A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi my names Kanja,im 16 and I have this friend that I've known my entire life,she's always been my best friend, ever since we were about 12 people have been calling us lesbians because we hug and hold hands in public and tell each other I love you. I've always known she was bisexual and it never bothered me, until now. The other day she and I were at a friend's house and she told me that she and our friend Angela were a couple. I cried myself to sleep that night and I realised that I didn't want her to be with anyone but me. It was then that I found the awnser as to why I'd always been so jealous of all her boyfriends and why when we had sleep overs we would be all awkward, but when it was time to leave we'd hold onto each other as tightly as we could and say we loved each other, eventualy her parents freaked out and would not let us see each other. I told my mum how I felt about her and she said that I might feel differently in a few weeks and that I should not ruin my freindship over this. She has told me that at times she liked me but I don't know how she feels now and I also don't want to mess up her current relationship with my friend even though I'm jealous. What should I do.. I can't stop thinking of her, it hurts so much to think of her with someone else.
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reader, kanja  +, writes (22 October 2008):
Thanks Hannah elizabeth thats great advice and that's what I'm going to do.(:
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reader, HannahElizabeth  +, writes (21 October 2008):
Talk to your friend tell her how you feel, and that you don't want to ruin her current relationship. She should know how you feel and telling her will make you feel better and also you will have an answer to her feelings.
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