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writes:I have been dating this girl for 7 months, everything was great, but now she has to piss me off, and by this I mean going out with all the guys and rubbing it in my face and that doesnt bother me so much, what does bother me is that she can do whatever she wants and I cant go out with my friends ho are girls. I have tried to talk to her about it and she says she wont anymore but she never stops, and she turns around and says she loves me but yet wants to play head games? so my question is how do I get it to stop? and just be mine again? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have left, for about a month ingoring her calls but she would call 50 times a day crying leaving messages, the thing is her mom treats her like shit and I just dont want to leave her on her own since she has problems and its killing me to watch this cute girl get told by her mom to just die already and I'm the only guy she can be open with but yet its hurting me standing by and watching all this crap so I dont know what to do anymore
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2008): ...and I have to ask you: you're with her why, again?
She doesn't respect or care about you; her actions and words make this quite plain. What can possibly be worth all this grief, when there are other girls who would be delighted to have you and not give you grief?..
You get the game to stop by not playing with her anymore. Not playing a game yourself, either - GIVE HER UP.
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reader, zelgamer +, writes (19 September 2008):
 Talk to her again, and tell her that this needs to stop being a relationship that is one sided, because thats what it seems like. I don't see a problem with having friends of the opposite sex, and I don't see a problem with having no problems of the opposite sex, but... you two have to agree on the conditions, and if the conditions change, then both of you have to agree to the changes, tell her that you take this relationship seriously, if you do that is, and tell her it needs to be fair between the two of you, if not it wont last.
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