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51-59,
anonymous
writes:My penis is just about 3.5" flaccid and 6" when erect. I feel it to be very small and feel like it has shrinked down with the passage of time. Currently I live without a woman for the past more than a year. However, I am not a failure with my women in the bed but this feeling of being smaller in size is very disturbing. Ladies, any thoughts? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2008): No, anonymous, you got it wrong.
The key message is that you're a nice average size, not huge, not tiny. So put completely out of your mind any idea that you're "small".
And the second point, of course, is that you know how to use it.
What more could you want?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi Friends! Your invaluable inputs are appreciated. So, Ladies, you all opine that the quality overcomes the quantity even when we talk about sex. The Ladies on the board are of the opinion that basically its not the size rather ones approach towards how one performs or tries to make the partner happy.
Thanks Danielepew! May be you are also right when you talk about some kind of insecurity.
Friends, thanks a lot!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2008): "It ain't the size but how you use it!" Ask a girl, and I'd bet most of us would agree. From what I have read, the average size is 5.5" (according to what reports you read), so you are above average. As long as you make your ladies happy, I wouldn't worry. We girls don't expect our men to look like porn stars. At least I don't. I just want a man who is considerate and makes me feel good so we can enjoy it together. I think you're worrying and stressing too much. RELAX!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (20 October 2008):
 I'm not a lady, but I can offer this thought. I don't like the fact that I used to be able to play soccer the whole afternoon and I would still have energy left. However, I need to understand this is how it is.
I think your problem is insecurity, rather than physical decline.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2008): Thats really normal, and besides its not really about the penis size. Really, I wouldnt want my bf to have a massive one so that it would poke my brain out or something. (no, my bf isnt a horse)
Just make sure you cuddle after sex, and you say you like how her body feels on your skin and all that.
Dont worry!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (20 October 2008):
6 inches is perfectly normal.
It is possible for the penis to shrink over time, either because you have got fat, or you have taken certain drugs like steroids.
Stop worrying. It really is what you do with it that counts anyway.
Good Luck!! xx
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