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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do I have a right to ask her to stop smoking, or should I just deal with it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

30 September 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Ok.... My girlfirend...who i love so dam much, and we are as strong as ever....I made her quit smoking after being with her and smokes for about 8months...i had enough of it by then and she knew i didnt like it.we talked...she told me she had no problem with quiting for me. ... (266 words)

He's awesome...but he's three years younger than me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Dear Cupid, There's this boy in my youth group, and we've become really good friends. He's cute, he's sweet, he's funny, and we have a lot of fun together. I think I'm really starting to like him in more than a just-friends kind of way, and my cousin told me that he kind of ... (169 words)

I'm having a hard time living without my ex. Help please.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - myex boyfriend broke up with me around sep 15 and im having a hard dealing with him not calling me and talking to me anymore. i just recently saw him at a event and things happened that shouldnt have happned, I was doing really good before i saw him there. I just found out that ... (109 words)

Do I hang in there, or leave him until the divorce is finalized?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 398 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 27 years old and dating a 30 year old man for 4 months now. He is legally separated from his wife and they are currently going through a divorce. They have been separated for 4 years. He has asked me on several occasions to be patient with his "situation." It is ... (274 words)

I get really jealous when other girls flirt with my best guy friend. Surely I can't like him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm really sorry this is so long but it requires a fair bit of explanation :D So a few years ago I was stranded in this class, in which I was the only girl. That sucked. Then this guy (then kinda funny/nerdy looking XD) sat next to me and was just genuinely nice to me, whic... (486 words)

I need some help asking out a girl from work - suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

30 September 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi all, I was hoping for some advice on something that's been on my mind for quite a while now - I'll try and keep it as short as possible :) There's a girl at work who seems really nice and I would love to ask her out on a date/drink/whatever. But the problem is me. I ... (320 words)

Who's more likely to end up with the girl? - A hypothetical situation

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

30 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi internet fans! I'd like to cut to the chase once and for all in relation to the subject of attraction. Ladies: which man are you most likely to be attracted to: guy no.1 who is good looking, has a great body, has personality and charm, but you don't work directly with him... (254 words)

I was right on the edge of orgasm, but she just couldn't bring all the way. Any advice for her out there, please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 415 days ago

30 September 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - My girlfriend wants to give me a hand job. She was trying the other day and it felt really good but she just couldn't quite get me there before her she got tired. Now she feels bad because she couldn't do it and i've been able to get her to orgasm several times. Do any of you ... (91 words)

I still can't get over my crush on a teacher who moved away. Advice please!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Hey! Ok well you might have read some of my other questions which were all about my teacher who i love and my last one was when he was leaving. But he's left to go to another school now and everyone said it will get better over time but it's been 4 months and 3 days ex... (227 words)

This ia about my daughter - which for me at the moment is causing me quite a bit of stress.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 361 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My 22yr old daugher has recently returned home after splitting up with her boyfriend of seven years. with whom she lived with for a year. This has become quite a messy situation and I am doing all I can to support her. However, since coming back she has got in with some sing... (404 words)

Neither of us are ready for full sex, so how can I satisfy him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - i want to satisfy my boyfriend sexually. but neither him nor me is ready for sex. i need tips of good things to satisfy him without having sex.... thanks 3 ... (31 words)

Twice we have tried to do it and I've not managed to get an erection!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 412 days ago

30 September 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi, I am a young male with not much sexual experience (twice only) but I am now very happy in a relationship with a girl I love and want to have sex with. The girl is a virgin but she's told me she is ready. The trouble is, twice we have tried to do it and i've not mana... (105 words)

The only reason I went through with the wedding is because I paid for it all. I also love someone else. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my husband were just married June 14th 2008 and i'm not in love with him. The only reason I went through with the wedding is because I paid for it all, and therefore somebody was going to get married that day! Anyway, I've been in love with another man that I've know... (208 words)

Should I go through with turning our friendhip into more of a 'friends with benefits' thing, or should we just stick with being best friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

30 September 2008 (?) - I'm not exactly sure how to start this. I guess right now I'm at a point where I don't know what I should do about a very close guy friend of mine. Here is the gist of what is happening. The guy friend I'm refering to is Seth. He's awesome and is pretty much my best friend. ... (310 words)

I miss my baby with all my heart. I shaped up and changed for her. Please - does anyone know how I can win her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 416 days ago

30 September 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - On the last day of high school in may of 05, some random girl i didnt know came up to me and told me her friend liked me. That night i got to meet the girl in person - and boy was i scared. Since then we have been together until the 23rd of September. The first 9 months were ... (443 words)

What should I do when my husband cheats every six months?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 369 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - ok, so i've been married for almost 4 yrs, and my husband cheats on my about every six months it breaks my heart. we have talked and talked. he says he wants to keep our marriage. i beleive that there is hope for us but im tired of hurting. i dont want to give up on him because ... (71 words)

Boundaries with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am (was) dating a guy that I knew had a "past" (prison "stuff") and I still went out with him. I have a habit of saying "I'm Sorry" and he told me to leave and respect his boundaries. Then the other day I tried to surprise him with a home made dinner and brought it over to ... (155 words)

Should I leave my wife or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 99 days ago

30 September 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm not sure how far to push this, or if I should leave my wife or not. I'm really pissed off, not only at what she did, but her attitude that it was no big deal. That just makes me think she will do something like this again. We got married, and had 2 kids right off the ba... (444 words)

Which guy is playing me and which guy likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Okay I just want to know which guy is in playing or likes me. I would like to have a male point of view but females can too. The thing is with these guys I don't even flirt with any of them, I just act like myself, and I am shy,but generally people say I'm real nice, or a ... (726 words)

How should we split up the bills?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been living with my boyfriend for many years. He owns the house free and clear, and has since before I moved in. Since moving in, I have paid various bills, all food/non-durable items, half the property taxes and given him money monthly to pay other utilities. ... (160 words)

How can I cover up the bruises and scratches I got from my boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - How can i cover these bruises i got from my boyfriend and the scratches on my wrists that i did to myself because of him hurting me? They are fresh and just done today. Before u judge me about hurting myself. Its because my whole life from six years old i have been hurt, used, ... (70 words)

How can I make sure we don't drift apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Iv been with my boyfriend for a month and hes going back to uni this weekend and its 3 hours away! He says that we will still see each other every weekend still cuz thats all we see each other now as he lives a few hours away! But he wont have a car there and will need to catch ... (96 words)

Can a kerb crawler stop for good?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Please could people who know kerb crawlers and if you have enough confidence a kerb crawler help me with my problem... My husband is a kerb crawler, OI found out christmas day 2006 his as he says last successful meeting!!!!! So my question to you men, can you really give up c... (129 words)

Why does it always rain on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I don't know if im enjoying life to much but im doing the best i can. Im a really nice person, so i get told. If that's the case i don't understand why i get the treatment i do off others. I just started college this month, made some nice new friends, but history i... (505 words)

I'm not a sex addict, am I?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 391 days ago

30 September 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - I'm not a sex addict am I? My wife just tells me I may be but i'm not that convinced I am. She is 6 years older than me and has already been around the block. Im in the military and I have to leave for certain things. Recently I went to another state for schooling, about 3 ... (220 words)

Do these signs mean he may like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - theres this boy who i like and i got one of his mates to tell him (in the past he has said that i was "bum" and "beautiful" ) i thought becasue of what he said i actully had a shot of him liking me.but when the boy said he told him. he was in a rush and just "raised his eye ... (96 words)

My husband acts like I cheated when I didn't! How do I get him to stop pushing me away?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 409 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) age 41-50 - I've been with my husband for 17 years and married for 15. During our relationship I have always been honest and faithful and gone through a lot with him. In the past, he has given me many reasons not to trust him but still, I stayed and moved on. I became friends with ... (183 words)

I have a mental block when it comes to my girlfriend and I lose my erection!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - everything is great btwn us ... but we have this problem with our sex life.. we've had sex on and off for the past couple months.. but we've gone awhile without sex.. when we try i lose my erection as soon as we are about to have sex... i'm hard during foreplay etc... we've had ... (139 words)

Is it possible for someone to love and not lust after you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 405 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there.... I am hoping to get a bit of advise regarding my current relationship. I met this guy 9 months ago. we have a great relationship and since day one we have been inseperable. He is 37 has never been married or had kids. We started as friends with benefits since he... (255 words)

My online boyfriend quit speaking to me, why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - ive known this guy over the internet for ages now! we met a while back like twice and then when he added me on msn we got chattin alot, i really liked him and he liked me, he asked me out on a date on friday and i thought it was amazing! i was like the happiest girl ever, we ... (100 words)

My boyfriend is always waiting for the next best thing. Why is it so hard to walk away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 360 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - well i am 20 my boyfriends is 28 w have been together for 2years and i feel really uhapy we live and work together. we speand somuch time with each other. he makes me so happy. i love him so much much. i really need happy to put a smile on hisface and make it stay there. he ... (116 words)

I feel our child kicking in my stomach and it breaks my heart!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am having another problem, our first problem ballooned to a nightmare. My first blog was that I am 7 months pregnant and found nude pix of his ex and him on his computer, he did not want to get rid of them and days later he said he did, and hated me. When I hit my 3rd ... (440 words)

How to not get attached too easily and quickly? I need to 'harden my heart'.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 386 days ago

30 September 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I think I been having the same recurring problem in my life...I get too attached too early, then when that special someone goes away for one reason or another, I feel like I have a hole in my heart. I can't stop thinking about her for a while, and it drives me nuts. Is t... (72 words)

Is this a good or a bad thing? I'm thinking of having a FWB

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi I just wanted to know if this is a good or bad thing....I've just come out of a bad relationship...and im longing for intimacy again..because I miss it...I was thinking about having a freind with benefits, but I do not think that I would want to put up with the whole ... (106 words)

About how long does it take to forget someone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - There was this girl that I really liked, she started flirting with me, I liked her, and we got close...however, she has moved away, and our relationship really never evolved. I want to forget about her and just move on, but I still have some feelings. I've tried looking at ... (125 words)

Are Virgos able to forgive?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Once a Virgo has had their fellings hurt and they ask for sometime to think and feel uncomfotable around the one who hurt them . Are Virgos able to forgive after an apology has been made right away or do they just eliminate the person out of their life and that is that? Do they ... (69 words)

Could I be pregnant even though I had my period?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - long story short me an my boyfriend had sex 2 weeks ago the day after we had sex my period came my period came late but it still came but ever since then ive been having stomach pains an cramping could i be pregnant even though i had my period?... (50 words)

Am I being naive or am I just plain dumb in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 412 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been together and living with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. The first 6 months were like that out of a fairy tale novel; surprise trips, PDA, affection, respect and a complete gentleman willing to do anything to make me smile/laugh. After that, it was like hitting a ... (297 words)

Is he confused or could he really like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey ok you know when people think a lad likes you because of how he acts and stuff and from past things that have happened and they say they think he likes you but hasn;t admitted it to himself yet what do tehy mean by hasn't admitted it to himself yet? I don;t get how a lad ... (168 words)

I feel paranoid about my LDR. How can I ease my mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - i've been in a long distance relationship for a year now. We live really far away and only get to see each other once every 6 weeks. I suppose i'm an paranoid person at heart and i'm always worrying about how many times i should phone him etc. But it's always me phoning him, ... (245 words)

Has she really changed or will she hurt me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 202 days ago

30 September 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - My ex-girlfriend and I broke up at the end of May, about 4 months ago. I was extremely hurt because of the things she had done that were unfair to me, and I never contacted her over those 4 months. She contacted me a few times about random things, and each time I reminded her ... (493 words)

His jealousy has reached levels that scare me! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 399 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I really am at such a loss of what to do, or even what to think at this point... I have been dating a man from Italy (I am American) for a little over 6 months. We met in a way where our trust in one another needs to be strong enough to get beyond the fact that we met as a... (1554 words)

My husband's ex interferes with our marriage! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I hae been married to my husband for two years. His ex-wife has been a constant interference in our marriage. At one point he was discussing our relationship with her and getting advice, he also was talking to her anywhere from 3 to 6 times a day. He always said it was about ... (211 words)

My husband is afraid of physical contact from me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Help. I have been married to my husband for 7 years. For nearly six years we have had no physical relationship to speak of. My husand is afraid of physical contact from me. We do however have a daughter of 5 who he adores and will provide her with all the hugs and kisses ... (172 words)

I'm a lesbian and I need advice!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - dearcupids! i really dont know what to do at the minute, well, im 17 and i am a lesbian, i was pretty ashamed at first, didnt want to admit to myself or my family but it was easier than i thought, when i introduced my girlfriend to my family, she was amazing, the best thing ... (997 words)

Should my boyfriend be watching porn?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Should my boyfriend be watching porn? I've been with my boyfriend over 4 years and we live together. I am so happy apart from the fact that he watches porn. I cant accept it and it makes me feel very insecure. Why does he have to get turned on by other women when he is in a rel... (147 words)

We all work at the same company but who should I date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age - It seems this guy #1 I really like at work is giving me more attention lately after his relationship went sour with his girlfriend of 2 months. He liked me before this other girl but for some reason went with her. Meanwhile I had gotten flirty with other guys at work, and one ... (111 words)

What do you think about our engagement factor?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - My bf and I have been together since we were 15. We are still so much in love with upsets here and there which we work through. His parents are still clinging on to him like he's ten yrs. old. He's 21. He doesn't ever set them straight. Sometimes I think he likes his mommy ... (161 words)

Why does love hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - There comes a point in your life when you realize: who matters, who never did, who won't anymore... and who always will. So, don't worry about people from your past, there's a reason why they didn't make it to your present or future. But when it comes to Love, can you be able ... (142 words)

He was still seeing his 'ex' in our early days... I just found out...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a very close and loving relationship with a wonderful man for over two years and just found out that my man had been seeing one of his ex-girlfriends for a while early on in our relationship. I guess it really shouldn't matter now - over two years later but I ... (162 words)

He ended it but wanted to be friends. Will a clean break make him realize his faults and come back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 413 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hello. My ex boyfriend and I had been together for almost four years. We'd had problems (who doesn't) but I thought things were fine then he breaks up with me because he decides he loves some girl he knows online. He had wanted to remain friends and said he still cares abou... (677 words)

Why won't he commit after 2 years? He changes the subject when I talk about buying a house...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my partner for 2 yrs, i have 2 children so we cant move in together cos he has no room. but when i talk about us gettin a house together he changes the subject. am i wasting my time here i love him so much but after 2 years why wont he commit... (57 words)

What do I buy my boyfriend for Christmas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Ok my new boyfriend but we been friends for a long time I know christmas isn't that close but then I still need gifts idea because I'm not good with boy gifts and I need to have some ideas on what to get him. I know he dosent like watches. He's 17 he likes basketball but dats ... (71 words)

Self Conscious about my vagina!! Help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Hi, Personally i feel really weird asking these questions but they are driving me crazy!! I am a teen and as many people say am very self conscious about my vaginal area. I am in a relationship with a boy and i want to go the next level with him but i just need some ... (170 words)

Why is he ignoring me? We had sex but I want a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Ok here we go... I met a bloke 2 weeks ago and he's a friend of my housemates. We all went out and got drunk one night and I let him sleep in my bed. One thing led to another and in the morning we had sex. He lives about an hour and a half away from me, but a few days later tr... (164 words)

What do I do about this divorce - going through the courts is costing a fortune!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex husband and I are fighting over the courts re access to the children. Both children live with me and he wants them to stay overnight with him for Fri - Mon inc every two weeks. Ex husband is an excessive drinker and neither child wants to stay with him. Children have been ... (328 words)

Do I wait for this girl or see someone new?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 414 days ago

30 September 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi,I have been with a girlfriend for almost 2years and of late she doesn't call me,i told him we get married this Dec but she told me that if she is holding/delaying me she better leave me.Along with it another lady has really approached me very much for the last 3 months.she ... (86 words)

My step daughter wants money but shows no respect, because I didn't raise her! At what point enough is enough?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

30 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid and agony aunts out there, there is a heck of alot going on here ! I am a married guy, 49, and my spouse, female of course is 46. we both have children which are now in their twenties. we have been together for 14 years, having struggled through previous marriag... (237 words)

I wanted more romance and now she's broken up with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 406 days ago

30 September 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I have been seeing a girl the last few months, its long distance of sorts being about 2hours travel apart. We meet as much as we can as our jobs and busy personal lives will allow us. Yesterday things came to a head however after an arugement. On saturday night I wanted t... (443 words)

What does this girl want from me? Can anyone tell me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 406 days ago

30 September 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - hello, i have a problem with some girl that i dont know: i went to new school and this girl in that school i just dont know her but she is always with a girlfrein of her in school. the story is when she sees me she laugh with her girlfreind and when she sees me alon... (204 words)

I love him, but should I keep working at this!? Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone, I hope you can help. I called the Samaritans but feel guilty, because I feel pretty blue. I met this man when I was 18. We went out and got married twelve years later. Since then we have split up loads of times but always got back because we feel like such a ... (308 words)

I need gift ideas for this female friend. Any tips?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Hey all, I'm just wanting to know gift ideas (preferrably comments from girls). I have a good friend I have known for almost 4 years. I've always liked her a lot, but thought I was out of her league, about this time last year I found out she has feelings for me too. Long sto... (335 words)

Is my husband's overnight meeting anything to worry about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have recently found an e.mail from a female colleague of my husband who asked him if he got back safely from a recent meeting where he stayed overnight. Do you think this is anything to worry about considering he said she wasn't even there?... (51 words)

Am I his rebound girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi My boyfriend and I have officially been together for a month or 2 but unofficially about 3. My boyfriend and I started going out, when he asked me out, 1.5 months after he left a 6month relationship with his ex. I feel as though my boyfriend and I have a very strong rela... (176 words)

I'm having weird fantasies about threesomes, and I can get her to agree to pretty much anything. Anyone else tried this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

30 September 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - hey. im 19 male with a 19 f girlfriend. we are in a serious relationship. the thing is ive been constantly fantasizing about having a threesome with her with another guy. the problem is that the only way i could have it happen is for it to be one of my good friends. i find it ... (178 words)

Should I ask her out on a second date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Hello dear readers, well my story is that i dated first a girl who is my university, first date was great, we talked a lot , she laughed also...but all the time she didn't give me the opportunity to come closer to her, maybe i sad some stupid things on the date...or she is just ... (145 words)

Why won't he just come back to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I was with my ex for almost 5 yrs and we were engaged to be married and have a daughter together. He left me over a year ago and started dating someone else within a couple months. For almost that whole relationship we've been sleeping together and sneaking around to see ... (177 words)

Am I just being pathetic? I think I should have moved on by now...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - hey, I was my girlfreind for about 5 months, shes my best freinds sister and we were in secret for literally the whole of the relationship. A lot of people had worked it out, and obviously we both told our close friends. The problem is my best freind is a girl and i new i... (616 words)

What do younger guys think about FWB?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

- Hey, just a quick question - what do younger guys think about the whole 'friends with benefits' idea? Recently I broke up with my boyfriend and although I get lonely and miserable, I don't want another committed relationship for a good while. I want some time out. But I love ... (107 words)

He's been sending dirty messages behind my back! Is this salvageable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Me and my partner have been together for six months. We have recently moved in together, as I had to move to go to university and he wanted to move out himself. There have been difficult times in our relationship – mainly concerning him looking at porn/flirting with other girls ... (216 words)

Begging for help: pregnant and very broken.

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30 September 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I feel very desperate I need help before I completely break down. It was love at first sight. And for 2years we had never experienced such immense happiness while being with someone. We really fell in love. We had all those typical talks that couples have about future pla... (513 words)

Pregnant girlfriend wants to leave the state!

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30 September 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Well I guess I should say first that she, after yesterday, is now my ex-girlfriend. We had been dating since late February and moved in together in mid May. Our relationship has had it problems, more so than the typical relationship. She did cheat on me in early June but I ... (804 words)

Is this guy interested in me or not?

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30 September 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm not sure if this guy is really interested in me or not.We've hooked up on and off since January (by the way it was a completely non-physical relationship). The 1st time we stopped talking because he heard that I had a boyfriend which was completely false(My x and I had ... (414 words)

Should I move in with him? My boyfriend says it's over if I don't....

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30 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. He wants me to move in with him, but my family don't really like him and don't want me to. They say that I'm too young and that they don't think I'm ready. I originally said yes but when I told my Mam she kicked off and we had a huge ... (147 words)

Do I tell her I find her attractive and see what develops?

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30 September 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I am 46 year old who's remained married for 14 years with a wife who I still love and a lovely 7 yo daughter. I and my wife have communication difficulties and have grown less close emotionally or physically over time although we still connect OK in most respects and we 're ... (565 words)

What makes a woman marriage material?

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30 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I just wanted to know what makes a woman marriage material...what do guys really look for when the want to marry a woman....would a guy marry a woman who was promiscuos in her past if she had changed???... (38 words)

I need help with my husband's child's mother before I hurt her!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, everyone! ok i have a big problem. im married to a great man who has a child by another women. they had him when they were teenagers and now we are in our early 20's. the childs mother is crazy! my husband didnt have any parental rights {wasnt on birth certificate} so i ... (741 words)

My life doesn't seem fixable. What can I do?

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30 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a brief separation in progress and since being online i dont emotionally feel bothered. I am not sure how much stress im copying with separating from my partner, and this worries me. My need to communciate with other people via internet or personal councilling, con... (195 words)

People are rude to me and I feel horrible about myself!

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30 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - so ever since 9th grade peolpe were rude to me in school.im shy,i had cricked teeth, ut than i got braces, ther off now! thank god!one day at a party i made out with this one guy cuz he was hot an he would always flirt with me and the next day at school he was slappin my ass so ... (160 words)

I feel so used and violated. Does anyone else think this behaviour is abnormal?

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30 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I think i was violated by a guy i just had sex with. I hung out with this guy twice, the first time he tried taking my pants off but i insisted they stay on. I wish i would have listened to my instincts that he only wanted sex from me, but i didn't. I hung out with him a few ... (289 words)

Are these feelings real or am I using him?

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30 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I was dating this guy for 1 1/2 years and we really loved eachother, but it just didn't work out. We had a great time together while it lasted though, so it really wasn't to bad. Well anyway, we have been broken up since about the end of May and I miss him a lot, we are kinda ... (166 words)

I'm sexually frustrated, how can I let him know I need to feel wanted and taken once in a while?

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30 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 41 years old and I started dating a 34 year old. I do not think he has any previous experience with women and I do not think he knows how to please a woman orally or even in bed. He is a great guy, very gentle but how would I let him know that I need to feel wanted and ... (105 words)

Is there a way to tell when a girl is cumming?

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30 September 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Hey Cupid. I was just wondering if there is a way for a guy to tell whether a girl is cumming during sex? Because my girlfriend groans and gets wet but I want to know if she is just one of those girls who don't ever cum or whether I just can't tell... (54 words)

Shall I go back to my ex-girlfriend and move on or stay with him - the person I love?

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30 September 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Well how shall I ask my question, that’s a big question already but yups why not start by introducing u to my story. I always have been known for being so down to earth and outgoing, well that’s what friends and ex- partners say about my persona. I have a problem that has... (181 words)

He's straight, how can I deal with the feelings I have for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 293 days ago

30 September 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - i am a masters student. i'm in this class with another guy. the class is really tough and most of us do our homework in groups, discussion mainly. so this guy and me started working together. i think i'm in love with the guy, or at least am deeply infatuated. however, he is ... (114 words)

Should I leave so that he can find someone new and experience love like everybody else?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 402 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Lately, my husband has benn acting very distant, absent, and uninterested. When I confronted him, he told me that he wants to leave me and that he has no feelings for me. He accused me of marrying him out of convenience. I told him that I loved him but he wasn't too convinced. ... (248 words)

Is my husband cheating on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 414 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband has gone away once every month with a lady he works with. I found out and confronted him about 7 months ago and he told me he was truly sorry but since then he has continued to do so. He tells me he is going one place and then ends up with her. He also stays late ... (224 words)

I'm almost certain he doesn't like me. But now,.he's showing an interest...what is going on?

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30 September 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Well, there's this guy I've known for a very long time. For about a month or two recently, there were many rumours that he liked me. I thought they were true cos he got all concern over the littlelest things that happen to me. But currently, he doesn't even seem to give a hoot ... (180 words)

She's infatuated with this married man...so I am thinking I may never have a chance again! Advice needed!!

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30 September 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - My girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me about a month ago. We have a 2 1/2 year old son. We are sharing custody. Our relationship had been declining for months as the pressures of school, work, raising a child, and living with my parents chipped away at us. I still l... (371 words)

Am I over-reacting when I think...she may have lost interest in me?

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30 September 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - There is a girl Im really interested in who is in one of my college classes. She seems to be interested in me also. Recently she told me that we should hang out soon. A week passed and she didn't say anything about hanging out. This weekend I asked her if she wanted to do ... (94 words)

Are there any good old guys still out there? Where do I go to find him?

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30 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - After I got divorced I started to date. Seems that I am horrible at choosing a good,honest guy to date. So far the few Ive dated want only a casual thing and they are way selfish in bed and two minutes and they are done and thats it no explanation..I have stopped falling for ... (73 words)

Husband want anal sex but it's too painful for me! What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - My husband seems to like painful anal sex. I do it and he knows it hurts me. He likes to watch porn about it too. Any ideas? ... (31 words)

Dating a year and I want to meet his family...but when I suggest it...he gets so defensive! What is happening?

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30 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year and still have not met his family. Everytime I bring it up he has one excuse or another. He also shuts his phone off everytime we are together and will not talk to people over the phone in front of me. I have even heard him ... (131 words)

We broke up and for a change..I was the one that got really hurt! How do I cope?

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30 September 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - i just don't know how to deal with this.. usually when i go out with someone i'm in control and i break up with them and they get sad. it's pretty much always been like that. but now i just got broken up with.. and it hurts so much. i've never felt this much pain before. i only ... (196 words)

Caught in a triangle here! What should I do?

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30 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I moved to a new city and met a great guy I fell for instantly. We would flirt a lot, and It was pretty clear what was going to happen. But one night, his roommate tried to kiss me. I turned him down politely but now the first guy told my friend he couldn't make a move on me ... (78 words)

Is it a bad thing for a girl to take a while to orgasm?

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30 September 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Okay, Well i take forever to orgasm.... Is it a bad thing? Any advice? ... (18 words)

How long into dating did you become an official couple?

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30 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I met this guy a couple of month ago, we started dating soon afterwards, about 3 weeks ago, we talked about what situation we were in, I was a bit upset when he said we weren't in the stage of relationship, because we act like we are gf and bf already, then he said yeah we are ... (147 words)

Scared my bf will find someone else while he's away working! How do I get over this?

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30 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - my boyfriend just left for two months to work i miss him sooo much.i dont know how to get over this im soo scared he will find someone new or realize he is happy without me. im tired of crying about it i mean i realize he is working and cant be having much fun but i dunno wh... (66 words)

No place to tell her my feelings or even make a small move!? What should I do?

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30 September 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - How can i get a girl i like into a situation where i can tell her how i feel and maybe even make a small move? it's hard to do the at her door thing because she lives with her parents and i think it would be too awkward and off putting for her...... (54 words)

I can't trust my boyfriend-- this is destroying my relationship! please help!

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30 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello I need a lot of help here, I am in a relationship with this really wonderfull guy, he does everything to please me, he is very introverted but for his actions I know that he really cares about me, we have been 8 months of relationship, I am 27 and he is 29, I am his first ... (587 words)

Caught between my family and my forbidden lover! What should I do?

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30 September 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I met this guy ( lets call him Mr.A) nearly a year ago, he's a tough guy with piercings and tattoos but as i got to know him i realised he is quite sensitive and sweet. When i told my family about him they had their doubts but were happy that i was happy. One day a rumor spread ... (273 words)

Are my friends jealous of me or is it my imagination?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 74 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm the thinnest one in my group of friends. I'll admit, I can be annoying but I know when to stop, my friends always say I'm annoying but we can still get along great when I'm controlling myself. I'm the only one that wear a bikini and my friends always tell me to put clothes ... (179 words)

The words at the end of her message meant something! What exactly did she mean?

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30 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - hey ok im kinda confused as to how this was ment basically theres a lad i like who also showed he liked me and stuff and he had a mate in another class who was a girl and this particular day someone out our class sorta did something as if to tell ehr something about me and this ... (591 words)

She loves someone else, but I want to be with her! How can I win her over? Or should I even try?

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30 September 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - hey everyone, this is my 1st question on here and i dont exactly know how to say it, well in order to understand it 1st off, u need to know the basic story. we are incredibly close, she is the only one who knows what i truly am like, ive known her 15 years, ive loved her for ... (201 words)

When we make sounds he cums quicker than if we're quiet...Why???

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30 September 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - i dont know this is kinda an awkward question but my boyfriend - everytime we have sex he finishes[cums] quickly, but the weird thing is that he finishes faster when there are sounds, like moans you know. but when there arnt any moans it lasts alittle longer, but i mean why is ... (53 words)

Should I put my mom in a nursinghome?

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30 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I am going through the hardest time of my life right now and feel terriable and guilty. My Mother is 84 years old with really bad dementia. So me and my daughter had to move in but she has never liked my daughter and has a controlling personality. She calls my daughter ... (478 words)