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I have all the symptoms.... Am I or am I not???

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Question - (20 October 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 October 2008)
A female Ireland age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have not gotten my period in about 4/5months. I haven taken a test yet but I'm not sure if I am pregnant, my period was always quite irregular but I have never gone this long without my period in a long time. I have been getting back pains and I have been very tired and cranky for a while now. I have still been drinking and smoking but I'm not sure if I am pregnant. I have been getting a sort of discharge but I'm not sure if that is a sympton or not. I get pains in my kidneys and I feel sick quite a lot, I also get hungry a lot more and feel the need to get a lot of rest. I haven't been bothered to put effort into anyting as I'm to tired, I'm just really paranoid I could be pregnant but I don't want to take a test. If you think I could be pregnant let me know please.

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A female reader, WunAngel87 United States +, writes (28 October 2008):

WunAngel87 agony auntHoney, I'm in the same situation as you are. My last period was in late June...and I still haven't had a period...but the first time my boyfriend ejectulated in me was on August 3rd....I was supposed to have came on in August but that failed to succeed. But I have been taking urine tests...and they have been coming back negitive....so I dont know what to do next...if anyone has any pointers for me..please let me know what to do...but as for you my dear...the only way that you are going to find out if you are or not...is if you take a pregnancy test. Now I know that it might be scary but you have to find out sooner or later....But me suggestion is that you find out early just in case if you would like to get an abortion..which is something I'm not up for doing...but you might have a different opinion than mine. But good luck on this situation...and I hope you make the right decision...

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A male reader, Nanook United States +, writes (21 October 2008):

Get a test, you don't want to be drinking if you are pregnant, and proper care at this point can make the difference between a healthy intelligent baby and a retarded unhealthy child.

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A female reader, lalybug2008 United States +, writes (21 October 2008):

lalybug2008 agony auntFirst of all honey... get a test.. going 4 or 5 months without your period isn't normal at all. If you're NOT pregnant, there could be something serious going on. When you say your periods are irregular, how abnormal are they? My periods were always irregular too, I'd skip a month here and there and when I would finally get my period, it would last a couple weeks. But from what you've described, it sounds like you could be pregnant. If you're more like 5 months pregnant, this is the time that you would be feeling movement. In the beginning it feels more like gas bubbles in your belly or butterflies. Good Luck and I hope everything works out for you.

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