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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I get a perfectly shaven vagina?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This is sorta embarrassing, I feel like I should know how to do this already! Here goes... I have only ever shaved my vagina once. I let it grow right back out and it got all itchy and pretty much put me off doing it again. But now that I'm older, I'd like to do it again. I'm... (145 words)

Shaving testicles? How can this be done? Does it make sex better?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My hubby and me were wondering if it is possible to shave testicles? If so how exactly is it done? Does it cause razer burn like it does to women? Does it make sex better?... (37 words)

Mixed signals from the friend I am madly in love with...what do I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

18 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I think I have to share this story because it just drives me crazy. Since the day I fell in love. At that time I was about 11 I think. I met a girl back then, wich I am still in love with. I am now 18. In the meantime she had several boyfriends, and everytime I pret... (248 words)

If he likes me I want to make this relationship different....can you help??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Here's the situation. I like this guy, and he's really..cool. He has blonde/orangish hair, and he's superrr cute. He's an athlete, he plays football and baseball for our school. I don't know if he likes me back. He 'annoys' me alot, (even though i don't really find it an... (264 words)

I got called a fat cow and now I'm paranoid....am I overweight??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, i just wanted to no if you think im over weight, Im 14 nearly 15, im 7 stone 2 Lbs and 5"4-5, i think im pretty chubby for my height and age, all my friends tell me im not fat and that im skinny, but the other day this person called me a fat cow and now im a bit paranoid. ... (115 words)

We've talked about meeting in person numorous times, yet we don't have a real plan after 2 months! How do I voice my concern in an appropriate way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ive been talking frequently to a guy that i found on a popular dating site.we get along great and seem to just click very well with each other.im very interested in meeting him,and we both have agreed that we definetly need to meet.weve talked about it numorous times,but its ... (124 words)

Could he be using my best friend to make me jealous?? How can he fancy her but still love me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5653 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, well i split up with my boyfriend nearly a week ago now, and at first he asked for me back and i answerd no, then he told me he still loved me for a few days then, today my best friend told me he said he fancied her. I was fine with that, but then later he told me he st... (169 words)

I feel I'm not good enough for him, and boring at times. I also don't think it's true that he understands I'm not ready for sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i've only been with my boyfriend over 5months, but i've never felt as close to someone in my life. the thing is, i'm not exactly a typical type of teenager, i'm not into sex and all that stuff[as i'm still learning things about myself and i'm insecure about my body] i barel... (250 words)

Breaking up with my bf would hurt but I would feel a little better...what should I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Alright, I've got this boyfriend. Sometimes, we're sickening sweet, we don't kiss or anything (Against my wants) but he gave me a gift recently, with a bunch of suff in it, he pats my back, and always gets mad at anyone that picks on me, and protects me. But other times, we ... (668 words)

How can I make her understand that I need her to stop calling all the time and need space...???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have this girlfriend, we were going on pretty fine for quiet sometime ever since she started being a bitch. She believe's that being in a relationship is calling each other 10 times a day.. , She doesnt give me my space.. I now feel like I want to run away from her.. ... (321 words)

He said sorry if he crossed any lines...what should I say??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - There is a guy who likes me a lot and wants to marry me...we haven't met each other for lst few years and recently we met for the first time in my house,we had casual talks and then for the second time again at my home but just 2 of us were there. After sometime he started ... (107 words)

Her parents think we are kissing too soon....are we??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

18 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have not told my gf that I love her yet but I did tell her that I wanted to kiss her even though we kissed one time but she thought it was too soon. I told her I wanted to kiss her at homecoming and she said "Yeah i really wanted to kiss you too, but my parents said I ... (83 words)

Dealing with the end of a destructive relationship: why do we keep coming back to each other, even though things are so messed up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid. I'm looking for some unbias advice. My girlfriend and I have been going out for almost five years now. Our relationship was going good, aside from the insane fights we would have, or so I thought. This past January she broke it off with me so she could see other pe... (252 words)

Can anybody help blackheads go away??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I get really bad black heads on my chest in between my boobs how can i make them go away?? there really noticeable plz help !!! ta xx... (30 words)

My imagination is running riot...any advice??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I was friends with him for the whole of last year and we are getting closer all the time, with our friendship turning into the beginnings of something else. He was married for a long time and has been single for two years now. I am slightly concerned that at 40 years old he is ... (193 words)

He flirts but my friend asked him out and he said no....does he like me or not??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I was online with my friend one night and a boy i have a crush on signed in. As usual we said hi and stuff, but then my friend asked, "so, who do you like?" and he said someone and we said "who" and he just merely said "someone" again. And then we asked him directly is it th... (239 words)

We were good until he travelled....now I think it isn't working out.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

18 September 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I have a bf we are with each other for 8 months we were good and everything until he traveled he stopped asking about me and every time i send him a message he answer me back after 6 hours and maybe more, NEVER bothered to call me and when i call him i dont feel like he is ... (105 words)

His ex is still 3 blocks away and I think he still loves her...what should I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5689 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - It has been 1yr and a half since i moved into my boyfriend's house, but he is still married, has been separated for 2 yrs off and on and his ex lives 3 blocks away from us and i think he still loves her but she has done too many bad thing's to him. She seems to have alot of ... (78 words)

Sometimes we are lovers...sometimes we are not...what should I do??

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18 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Guy I am dating is an alcoholic. We have been together for 8 months now. He says we are very good friends but notting else. He has two personalities. When he is drunk he is very affectionate and says we are lovers but when he is sober he is distant and says we are just two ... (204 words)

We broke up because she feels unappreciated but I love her to death and it hurts so bad. What can I do???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, just another problem with the need of a little advice. I have been with this girl for a long time. We recently separated. I am moving a long ways away soon. She hasnt gotten "that time of the month yet" n theres a possibility it could be my kid. I think the reason we ... (171 words)

My bf doesn't have much free time....is 3 times a week being reasonable??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I need help here, I have a 7 month boyfriend, he is wonderfull, he treats me really nice, we share strong feelings for each other, and the sex is GREAT. My problem is that now we are seeing each other like 3 times a week, he works very hard, he is going to collegue... (199 words)

I know my fantasy's are wrong and I need help....what can I do??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I got a major problem. I am the unfortunate member of the male species that had this great idea not to have sex until i was married. And now I'm 28 and still unmarried. I have been having these sexual desires for my 15 year old female neighbour, and although that's all they... (464 words)

I confronted him and found out he is married!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok Ive been in a relationship with my bf for 18 months and I love him so much, and he told me he loves me. Last night I went to give my friend a quick ring and realised I had no credit, so I went to use his (he was downstairs). I saw a message from another women and thought noth... (194 words)

Should I risk my marriage by coming clean or should I just keep my mouth shut?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for almost 20 years, most of it happily. I have relatively few complaints. Life has been good. About a month ago, I attended a work related social event without my husband. Things got rather friendly with a female co-worker and we had a sexual encounter ... (177 words)

Do women find genuine compliments addictive from those they are not in a relationship with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

18 September 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello. We all know women love compliments - especially if they are from a man they find attractive (even if they are not dating him as such). My question is: do women find such compliments addictive i.e. will they start pursuing the attractive male in order to be bestowed... (78 words)

Are there some ways I can make her think and feel that she is attractive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (M) age 41-50 - I have met a very attractive woman who is 5 years older than me. We hit it off and have done some fun activities together. We had some good time to talk about each other and our lives. Seeing how beautiful she is I have thought about what she might be like in bed. I would real... (338 words)

He wants to throw it all away so that he can go and live back with his mum...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, I'm not even really sure where to begin this. I guess more than anything I just need a place to vent and have a little feedback. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years. I'm 21 and he's 27. We met online and lived 70 miles apart. After knowing ... (276 words)

I feel so fat....but am I just paranoid??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, i feel so fat right now, im 9 stone 6 and 5"5, but it doesnt help, im curvy i know that and ive been through hell with my body as one year i just didnt eat much and ended up going down to 7 stone and being very ill, and then went up to my current weight. The thing is... (228 words)

Can you get pregnant and still have your period?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i was wondering if you could be pregnant. and still have ur period?... (13 words)

How long should you wait before you tell someone you love them?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, i just have a question really as you know i havestarted seeing a lad 1 year and 37 days younger than me. my question is how long in peoples opinion should you wait before you tell someone you love them? please give me some advice on this. thanks lovesickpup x x... (64 words)

I've started having feelings for him - should I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well my mum has this bf and they are always and are on and off in there relationship but have been like that for 8 years and her bf has a son who ive started having feelings for he dosnt no this yet should i tell him he is my age and is not really attractive but has a great ... (72 words)

Is he really in love with me ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Arhh, I have a bf and i love him, but it seems like he dosnt love me much well i mean, ok so, at dinner time at school b4 we went out he was all ways all over me hugging holding hands kissin ( only messin bout on face nd hands nd tht0 and propa flirting. then after we got ... (168 words)

Could he be embarrassed to be with me? What signs should I look for?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - what exact gestures, words or signs of him make you feel he is embarassed with you??? I am 15 yrs old an i have been with my 17 yr old boyfriend for nearly 5 months. i dont know why but i get the impression when we go out that he feels ashamed of me or something i know, we... (91 words)

After 2 dates with her, I kissed someone else and we weren't even a couple at that time. She found out and broke up with me. Ladies, your thoughts?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok here is the deal.... I met a really great girl, took her out on a date, things went well, a week later took her out again things looked good, then the third week i went to another town where my parents stay went to a party had a blast and ended up kissing another girl, the ... (368 words)

I don't know if he sees me as a friend or more - when a prettier girls comes he is distracted... What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy that works at my job...and I'm confused if he likes me or not....we laugh and joke around a lot....and I feel like I've tried everything to get noticed....I don't know if he just sees me as a friend or maybe more....but the problem is everytime a prettier girl ... (64 words)

Can you offer any advice on how I can get an orgasm??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I need help with having an orgasm with my partner. i know he tries very hard and this is important to him. I can have a orgasm on my own by stimulating my clitoris in 15 minutes but I have never had a vaginal orgasm. Is this only when you hit the g spot? I cant find it. Which i ... (106 words)

I'm in a long distance open relationship but am so hurt he is with somebody else too....does he love me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So, me and this guy have been in a sort of relationship for about 4 months. Anyways we had decided on an open relationship because its a long distance thing. So he had always texted me called me and we kept things great! He called me his angel and i completey fell in love. Bt... (199 words)

Would it be right to leave my current gf for my ex??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, A few days ago, my "ex-girlfriend" recently got back in touch after 2 month without so much as a hello or goodbye. My ex and I had alot in common and i really start to care for her. But we never really had a relationship. we just use to see each other, go out to a club... (285 words)

My paramour told my husband that he used me for sex. I am now trying to rebuild my marriage but how can I get over the pain of this affair?

This question has 75 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My affair ended 7 weeks ago when my husband caught me out. I have been married for 25 years,my marraige had been going through a very bad patch for about 3 years and i decided to attend an evening class where this guy was the teacher. At first we were just friends and found we... (495 words)

I'm 15, I feel like I'm mentally ready for sex, just not physically, is this normal and what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 15 years old, my boyfriend and i havent been together for a very long time but we'v been close for over a year. He is a year older then me and isnt a virgin. he knows i am and he respects it but i feel like im mentally ready, just not physically. I dont enjoy "down there" ... (73 words)

My husband and I stayed together, just plodding along to this day, but our marriage was always unhappy, we've had ups and downs but mostly downs. Is it time to part?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I need some advise, please help, I appreciate your honest opinions. It's a long one, but I want you to be as informed as possible, so I have more informed responses. I have been married 4 years, I married at 21, I met my husband at 17. I fell pregnant and had our firs... (1106 words)

He broke up with me to be with her, leaving me in depression! Is it terrible of me to have told him I still love him, since he is taken?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. (New to Dear Cupid). I apologize ahead of time for how long this may turn out. I guess it all depends on how much detail I use, or if I start summarizing halfway through... Well, the thing is, I am incredibly in love with a best friend, who also happens to be an ex. (R.L., ... (614 words)

How long should I wait for her to think about us having a future? Can a relationship work without the fireworks at the start?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

18 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been going out with this girl for around 3 months now. We have had breaks with us both going on holidays. We went out last night following my return from my holiday and the date went well again. However towards the end of the date we begun a discussion which... (175 words)

A song keeps reminding me of how grumpy I behaved one night, short before my relationship broke down. How can I stop blaming myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - A couple of years ago I was in a serious relationship lasting two years. This was my first ever relationship. A few months before our relationship finished, we went on holiday. On the last night of the holiday, we went dancing (something I hated back then). I tried to enjoy ... (266 words)

I just graduated and miss my friends from college, I'm very introverted and it's hard for me to make new friends, any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm a 22 year old girl who's just graduated from College. All of my friends are now in different parts of the world and I really miss them. I'm very introverted and it is very hard for me to make new friends. I have this feeling that there is something about me that ma... (109 words)

I think I should leave him but I don't do it. I think if I do that then I may not find nobody that can treat me good. So I cry every day!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I don’t know how to begin so I gues ill just start talking. I afarid. Afraid that no matter how nuch I try ill never meet someone that will love me as much as I do them. I know someone that will but he doesn’t want to. Should I just sit around here hoping that one day he will ... (777 words)

My boyfriend has a quiet nature, won't discuss what is on his mind but I know something is not OK, maybe he wants out but can't find a way? Oh...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My bf and i have been together for over two years now. He has always been a quiet chap and it's been a struggle at times to communicate. We actually live together and basically spend all our time together (apart from when we are at work). However, at times he can get very ... (283 words)

My girlfriend's 75-year-old coach's interest in her seems weird to me, and I feel bad that she doesn't object...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

18 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am currently in a Long distances relationship with my beautiful girlfriend. She is in 23yrs and in Germany for one year studying. She has recently started playing in a basketball team there and there is this really old guy who is a coordinator of all the teams there and he ... (183 words)

She does not talk as warmly and friendly as before since I declared my feelings to her - is she playing hard to get or is she sick of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I'm a 16 year old guy who until recently, Did not care about relationships, Until I met this one girl. Even when I first started talking to her, She was always so so sweet, She talked to me all the time, gave me all kinds of compliments. This made feel an even ... (289 words)

Am I crazy for being jealous of my boyfriend looking at younger women?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age - Am I crazy for being jealous of my boyfriend looking at younger women?... (13 words)

She says she didn't feel a 'spark'... I'm lost, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5692 days ago

18 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i work with this girl, we start going to break talking making out going well. so i ask her on a date she says yes then bails on me, she said she wasnt ready to date and i say no worries try to play it cool. so we finally go on a date to my place its goin well start messin ... (112 words)

I really like this girl, but I've been an ass to her... what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I was with a girl for two years, i really love her, but sometimes i was rough on her... as in i was a bit of an a**hole. Just of recent we broke up, she has sex with other men right away... Heres the clincher, she still comes to me with advice, she still flirts with me a lot, ... (103 words)

My younger sister hates my girlfriend, and I don't know what do to.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (?) age 26-29 - I been with my girlfriend for awhile (almost a year.) But my sister (who's only 6) hates her. One day when she came over to my house. I couldn't answer the door so my sister answer it. And cover her with silly swing (I saw the whole thing.) She got at mad me saying I need to ... (66 words)

I'm sort of with this guy - trouble is, he always has other girlfriends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok. so. i'm kinda with this guy. well its all physical, actually...no sex, but pretty much everything else. we've been doing this for a few weeks now, almost every day last week... the problem is, he always has a girlfriend. our "relationship" got off to a weir... (287 words)

How do you know when to get out of a relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok let me fill everyone in. I have been with this guy for 3 years. We have a 1 year old together. We've had problems from the beginning because he has a hard time dealing with my past. Everytime he's ever questioned me about it, I tell him what he wants to know and he gets mad ... (410 words)

I can't achieve an orgasm with bf or ex's.-thoughts or advice would be much appreciated

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my boyfriend for over two years and i've had other partners before him. i can not achive an orgasm with him and never have with anyone else either. i can do it myself but i have an odd way of doing it. i lie on my stomach and rub my hand on my pubic bone ... (112 words)

I don't understand why I've never had any luck with girls. any help would be much appreciated.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 17 year old, nice, charming, funny, not ugly guy who plays guitar and really tries to get a girlfriend, much less a date, but always fails. Why is this? I've tried to have a relationship with 6 different girls, but they all rejected me. sometimes outright, sometimes ... (87 words)

Does he want me to show a sweet side or sumthing?please help me,i don't know what to think.?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi...this guy that ive been kinda talkn to keeps botherin me in da day time and like one thirty in da mornin.we mostly text each other.he kept asking me to apologize for snapping at him.I snapped at him through a text and he keeps asking me to apologize.He really does keep ... (160 words)

My husband is struggling with low sexual desire-Please help if you ca

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) age - I'm in a terrible confusion, and I don't know what to think.. My husband is struggling with low sexual desire, and erectal dissfunction at the last few years.. He went for medical check-up, any ,they never found anything... He also has involuntary night erection... (284 words)

I have two men I don't want to lose, P is now amazing with the children and F also digs my children

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok ... so I have been with P for 7 years on and off, lived together again... on and off .... this year I told him to move out on his own and he did ! Long story .. but bottom line ... really mean to my kids ! Since he moved out ... huge turn around, like wow !Treats me and ... (195 words)

I have just found out my husband has never divorced his first wife.!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I just found out my husband of three years has been lying to me about everything possible, and the kicker, I just found out he never divorced his first wife. He got married in California the first time but we went to Las Vegas,Nevada and eloped.Is my marriage even legal or ... (63 words)

I'm like family to their family so she thinks he's afraid of it not working out or something and I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, I like this guy, he's my friends brother I known him for almost 2 years. I started to like him but wasn't ready for a relationship till i got out of high school, and he flirts with me, but last year he did something called the underground and it was at the church and he ... (170 words)

What do you do if after 4 years into the relationship your bf still keeps in touch with his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

- What do you do if after 4 years into the relationship your bf still keeps intouch with his ex. And even after fighting and talking about how much it bothers me he still talks to her. I don't mind much of the keeping in touch with her, what bothers me is that he hides it... (95 words)

Should I tell my sister about her husband or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My brother-in-law was driving my sister and I home (we all had been drinking) my sister fell asleep in the back of the car and them my brother-in-law started massaging my neck in a kind of erotic way - I pretended to be asleep as I was kind of scared - my question is should I ... (65 words)

What can I say to him to make him go back to the way we were?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

18 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm sorry if this is really long, but it's sort of tough to fit it in a short thing. Basically, this is what is happening. I have been friends with a guy for about 2 years. Last year he and I were together alot because we are part of the same department at school. We used to ... (469 words)

He seems uninterested in sex. Am I just paranoid or could it be something else?

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18 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - should I be worried? my husband of 3yrs came home from a month and a half debt (military man) and while he was about sex for the 1st day we r home together for a week (no work or nething) n I am beggin for sex all the time but he won't cuz I jus ended my period or that's w... (74 words)

How do I deal with this loss of interest?

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18 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey Dearcupid readers, My girlfriend has gained quite a bit of weight over the past year. She has not been successful in dealing with it, nor have my attempts to help. I am not going to ask how to address that as there are many excellent posts on that subject already ... (505 words)

Could I be pregnant? I'm nauseous, sensitive to smell, gaining weight and have lost my appetite.

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18 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 7 months now and recently about 3 weeks ago I started taking birth control, now about a week ago I started feeling very very nauseous all the time, all day. Also my sense of smell has been very fragile and the slightest bad smell makes ... (141 words)

Any idea what this lump could be?

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18 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this hard bump on the inside of my vagina. Like, near the top, not near the opening. Near the clitoris I think. I am not sexually active and just want to know some ideas before I consult my doctor.... (42 words)

He changes whenever he is around his friends. Do I leave or is this just a male phase?

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18 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need serious help. I started dating a friend of mine almost 4 months ago. We've been friends for 2 years and we're like peas in a pod. We fit together perfectly, yet still complement each other, most of our friends envied our friendship. I had liked him prior to him asking m... (371 words)

I'm stuck between two guys, who do I pick?

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18 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a problem, six months ago I got into a relationship with a guy I knew in highschool (20+ yrs ago), he's been married now for 20 yrs. He was in an open relationship with his wife, she knew he was seeing me. After a while I developed strong feelings for him and started to ... (276 words)

I'm pregnant with my boyfriend's baby, but I'm afraid to leave him because of his anger issues.

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18 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 years old and have been with my boyfriend for almost three years. he has lived with me and my family for most of the time we have been together. I have just found out I am Pregnant and things between us are getting worse. He treats my mother with such disrespect, After ... (152 words)

I have never wanted children until now, but now it's too late. Can anyone relate?

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18 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm just wondering if there is anyone else out there like me. My "biological clock" never went off until now. I'm really too old to have children but it breaks my heart every time one of my (younger) friends does. I think just hearing that someone else out there has these... (130 words)

He was my everything, and now he won't talk to me. How do I deal with this?

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18 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I hurt him badly by lying to him earlier this year and after over a half a year of not talking to him, we recently start to talk again (recently meaning the last two months). We got together and naturally, our chemistry led us into a physical relationship. This continued until ... (386 words)

This girl is all over him, and he does nothing to stop it. Is he cheating on me?

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18 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so me and my bf have been together since last year. and honestly i KNOW (underline) that he is the love of my life. recently he has had 4 ppl tell him that they like him. no big right? right. well iv herd from some of my bestfriends tell me hes been with this o... (99 words)

His divorce might not go through, and I'm thinking of ending the relationship because of it. Help please!

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18 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing this married guy for 17 months. He moved out from the house that he lived in with his wife and 3 kids about 15 months ago and moved in with is sister. Our relationship was a secret to his friends and family for about a while, but its been in the open for... (232 words)

My ex rings me out of the blue...to tell me his g/fs brother died. Why?

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18 September 2008 (F)

- I guess i'm just a little confused as to why my ex (broke up 9 months ago) rang me after not holding a conversation with me for months. He owed me money and after he paid me all of it, (which i may add was like drawing blood from a stone) i tried to sever all ties. By initally ... (542 words)

Should I ask her out? And how would I go about it?

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18 September 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i am 16 and i am a sophomore in high school. I play sports and i am 6'1 and around 145 pounds with a skinny/athletic build. I don't have a lot of relationship experience and expierience with asking girls out, but i have some. Ok so enough of me and now on to my dilemma. ... (373 words)

I can cum in every position but doggy-style - why not?

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18 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - He loves to make me cum and I love how hot it gets him!! I can come in every position but doggy stile, we are on a mission for me to cum that way. The other night I was so close my clit was all swelled up and I was dripping wet. I was had my chest on the bed with my ass in the ... (87 words)

I've known this guy for years and really like him, but he's already rejected me once. Help please!

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18 September 2008 (F)

- well ive known and loved a guy for 7 years. we basically grew up together and ive been out with a few guys since but ive still always fancied him deep down inside. i always tried to cover up my feelings. Its only lately ive allowed myself to feel my feelings for him (if that ... (169 words)

How should I clean 'down there'?

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18 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - what's the proper way i should be cleaning /down there/?... (10 words)

Not really a love/relationship question, but... Does anyone know of a free, decent music download program?

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18 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - this isn't a love/relationship question but i don't wanna search it over google cuz they'll give me wrong answers. so anyways, does anyone know any music programs that are free that don't give you viruses because i'm not allowed to download limewire/frostwire on this computer ... (100 words)

I'm attracted to a guy 11 years my junior, and I'm falling out of love with my husband.

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18 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in such a desperate situation so please bare with me. I have been with my husband for 13 years we have 3 wonderful children. I found myself attracted to another man who is 11 years younger than me. He is not the problem ,even though the feelings are tthere. The problem ... (150 words)

How do I get him back, and help him accept that he is gay?

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18 September 2008 (M)

age - I am a 46 year old male. A friend and i he is 27 were together for a year and a half. We came back home to our hometowns for a while and he freaked out that people thought he was gay. He is now dateing a women who is the same age as me, he use to refer to her as his aunt, ... (200 words)

Can I fix this relationship? I don't want to walk out on my family.

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18 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm not sure what to do with my situation anymore, i am in a relationship with a 19 year old girl and i am 30, we have a 9 month old daughter, and a baby boy on the way, she also has a 2 year old son from a previous relationship. We lived together for a year and have been liv... (321 words)

What do I do about my controlling boyfriend?

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18 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 3 years is very controlling. I have lived at his house, well his MOMs house for 3years. For the past year he has really been trying to control me. He has: * Put me on different curfew times. 11pm, 7pm, 8pm, now its 9pm. I have a curfew!I'm 22 next month!! If ... (258 words)

Am I crazy or is this man a real asshole? What should I do?

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18 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 34 year old female. I have been in a live-in relationship for going on 3 years. He is older than myself, but I dont think that matters. Sometimes he is wonderful to be around and then other times, he acts if I dont exist. On Valentines day, Easter, and on mothers ... (394 words)