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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I stop the obsession I have for my teacher?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - well, where do i start? it all started in seventh grade. i fell in love. with my gym teacher. he's 26, and i am 13. he hates me, but i love him. he doesnt make eye contact with me, and i have a poster of him in my closet. i'm so deeply passionately in love with this man. he is ... (201 words)

He hit me again today but I still love him. Please, someone tell me what to do...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, i'm 19, I have been with my boyfriend for more than a year. About 4 months ago, he started hitting me. Nothing really to start with but it got worse. Today he burst my nose and strangled me, I think that it was probably the most terrifying moment of my life. I actually ... (95 words)

What was that attracted me about her? I was never attracted to her physically!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

5 September 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi there. I dated "her" for 4 months. LOVED everything about her but...when it came time for sex..I wasnt attracted.or was I ...cant figure it out!!.We did a few times a week after much effort on my part...I always had to think of other women ughhh. I left her and now miss... (233 words)

It's really hard for me to socialize and it's depessing me. Please help me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

5 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello. Well, i need help to get my life going. I have hardly any friends and spend most of my time alone in my flat. I've never had a girlfriend (yeah I'm a virgin as well) and in mid-twenties it don't seem right to be this way. I just want life to be exciting. I've never had a ... (143 words)

Does this guy at work fancy me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy at work. He is 2 years older than me. He is sweet towards me most of the time. Saying things like im one of his favourite people to work with. He teases me a lot about different things, such as when I had sunburn he kept calling me pet names. But then other t... (164 words)

I'm thinking of getting an abortion but I would like some information about it first.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am pregnant and considering having an abortion. I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 22. I drank and smoked reguarly the first month of the pregnancy because I didn't know I was pregnant (I'm a college student). I've probably already harmed the baby since this is the 'critical period' ... (148 words)

I don't know if I should visit this guy I met on the internet...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i have recently meet a turkish guy on the internet we talk everyday and send text messages,im beginning to really like him,he wants me to go over on holiday and see him for a week i really dont no what to do here because of the distance and stories u hear please advise me ... (55 words)

Does this guy have issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Very strange guy i am thinking. See what you think. Were in same yr at school, met up on facebook few weeks ago, met in person 2 weeks ago tomorrow for a drink in the day. I went out with mates that night, he txt saying pop round on way home, i said ok but your not getting ... (290 words)

Should I keep on dating my teacher?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I meet this guy as my teacher in highschool for one of my classes. Things started out simple enough where he was the teacher and i was the student, nothing more than that. but soon causal flirting from both of us started taking place, yet nothing every physical or anything. he ... (171 words)

How can I make this boy like me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I realy like his Boy..I talk 2 him..But i dont now if he likes me..So can you help me gett him 2 like me..?... (24 words)

We had unprotected sex and he came in me but some of the fluid came out. Am I safe?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i had my period two weeks ago and i had unprotected sex yesterday and he came inside of me and some of it came out. does it all come out or doess some stay in and does that cause me to get pregnant?... (44 words)

He says he flirts with other girls because he wants them to feel happy. Am I being unreasonable for not believing this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

- heya last night i found out that my bf of a month likes to flirt wiv other gals i dont mind this but he likes to flirt alot he tells every gd luking gal he talks to ow gawjus they are he seys its just the way he is he seys he likes to make thm feel happy. But y wud he need to ... (118 words)

Is it ok for a 15-year-old to have sex with a 26-year-old?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

5 September 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Is it ok for a 15 year old male (me) to go out with a 26 year old women and have sex?? Any advice?... (27 words)

How can I convince my boyfriend to have sex with me while I'm on my period?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My sex drive seems to be at its highest when I have my period, but my boyfriend isn't keen on the idea of sex then because he doesn't like blood. I have never tried having sex on my period. Is it commonly done? What are people's views on it? I don't want to mess up the sheets ... (69 words)

Are there any suggestions that could help me get rid off my scars?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem...not so much about a relationship but will be affected some day.... i used to self harm when i was a teenager and although i have completely recovered from them problems now i have a perminant reminder....i self harmed on my stomach so now the hairs round ... (144 words)

Is our age difference something to worry about?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I just have a question. I am 18 and i believe i am falling for a 25 year old. I have known him a long time, we have been good friends. Is there something wrong with this? Is there too big of an age difference?... (45 words)

Do these signs mean that I'm pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

- I think i mite be pregnant but im not sure. I was due to come on today. I took 2 pregnancy tests yesterday. A cheap brand I took at lunchtime showed a very, very faint positive line, i mean extremely faint. I went straight out and bought a more expensive one which showed a n... (170 words)

Can the love and affection of two people, in the wrong place and time, jut don't work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I really am new to love. I have really had bad relationships. . . Then while trying to fish information about my cheating husband, I fell for his acquaintance. This led to a one year over the phone, six time physical encounter which was most loving. While I got divorced as ... (323 words)

When he dumped me, I had realized how mean I was to him and wanted to change, but it was too late. What can I do to get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I wonder if someone can help me. Me and my boyfriend had been together for just about 10 months. We had a lot of big things happen to us, that I think kept us stronger in the beggining of the relationship. He had totaled my car, and I also got pregnant, which we agreed w... (672 words)

Would a woman find a love letter touching even if she doesn't fancy the sender?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

5 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. Just wanted to know whether love is fickle. Allow me to go into slightly more details! If a woman receives a love letter from someone she fancies, she may well like him even more - correct? If the very same words came from someone she does not fancy then she will tend to ... (255 words)

How do I stop my crush on my teacher?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in love with my 58 yr old physical education teacher n i am abt to turn 15.i was totally depressed in my 9th grade when my boyfriend cheated on me,he helped me get out of the stuff.its been 2 years and we are now very good friends.we frequently talk on phone.i have kissed ... (90 words)

Help! He will kill me...how do I escape safely?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a 16 month old daughter who has had to live with my parents because of the relationship i am in. I just dont know how to get out of it, he always tracks me down.. even in a womans refuge and when he is nice, he is lovely but my body cant cope with the beatings. Most ... (306 words)

Am I a normal teenager?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

5 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 19 year old boy. I am starting my 2nd year of university, and I know what this means to a lot of people "parties, sex, alcohol etc." But this doesn't concern me. When people are out going crazy Im at home studying. I recently asked a girl (about to turn 21) out and ... (205 words)

How tight is a normal vagina?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 and i am a virgin but my boyfriend and I have discussed it and we have both decided we are ready for sex and I am excited but also very worried because I have some concerns about my vagina I have been fingered a couple of times and both people have said that I am tight... (174 words)

Our friendship is dwindling! Did I do something wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

5 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hello all, i know a girl for a month and our freindship was so great, just great!. i have read some articles about how to know if she is interested or not interested and i find the two signs in her (interested and not). our freindship is going down and i dont... (133 words)

What is the contraceptive coil like?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am living with my boyfriend and we both have no STDs but we use condoms for contraceptive purposes. However, I do not like the feel of them as I find the way they crease uncomfortable. Plus I find them a hassle to always think about, they decrease spontaneity, and they are ... (102 words)

I'm fed up thinking about my ex and I don't like him anymore. Why can't I let him go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - How can I just stop making myself feel awful thinking about my ex boyfriend all the time? It's been 11 months since the break up. Happened because I found out he'd been seeing other women throughout our 2 n half years together. It completely disgusts me when I think about the ... (249 words)

What can I do to get my mom to understand I'm having protected sex with a guy I love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

5 September 2008 (?) age 30-35 - ten days ago, i got in from a night out to find that my mum had found my pills. i am 15 and 11 months and have a boyfriend who is 17 and 2 months. we have been together a year now, but about three months ago, the question of sex had come up, he didnt pressure me at all but i ... (157 words)

I'm a shadow of the woman I used to be in my marriage. Has his emotional cruelty turned me into this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Would love to hear any advice. I am completely overwhelmed with my situation and don't know where to begin to sort it out. For at least the last 10 years of my 15 years of married life I have been unhappy. I have always found my husband to be slightly awkward at times but ... (877 words)

Why do lonely people looking for love stay single?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

5 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm nearly 25 and haven't had a proper girlfriend. I remember back when i was 15 and my best mate got with the girl i liked and how terrible i felt. i moped for weeks. then about a year later - i was seeing a girl (if you can call it that) for about a week when another mate ... (362 words)

Will the condom stop working if he stays inside you after sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i was just reading on one of the other questions 'Cosmo says sex should last 45 minutes. What do you do all that time' that it said: "Many couples like to stay coupled as the guy grows soft inside the girl. (You should NOT do this if you are relying on condoms for contrace... (87 words)

He keeps wanting to meet up even though I have a boyfriend?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - yesterday, this boy i know told me that he really liked me, i kind of guessed from the way he always is with me; constantly talking to me, hugging etc. i was flattered, but had to say no for certain reasons. i thought and everyone else thought he was actually gay, from the way ... (183 words)

What would happen if I did become pregnant and I didn't know and I was still taking the pills? I don't have any periods at all, and I've taken the pills for the past 3 years daily.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my partner for nearly 3 years now and he recently proposed to me. He has openly told me about the amount of girlfriends he has had and what ones he'd slept with. When we got together i said i would go onto the mini pill- as we, and especially i, do not like ... (282 words)

When I tell him of the hurt he's caused me, he passes the blame to me! Why is he doing this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a friend who says he is in love with me. We are really great friends, however, i am not sure if i am ready for a relationship. What I can't understand is that whenever I try to speak to him about some emotional hurt he has caused to me, he refrains from discussing the ... (87 words)

Everything was great, then suddenly he became distant. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was talking to this guy and things got pretty hot and heavy for a while. Everything was great, then suddenly he became distant. Said he'll call and take 4 days to call me back. I took it as a hint he wasn't interested so I moved on. Then he calls back and wants to talk for ... (193 words)

Do I fight for this one - or simply give up and get over her? Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

5 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am clueless when it comes to women. Absolutely cluess! and far too shy. I kept thinking i wasn't liking girls as a defence mechanism- so that i wouldn't have to go through the pain of working out if she likes me and finding the right time to ask, and not having the terr... (391 words)

I can't seem to shake that feeling of emptiness in the pits of my stomach. Did I make a mistake?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I cant seem to shake that feeling of emptiness in the pits of my stomach, like something is definetly missing. I have had this same hallow spot for the last 5 years after breaking up with the love of my life (at the time) he constantly cheated on me with sev... (351 words)

How can I be with him another time and handle his strange personality? Should I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everybody..i dumped a boy i loved 2 months ago,and i still love him..because he was acting strangly and he sat all the time with hif 'friends'and he was always depressed about something and he never talked about it..and he always said nice things to me but did the ... (148 words)

My ex has a girlfriend, but still has sex with me. What do I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I still love my ex but he's got a girlfriend and he keeps coming up to me for sex. He keeps telling me that he loves me. I have a daughter by him, and i'm not taking the pill. The sex with him is great. What do i do? ... (54 words)

Is true happiness just a myth, will nothing ever be okay??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, this is for all of you, ive recently became part of ''Dear cupid'' and been reading all of these articles, written by guys, girls, of all ages and i just wonder so much of the time, how could a world as cruel as ours even exist?? where so many of us hurt, cry nd ... (283 words)

Wondering if my ex's current relationship is a rebound and if she has really gotten over me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

5 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend of a year broke up with me because i did some bad things, not cheating. I know I was wrong and she didn't think I could change. So I went through some changes for a month or so talking to people realizing what I did. She still was scared to come back and now she ... (166 words)

What are my chances of being pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I had sex 23 days after the first day of my last period, what are the chances of been pregnant?... (20 words)

I feel he wants something different but knows he can't have it so he settles with me. Why? Because of his porn-watching...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently caught my husband masturbating to porn....since then I simply cannot bring myself to want to be intimate with him...I feel undesirable and cant help but notice all of the women looked about 15-20yrs younger than me (im in my 40s) and none had mommy bodies (scars ... (157 words)

Faced with the dilemma of abandoning my 30 year marriage or losing the lost (and found) love I yearned for so much!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

5 September 2008 (M)

age - I love my lover so much but find it so difficult to leave my wife and daughter. Two years ago, over 30 years on, the love of my life contacted me. I always felt it only was a matter of time before we were in touch again. Since then we have formed a magical but illicit relation... (97 words)

Wanting a third baby but husband doesn't. How do I get rid of these feelings to live a happy life with my two beautiful girls and my hubby?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Our situation is a little different to others I have seen posted. I got together with my husband when my little girl was 8months old. Biologically she is not my husbands but I was abandoned by her biological father and my husband has been there since she was a baby and has even ... (332 words)

Do men who don't watch porn exist or should I give up and stay single?...

This question has 76 answers - newest was posted 2161 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - when I commit to a special man I hope to be his only and for him to get his sexual arousal from my body alone...is this too much to ask.....I cant imagine ever needing to look at another mans body for arousal once commited....and I cant imagine ever being happy to share my body ... (72 words)

She'd had enough of me being depressed, and during our doldrums she cheated. Now we want to save our marriage but she is too resigned, maybe remorseful, to take us seriously?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

5 September 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone. Forget the last dilemma - that's all sorted out. Things are worse now... About three months ago my wife and I talked about splitting, after 17 years together, eight of them married. She'd had enough of me being depressed, going to work for 60 hour weeks, and ... (790 words)

I have anxiety issues, and can't cope well with the changes after moving states...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, This question isn't about dating, love or sex, but I could really use some advice. 2 weeks ago, I moved states (Adelaide to QLD), and I start a new school on Monday. Back in Adelaide I have some really close friends who I don't think I can live without! I have... (91 words)

I don't (usually) ejaculate during sex, what can I do for this to happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

5 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm the type of person who has to tighten his muscles to climax while masturbation, and i just plain have the most god-awful time cumming during sex; i once set out on a mission to make it happen, and 4 hours of sex, and i still have yet to cum; and despite getting close; but ... (116 words)

I feel like I'm constantly letting her down with my childish ways and my being possessive. How to change and prove her I have changed?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

5 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for a year with a girl I've known forever (mums went to school together) and we love eachother alot. Only, recently I've realised that I'm very posessive. I work random hours and I'm at home alot and subsequentley get quite bored, then end ... (403 words)

How do I get his attention?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend loves me a lot..but whneevr hes wid his frnds he doesnt attend my calls..nor reply to my msg..at dat gves mre importnce to his frnds rather thn m...tell m wht to do so dat he realise my importnce in his life??/ wht shld gals tok abt to make bfs cme in a romantc mo... (73 words)

Does this dream have any meaning?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I just transfered to a new school, and I feel great about it. Except for the fact that a certain person won't be there and never will. This particular person is my teacher, well, now ex-teacher. I start school tomorrow at my new school, going into my last year of high sch... (224 words)

How do I get him back after I ended things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5706 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi,i ended things with my boyf because what he wanted in our future scared me off but now ive had time to think about it i realise i want the same,i was just shocked cos i didnt think he was thinkin of a future with me.i want him back but how do i go about it cos i ended ... (73 words)

Am I in love with my female friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im not lesbian but i met a girl that treats me better than anybody else and sometimes i think i fell in love because i cant stop thinking about her but im not shure if im really in love or just obsessed with her ... (44 words)

So should I stay with this uninterested man or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - So, I didn't take a job because I was "in love" with my man. Now I have the same job I had before, I'm a little older and without a sure future with this man. I'm really not sure what to do. I'm not that much of a "catch" by any means, but ya know...the offers do come. So ... (71 words)

My boyfriend is not affectionate to me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for going on 4 years. I love him very much and i care for him deeply. I know that he knows my feelings for him. However, he rarely tells me that he loves me. The only time i hear it is when i say it first. And even then i may have to repeat it to ... (269 words)

I was molested when I was a child and this has given me insecurities about myself! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

5 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I agree that being molested as a child can screw up ones sexual idenity. Here is my reasoning. I was molested from the age of 12 to the age of 14. I am not gay but I do beleive that I am Bi-sexual. Which is very weird because I dont want to be attracted to guys but only some ... (186 words)

I now realize that I was was wrong. What can I do for her to believe this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

5 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - so i went out with this girl for 2 years 10 months. the first year and a half was great, but the rest just got worse and worse. she broke up with me about a month ago becasue i never treated her right, i was too controlling, and angry most of the time and when she made me ... (276 words)

What are the chances of pregnancy if you have sex while the girl is on her period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

5 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my girlfriend has sex while she was on her period and didnt use a condom but i did not cum in her what are the chances she could get pregnent?... (32 words)

I am torn between loving two women.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5706 days ago

5 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in love with two women. One my wife (about to be five years) that I have been seperated from for about a year and a few months. The other I have been with for the same amount of time. Yes, I lost touch with my wife and the goals I wanted in life and found an outlet that I ... (128 words)

My girlfriend has a low sex-drive and it's beginning to worry me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

5 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in a very happy relationship were very much in love and having a great time with each other. were both 20 and this is my first and her 3rd serious relationship. Recently we have taken each others virginity and are making love, which was fun but awkward at first however now ... (143 words)

Does anyone have any tips on asking girls for their numbers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

5 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm trying to get better at dating in general and talking to beautiful women. People say that I'm really good looking now, but being as I was overweight in high school I just don't feel comfortable chatting up strange women I meet and asking them for their numbers even now that ... (102 words)

A lot of people think my girlfriend is a loser and she's afraid I'll leave her because of that, which is not true. What can I do to change her mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

5 September 2008 (?) age 26-29 - I'm dating a girl who everyone says she's a loser (which she isn't) and I'm being treated differently for it. When we started dating all my friends kept saying need to dump her. She put up with a lot of crap from everyone (like jocks, popular girls and teachers). She keeps... (71 words)

Should I follow everyone's advice and just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Can you really just Fall out of Love? I was head over heels for this guy for over three years but the last few months my psych meds have changed and I see how he has been treating me - it has gotten to the point that I now realize what my friends have told me - he doesnt ... (241 words)

Can't get rid of my feelings for this other girl! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

5 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Well 2 years ago i fell head over heels for a girl i know. She was in a relationship but i am reasonably sure had i not been so inept in my attempted courting of her she would have left him for me.I was alot younger and less experinced and acted like a love sick puppy for the ... (340 words)

Was I a stalker, or just a jilted person with a big crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so I read someone else's question, and wonder am I a stalker, or just a typical crazy chick? I had a fling with this totally hot guy I worked with part time. I had, had a crush on him for over a year. when he finally asked me out I was thrilled. We went out had a gret time, ... (456 words)

Have I moved onto fast?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5704 days ago

5 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok well here is the thing. i was with this girl for 14 months and we broke up like 4 weeks ago. on the 30.8.08 i got with this girl and since that date we have been together. have i moved on too fast? i dont think i have but other people do and they have been angry with me for ... (80 words)

Boyfriend masturbates to porn and then says, "it's not you". Why does he choose this over me?

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

5 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I really badly need to get this off my chest (no pun intended). I've been with my boyfriend now for 3 years and when we first got together, things were great. Then I found out he watches porn. One night, I was feeling ill, and I fell asleep downstairs whils... (326 words)

I want to lose my virginity but I don't know who to lose it with!

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5 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i want to lose my virginity but idk who to loose it with...i want to with my ex because he's the only one that im comfortable with...im not comfortable wit sumone else...so should i just have sex wit my ex and continue on with my life? or just wait...... (49 words)

I'm not sure if my teacher is seriously interested in me or just being very nice.

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5 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Really..to get up to speed..I graduated this past May..but At the beginning of the year, everything was normal between me and one of my teachers, but as the year went on, I realized that he started doing strange things, like telling other kids(as a joke), that they should not ... (611 words)

I'm disabled and can't date. Is it wrong to pay for sex?

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5 September 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Im disabled for 3 years now, is it wrong to pay for sex ive never had to resort to this but now because of my disability i cant get out to meet women so i feel that is the only answer... (41 words)

I'm engaged, but seem to have no other social life or friends.

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5 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Its taken a bit of courage to write this. I am 19, and have been with my fiancee for 3 years. Is it wierd that i dont have any friends? When i was in school and particulary college, i was very left out and it was rare that i was asked to go out to the pub with the gang in ... (351 words)

How soon after unprotected sex can I tell if I'm pregnant?

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5 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my period started Aug. 17, and had an unprotected sex after 6 days and again on the 14th day? will i get pregnant? how early will i know if i'm pregnant? ... (31 words)

Cosmo says sex should last 45 minutes. What do you do all that time?

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5 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I have a question about sex. Basically, I just read in cosmopolitan that 34% of a poll of men thought the best length of time to spend having sex was 45 minutes. As a virgin, I was just wondering how you have sex for a length of tim ethis long?? Like what do you do... (91 words)

We had a little unprotected sexual activity, and I'm scared.

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5 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok first off i'm 16 and my girlfriend spent the night i snuck into her room i fingered her a little bit then stuck my penis unprotected in going in and out only for a minute or so. She got sick one morning but thats it felt fine in the afternoon. im pretty scared ={. i need ... (58 words)

How can I make our relationship hot like it used to be?

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5 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well me and my boy friend have been dating for over 6 months. well for the last 2 weeks or so we've been kind of distant because we never get to hang out. Were in high school and school just started. we dont have any of the same classes. the only time i see him during the day ... (147 words)

I like kinky sex but my boyfriend doesn't want to play.

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5 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is not the first time Ive had this issue. This is just the first important relationship Ive had it in. Im kinky. Im the type of kinky that you see in porn. I love to be held down, spanked, forced to do whatever my partner desires. Being helpless in a sexual way is th... (682 words)

Is a 19 year old boy to old for a 14 year old girl?

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5 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - so its this boy that just turned 19 that likes me and im 14 so does tha age difference matter? he is soooooo sexy and fine i ant him soo bad but idk... (33 words)

An older neighbor has been molesting me for years. How can I heal from this expwerience?

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5 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So well...when i was a little girl, i used to wake up earlier then everyone else, so a friend of the family, around my dads age would come and take me in the woods to look at the animals and he used to tell me that we had to hide and stay quite so that we could see them so i ... (335 words)

My guy thinks the kids from his prior marriage are enough, but I think I might want to have kids of my own.

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5 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm currently in a relationship with a man that has decided he doesn't want to have anymore kids. We've been together 3 years now and he has two children of his own from a previous marriage. I'm undecided if I want children yet, but have always hoped to have them one da... (142 words)

My best friend's older boyfriend is trying to force himself on me.

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5 September 2008 (F)

age - My bestfriends boyfriend is always flirting with me and trying to touch me and i hate when we hang out together and he is right there staring at me and one day we went to the movies together for her birthday i sat next to them and he sat in the middle of us and he kept trying ... (312 words)