a couples massage in a posh hotel in Egypt. He chose the hot stone massage and I the Thai, one. He was on a massage table and I spent the hour being contorted on a mat on the floor. I was given eyeshades to wear but apparently, he was not. After th... (119 words)

Could we ever become more than just friends?

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10 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - im 18 and my best friends a girl who iv known for a about three years we have loads of fun together she stays at mine sometimes.But i want more than just friends. but she doesnt. we flirt constantly and have loads of time together just us two. we tell each other everything and ... (67 words)

What can I do to stop hurting? He stopped trusting me...

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10 September 2008 (?) age 30-35 - We were together for 2 years. Wehad our issues, or maybe he did, I don't know. Maybe I did. Apparently I did. Who knows... Anyway, he was jealous. At the beginning, he told me, but it was just mild, once every blue moon, kinda cute jealousy. So I was fine with it. Ok, ... (734 words)

Can I get a purity ring even if I'm not a Christian?

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10 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - im not christian and i want to wear a purity ring. my parents dont know abou them so i dont want to explain how i wont have sex. so i was wondering can i get one even though im not christian? also can i buy it for myself and not get my parents to get it for me?... (61 words)

I think my cousin may have feelings for me. What's the best way to handle this?

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10 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 19 yrs old and I have a bit of an extended family. Pretty close to my mother's side of the family and all their children, we consider ourselves as brothers and sisters us cousins (there's a lot of us). In fact I'm the oldest, and I feel I kind of helped raise some of th... (406 words)

Was this really a one-night stand?

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10 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Am so confused! 2 year ago i met a guy n we became friends. last year we were invited 2 a party n he showed more interest in me. later that night we went 2 his place, he wanted sex n i said NO. We kept in touch n 2 weeks ago i went 2 his place n we had sex. i wanted 2 take our ... (109 words)

I don't understand why she broke up with me so suddenly with no reason!

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10 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone. I left England to study in Sweden for 6 months as part of my university course in january this year. It really was an amazing time. i met people from all across the world, and ended up being extremely close to 4 friends. One of these friends who i had an i... (529 words)

My boyfriend hasn't told his family about me yet...what should I do?

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10 September 2008 (F)

age - After 4 years together, my boyfriend still hasn't told his family about me. His family is just his sister and mum but still. His mum is coming to visit for Christmas and I think he should tell her before she gets here. His excuse at first was he doesn't tell his family a... (126 words)

Should I tell her my reaction about her comment?

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10 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - The girl I like said something to me that really hurt. I realise why she said it but I cannot agree with it. I am sure she didn't mean to hurt me so deeply but it is affecting me. Simply put: I was having a bad day and I decided to delete my facebook account. I didn't in the ... (164 words)

I think my boyfriend is gay and is confused!

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10 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a boyfriend that I have lived with for 8 years whom I have supported in every sense of the word...financially, emotionally etc. Has not worked consistently and is constantly on the computer at home, while I work my butt off to pay all the bills and everything in the ... (249 words)

How should I act around my crush? He's so shy!

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10 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! I'm not sure about his feelings.. He is a friend of my friends and I really like him! .. we aren't friends .. and i don't know how to talk to him! .. today, my friends said "Andrea likes Andrew.. u are gonna make a good couple c´mon.. you guys had almost the same name ..... (210 words)