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30-35,
*arukosan
writes:i am a male 19 yr old. i find it weird that i want to do 3 somes with other guys to have sex with my gf with another guy. or possibly just have sex with my gf and have my friend with his gf have sex in the same place as us after we toke up get wasted and stuff and have a double date w/ sex kinda thing. idk what to think of myself obsessing about that. i find it a extreme turn on to have sex while other people are doing the same in the room and doing a un noticed switch in the heat of the moment cause it would never be agreed before the action happens. tell me what u think please !!.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2008): Swinging is fun to do, if your partner is up for it. Go into this slowly for this can become a change of lifestyle quickly. Start with friends you trust, always use protection, and make physical contact with your partner while she is with another man to reassure her that you aren't going to hate her because she followed you into this event. Any person who thinks swinging ends with 'is that it?' or thinks it is a penis wagging competition has never tried it and has no clue the thrill of couples (dating or married) joining together sexually to enjoy each other. There are many different people in the world and you shouldn't be ashamed of your healthy sexual appetite just because it is not main stream. Stop hiding in the closet and test the waters for your true sexual identity awaits.
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reader, Aunty Em  +, writes (19 September 2008):
 Yeah, exactly what UP said. You're not married with kids, so the worst possible scenario isn't too tragic.
The entire thing sounds like a lot of fun but you have to make sure all parties are willing, and lay some rules down.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2008): You're not married, so there wouldn't be any divorce issues if it all went tits-up, and the worst that could happen is that the other guy does a much better job of satisfying your girlfriend than you do and when you've finished with his girl she asks you "Is that it?", which would do your self-esteem a world of good, no doubt.
Sounds like fun though - why not ask your friend if he and his girl are up for a challenge? Don't forget to talk to your girlfriend about it though - she may be all for it which would be half the battle won.
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