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writes:I was in a relationship with a women who was in the process of divorcing her husband, we grew fond of each and dated for a couple of months. Now the husband is back and I'm pretty sure she has fallen in love with him again. Now I'm just looking for closure. I haven't spoken to her since he got back and now he left again. But they are still together. What should I do?? Leave the situation as is and never talk to her again, unless she reaches out?? Or call her ?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2008): Closure can not happen between a couple. Closure can only come from within you. This woman chose her husband over you. You are pretty sure she has fallen in love with her husband again. Since they got back together, you haven't spoken...meaning she nor you have contacted each other. There is your closure. It's done..it's finished. Now you move on. I honestly think, your feelings are over taking your rational thought here, hun and you are desperately looking for a reason to contact her again, just for the hope to keep this relationship going. If you truely cared for her, you would want her to be happy, even if you aren't happy, yourself. Leave her alone--let her be happy with her husband and allow them to work out their marriage issues. Try hard to heal from this and recover. Time, patience and strength is needed for you to get to that place. Take care of yourself, hun...and good luck
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (19 September 2008):
 You deserve closure, so you can move on. I say call her up and get a straight answer from her. Most likely if you know that she is still in love with her husband and going back to him, you should move on too.
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